i think i may have offend some people

Things I’d like to fix about the things above and clear up:
I made this post quite a while ago and was shocked with the overwhelming amount of notes. My blog is small and nothing really special so it was kind of weird to see the number of notes. I’d like to clear some things up since then:

1. I saw that some people were calling me out for being a koreaboo. That’s fine that’s your own opinion and I won’t bother arguing with it but it was not my intention. I am an American and as much as I appreciate the Korean culture I have no intention of changing my lifestyle to fit it.

2. I saw a few comments as to how there are bigger things going on in this world than kpop and that I should stay away from negativity surrounding kpop…and at first I was mad because this is a kpop blog and I was posting about the issues that I saw within the kpop Fandom and wanted to state my opinions but then I saw the point in some ways being that there are other things going on in the world that I could draw attention to so that’s my bad.

3. Another thing that I’d like to fix is the comment about how people shouldn’t assume that they are gay…because I can see where people may think that I meant being assumed as gay is a bad thing. I should have worded it differently such as: don’t assume their sexuality or something along those lines so that I apologize for.

I understand that this post was long but I wanted to I guess add more or put in some of my thoughts that may have changed since then. I hope no one got offended or thought that I was just a “whiny koreaboo” that was not my intentions. Keep in mind that this is a kpop blog so I was only posting about the content which was on my blog. I’m sure there is more things that I can elaborate on but for now my mind is drawing a blank.

Thanks for reading if you did!

• imagine being. . || grant's model girlfriend

nonnie requested: Can you do a headcanon for being a model and being grants gf

A/N: I sure can try nonnie even though most of my knowledge of modeling is from America’s Next Top Model. I watch it sometimes with my friend Sammie when I go hang out with him, so I apologize if anything is inaccurate per say. Warning of the word ‘slut’ in this but it’s nothing big. And as always requests are open unless stated otherwise by me!

Originally posted by iheartswagdouble

                                          » Grant Gustin/Model! Reader «


• you were a small time model at first who tried out on America’s Next Top Model ( couldn’t resist – sorry ) which got you some popularity and some recognition


• grant having a crush on you before you two actually got together and being kind of flustered when gets asked about it

             ↪ “Okay, I admit I thought Y/N was really pretty before I actually met her and yeah. Good thing she thought I was cute too or else it probably would’ve been awkward.”


• him probably being your biggest fan, well he can’t beat your mom or dad though so second biggest fan(?)

             ↪ “Well that seems fair, I guess Y/N.” “Sorry babe, family comes first.”


• being loved but also hated from hardcore fans of grant who try to slut shame you when you model with some guys


• grant offending you though and expressing how hurt it makes him feel that some people can’t be supportive of you


• surprising him on set in vancouver when you have time off from modeling from time to time


• loving some of your unique features such as if you have tattoos, freckles, dimples, or whatever you may have

            ↪ “I think they are beautiful just like you Y/N.”


• your instagram having many pictures of you and grant together + some flash cast members as well


• being a good role model like grant ( he’s one of my role models besides chris colfer and others tbh ) is to many people in the world


• attending events with him and participating in interviews

          ↪  “So Y/N, what is Grant like as a boyfriend?” “Oh he’s just a big laidback kind of dork who plays on his PSP.”

 

 

 

 

