One of the toughest aspects in my chart back then was Venus square Ascendant. I constantly compared myself to others, looked at people and thought “why can’t I look like THAT” or “they’re so lucky, I wish I had their physical beauty” and it was bad… I spent so much time dwelling in envy and self-pity that it would exhaust me and make me feel terrible about my appearance. It’s not like this anymore (thank goodness lol) but it was nice to come to a point where I realized looks aren’t everything, and I think I’ve helped a lot of people in terms of understanding that beauty extends far beyond the physical realm. There is also mental & emotional beauty, both of which are significant. It’s great to be confident in one’s self and to embrace one’s looks but we just have to make sure that our self-worth doesn’t depend on that and it shouldn’t consume us. It’s not always easy having this aspect (especially since I’m a Virgo Rising - almost always hard on myself) but the lessons that come with it are eye-opening.
2 B Chat (preferably Marichat but thats me being greedy) for the Falling in Love meme ^_^