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Libra & Emotion ♎️🎭

(I’m not a professional but I’m a Libra Sun, Libra Moon, with Libra Dominance, and a 7th house stellium so I think this comes from a place of first hand experience)

Libra suns, like other air signs, do tend to detach from their emotions but not in the same way. Libra hates conflict. They hate tension and uneasiness. They need stability and reliability. Because emotions can be unpredictable, Libras feel the need to water their feelings down. Think of it as a filter. They try to rationalize and sort each emotion, find out the source, and put it into its proper place. So say if someone was rude to Libra, instead of reacting like their sister sign Aries would, Libra would accept the rudeness and then continue about their day thinking how and why that happened.

Libra also tends to put their feelings on a larger context. They ask themselves, I feel this way because this happened to me, but doesn’t everyone feel this exact way when this happens? So by concluding that everyone experiences a certain feeling, Libra decides they don’t need that feeling. If emotions don’t help a Libra, they get rid of them. And by get rid of them, I mean they either try to rationalize them so they don’t exist or they just try to ignore it.

Libra will ‘reject’ feelings if they do not believe they have the right to feel that way. For example, if a single Libra sees a cute couple they might have a pang of envy and feel resentment towards the couple in love. But then Libra will go “oh this is just my own bitterness, they haven’t done anything wrong, I’m just being unreasonable” and they’ll tell themselves to stop feeling like that.

Libra will also pick and choose what emotions to experience based on their environment. This sounds really weird I know. But if they’re in a group and everyone is wild and goofy and impulsive, Libra will match their behavior and try to match their emotions. For example, I won’t be excited about a something until someone else is and I feed off their energy.

Libra moons are a little more difficult to understand. They filter their feelings based on what’s “just and proper,” what benefits those around them, and what benefits themselves. Libra moon will choose to delete emotions they don’t know how to deal with. They also tend to never talk about their feelings. Or, and I’m guilty of doing this, will complain about small things so that their friends won’t ask what’s REALLY wrong on a deeper level (because if I never complained about anything, they would be concerned). Libra moons will avoid talking about their feelings. They like to help others though and by helping others, they learn about themselves. They can sometimes act as therapists, asking others how they feel about a certain situation and then those Libra moons will apply what they learned to their own lives.

After talking to other Libra moons on here, I’ve learned that I’m not alone in that Libra moons often feel hollow. Like there’s a cavern in our hearts. Most days it feels unfillable. Our emotions can overwhelm us and so we feel numb. Happiness is dulled, sadness is dulled until everything feels “meh.” There are many days when by all accounts we should be happy or excited but aren’t. It’s like eating bittersweet candy. You don’t really understand the flavor. It has both the sweetest and the sour mixed up together. Our emotions get all jumbled up together, we have trouble trying to separate them because we see how things can have both pros and cons.

Many Libra moons (and suns and 7th house stelliums) feel a continual longing. Specifically, longing for a relationship. There’s an incessant need for partnership, for a companion, to be understood. When that isn’t being fulfilled, it makes our lives imbalanced, throwing our emotions even farther off balance. At the end of the day, despite deflecting attention onto others, we secretly need love and a lot of it. The angsty phrase “I build walls just to see who cares enough to climb over” really applies here. Yes, we give other people a lot of attention. Part of that is to weed out who just likes us to listen and who actually wants to listen to us. We sort out the people who use us for validation from the people who actually care about us. When we find that there’s way more people who only use us, we can become depressed. There’s nothing quite as disheartening to a Libra moon than realizing that all your friends and family don’t ever stop to genuinely wonder how you’re doing. Despite Libra being called the fakest sign, we put that front up on purpose just to see who’s brave enough to look underneath. And unfortunately, very few people are willing to do so. Libra is a people pleaser and will seek companionship even if it is only superficial, but we will never be satisfied until we get that soulmate level connection we are looking for.

