i don't have a resolutions cause i never achieve them whenever i have them i just feel like im setting myself up for failure.
I’ve been thinking a lot about something my uncle told me on new year’s eve. He said he doesn’t really make new year’s resolutions. Instead, he reflects on the year that’s ending, thinking about what worked for him and what didn’t. This is what I’m trying to do now. I know that setting up goals like “I’m finally going to learn to drive” or “I’m going to stop leaving all homework for the last minute” will eventually lead to disappointment. Instead I’m thinking, for example: “I spent so much time on tumblr that I barely had time for homework and didn’t really read anything, so this year I want to be less on tumblr, try to focus on homework and read more.” Maybe you could try something like this? Think about what you did last year and how that turned out, and what you want to do more of (or less of). And above all, be patient with yourself.