I hope y'all don't mind, but I'm going to go on a rant about Andi Mack

And specifically, the purest perfect bean, Cyrus Goodman. Now, I know you’re probably thinking, “how could he possibly be an even more amazing character?” well I’m gonna fucking tell you. Now don’t laugh.
It’s because he’s Jewish.
Now, I know, you’re probably like “Yeah, we know, that’s why we tag stuff about him ‘my gay Jewish son,’ is his Judaism really important?
Oh it McFucking is.
For one, they have a Jewish character in general. Now, it’s not like this is the first time they’ve had a Jewish character, but the first time a Jewish character (or Judaism in general) wasn’t just used for a cheap joke and a laugh or as an example of "diversity” on the show. He’s Jewish for no reason than, honestly, “just because.” They had no real reason to make him Jewish, he just was (and I’d also like to point out that neither “Cyrus” nor “Goodman” are stereotypical or common Jewish names). And he wasn’t overly Jewish, like bringing up Jewish related stuff in every other scene, even though he’d be reaching bar mitzvah age really soon (I remember when preparing for my bat mitzvah it contained half of my thoughts and words) and his religion isn’t used as a joke. Trust me, Disney does this.
They will say things like “Mazel Tov” at stupid and inappropriate times, and if they mention Jewish holidays, they’d only casually mention Hanukah once in a Christmas special or something. I bet any non-Jewish person working at Disney couldn’t name one holiday other than Hanukah, and if they could, name one thing about the holiday they know. (and there are so many: Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Shabbat, Tu b'shvat, Purim, Passover, just to name some of the most popular ones)
And it’s not just Disney. I remember prevalently from an episode of Henry Danger or Nickelodeon that Piper’s neighbor was offended that Piper didn’t know her name, even stating “I invited you to my bat mitzvah!” and Piper tried to flatter her by saying “Your Hebrew was spot on!” (Like she’d even know anyway) and when her neighbor left, Piper went back to being nasty and said “Your Hebrew was lame! Shabbat Sha-lame!”
Can you imagine how annoyed and offended I was? Some of you, even you fellow Jews may not find that offense, but I’m very prideful in my religion, and it annoyed the fuck out of me.
I understand that Jews aren’t the majority, but the way that Disney of all people treats them in representation is almost Anti-Semitism. Again, some of you may think that sounds drastic, but I think it’s true.
So, anyways, I’m very happy that they have a normal kid on their show that just so happens to be Jewish.
Oh, and the fact that he’s gay is awesome too. Name at least three gay Jews represented in tv shows?
Exactly.
So, thank you Andi Mack, for the gift that is Cyrus Goodman, my gay jewish son.

In response to the current hate towards Lana Parrilla

I usually don’t make serious posts like this but I felt like I had to make this.

@ all haters- please read this before you continue to poison everyone’s feeds with annoying bs. I don’t care what you say, Lana does not deserve this crap. Here are some reasons as to why:

1. Lana was giving her opinion in terms of her character and how her character felt about Hook. She never said that she personally hated CS or Hook (though that doesn’t seem to be the main issue I’m seeing, I just wanted to make this clear) EDIT: (I have now seen a lot more of this, it’s only that at that point in time I hadn’t seen much of this from Twitter, where I got a lot of my info)
2. She did not kill SQ so shut up. She said that Hook makes Emma happy, she did not say that she had anything against SQ (in fact she’s shown a lot of support for it in the past) or even mention the SQ romantic relationship so your point is invalid (I’m also seeing people hating on SQers and can I just say- if you’re one of the few shitty SQers then you should shut up too, but if you’re not, if you’re not problematic or horrible then the majority of the fandom like you and respect you, it’s just the arseholes who spread so much hate towards you and your ship)
3. Lana said that stuff bc her “fans” were being downright RUDE. They asked her a question, she answered and she had people shouting in the crowd at her?? That’s not okay- she was asked a question, respect her answer or if you feel the desperate need to scream then please wait until they’ve finished speaking??
4. I love the show very much but can I just say it’s FICTIONAL FGS!! STOP hating on people because of what they think- this goes for whether it’s someone posting about a ship you don’t ship or whether it’s an actor who’s character you don’t like- I don’t give a crap, if you do this then STOP. It’s a shitty thing to do so please stop spreading hate.
5. Basically, to summarise, if you hate on people because they have different opinions on a TV show to you then please do everyone a favour and shut the hell up bc we don’t want to have to listen to you or your bullshit.

