i think i can do anything for this feeling

Can I just say how much… I really, really love writing Rhys and Mor? And maybe just take two seconds to chat about how underrated their relationship is? The more I write Rhys, the more I keep finding myself in these scenes with him coming to her, leaning on her, using her for help and advice whether he knows it or not. I think Rhys loves her so, so much. And I honestly believe that out of everyone in the IC, if Mor were to die it would hit him harder than anyone else (save Feyre, of course). They’ve grown up together, and he’s fought his entire life to give her independence and freedom, and I think Mor returns the favor when he lands on her balcony after the Mountain, and he sort of just… lets her keep being this shepherd in his life, helping him keep from fully unraveling. I think Cassian and Azriel aren’t the only ones who feel her endless warmth and spirit. Say what you will about the Cazigan dynamic in the books and who has to “shield” whom from Mor’s infectious spirit, but if you think about it, Rhys is exempt from that protection. He just gets to enjoy Mor for all she is, how selfless and supportive and encouraging, and she too gets to be there for her cousin who has empowered her and given her status and strength over her family, these things that make her into a queen. They’re friends. Really, really good friends and I think there is so much love between them that we don’t get to see a lot of in ACOMAF, but if SJM were to ever write the book as Rhys or elaborate on it, I think we’d be surprised just how much goes on between the two of them and how much he confides in her. And I think given how much they’ve gone through together… that’s just, I don’t know, really really special and I love it so much. It’s nice to see that even when the entire world and family around them falls apart, there is still this lovely little kernal of them left to lean on and it never goes away.

I’ve seen a couple of tag on my fics mentioning how I always write Natsu as being super tender and gentle with Lucy. Yeah, I totally do they. You can’t tell me that he wouldn’t act like that with her when they’re alone. He’s thought he lost her twice now. Twice. At some point it has to have hit him that Lucy’s breakable. That she can handle so much, but she can’t handle everything. And when they’re alone he doesn’t have to act tough or worry about being teased by someone else. He can just hold her and speak in quiet tones, just wanting to be around her and not needing to do anything.

Their relationship has always been a quiet one. An easy one. I think it always will be. When/if they get together I’m hoping it’s not going to be something huge, just something soft between the two of them. Because the feelings have always been there, they just haven’t been loud.

“Not with a bang but a whimper.”

I REALLY hope people take this the right way. I feel like a small portion of people might misunderstand or have a kneejerk reaction to this and think that Jack’s saying he’s tired of interacting or wants us to back up for a while, but I don’t think that’s the case.

Quite the opposite, in fact. I think Jack’s saying that he wants to do everything he can to make sure he’s genuinely engaged when he’s interacting with us rather than just clicking like arbitrarily without actually reading or looking at posts. And that he doesn’t want to become so inerred to the constant praise and/or serious personal stories that it stops making him feel anything or drives him to a point where he doesn’t care about fans individually and we all just become a blob. It seems to me that he cares so much that he’s horrified about the possibility of not caring, if that makes sense.

But what that means is that he can’t be up to his neck in tumblr and twitter and comments every single day. Not because he doesn’t enjoy it or want to do it, but because pure psychology and human nature decree that overexposure breeds apathy and numbness. If he buries himself in constant interaction and fan service, he’ll eventually reach a branching point where he either gets exhausted/stops feeling it and quits that stuff or he turns into a machine that likes and reblogs and comments meaninglessly out of habit or uninspired desire to be likeable. That’s just a fact, and he couldn’t help it at that point, regardless of how genuine he is at heart.

So I’m glad he understands and acknowledges that concept now and wants to try to avoid that. If he needs to take breaks or whatever sometimes in order to stay emotionally connected or to add life to his future interactions, then that’s OK. It’s good, actually. It’s nearly impossible for public figures to remain grounded and actually give a shit about fans/fan creations. It’s unlikely that any public figure can maintain compassion and/or interaction for their entire career. So whatever balance Jack needs to take or actions he needs to make for himself and to push that potential burn out further into the future… I wholeheartedly support and appreciate. The nice thing is I think most everyone else here will too. We’re a pretty rad community.

I want @therealjacksepticeye to stick around in his career and be happy with it for as long as humanly possible, so whatever helps that and him is something I can 100% get behind.

anonymous asked:

So, this is just a thing I thought of, but I feel like hufflepuffs either listen to Indie or the hardest of hard rock. Rarely anything in between. What do you think?

