i think i'm the one who needs to stop ;d

look, I love all the rarepairs. And I don’t want people to stop writing them. 

But if you think Dex is the only white guy in the cast who needs to unlearn racism in order to be with a non-white partner, I need you to take a step back and think again. And then I’d love to see y’all acknowledge that more in your fics. It’s not the job of a COC to put emotional labor into teaching their white partner how to be a better person and/or validating them as “not being racist”.