EDIT: I think some people may have been offended by this post and I just want to say that I’m really sorry if you have (I think it’s some SQers (though there may be others too) who feel like I only focussed on them when it was other people too, and I can see now that from their point of view it does look like I might be attacking SQers) I wasn’t trying to focus on them, in fact the section on SQ and how it isn’t dead was made because I saw lots of tweets from other ships (I think mainly CS from what I remember but there may have been others) saying how with saying what she did, Lana had killed SQ and the people who tweeted that seemed pretty happy about that, so I thought I would address that by saying that SQ wasn’t dead and to shut up if it anyone was saying that, though now I can see how this could be seen as me being angry at SQ, which is far from true. I also didn’t mean to imply that only SQers hated Hook, and though I never said it in the text (or even mentioned Hook and SQ in the same section) I apologise again that you felt offended and I hope that you now know that I would never intentionally target a ship or make anyone feel bad, especially ships/ people who don’t deserve it. There was also a question as to why this was in the SQ tag, and I just wanted to reassure you all that I did put this in other ships tags as, again, I would never intentionally single out just one ship/ group of shippers (though I have removed it from all ship’s hashtags as I didn’t want this to happen again) . I also want to make it clear that when I mentioned the “shitty SQers”, I believed at the time that that was an important mention as I was saying for no hate towards any SQers so I wanted to make sure that I wasn’t then excusing any hate Lana did get from (what I’ve come to see, very few) SQers and did not want to make any of you feel like this was trying to pick on the SQ shippers specifically, but if this has offended you I’m sorry. I’m so sorry that any of you were offended by my post and I honestly did not mean this to come across as attacking SQ (or any other ship), I was simply saying that if you were hating on Lana then to stop, but I do understand how this could be interpreted differently than I originally thought it would be interpreted as and how it could have offended people so for that I am extremely sorry
5 Seconds Of Summer Exposed, NO, REALLY. SERIOUSLY.

I like how there’s people out there trying to expose 5 Seconds of Summer saying that they’re racists for saying stupid shit or doing stupid shit and also sexist for some song lyrics they wrote when they were much younger, yet I don’t see anyone making a master-post on a band like blink-182 who live off of offending people. I should know since I’m a huge fan of theirs. I can admit that some of their (blink-182) songs are immature and even sexist, but no one seems to mind because they’re not in the height of their career. They were popular back in late 90′s and early ‘00′s…

Somehow our generation can not overlook 5sos’s lyric, “I’m stuck in the friend-zone again…” and some other lyrical content, and equate it to sexism. But can overlook a blink lyric that states, “I need a girl that I can train.”

I love both bands, but honestly, our generations new found fetish in joining the band-wagon and pointing out every little flaw/thing someone does in the public eye is becoming so exhausting. Aren’t you guys tired of being extremists?

Let’s not point out one band/artist that probably has done something wrong in there past or present because they’re not popular enough to be hated on. That just doesn’t make sense to me.

5 Seconds of Summer is getting hate without any actual reasons just because they’re a very popular band right now. Some even hate them because they’re associated with 1D. Or because they simply don’t like their music and they think they’re pretty little boys who have no business in the rock/pop/punk genre. Those are all petty reasons but everyone has a right to their own opinion.

I am not saying everyone needs to love 5sos, but labeling them racists or sexist or calling them out for appropriating culture are accusations that are all ludicrous to me and it sounds like you guys are just looking for any excuse to justify your hatred towards them… but again, that’s just my opinion.

So the boys had a Mexican themed party… yeah, well I’m Mexican and I did not find it offensive or think for a second that they were appropriating my culture. BUT I CAN ONLY SPEAK FOR MYSELF. Some people like to think that one person can speak for every single person of that race/gender/identity. That is incorrect. They may have dressed in “funny costumes” that are stereotypical to the Mexican culture but they were just costumes. If that’s what was offensive about it then be mad at the manufacture, they were the one’s who created them and the boys were ignorant enough to believe it was okay to wear them. They weren’t trying to offend anyone, they weren’t trying to be malicious, they were simply having a Mexican themed party trying to have fun. And if the Mariachi Band was what offended you, and I am speaking to my fellow Mexican people only, I’m sure the band was not held against their will and I’m positive the band enjoyed playing for the boys, because that’s what they do for a living.   

