the funny thing is i've heard aphobic gay ppl go on and on about how ace/aro ppl always call gay pda 'gross' but like...i follow quite a few ace ppl and i've literally never heard that?? i feel like the only ppl that would push that are trolls pretending to be ace so aphobes get all up in a fit to try and demonize them (kinda like posts that say all allo ppl think about is sex, which i'm p damn sure are made by trolls)
I’ve literally never seen actual aspecs say that “gay pda is gross”. There are, however, aspecs that ask for pda in general to be tagged because they’re romance/sex-repulsed. But they never specify “gay” pda.
Aphobes just assume everything is about them. They’ll lie and misinterpret as much as they can to try and further their argument.