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A Whirlwind Tour Of Lea DeLaria’s Long, Badass Career

“It’s pretty much about the entirety of my career: Don’t judge a butch by its cover. I wear the butch thing very proudly, obviously, I’ve got the tattoo. I live in a society that’s your basic heterosexist society, but also in the queer world where being butch is looked down upon. So refusing to be invisible — and I think you can apply that to almost anything — is important to effect change. It’s about accepting who you are, being who you are, and just putting yourself out there. It’s important. People loved it — that particular scene, with Boo and her father… I get hundreds of DMs every day on Instagram. I don’t think people realize that I look at those, but I do. I get tweets are about it, pictures, a meme started. I adopted the hashtag and I can’t believe how often it’s been used.”

50 Reasons why I love Vauseman

3. Because if you strip away the backstabbing, the selfishness, the manipulation at the end of the day they ultimately do love each other. And I think that’s why Vauseman fans root for them.  I know people say their relationship is unhealthy which I will agree it has some unhealthy hurdles. But I honestly think its at least healthier, more real, and more honest than Piper’s relationship with Larry or even her relationship with her parents. Both who are much more accepting of all of Piper’s good parts than her bad ones. Alex loves Piper unconditionally her good parts and bad and that’s how it’s supposed to be. I just want to put them in their own little bubble and protect them forever.

anonymous asked:

the only reason i was concerned about the age is that pent acts way older than he is and he doesn't really look like a kid in animation because the way he's drawn and what he wears but frankly the opposite is really true now that im reading this. i don't really know how to put any if this into words soo

I understand how that can create confusion, it also doesn’t help Pent and Smack are voiced by people who are nearly 10 years older than them. Another consideration is that no one has really seen them in real-world scenarios. I’ve found that in fantasy or non-fiction like media its hard to place the age of characters when there isn’t a staple we’re used to like school for example.

I think  that while this is hard to accept initially, once everyone gets more antiquated  with the characters and sees them acting in semi-familiar environments it will be easier to come to terms with.

I think part of my issue with the Modern Orthodox community around me is, to put it simply, that it is Modern for men and Orthodox for women. The men are allowed Jeans, they’re allowed to skip prayer, its acceptable fro them to completely melt into the modern workplace. It’s roughly the same standard that observant conservatives hold. For the women, however, they must be antiquated. They must cover their elbows and knees. They must refrain from most professions. They must take care of children.

The double standard annoys me greatly. At least ultra-orthodox communities are consistent. Atleast progressive branches are consistent.

If I may put it in physics terms, in seems like MO is being torn in half by a roche limit of sorts as it ‘orbits‘ around it’s own ideals.

mermaid!au minhyuk

  • he liked to go to the aquarium to see all the pretty things
  • eventually goes to the rock pools and sees you; the prettiest thing
  • collects shells that finds when youre around
  • accepts that hell only see you by the sea so goes everyday 
  • you and i arent really that different, to be honest’
  • you find him different shells at the bottom of the ocean
  • takes photos of you to put in his journals
  • learns your secrets one by one and doesnt change how he feels
  • shows you a side of life you didnt know existed
  • gives you his whole word; devotes it all to you
  • sits with you to watch the sun set whenever he can
  • plays with your hair because he thinks its beautiful 
  • kisses under the water after he confesses to you
  • swims whilst holding your hand because hes not that good 
  • loves every inch of your being more than you can imagine
  • all i want is for you to be happy for the rest of your life

anonymous asked:

i don't mean to start discourse n u can ignore this if u want but like, recently ive been feeling rlly bad abt shipping taagnus and while i agree with ur posts i still feel guilty?? cuz people are like "oh if u don't ship t//a/kitz ur homophobic" and what not and as a mlm i feel like I'm doing smthing wrong??? even tho i kno im not but it's such a sucky feeling not being able to enjoy smthing without being harassed for it when i have a valid reason why said ship makes me uncomfortable.

