i think thats all the tags

RULES:
1. Answer the new questions given by the previous person
2. Write 11 new questions
3. Tag 11 people

Tagged by @acemordred​ thank u samuel!!!!!! <333

  1. What’s the last positive thing you’ve said to yourself?
    idk probably just the vague feeling of “do we not feel bad right now? i think we dont feel bad right now thats weird cool lets take a nap”

  2. Is there a book / movie / show you love, but don’t recommend to people?
    honestly not entirely but ill usually hesitate to push people to watch stuff like scott and bailey and rebus bc the more subdued genre of the british detective shows feel weirdly culturally specific like idk how much a lot of people here would get it

  3. Do you prefer on-ear headphones or earbuds?
    oh my god earbuds but only when they’re not horrifically uncomfortable
    for whatever reason on-ear ones always make my ears hurt and im always paranoid that people can hear everything im listening to
    earbuds are so much more subtle 

  4. When’s the last time you laughed so hard you cried, and what was it about?
    i dont remember specifically but it was probably something aidan said bc it usually is

  5. If you could change your zodiac sign to one that better reflects your personality, which one would it be?
    aquarius holy shit pisces fits me not even a little bit and im only a few (couple?) weeks off being aquarius and it fits so much better

  6. What would you choose for your perfect last meal?
    honestly probably an in’n’out burger

  7. What is your favorite word or phrase in your native language and/or the language you’re currently learning?
    so far im really lovin l’angoisse which has been explained to me as yes the french came up with a word for existential dread

  8. Would you prefer to have complete and encyclopedic knowledge of your favorite thing and little else, or know a moderate amount about literally everything in the world?
    my guy if im really lovin something im gonna get encyclopedic knowledge of it regardless sooner or later so yeah gimme that approximate knowledge of many things itll make me more well rounded as a person

  9. Would you rather be a bird or a sea animal?
    bird im a corvid at heart

  10. Do you still have the stuffed toy / security blanket you slept with as a child?
    yes hes a beanie babie cat and his name is both flame and jaystar and hes disgusting

  11. If the world was perfect and money were no object, what would be your dream vacation?
    im goin on an architecture tour i wanna see fuckin rome and china and edinburgh and london and india and france and everywhere oh my god i just wanna see some really old buildings


New Questions (oh my god sam u were right these are hard to write?):

1. Do you have a comfort book/movie/show? One that you’ve seen a thousand times but you always go back to eventually?
2. Are you a romantic person? Do you fall for traditionally sappy gestures of love? 
3. Ocean or lake?
4. Desert or forest?
5. Favourite candle scent?
6. What’s something you want to learn to do?
7. What’s something you’re procrastinating right now?
8. What’s your dream tattoo?
9. Do you hold onto grudges, or do you let things go more easily?
10. Would you consider yourself more sympathetic or empathetic?
11. How much sleep did you get last night?


i’m tagging @riitsus, @sleepysak, @brendwell, @tabsbrowser, @zombie-attraction, @behollder, @unstoppabean, and yeah thats all i got but hey if ya dont wanna do it then aint no obligation and if ya see it and think its fun go right ahead m8

since trans day of visibility is coming up in a few days (march 31st), i figured i’d make a list of advice for cis people commenting on/reblogging people’s posts/selfies?

  • do definitley like and reblog and tag and comment on our posts!! its what TDOV is for! show your support for the community by showing us some love
  • dont post any selfies if ur cis. today is not about u
  • if ur gonna comment about how great someone looks, great!!
  • just make sure u use the right pronouns/descriptors. most people put their pronouns on their selfies, but if they dont its easy to check their bio to see if they have them! 
  • also dont say stuff like “wow ur prettier than I am!!” bc that implies that u think cis ppl are more attractive as a default, so its insulting and patronising
  • if the post is one with pics from multiple stages throughout someones transition, pls dont say “its not fair u get to be hot in both genders!” because thats cissexist n transphobic and adheres to the “used to be a X” rhetoric and erases people with fluid genders and implies that cis ppl inherently deserve to be hotter/better 
  • go thru the tdov tags!! spread some love to all of us (not just conventionally attractive and/or passing people)
  • its not only selfies either. lots of ppl post some really cool content so dont miss out on that either

thats all i can think of rn. feel free to add on if u want

EDIT: okay so lots of people have said things along the lines of “im going to post selfies and theres nothing you can do about it” or “i want to post selfies anyway” and like. cool. whatever. im all for celebrating urself with selfies. just,, dont make this day about you okay? like keep out of the tags and dont make it an ally thing. and to the people who want to post selfies just because its a trans ppl day and for no other reason: fuck u

extreme kabe don should be in the olympics

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ur a filthy sweetheart

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Blue Diamond icons from the leak!! feel free to use, credit would be appreciated!

bad times with adhd:

  • cant read
  • can read, but cant comprehend what ur reading
  • boredom more like Time To Suffer
  • rsd
  • u wanna watch a video thats any amount of time??? thats too long, even if the video is like 10 seconds
  • becoming too aware of how things feel or how u do certain things or just regular bodily functions like breathing or blinking
  • staying up until 4 AM or later for no reason aside from adhd said so
  • that sinking feeling when u realized uve spaced out for most of a conversation and u feel too bad abt doing it to ask the person to repeat what they said 
  • overstimulation
  • meltdowns
  • when u have the motivation to get shit done, but executive dysfunction is like “lmfao nope”
  • trying to get certain stuff done and ur managing ok, but u still get distracted on occasion and u scold urself every time u do but u cant stop urself from doing it
  • the antsy anxiousness that comes with being confined to doing smth for too long
  • “i hope i remember this” u didnt remember it
  • outbursts which cause u to snap at ppl and then u feel bad but u couldnt help it
  • no volume control so ur constantly told to stop yelling but u cant make ur voice quieter 
  • *someone explains instructions and its a rather simple thing* “ok got it” u dont got it
  • getting irrationally irritated over the smallest shit but u cant help it everything is just So Frustrating 
  • “u know what i think im having a good day” and then mood swing that makes u either Super Sad or Super Mad for no reason
  • having what ur gonna say right in ur head but somehow u still space out in the middle of talking and forget what u wanted to say
  • forgetting why u were upset but still feeling upset
  • the sinking feeling of remembering why u were upset and now ur even more upset
  • when rsd is being extremely irrational and u know its bullshit but u dont have the energy to fight it so u just sit there in sadness
  • when rsd makes u self conscious abt stimming in public
  • having absolutely no time perception at all. what even is time ive never heard of that in my life
  • needing to get smth done and u manage to focus, but ur focusing on the wrong thing
  • overanalyzing past stuff thats happened and realizing other shit u couldve said that wouldve helped the situation and damn why didnt u think of that when u were in the situation
  • this is long i should stop now

the boy who stole sweaters

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the funny thing about Blaque Widowmaker™ is that black people in this hell fandom started it as a joke hc and it became super popular bc the only way people tried to disprove it was through anti blackness and it became a joke among black ow fans

literally every argument against it stems out of antiblackness. “She’s french, she cant be black.” france has one of the highest black populations in europe. french names are super common throughout the entire african diaspora.      “she doesn’t look black.” she looked black enough for people to look at her lips and nose and think of a black woman. besides, what do black people look like to yall? What traits do you automatically associate with black people? Why does a nonblack person get to decide what features are black or not? Black folks come in every color there is. “She’s pale in some of her legendaries.” White passing black folks exist. “Her hair isn’t black.” Wigs, weaves and straighteners all exist. Black folks don’t all have one curl pattern either. Yall need to self examine yourselves and think about why black people seeing themselves in a video game character is so damn harmful.