i still hate you for making me ship them

send me a fandom and i’ll tell you…

  • the first character i ever fell in love with:
  • a character that i used to love/like, but now do not:
  • a ship that i used to love/like, but now do not:
  • my ultimate favorite character™:
  • prettiest character:
  • my most hated character:
  • my OTP:
  • my NOTP:
  • favorite episode:
  • saddest death:
  • favorite season:
  • least favorite season:
  • character that everyone else in the fandom loves, but i hate:
  • my ‘you’re piece of trash, but you’re still a fave’ fave:
  • my ‘beautiful cinnamon roll who deserves better than this’ fave:
  • my ‘this ship is wrong, nasty, and makes me want to cleanse my soul, but i still love it’ ship:
  • my ‘they’re kind of cute, and i lowkey ship them, but i’m not too invested’ ship:

So I ship johnlock. & it’s making me mad, actually, that other johnlock shippers find it funny and amusing to post hate and anti-sherlolly stuff in the sherlolly tag??? Like stop? You’re the ones making us all look like assholes. Let people have their ship, k. Just cause people ship sherlolly doesn’t mean they are homophobic. I’m tired of seeing them being attacked by johnlock shippers for just being happy about their ship and talking about it. They’re not being rude or harming anyone. You’re ruining the fandom. Bye.

I don’t hate Jensen. I do not think he’s homophobic. But I am hurt and angry.
I had 2 of my OTP’s crashed in less than 24 hours.
I really had faith in both Sherlock and spn to finally do something this year in the new seasons.
I am so sick and tired of queerbaiting. And so fucking tired of all the hate we get from bibros and Wincest shippers. Like, wtf?! Do you really enjoy twisting the knife? Making us suffer even more? What the hell is wrong with you?! At least the Sherlock fandom was nice to the broken-hearted Johnlock shippers.
Both these ships are important to me, they are my escape from the real world and I feel strongly about them, especially about Destiel.
And to have all of my hope crashed and spit on, it hurts.
Well at least I still have Viktuuri and Phan :/

anonymous asked:

I've been watching Supergirl and I've noticed all the hate coming from that fandom but I still haven't made up my mind about Karamel (cutest ship name ever btw) so I was wondering why do you ship them/thoughts on Mon-El because we usually agree?:)

To be honest, I haven’t made up my mind yet either. I have now watched all the scenes and I went into it very cautious because of all the backlash on tumblr. And I kept waiting for him to do this one horrible, unforgivable thing that would make me go anti but that’s not my experience with him.

Mon-El isn’t my kind of guy, I’ll give you that. But I’m trying to keep my mind very open to what’s happening and his arc is one of redemption, that’s a fact, he’s come a long way from where he began. His whole entire storyline is that he’s not from this planet, that he was raised in a completely different culture. This person has lost everything, his family, friends, everything he’s ever known and is now stuck here, I’m pretty sure he gets a break to figure things out before we crucify him?

I keep hearing that the relationship (which only just started last ep may I add) is toxic but I don’t see it that way. Some of his behaviour is clearly problematic and unacceptable in our society so he’s letting go of it, but surely he needs time to adapt? And none of it was him being evil or causing serious damage? Kara had years to become a part of that world and to even consider becoming a hero so why is Mon-El expected to fit in right away? And Kara isn’t some little girl around him, she stands up for who she is, she calls him out on his shit, she said it herself, she’s freaking Supergirl.

The truth is he keeps improving. He let go of drinking which made him feel better for the sake of himself, not Kara. He’s coming into his own, his own clothes, his own job and now that he’s had time he does want to help people. And the way he handled rejection? Not abusive at all. He confessed he had feelings for her and he walked away when she didn’t reciprocate them. He wasn’t angry, he didn’t force himself onto her, he just left. (which is the normal thing to do) in 2x12 she said that she does in fact have feelings for him as well only to lie to protect and distance him from her the next episode and he walked away again. He said it: he’s trying really really hard to do the right thing and to do right by her and listen to what she wants. And if you’re trying to put the scene where he wanted to protect her against him when it was very obviously comedy and she protected herself anyway, then you’re just trying to find excuses to hate him.