Yeah not…2 start discourse but yeah I think its super fucking telling that these people who feel like they’re crusading for mlm by putting hateful shit in our tag are also plugging their ears and screaming LALALA I CANT HEAR U when mlm tell them they’re being at best unhelpful and at worst straight up hurtful and malicious lmao

it’s straight up dangerous to police lgbt people into accepting things that straight people give us without criticism. I know you said you know you’re not doing anything wrong, but in case it’s helpful or validating, you’re definitely not doing anything wrong by taking comfort in what makes you feel best/most accurately represented?

If canon isn’t doing it for u in the representation department, we make our own with fanon. that’s what we’ve always done. And that shouldn’t exclude when canon gives us a ship but it’s not great, or is poorly handled, or whatever. Transformative works are all about that. Carving out a space for yourself in a piece of media when you don’t feel like you fit there. I don’t think the boys intended harm, but t//aa/kitz is a little disrespectful for a few reasons and we’re perfectly within our rights as lgbt fans to 

a) criticize it

b) write works that either make it better or go a different direction entirely

anonymous asked:

as an indian (from central india, not native american) i must say i dont think henna/mehndi looks good on white people? maybe its just the white people i've seen that do it but ive grown up with it knowing it as symbolic imagery, and like...white people put the weirdest stuff on their body for designs without understanding what it means?

agree yes i think it’s actually pretty much commonly accepted that that’s cultural appropriation

send me ☕️ and an unpopular opinion

anonymous asked:

Maybe its just my pessimist ass seeing the downside of everything but I think what sana said isnt really the thought of a closed person, its the thought of someone who hast figured it out/accepted it yet; once she puts 2+2, if she turns out to be gay or bi or whatever, she'll probably start feeling weird/awkward around the girls so she might change from the clingy affectionate puppy she is to a more introvert sad-looking one and i'm kinda scared :/

Hmm you have a good point there, I think maybe you’re right. I also don’t want her to change her behaviour though, she’s a pretty confident person so lets hope for the best

Rant

I know it’s hard for people to understand, especially since we live in a world that puts pride in intercourse over any other sexual activity

But I find it so condescending when people say

“Oh, you just do foreplay then.”

As if my sex life is just snack after snack but I’m missing the main course?????

CALL IT SEX
IT IS SEX
I HAVE SEX

Just because I can’t accept a penis into myself (yet) doesn’t mean I’m just fooling around having meaningless fumbles, or whatever it is people seem to think we do together


“Foreplay” implies incompleteness. My sex life is whole on its own thanks.

P.S: shout out to the vast majority of my friends etc who are supportive and acknowledge that foreplay is just a term, and doesn’t actually define my intimacy.

anonymous asked:

Shane has a big mouth, he tried to 'jokingly' out Joey Graceffa, Connor Franta, Trevor Moran a few times before their official coming outs, blabbered about Connor and Troye's past relationship to his own boyfriend so he could put it in a clevver Top 10 video, so I really doubt he would pass up an opportunity to out Dan and Phil if they were really dating. I think he just knows they're not.

Interesting. I didn’t know he did that. Maybe that’s because I stopped watching him years ago because his raunchy humor was just too much. But I have to agree. Shane is a little desperate for views and really wants to be accepted so if he says things like that its going to get him attention and if he said something that’s the truth - he could be hailed a hero for finally saying something and solving the mystery. 

~Ren

Zelda thought of the day: Putting aside the ‘finding them randomly in the grass’ and ‘ancient temples having modern, still-legally-accepted tender’, it’s kind of interesting to think about rupees as currency!

I doubt they’re real jewels because they’re so perfectly shaped and so common, and then it occurred to me, this is an environment in which magic is a common fact of life- it could very well be that rupees are just a common substance- maybe just water with a few choice dyes- crystallized into a durable form by magic. Basically like an inedible, mystical rock candy rather than an actual gemstone.

This could easily explain the differences in dimensions and appearance from game to game- Wind Waker’s plate-like, flat Rupees, Twilight Princess’s small-faceted, bulky Rupees, so on and so forth. There could very feasibly be a royal mint producing these things and styles will change over time.