As I am someone who listens to all different kinds of music I can’t really tell. But maybe some other badger can help?

anonymous asked:

I broke down in front of my mum on the weekend. I ended up saying some stupid things I'd been thinking about and that included some talk about suicide. Yesterday we went to the doctor to get a referral to a psychiatrist and tomorrow I'm seeing him. Mum wants to get antidepressants for me. I need to talk to someone but I feel like my friends and family would just do the pity thing and pat me on the back and send me off with a "well there's nothing I can do" and I don't know who to turn to anymore

First of all, I want you to know that anything you think or feel is not and never is stupid. You are important and everything you say is worth listening to. It sounds like your parents are concerned and just want to help you, which is understandable for any parent who loves their child. Remember they are doing this with the best intentions of what they feel is best for you.

I know you need someone to talk to, so I do believe seeing a professional is the best decision for you. They are there to listen and to help you get through this, that is, if you let them.
Another important thing is you don’t have to take medication if you don’t want to. That’s completely up for you to decide. It’s your choice. (If they start forcing you, demand a different psychiatrist)
So even saying that, taking medication is not a bad thing and could help you immensely. I’ve taken antidepressants when I needed them and there is no shame in doing so. Sometimes there are certain points in your life when you need help, and it’s okay to ask for it. Your mental health is the most important.

I know things are tough right now but I promise you things will get better and you’re going to be okay. Just hang in there ✨

anonymous asked:

Itaat that I need whatever sensation happens on one side of my body to also happen on the other side? For example, if I scratch my left hand, I also have to scratch my right hand in the same place and in the same way. When I don't, I just feel very uncomfortable and I can't focus on anything else until I've done whatever it is on the other side of my body, too.

I think it is. I think it’s a sensory thing. You need to balance out the sensory input you received to feel ok. I do this too. I need things to be even on both sides of my body to be ok. 

-Sabrina

“Do you believe that a person can be hurt without being physically touched by or any external forces?”

The question above doesn’t make any relation to the title right? But soon you will know why. This question keeps on running inside my head for years now, because I’ve seen it. I’ve seen it but I don’t understand it fully.

We are in a generation where kids at their teenage year’s experiences such as fucked up thoughts, useless motions, the feeling of being unwanted, and anything that I think only people 25 above would understand. Thinking about how people act at this stage, I don’t know what they call it, is like having lots of responsibilities at a very young age. They will give you this, take care of that, and make sure not to break that trust because it’s like what our grandma use to say that once broken, it will never be the same again.

At this time of the day, what do you usually think? Usually do? To those who are very busy, what do you do during your free time? These days, teens and the not so are so busy not just school or work, but with their like “extra “ curricular activities that I don’t think is that much important because it leads to not having more time with your family, values and others.

To cut the chase, this is more like a slice of life; hope will bring you fun, laughter, a little bit of sadness, and so much complication.

-J.D.Rama

anonymous asked:

Lately I've been really thinking maybe I'm faking being bi. I'm scared that I have just been fooling myself into thinking I like girls and every encounter I have with a girl I question if I like them or not and it's really getting to me. I worry maybe I just identify with the LGBT+ community so I convinced myself and even when I have a thought or feeling that might be genuine I over analyze it until it doesn't feel real anymore. Idk what to do and I can't stand not knowing what's real anymore.

Hi anon

The only way to fake anything is consciously. Unless you planned it out and schemed and plotted, you’re not faking. Worrying about faking it is common among bisexuals because biphobes keep telling us we’re fake, but we’re not. If you’ve ever felt anything for girls, that was valid and that was genuine.

If you feel like maybe you’re less attracted to girls at the moment, maybe that’s just because your sexuality is fluid or you have preferences. My sexuality is always changing. Sometimes I’m really into men, sometimes I’m really into women, it doesn’t change that I’m bi though.

The truth is that you don’t have to feel as strongly for one gender as another in order to be bi. It doesn’t have to be 50/50 attraction. If you don’t feel as strongly for girls as for boys then it’s okay. You still have those feelings for girls and you’re not faking.

And if one day your sexuality shifts and you realise actually you’re straight or gay, that doesn’t change the fact that you’re bi now, and it still doesn’t mean you were faking anything.

Faking is a conscious attempt to deceive. You’re just discovering your sexuality. There’s nothing nefarious or dishonest about that, my friend.

Max

So I’ve been filled with love and affection again lately and I really really wanna give a certain someone a hug *cough @jiminy-krispies cough*

So here’s the best I can do :)

You make me smile so much!!!

I look at cute things and I think of you cause I always wanna make you smile too!! And you’re a cutie :) can’t forget about that!!

You make me want to actually do things!! I’m usually okay with barely doing anything and just lying in bed on my tablet for most of the day, but now I want to go where you are and give you a hug, now I want to make things so you’re proud of me, now I want to do things that would make you happy :)

You’re such a nice person!! You always make me feel better when I’m sad and even if I do cry I can say ‘jiminy believes in me and everything will be alright’ and I won’t cry as much!!