So the boys wore traditional Japanese attire, well this has been explained already, but I’m happy to explain it again. The attire was given to them by the local people of Japan. I’m sure if the boys had decided NOT to wear the clothes, people would most definitely find a problem with that too and in our generations fashion to label everyone/thing racists nowadays, they would say, “the boys from 5sos are rude and hate Japaneses people because they refused to wear the clothes, so they’re racists…and blah, blah, blah”… Damn if you do, & damn if you don’t.

So Calum has a tribe tattoo that some people think is appropriating culture and racists and sexist, and homophobic, and blah, blah, blah. Well you get what I mean. On a serious note, you guys don’t know if somewhere down his family line he may have some native blood or whatever, I don’t know and you don’t know. So let’s move on.

So in conclusion, 5 Seconds Of Summer are not racists (in my opinion) they are not appropriating culture (in my opinion, plus they’re Aussies, they have a diff. culture from ours too) and they are not sexist (in my opinion)…

And I know there will be people reading this and think, “this girl is a hypocrite” simply because I can “defend” (not really, just acknowledging my truth) the boys, but shits on Hey Violet.”

Well no, not really. IGNORANCE does not match up to the word BULLY, in my book. A bully is someone who is fully aware of their malicious behavior while the ignorant fool is the opposite of that. They are unaware they are being stupid. So sit on that before any of you guys try to send me an anonymous message saying, I’m a “bitch” or just a “jealous fan-girl” or a “hypocrite.” ‘Cus I’ll most likely direct you to this post.

anonymous asked:

I love your Tomco arts and comics, they are funny and cute! ;-) So... what do u think about other svtfoe ships? Do you like Starco, Janstar or what..?

Oooooh it’s interesting question. I have some thoughts about it.
I don’t deny that there may be written wrong. And of course I did not want to offend people who think not like me, you’ve got to remember, this is just my opinion!
Oooookey,  let’s start with Starco. I think they will be not very good like a couple. Star egocentric and overactive and I guess she will suppress Marco’s personality.
I want they keep stay just good friends.
Now about Jackie. She is calm and confident. In my opinion, she will complement Marco unlike Star. Marco has something to learn from her.
So what about Janstar? In the beginning I shipp Star with Ponyhead, but then I realized that this two explosive girls someday destroy some of the worlds lol xD In general this will end badly. Sooooo I think Janna is better suited for Star, She fits well with her personality and does not press down under her unlike Marco.
I also like how Toffee and Moon look together, they are a beautiful couple.
I think it’s all.

Sorry for my English…
So sorry
So shame

Gemini and Sagittarius seem to be known as the comedians of the zodiac, but I wonder if that has anything to do with that they seem to be universally rather funny, rather than have such a specific sense of humour. They seem to find that sparkle in many different forms of comedy, and can transform themselves in that mutable way depending on their company. They also seem to seek that light sense of heart in their encounters with others. Whereas for example, the Earth signs have a more dry and sarcastic humour, a little more scathing perhaps which some may find odd or off-putting, or maybe they don’t even know that it is humour at all (this happens to me sometimes and I worry that people get offended and think I was being serious.) I’ve noticed Leo seem to have a very physical form of humour too, rather theatrical and larger than life, where someone standing there and reading lines doesn’t seem to cut it.

