there’s a lot of misconceptions about asexual people and quick reminder that we’re in a spectrum. some of us are sex-repulsed, some of us are sex-positive, some of us love orgasms but only solo, some of us only want a relationship that isn’t sexual, some of us are cool with getting our partners off but don’t necessarily need it for us, some of us would be down with sex
on top of it: asexual
aromantic. someone who is asexual does not mean no romantic or sensual feelings! also it doesnt mean you can’t look at someone and find them aesthetically pleasing. what defines asexuality is not their labido either, but it’s “a lack of sexual attraction for someone”
i’m lonely and
i don’t know how to make
it sound like poetry
it’s just that i used to fall into friendships.
it’s just that most days i want to fall into
my bed or
and these bones are too
fragile for show and tell
and i’m like muesli with worse mental health and i don’t want anyone to look at me except that i want everyone to look at me and i don’t know what to say i don’t know what to say i don’t know what to say to anyone anyway and last year my best friend
I think what irks me the most about patriarchal theory is that, when one points out the myriad instances in which men suffer (e.g. suicide, homicide, workplace death, homelessness, etc.), feminists will invariably either deny the existence of these issues or will backpedal and say, “well the patriarchy hurts men, too.” The former claim is deplorable, and plainly so. But the latter is equally wrong. As well-intentioned as it sounds (and often is, as many feminists do mean well), it’s nothing more than a backhanded way of saying it’s men’s fault that they are suffering.
And that sounds an awful lot like victim blaming to me.
List of things I’ve never be over. This picture of Keith.
Look at him. Look at my boy. Look at how he looks at the food.
Cuteness aside, I think he is looking at it like that because that’s probably the most decent meal he’s ever seen in his life.
I mean, he did live in the desert by himself for a long time. Who knows what he was eating? It was probably containers of ramen and other foods that aren’t necessarily bad but aren’t exactly what you would call full meals.
This is most likely the best-looking meal he’s ever seen for a while.
And then we have this picture
Lance looks confused about the extra cutlery in his food but Keith looks ready to fight.
“Boy, I haven’t had a decent meal in years. If you don’t let go, I won’t hesitate to pull my bayard out”