i thought someone was just being really blunt

BTS reaction to you being scared to fall in love (hyung line)

these are fairly long i guess and i am lazy so i hope you don’t mind if i separated these into hyung and maknae lines anon and i didnt edit be warned 

~kyndall

Seokjin:

“Jin, wait!” You screamed desperately over the wail of the trains rolling over the tracks behind you. He turned back to you his eyes burning with a unkindled rage.

“Why? You literally just told me you could never love me! Why should wait?!” His voice was filled with hurt. You cautiously took a step towards him and placed your hand in his. 

“I am just scared.” You said lowly looking down at the gravel beneath you. 

“Of what?”He questioned you harshly, still a bit mad at your crude rejection. 

“You breaking my heart and leaving me high and dry. I am scared to just put myself out there and left someone have complete control of my heart and when you leave will I ever be the same.” Jin raised your hand that was in his to his face and nuzzled your hand.

“Y/N, love isn’t scary it is one of the best things that can every happen to you. True, I may break your heart or you mine but that is one of the things you have deal with love isn’t easy it is trial and error. So how about I be one of your first and hopefully last loves?”

Originally posted by taehh69

Yoongi:

“Awww, that’s so cute Y/N.” Yoongi ruffled your hair  that you spent hours on and didn’t take to kindly to his assaults. 

“It’s not cute!” 

“Kinda is.” 

“I hate you.” You pouted and knocked his hand from your hair.

“But you want to love me and you will. You can’t stop love, stopping love is like trying to stop a train going full force with one hand and expecting yourself not to get run over.”  

Originally posted by allforbts

Hoseok:

“What do you mean your scared?” Hoseok questioned you lightly while stuffing his face with cotton candy. 

“Exactly what is sounds like. I am scared to love you. I am scared to be broken and i know you will break me but, I am some how fine with it and it scares me.” 

“ I would never hurt you. I already love you. I promise not to leave you if you do the same. Be my sunshine ,Y/N.” Hus eyes where locked with yours and held a warm love in them that you couldn’t help but smile at. 

Originally posted by ttaegiis

Namjoon:

“That’s dumb.”

“Excuse me?” You said very taken a back from his harsh and blunt words.

“Your ideology is dumb. You are going to fall in love with someone at one point in your life. It is pointless being scared of it.” He said in his normal I am smarter than you tone that loved and hated.

“Well, you could say the same thing about death could you not. But millions of people are scared of it none the less.” 

“You’re right.” 

*ponders the thought*

Originally posted by syubto

anonymous asked:

(part 1) to get straight to the point, is ushijima /actually/ mean or is he just really, for lack of a better word, dense towards other people and their emotions? i'm asking because i've been thinking about ushijima and oikawa's canon relationship lately, and for a while i thought that ushi was just really, really blunt to the point where he could come off as insensitive and kinda insulting, but that one post with ushi saying to oiks that he "chose the wrong path" followed by pictures of oiks

(part 2) and the rest of the team being really happy together, and it got me thinking. like HOW unaware would ushi have to be of another person’s emotions and what’s considered socially acceptable to say to someone else (even if u dislike them)? the only other reason, that i can see, is he’d say those kinda to oikawa (and hinata and kags too), to be mean/to hurt them. but that just sit right with me, you know? idk thoughts?

I perfectly know the post you’re talking about, and I guess so does every single person in this fandom, it’s impossible to not have seen it. 

I don’t think that Ushijima ever wanted to purposefully hurt Oikawa, or Hinata, or Kageyama, or anyone, ever. 

If we’re talking about Oikawa specifically, I think he said “you chose the wrong path” because he has this perfect idea in his mind of what Oikawa should have chosen to make his talent blossom. Actually, Oikawa is the only player outside Shiratorizawa Ushijima ever acknowledged, he is the setter he always wanted for himself. He saw his potential, recognized his strength, and thought that the only way for him to fully use it was to go to Shiratorizawa. It makes sense. Ushijima wanted the best for Oikawa, and is disappointed by the fact that Oikawa still chose another path, so much that his sentence surely came off as rude and disrespectful. 

Ushijima has his own way to deal with people, and there are things he just can’t see because of who he is as a person. Also, Ushijima doesn't know a thing about what happened in Aoba Johsai. Ushijima doesn’t know why Oikawa chose it. Why he chose to be, live, and grow with his family. Ushijima doesn’t know what Oikawa went through, what he needed, what he wanted. 

We know, but he doesn’t. 

And if it’s alright to be mad and angry because Ushijima can really be off-putting sometimes, I think we should all be a little kinder to him, or at least try to see where he’s coming from. He’s not a monster, he’s just…Ushijima. 

People should really show their appreciation more often and a more upfront fashion. I appreciate the little things. Just giving someone an honest compliment can go a long way. It can make their entire day, it can change who they see themselves as. Lets move away from being scared to show we appreciate people, the little things and lets give roses to people while they’re still here to smell them.