Anyway, just some thoughts.

anonymous asked:

I think I may be questioning my sexuality..but like, how do you know? I know that sounds silly but like, what is it like to question them? Sorry, I'm really new to all this, hope I didn't offend <3

oh love, i think i can’t really help you because it’s different for everyone i guess? but the most important thing is just to take some time, you have the rest of your life to figure things out and it’s more than okay if you still don’t know your sexuality. just read about different sexualities and see if any of the terms may suit you, maybe look at people of the same gender and see how you feel about them. dont stress about it, i think that when the time is right you will figure everything out just fine x

OK. I know it’s quite messy, but these are the basic things that may come to mind when people hear ‘Asperger’s Syndrome’. I’m not saying the characteristics mentioned don’t exist in people with Asperger’s, but like every other disorder people tend to generalise what 'you’re really like’ based on stereotypes. I really want to give people a better understanding.

-What is Asperger’s?

A developmental disorder that you are born with though it isn’t that noticeable until you are roughly 3-5 years old. IT IS NOT A MENTAL ILLNESS OR A LEARNING DISABILITY.

(Note: It can be accompanied with minor learning difficulties and you can have a mental illness as well as having Asperger’s.)

People who have it often struggle to socialise with others finding it difficult to form relationships and communicate like neurotypicals (people not on the autistic spectrum/or considered to be 'normal’).

-'Asperger’s isn’t real!’

Uh, excuse you.

It is very real for people struggling to communicate with others socially while learning to express themselves appropriately. People with it can struggle every. single. day.

No, I’m not suggesting you pity us. Please don’t, it will make us feel like little children you feel the need to comfort and that can come across as really patronising and condescending. Just remember people cope differently, people suffer differently. It can be extremely frustrating for you if you often struggle to make genuine friends, understand others and maintain a 'mask’ to help you blend in with your peers. The last thing anyone needs is some ignorant bastard claiming that you blame your difficulties on a 'made up’ disorder.

I was actually surprised to see people claiming this disorder was fictional on a few other sites. Although this isn’t particularly common I feel it’s important I mention it and stress that it’s not true.

-Not everyone with Asperger’s/high functioning Autism is a 'Genius’ or has spectacular talent. COUGHCOUGHSHELDONCOOPER

Not every person with Asperger’s is gob-smackingly good with numbers or equations. Not every person with the disorder has a photographic or powerful memory. While generally considered intelligent, many of us have normal IQ’s (Lower IQ’s are less common).

Many with Asperger’s make an excessive commitment to their hobbies/interests, to the extent they can accumulate skill and/or encyclopaedic knowledge in the subject (THIS HOBBY/INTEREST CAN BE LITERALLY ANYTHING). However, it should also be noted these interests may take over their lives.

-The emotionless, self centered and stubborn machine who hates people

People with the disorder who appear like this usually don’t intend to come across this way. Most who I’ve met with AS are quite friendly and polite (or at least try to be); they can simply be misinterpreted by their actions. I’d like you to think of this analogy my mother once mentioned;

Having AS is like sitting alone in a restaurant in a foreign country that has a very different culture to yours. 

You don’t speak the language, you’re not in your comfort zone and you don’t know what actions/manners are expected of you. So you could potentially (and very easily) offend someone.

As I mentioned before people with Asperger’s cope in different ways which is why I wrote 'emotional/too emotional’ on the chart. Some may burst into tears in a pressured situation while others just might just stop responding altogether while keeping a collected mask (though they can feel really stressed on the inside).

People with AS can also be viewed as stubborn. For example most struggle with change because it makes them really uncomfortable. It’s not us hating your way of doing things; we may not understand or feel comfortable with your method. This could also be the reason why some of us have strong beliefs and opinions that are very hard to change.

-Gulliblity/Naivety

Yes, people with AS generally are naive and gullible but to different extents. Once in friendships it’s not uncommon for someone with AS to be very loyal and trust their friends a little too much. Even a stranger who shows an act of kindness can quickly earn a little if not all of their trust. It’s possibly their way of being thankful for your friendship/kindness and showing you can depend on them to some extent. Others may just want to be viewed as being a nice person that’s more likeable. Unfortunately people like this can be exploited with little effort showing them to be gullible and naive.