You make me happy :) I’m so so glad I can be friends with you. I love you!!

Originally posted by moan-s

hey……………4 ya artists out there followin me who feel frustrated or like they can’t do anything right or that ur work isnt coming out how u want. or u just wish u could get some feedback. would u like to send an ask w/ a link to ur art tag or a drawing youve made recently that you like the most? and i can tell you what i think your strengths are! i just thought it’d be a casual nice lil thing to be able to remind you of the good you’re accomplishing, cuz everyone could use that once in awhile…! 

prince-ofthe-stars  asked:

Can I get your opinion on something? Y'know how people say that you shouldn't use a ouija board alone or that you need at least two people. I can make contact when it's just me using it and I've been wondering if that means anything. I'm not particularly sensitive and can't feel spirits around me but I'm always successful when using a board. What do you think?

Its totally fine to use it alone. Some people cant get results when using it alone, but if its working fine for you then keep on doing it!

skeleton3509  asked:

I believe in you you can do it

Arial: NGAAAAHHHHH–!!

Arial: Still nothing…I can’t do it. 

Arial: I really can’t do anything.

Papyrus:  IT’S OKAY, ARIAL! I TOLD YOU, GASTER BLASTERS ARE VERY ADVANCED MAGIC! IT MAY SURPRISE YOU TO LEARN THIS, BUT EVEN I TOOK MANY MONTHS TO PERFECT IT! DON’T FEEL BAD. 

Arial:  But I’m already nine and I can’t even do bullets! Everyone at school knows what their bullets are, except me. I’m never gonna find my magic. 

Papyrus:  YOU KNOW, I USED TO THINK I’D NEVER JOIN THE ROYAL GUARD! 

Arial: You never did join the Royal Guard.

Papyrus: …WELL, THAT’S TRUE…BUT I ENDED UP MARRYING THE CAPTAIN, SO THAT MUST COUNT FOR SOMETHING!

Arial: …?

Papyrus:  ANYWAY, I NEVER THOUGHT I’D GET TO DO ANY OF THE AMAZING THINGS I’VE DONE NOW! I NEVER THOUGHT I’D GET TO SEE THE SUN, OR MARRY YOUR MOM, OR BE IN MOVIES, OR BE THE MONSTERS’ MASCOT TO HUMANS, OR HAVE YOU! BUT I DID. AND YOU KNOW WHY? 

Arial: Why?

Papyrus: BECAUSE EVERY TIME I MESSED UP, OR FELT LIKE MAYBE I WASN’T AS AMAZING AS I TRIED TO BE, OR SOMEBODY TOLD ME I COULDN’T DO SOMETHING, I KEPT GOING ANYWAY! I TOLD MYSELF THAT AS LONG AS I SMILED AND DID EVERYTHING I COULD, I WOULD BE GREAT SOMEDAY! AND NOW LOOK AT ME!

YOU’LL FIND YOUR MAGIC, AND WHEN YOU DO I BET YOU’RE GOING TO BE JUST AS GREAT AS ME! MAYBE EVEN GREATER, BECAUSE YOU HAVE YOUR MOM IN YOU TOO, AND SHE’S EVEN COOLER THAN I AM! 

Papyrus: I BELIEVE IN YOU, SO YOU SHOULD BELIEVE IN YOU TOO!

Arial:  I know, and I wanna believe, but I’ve been trying for so long now and nothing’s worked. Mom said she could do bullets when she was four! And everybody always says you’re supposed to know what your bullets are when you’re, like, seven! I’m nine. 

Maybe there’s just something wrong with me. Maybe I’m not a real monster.

Papyrus: THERE’S NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! YOU’RE THE AMAZING ARIAL, THE SPAWN OF THE GREAT PAPYRUS AND THE UNDYING UNDYNE! HOW COULD THERE BE ANYTHING WRONG WITH YOU?

Arial:  I don’t know. But there must be something. How can I be a monster and not make bullets?

Papyrus:  NONSENSE! YOU’RE PERFECTLY ACCEPTABLE AND NOT IN ANY WAY NON-MONSTER. IN FACT, I KNOW SOMEONE WHO CAN PROVE IT TO YOU WITHOUT A DOUBT!

Arial: Who?

Papyrus:  LET’S JUST SAY I KNOW A CERTAIN YELLOW REPTINOID WHO SHOULD BE ABLE TO HELP. A CERTAIN, VERY SMALL, VERY SCIENCE REPTINOID. WHO USED TO DATE MY WIFE. 

I’M SURE THIS COMPLETELY MYSTERIOUS SURPRISE PERSON WILL HAVE SOMETHING SCIENCE-Y SHE CAN DO TO PROVE YOU’RE NORMAL! WE’LL HAVE YOUR MOM TALK TO HER, AND WE’LL GO SEE HER VERY SOON. ALRIGHT?