The fact that high-value silver and orange Rupees have a particular iridescence that the others don’t could very well be an anti-counterfeit measure similar to the holographic pattern on hundred dollar bills. Heck, it could even be possible that there’s watermarks and such suspended inside of the gem. Technically, there would never be a need to cross over to paper money because they could simply continue to make higher-note Rupees, and I kinda figure the game radically exaggerates their size for the sake of making them visible to the player. Practically, they’d probably be about the size of a quarter at best. 

Given how radically different the flora and fauna of Hyrule and its surrounding lands are, it could very well be that the values of the gems and their corresponding color is ranked by the value of the pigment used to tint them. Whatever those orange and silver pigments are, they’re super valuable- for the silver rupee, possibly actual silver dust, while the orange could be a pigment produced from some especially difficult to cultivate plant. 

This could mean that rupees could appreciate or depreciate in value, or need to change their colors, based on the availability of certain pigments. Imagine Link, with his propensity for digging around in ancient ruins, finding some rupees from a discontinued line that were made with now-defunct materials that are thus worth more now than they ever were in the day. 

Heck, coin collections would probably look a lot prettier. 

i think it’s disgusting that people put the needs of trans people before otherkin who are the most in danger of abuse both physically and emotionally. the trans community have had their moment and we should be helped equally, at least their identity is normalised and accepted. but i reall dont see how its different so why arent we respected as well? why wont people respect our pronouns, and our identities?

otherkin are constantly questioned and ridiculed and if you ask me its about time people woke up and took a stand for us. its harder growing up knowing youre in the wrong reality, species, dimension, let alone gender, grow up.

#otherkinlivesmattertoo ᵔᴥᵔ 

GOD nothing gets me more heated then people using the pink triangle for casual reasons, ESPECIALLY if they then go on to spout serophobic nonsense. the reason it was used during the aids crisis (whether appropriately or not i wont comment on because im not jewish) was because people were DYING. entire communities of gay men and trans women were dying horrible deaths while being barred from hospitals and left out on the streets, with no family because they had long since been disowned.

to look at a symbol that has its history in holocaust imagery, and was chosen for that specific purpose to show the slaughter that the AIDS crisis was, to look at that symbol and think “yeah this is quirky kweer acceptance that should totally be used for sweet aesthetics” or god forbid “we should put ace colors on this” - thats disgusting.

wycombewanderer  asked:

How do you think Liv is going to react when she finds out Robert cheated? their relationship is so precious, i really hope its not completely ruined.

I think she’ll be fuming at him. She learnt to accept him even though she felt as if he was a obstacle between her and aaron. He knows how insecure she feels and she has fully learnt to put trust in him and believe he will be there for her and their little family so after this i think mostly she will feel betrayed more than anything :(((

anonymous asked:

Isn't the skull on your shoulder associated with white supremacy?

Originally yeah, but lemme explain why I have it:

So the hells angels and other outlaws, even punk bands like the sex pistols and the exploited and shit would use nazi symbolism all the time. Their reason was to make the public or society hate them, or fear them. Like striking fear into the hearts of enemies type shit. So basically it’s like pure shock value. But I think once you put a Nazi swastika armband on a black person, or in this case, a jew with totenkopfs tattooed on his chest, you’re not only pissing everyone off but you’re also pissing off neo Nazis that can’t accept the fact that they didn’t win WWII. Its like I’m making them my bitch, I’m spitting in all of their faces. This is my symbol now, I stole it from you and you can’t have it back type shit haha.

It’s funny though most people get pissed off at the iron crosses and totally ignore the fact that I have totenkopfs over them haha like what the fuck Americans use the iron cross to this day as Well as everyone else. So good job

I just realised, you those Destiel prompts that are like “a man afraid of flying and a man afraid of falling” I always saw it as Dean is never accepting of praise or putting himself out for success, and Cas is terrified of turning his back on everything he’s know for Millenia. But when you think about it for Dean its literal. His BIGGEST FEAR IS FLYING IN A PLANE. Lmao I love this ship