We may have difficulty understanding your sarcasm or joke at first because of your tone of voice and how you look when you say it. Tones of voice and facial expressions can easily be misread by someone with Asperger’s causing them to take a joking remark seriously and/or become upset by it. On the other hand people with AS can gradually develop methods to read people better in these situations.

To clarify, yes, I do have Asperger’s. Very few people I actually know follow this account so I feel comfortable enough to post this. I obviously do not speak for everyone for the disorder, this is only how I interpret things so far.

This is all I’ll do for now, but I felt like I should say something. Thank you if you read this; it means so much to me and I’ll feel even better if you took something from it. 

anonymous asked:

See I'm the opposite. After I finished 13RW I couldn't stop thinking about it and it made me realize that everything has consequences. I know it can be triggering but it's kind of annoying me how a lot of people (not you) seem to be offended that other people enjoyed the show. It may not have been handled perfectly, but could it ever be? It's such a sensitive topic and some people wouldn't be satisfied no matter what. This isn't meant to be hate or rude or anything btw.

No not at all :) I’m glad you gained from it. I can see how it’s a great way of educating people in certain areas e.g. be wary of consequences, but for me it missed the mark in terms of mental health education. Like, to me, it glorifies suicide at the beginning of the show in particular by showing Hannah as being witty and mysterious on the tapes, whilst simultaneously showing her receiving no help which might majorly discourage people from seeking help. A very bad combo. Now I understand this is quite a realistic image because the help out there may not be great, and is good for showing people what might happen if they mistreat others, but I’m just thinking about all the suicidal kids watching who are thinking Hannah is really admirable and interesting because she died and left these mysterious tapes, whilst also being shown that if you seek help you probably won’t get it. I appreciate that those type of teens might not have been the target audience, and the message might have literally been “don’t be a dick”, in which case, bravo. Mission accomplished. But those kids watched anyway and might have been put in a lot of danger as a result. There’s negatives and positives overall, but for me, in terms of the message it sends, the negatives will be more effective. The fact there is a tonne of memes about the show and making fun of the aspect of tapes just shows so many people haven’t taken it seriously. And on the flip side, I wonder how many vulnerable people saw it and DID take it seriously. I hope their reaction is the same as those shrugging it off and making memes otherwise there is a big problem.

anonymous asked:

how can I tell if I have a special interest? I think I may have one bc it's nearly all I think about nowadays and it makes me hapflap when I see it and people not being interested in it rlly offend me?? hbnjcffh -herobrine asks

That sounds like a special interest. There are no set guidelines for what constitutes a special interest, however, there are some common experiences you can use as a guide. Typically special interests are either very intense or very narrow in their range of focus or both. Special interests generally bring a great deal of happiness and excitement to an autistic person and may result in happy stimming or other forms of autistic expressions of happiness. Typically, autistic people want to talk at length about our special interests which is referred to as info dumping. We may be very possessive over our special interests or be upset that others don’t appreciate our special interests. 

I hope this helps!

-Sabrina

wachauuuuu said: since you’re basically one of the most knowledgeable and analytical kook/min shipper out there, may I have the pleasure of knowing your thoughts on the recent hand on the waist + ass rubbing and smacking that happened during their bst rehearsal?? some people said jimin looked lowkey offended/mad but why do I feel like he’s just putting up a front? i mean…i would think jimin would let jungkook off with just about anything so….. 

Jimin has the patience of a saint when it comes to Jungkook, but it doesn’t mean he’ll always take 100 percent of the maknae’s shenanigans: sometimes he’ll only take 98 percent. But people were overreacting if they thought Jimin was legit mad. Jungkook has gotten away with doing wayyy more in the past. I mean, what’s a little ass rubbing and smacking in the grand scheme of things, anyhow? It was only out in the public, in front of all the other hyungs and all their fans, the stage crew and other staff.. So, you know, just another typical day for Kook/min really.