So while he’s very flawed for obvious reasons I don’t hate him nor do I hate his development with Kara. And we’ll see how the relationship turns out. One thing I will say is that I would’ve preferred seeing them get together maybe next season or something when he truly becomes the person he’s trying to be.

anonymous asked:

I have tons of killing stalking stuff on my blog and I tagged photos that had both Sangwoo and Yoon Bum in them as Sangwoo x Yoon Bum. I'm new to this kind of thing so I didn't realize that if you tagged ____ x ____ it meant that you shipped them. I literally had a flood of anti-killing stalking blogs target me, telling me that I was a gross fujoshi...but I really was just making a newbie mistake but they wouldn't listen to me. Help. do I keep standing up for myself? Or???

If you have explained to them that it was a mistake & you actually don’t ship them, and they still make you a hate target, then block. Block all of the bullshit. There is nothing here to stand-up for, other than your right to remove anything that makes your fandom experience a negative one.

anonymous asked:

Ayumichi-san, you are on those people that makes me ship Nalu. I was formerly a Graylu fan, actually, in my neighborhood, all of them ship Gray & Lucy (unbelievable right? but its the truth) and dislike Natsu and HATED JUVIA TO DEATH -.-

OMG! REALLY?? Thank you QvQ

I kinda understand why you hated Juvia. I kinda hated her before because she’s annoying but that hate becomes love and learn to ship Gruvia. I love Gruvia and continue to ship them till the end. :))) I already loved Natsu in the beginning tho.

It’s okay for me to disliked/hate a character but please don’t be like the other people who are rude and like to destroy a ship because of the certain character.

Anyways, I’m still happy if I and my arts make you ship NaLu :))) That satisfy my soul. :)))

Out of all the actually S-supportable ships to completely fall for i pick these two nerds. I don’t really know why but something about their supports makes me love them so much??? He really tries?? And he’s not mean?? And despite her hating Nohrians she also tries to get along and both just… want to get along? It’s super nice. Also they’re two of my favourite Fates characters so that helps, too.

Yes i have a backlog of things to make / do / etc - ahem still !
Someone msged me about whether i took requests : which i hadn’t even consider tbh ahah - so here i am with a random post to say if there is something you’d like to see (with my mediocre edit skills) pop it in my inbox!  

  • Concepts / colours / AUs (!!!) + houses / ships / characters ??? idk. the more specific the better! 🐝
  • i’ll do them as inspiration hits (a rare phenomenon) + tag you in it when i do it! 
  • If i don’t do it, pls don’t think i hate you okay, i probably created a private pin board for it and then didn’t like what i made :// 
  • Ships wise if i don’t ship it i’m sorry!! but i probably won’t make it! *hides* - mainly bc i would struggle to find stuff that would fit tbh. 

Yay! We’re still on top. And there are still people who hate on us in the comments, but after four weeks I learned not to care. I didn’t expect Mikleo x Edna to be this strong though. I have nothing against who ships them, if you wanna ship them that’s fine by me, but I wish people would just stop complaining about Sormik when Edna and Mikleo make even less sense.

katennara  asked:

Riverdale!

  • the first character i ever fell in love with: archie
  • a character that i used to love/like, but now do not: betty
  • a ship that i used to love/like, but now do not: nah
  • my ultimate favorite character™: archie
  • prettiest character: veronica
  • my most hated character: betty
  • my OTP: archie/jughead
  • my NOTP: betty/jughead
  • favorite episode: i think episode 2
  • saddest death: nah
  • favorite season: nah
  • least favorite season: nah
  • character that everyone else in the fandom loves, but i hate: betty
  • my ‘you’re piece of trash, but you’re still a fave’ fave: reggie
  • my ‘beautiful cinnamon roll who deserves better than this’ fave: jughead, but idk about the cinnamon roll part xD
  • my ‘this ship is wrong, nasty, and makes me want to cleanse my soul, but i still love it’ ship: nah
  • my ‘they’re kind of cute, and i lowkey ship them, but i’m not too invested’ ship’: veronica/betty

nightingales-in-my-brain  asked:

Fandom: Once Upon a Time

Thank you :) 

  • the first character i ever fell in love with: Rumple
  • a character that i used to love/like, but now do not: Zelena
  • a ship that i used to love/like, but now do not: OutlawQueen 
  • my ultimate favorite character™: Rumple
  • prettiest character: Belle
  • my most hated character: Hook
  • my OTP: Rumbelle
  • my NOTP: CaptainSwan
  • favorite episode: 1x12
  • saddest death: Neal
  • favorite season: 2
  • least favorite season: 4
  • character that everyone else in the fandom loves, but i hate: Snow White
  • my ‘you’re piece of trash, but you’re still a fave’ fave: Peter Pan 
  • my ‘beautiful cinnamon roll who deserves better than this’ fave: Belle
  • my ‘this ship is wrong, nasty, and makes me want to cleanse my soul, but i still love it’ ship: CaptainCharming
  • my ‘they’re kind of cute, and i lowkey ship them, but i’m not too invested’ ship: RedKansas


send me a fandom and i’ll tell you…

hana-bunny  asked:

i have so manyyy!!! 1,4,9,11,14,23,27(Dae,Bang,Zelo)30

1) When did you get into B.A.P? November of last year, after my sister showed me the Skydive and One Shot MVs trying to make me like Kpop lmao (Yeah I’m still a pretty new baby lol)