Arial: Alright.

Papyrus: RIGHT! AND IN THE MEANTIME…PROMISE ME YOU’LL KEEP SMILING?

Arial: I want to, but it’s a little hard to smile right now…

Papyrus: WELL, THAT’S WHAT I’M HERE FOR!

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anonymous asked:

Some people like to tell me that i cant be both Bisexual and Biromantic, but i can't help but feel like thats right. am i using the wrong term? Because the way i feel is that i can't even consider anyone attractive much less do anything with them unless i am emotionally bonded to them, but being romantic is something i work my way into. it's had to explain, but idk, i know how i feel. but do you think thats right?

I think only you can define your orientations. some labels that might be helpful for you to look into could be demisexual/demiromantic, but ultimately, it’s you who decides how to label yourself. anyone who says you can’t label your sexuality/romantic orientation a certain way is wrong.

❤️ mod jay

I don’t think we should talk anymore, or ever again, really. As much as it hurts me to tell you this I can’t help but feel like a burden towards you. I don’t want to stress you out when I’m upset because you’ve been distant, and I’ve grown tired of this constant sickness that overcomes me when I don’t hear from you. I do want to thank you for the spurts or happiness that you gave me, they’re incomparable to anything else. You have been a big fraction of my life, you are on my mind often, I love you dearly and probably always will, but I love myself more. With that being said I will support you from a distance and I wish you nothing but the best, I hope to God you fall so unbelievably in love with someone and they make you the happiest person in the entire world, but I am so sorry that that wasn’t me. Good luck, and please don’t feel bad. Shit happens.
—  A text I wish I had the guts to send to you

anonymous asked:

tips on dealing with suicidal thoughts and depression? kinda not seeing the point of anything nowadays, nothing is worth it tbh cause life is just pointless whenyou think about it

life is not pointless. watch a sunset. look at the stars. go on a drive and listen to music. laugh. theres so many things you have yet to do, yet to see, and memories to be made. you have a full life ahead of you and i know its hard but what youre feeling is temporary. i think you should tell your parents how you feel because depression can be a chemical imbalance in your body, and even though im against medication, theres a lot of different types of treatments that can help you. Im always here if you need anything. 

i don’t think people really get how little feedback fanfic authors actually get? like the effort to reaction ratio is so abysmally skewed here that a fic nearly 50,000 words long takes an entire year to amass like. 16 comments. someone reblogged a fic i wrote at 4 am and tagged it with a 5-word compliment and i can’t stop thinking about it, not because it was so nice but because half the time you post a fic you’re going to hear nothing and anything feels like so much

fandom culture is so, so good about giving artists the credit they’re due, but we gotta start doing that for writers too. you’ve got no idea how much people put into their stories and get maybe a handful of reblogs and a dozen-odd kudos. that’s not enough. writing is an endurance sport and y’all need to start giving fic writers a reason to endure it and improve their craft. encourage writers like you encourage artists. reblog fics, leave tags, leave comments, acknowledge that these stories do not just spring into being for your entertainment. 

every single damn writer i know feels like half of their readers see them as a machine. that’s gotta change. 

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I know what it is to be followed in a clothing store because they don’t think I can afford anything in there. I know what it is to sit next to a supporter of discrimination and racism and a perception that is false that I’m going to hurt, steal or kill because of my skin color. I know what that feeling is, and I want to change that perception. Because at the root of all of it, I am human, and I want the same things that everybody else does: love, success, health, a good family, a career, an opportunity to do more and more and more.

Quality ML Tropes
  • “Tikki I am so in love with Adrien Agreste” “Ok well then why don’t you talk to him?” “no”
  • “Gosh Nino Marinette is such a good friend. She’s so friendly! I really appreciate her in my life!” “That’s awesome man you should tell her that, I think it would mean a lot.” “Uh….no”
  • “Tikki I really do love Chat Noir but I wish he would stop flirting with me. I don’t reciprocate his feelings and it makes my life so much more complicated because I worry all the time about letting him down.” “Maybe say so? He’d never do anything to make you uncomfortable on purpose!!” “Oh, I couldn’t-”
  • “Plagg do you think that Marinette has a crush on me???” “idk kid why don’t you ask her?” “nO!”
  • [post accidental reveal] “TIKKI Adrien can’t possibly like me for me !!!!!!!!!!!! He only loves me because I’m ladybug!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can’t possibly be together with him my HEAR TIS BROKEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” “Or what if. And i might be stretching here Marinette but what if. You had an open and healthy dialogue about your feelings and concerns to resolve this issue” “nO TIKKI WHY WOULD I EVER-”