Why my Comic was Cissexist

I also had some asks that were along the lines of “You shouldn’t have changed your art because someone got offended. It’s your art and your vision!” 

My response: thank you for being concerned of my artistic direction and the purity of it. But the fancomic was dedicated to Steven Universe, a show including nonbinary and genderless characters. When I think about it, dedicating a comic that excludes nonbinary people is a dishonor to this great show. Though the cissexism may be subtle, cissexism in general is subtle but that doesn’t make it any less problematic. Thank you for the concerns and I hope you understand! 

Note: I AM NOT AN EXPERT IN THESE MATTERS. I have done this post because people have asked me why my comic was cissexist, what is cissexism and why it’s a problem, and so forth. I have done my best, but if anyone out there see something wrong in my explanation please inform me!  I am doing my best to learn and improve everyday. 

Hey, I am sorry that I expressed my opinion so strongly, and what I said about murder, I did not mean to offend anyone; it’s cool if you don’t agree with me tbh, I don’t judge you, and my opinion might be wrong idk, again, I’m sorry that my words were so strong, I probably should’ve chosen them more carefully, and I am in no way entitled to tell you what you should think, just please don’t talk about me behind my back; please stop sending me asks about this bc I won’t continue talking about it bc I’m not expressing my ideas correctly; also yeah, I deleted the asks since my approach may have been to strong and might offend some people, bc I really don’t wanna offend anyone, I just like to make people happy, not sad
I’m just here for a good time and I don’t wanna let this ruin it, I still love every single one of my followers, no matter what their pov on this matter is💕💕💕
Honestly, I care more whether or not you like snape than what you think about this topic
PLEASE ACCEPT THESE HEARTS AS AN APOLOGY IF I OFFENDED ANYONE OR HURT THEIR FEELINGS💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

highway

WARNINGS: language lol

AUTHOR’S NOTE: anon, this took me forever to write and i feel like i couldve done so much better but i hope you enjoy it anyway! 


You were driving back home from your visit with your family. You were blaring music, Spice Girls to be specific, and singing at the top of your lungs. The sun was setting as you drove down the empty highway. 

You drove and drove until you spotted someone in the near distance. It looked like he wanted to hitch a ride. You cautiously drove up next to him, turned down the music, and rolled down your window. 

“Oh, thank God!” The man threw his hands up into the air dramatically. “Could you help me out? My car just ran out of gas some ways down from here and my phone is completely dead.” He leaned into your passenger window. 

“Uh, yeah.” You nodded. “Sure, come on in.” You unlocked your car doors and the stranger jumped in and buckled himself up. 

“I’m Sebastian.” He stuck his hand out for you to shake. 

“(Y/N),” you grinned. You knew exactly who he was and you couldn’t help but freak out a bit inside. This was a movie star you were helping out. 

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To the anon that just send me an ask/prompt:

First, how dare you write such sweet things about me. It is not fitting for a Slytherin to squeal that loud dammit.

Second, I WILL TOTALLY WRITE THAT STORY  but I am going to do some proper research first, because this is the first fic request I have ever gotten so I want to write something nice (ish anyway, I think you asking me has more to do with the lack of proper femslash writers and less with the quality of what I write but whatever, I’ll give it my best shot) and since this is a real thing people struggle with I have to be careful not to offend anyone

Third, may I hug you? May I? I hope I may because your ask just made me so happy, thank you!

fourth, for anyone who isn’t this anon and wants to know where all the fuss is about, it’s an amazing Linny femslash prompt that I will not be posting until I’ve written the actual fic because spoilers (sort of)

Give me a follow/shout at me in my ask box if you want to stay tuned

If you have any prompt ideas yourself feel free to send them, my ask box is always open!

anonymous asked:

I have a question. Do you think Odin punishes people who offend or anger him?