4) Favorite Era Carnival Era, I love all of the Carnival/Feel So Good performances they were sooo cute!!!

9) Your first bias. Jonguppie >////<

11) Bias Wrecker. Himchan and Yongguk (thos Himchan is pretty damn close to make me double-bias lmao)

14) OTP. Ok I dont like romantically shipping any real life people(?) but as in bromanca its totally HimUp (they are adorable ok?)

23) Daehyun or Youngjae …I hate you! Both!! I cant chose between them!! I love them both the same!!! *cries*

27) F.M.K: *(Dae, Bang, Zelo)… Fuck: Daehyun, Marry: Yongguk aaannnddd Kiss: Zelo lmaooo

30)  Why do you love B.A.P :) Because they make me smile, their songs can make me cheer up, the members are absolutely wonderful and lovely people who deserve everything good in life, and even tho they had hard times they still keep going. Plus ever since I joined babyz I met a lot of wonderfull people who I love with all my heart and I think its thanks to B.A.P that I get to be friends with them, so that makes me love them even more. Also the bond between the members is absolutely heartwarming and I love them with all my heart!! <3<3<3

Thanks for the ask bae~ Love youuu (sorry for the long af answer to the last question lmao)

Originally posted by vanessacwt

astronautbethjohanssen  asked:

Stranger Things :)

  • the first character i ever fell in love with: jonathan
  • a character that i used to love/like, but now do not: nah
  • a ship that i used to love/like, but now do not: nah
  • my ultimate favorite character™: nancy
  • prettiest character: nancy
  • my most hated character: steve’s friends
  • my OTP: nancy/jonathan
  • my NOTP: steve/nancy
  • favorite episode: the monster
  • saddest death: benny
  • favorite season: well, season 1 at the moment
  • least favorite season: nah
  • character that everyone else in the fandom loves, but i hate: nah
  • my ‘you’re piece of trash, but you’re still a fave’ fave: steve lol
  • my ‘beautiful cinnamon roll who deserves better than this’ fave: el
  • my ‘this ship is wrong, nasty, and makes me want to cleanse my soul, but i still love it’ ship: nah
  • my ‘they’re kind of cute, and i lowkey ship them, but i’m not too invested’ ship’: el/mike

finnickscatchingwater  asked:

James n Lily?

Y’know, this is a weird one for me, bc I remember when I was new to tumblr I would alway get fired up abt people hating on Jily and stuff, but now.. I’m just a little over it?? Like my opinion on it is positive!!! But because there’s no actual firsthand development between them I ship them in a much more casual sense than others, if you know what I mean? I used to be a really big Jily shipper, and I think to some extent I still am, but I guess I don’t relate to the characters or the ‘dynamic’ of the relationship as much as I used to, if that makes sense??

Send me a ship and I’ll give you my (brutally) honest opinion on it!

theorajones  asked:

A limited pool of characters, I realize, but... Brimstone!

Sorry it took me a while to get to this, but here you go!

the first character i ever fell in love with: John Glover’s Devil. It took all of one scene and I was in love, and have been a Glover fan ever since. (Who would have ever thought that would lead to actually becoming a friend in real life, too!)

a character that i used to love/like, but now do not: None. I still love them all. The show didn’t last long enough for me to come to dislike anyone!

a ship that i used to love/like, but now do not: Nah, still love any/anything.

my ultimate favorite character™: The devil ;)
prettiest character: Ok Zeke definitely wins the pretty award.
my most hated character: Ashur does make a bad ass villain, but I don’t necessarily hate her.
my OTP: Zeke/Devil, baby. How can you not love this?

