I can't get over my ex and I've been trying I'm giving other people a chance its been almost 4 months now and I can't think of anyone else and I dont know what to do I miss her so but she's happier with her girlfriend and I dont know what to do I wish I could get her back
it’s been 5 months since my ex broke up with me and tbh i’m still not completely over it. and i probably never will be, i loved them with everything in me and that isn’t something you can just easily move on from, you know? i think accepting and acknowledging that they are always going to have a piece of your heart is important because pretending that they aren’’t or that you don’t care about them when you do just makes it harder on you.
one of my best friends keeps telling me that this is a loss and that i am in mourning and that i have to let myself grieve. some days are going to be better than others and some days are going to be awful, but they keep reminding me that i am making progress whether i realize it or not. and i think that’s really admirable advice because it’s true. you just lost someone important to you, it’s not realistic to move on from that right away. you have to let yourself be sad and let yourself miss them and don’t worry too much about getting better because it will happen when you least expect it. seriously, i know it sounds like bull but one day i woke up and i realized that i hadn’t been sad over my ex in a while and it was just like /whoa/ because i truly did not think i was ever going to be okay.
tbh i still struggle and i’m not at peace with my breakup all of the time and i still love them, i always will i think, and i probably won’t ever one hundred percent be over them. and that’s okay. one day i won’t be hurting as badly as i am now and one day you won’t be either. but until that day comes, we both just need to mourn and grieve and feel.