Punishment is an awkward concept when dealing with gods. As a hard polytheist, I suspect the gods have their own agendas, So the analogy I sometimes use is between humans and cats.

Cats are reasonably clever - some moreso than others. But every so often they claw up your favourite piece of furniture, may pee on your stuff, knock things over, and/or attempt to savage you for no discernible reason.

So you yell at them, take away the tasty leftovers/your dinner that you looked away from for five minutes. You might spritz them with a plant mister.

Mostly, you just want them to stop doing a particular thing, or acting in a certain way because it might be harmful to them, or your agenda. You don’t want to hurt them, or cause them damage, because you enjoy having them about, and it does something for you to have them in your life.

But for the cat, what you’re doing is THE WORST THING EVER. WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS? WHY DO YOU HATE ME SO?

They can’t conceive why you’re ‘punishing’ them. Of course, you aren’t. But it may very well feel that way, to them. Gods, by definition, are different to mortals. They may or may not have some overlapping qualities, but they’re different orders of being.

Hope this makes some kind of sense.

I have never been a fan of Vyrt chat, it’s such a mess for me… personally, I don’t like it because everyone chats at the same time and you can’t keep up… but today I had nothing better to do (I’m still on vacations) and decided to take a look ‘cause I knew Jared would be there… Seriously, some people need help… the spamming and on top of that, the nonsense and the DISRESPECTFUL messages are something I can’t put up with. I saw today messages of women such as “r*pe me” , “f*uck me”, “choke me”… , which are out of line, for God’s sake!! That degree of insanity floors me. Some may think I’m self-righteous, but it’s not about me being self-righteous, it’s about having some RESPECT towards the person you’re sending those messages to. People who are in the chat are supposed to be ADULTS, right??? It’s impossible to have a decent chat there. Some people need to GROW UP.

I have zero tolerance for bullshit and after seeing that I needed to make this post. If someone of you feels offended because of this post, I’m sorry for you. So, feel free to unfollow. Bye

samwinchesterlester  asked:

I'm looking to start a Skyrim tumblr, any suggestions on where to start, what to post, etc? It'd really help :)

I can see that change over…not too big a leap, eh?

Seriously, I am not qualified to give advice about tumblr, this is the only one I’ve ever made and I just did it on a lark. I kept seeing things as I played that cracked me up and wanted to share with somebody. None of my rl friends are gamers, (shocker…not that many girl gamers locally) so decided to show strangers. Plus it keeps the game fresh for me, because I have ulterior motive. If you just want to know my personal rules about how I run my own, I’ve got a couple, but I break them for fun occasionally. 

1. Try and blog/reblog shit that is either original, hasn’t made the rounds in a while, or is brand spanking new. When I look at skyrim on tumblr  I sort by new not most popular.
2. Play the game. Tons. And try out new mods. I’ve got 3165 hours of gameplay. This game didn’t stay fresh without mods.
3. Don’t sweat the haters. They will come and you must decide to ignore or confront them. I like a little initial confrontation, then blocking their asses.They act like I have some obligation not to offend them, and I don’t. I can say whatever the fuck I want. It’s called free speech. The fact is I do this for fun.  I post things I find funny. Sometimes other people find them funny, sometimes they don’t. But arguing with people isn’t something I particularly enjoy…so I don’t. 
4. I don’t worry about a schedule. If I’m free that day I may post a TON of stuff. If I’m busy I don’t bother… or worry about it…or even think about it. 
5. Credit where credit is due. Tumblr eats their own image captions for some reason, so I just stick captions on the images now. MS paint is my friend for quick captions.
6. I use tags for my personal use to flip through my own shit in addition to helping people find my stuff. 

I think my best advice for any type of tumblr is to have fun and enjoy it. If it stresses you - don’t bother. and when you stop having fun with it, delete it.
I have no idea if this is the kind of reply you wanted, but…lol….I had fun writing it, and isn’t that what counts?