my NOTP: Mmm…probably Zeke/Ash.
favorite episode: Repentance is probably the one that sticks out to me the most. It was actually the first episode I ever watched, and I still think it summarizes everything that made the show so great. I think it has the strongest messages about faith, forgiveness and repentance and how complex they can be.
saddest death: Well, I guess Zeke, although we wouldn’t have the show if he hadn’t died.
favorite season: ha ha ha ha ha…
least favorite season: The second one that never happened.
character that everyone else in the fandom loves, but i hate: None. There’s not enough of a fandom for anyone to hate anyone else.
my ‘you’re piece of trash, but you’re still a fave’ fave: The devil of course.
my ‘beautiful cinnamon roll who deserves better than this’ fave: Zeke, of course.
my ‘this ship is wrong, nasty, and makes me want to cleanse my soul, but i still love it’ ship: Lol I’m shipping Satan, how much more wrong can you get?
my ‘they’re kind of cute, and i lowkey ship them, but i’m not too invested’ ship: Zeke/Maxine, because Lori Petty is adorable and they had such a fun friendship. 

The fans:

Based on processes which took place after 3x07.

1. Those who watch the show for the plot, not ships (I`ve never seen you guys, but I`m sure you are here):

- represent the idol of the 100 fan 

2. Those who watch the 100 because of one/few characters who are still alive and unharmed

- are busy enjoying their favourites

- dislike/hate without going bananas

3. Clexa fans:

Harmless:  grieve, reblog sad gifsets, hate Jason Rothenberg/migrate/stop watching without spreading hate.

- the minimum amount

- represent the idol of the 100 fan/ex-fan     

Harmful: send death threats, try to get the 100 cancelled, are in a conspiracy with some Bellarke fans.

- I`m afraid of them

4. Bellarke fans:

Harmless: still believe in their ship, support the show, make funny jokes about Blake triplets.

Actually I want to thank you. Boris Blake memes supported me when the 100 tag looked infernal. You make me smile.

Harmful: are in a conspiracy with some Clexa fans, try to get the 100 canceled.

- shame on you  

5. Memori, Kabby, other ships:

- these tags are the safest places to be

- do not support the madness

- very lovely

I don`t ship them as much as you do, but I`m happy because your ships are ok and you can just enjoy the show.

6. Linctavia fans:

- miss Lincoln though he`s still alive

- badass

7. Jaha/Pike/Titus fans 


So we all have different reasons to watch the show but we can agree that the things are not the same way it used to be. Let`s revive our fandom because I really miss the old days.

Be cool. 

Be tolerant. 

Spread love not hate.

Boom. Out. 

Let’s get something clear

Just because you don’t like a ship, that doesn’t mean it’s inherently bad and “problematic”.

I have two ships i hate with a burning passion: Dislestia and Demande x Endymion. Neither make sense to me, and i can never see them happening. But i respect people who like these ships and leave them alone. If it makes them happy, that’s cool. I just mind my own business. I DO NOT spam the fucking tags with every single reason why said ships are bad and how everyone has to stop shipping it.

You can be respectful to shippers and still dislike and be disgusted by a ship. Just don’t be an asshole :)

leonacastellanos  asked:

HBO Girls?

  • the first character i ever fell in love with: adam lol
  • a character that i used to love/like, but now do not: nah
  • a ship that i used to love/like, but now do not: ray/shoshana
  • my ultimate favorite character™: jessa
  • prettiest character: jessa
  • my most hated character: hannah
  • my OTP: jessa/adam
  • my NOTP: hannah/adam
  • favorite episode: season 5, episoe 2
  • saddest death: nah
  • favorite season: season 5
  • least favorite season: i think season 3? i think
  • character that everyone else in the fandom loves, but i hate: hannah???
  • my ‘you’re piece of trash, but you’re still a fave’ fave: adam lol
  • my ‘beautiful cinnamon roll who deserves better than this’ fave: shoshana
  • my ‘this ship is wrong, nasty, and makes me want to cleanse my soul, but i still love it’ ship: nah
  • my ‘they’re kind of cute, and i lowkey ship them, but i’m not too invested’ ship’: nah

anonymous asked:

Been shipping SS for like a decade but sometimes i wonder if it is just SS fans that see things differently from the rest fandom, i mean SS get the most hatred but there're still people defend SS. I wonder if SS's panels convey the exact message that the author wants to say, that we get the same right message from him, or it is just SS fans love them so much that we are biased? The number of hate from Naruto fandom makes me doubt my ship's canon. Tks for your beautiful blog and sharp arguments!

When we have the author himself saying that he wrote Gaiden in order to portray the strong connection between Sasuke and Sakura, I don’t think there’s any reason to doubt whether you’re getting the right message or not.