i shouldn't feel bad for him

One of the hardest things is to watch someone slowly lose interest in you.

Honestly? Jin and Jimin are /adults/. They’re not catty teenage girls going behind each others backs and insulting each other, this was a part of a /game/, where the point is to roast someone basically.

Obviously, no one is trying to say that the statement that Jin made was okay or not uncalled for in any way (it personally made me cringe, and yeah, I’d rather it not have been said). But to criticize those kinds of statements means you should criticize them when they’re being used against anyone, including the /countless/ times they were used against other members i.e. Jin.

Going back to the adult thing, Jin and Jimin work and live together, and have for almost 5+ years. All of the boys are very close, and if there is an issue, I am sure at this point they are mature enough to address it with one another and talk it out.

Mr. Wiener: how is aging up any different than lgbt headcanons-

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halkaz92  asked:

Why do you think superheroes shouldn't kill? I mean after a while, Batman's refusal to off the same guy who crippled his friend and killed his ward would raise some red flags on his sanity.

That’s the writers’ fault for escalating the bad guys. I feel that superheroes, especially guys like Batman and Superman, are meant to embody idealism and a world where one DOESN’T have to kill one’s opponent.

Actually, let me turn this around: what is actually ADDED by making them kill? How does it benefit Batman’s character to have him just outright murder the joker or Ra’s Al Ghul or whatever? Or Superman? Dude will just laserbeam holes through your head now. How does that make them BETTER?

anonymous asked:

[1/2] I was thinking on it a while, and I feel that Tony thinks of his duties such as: he's in a position of power that very, very few have- so shouldn't he use that power for the benefit of the everyday folk out there who don't have that kind of power, so they could live more securely, as safe and happy as possible since not everyone is royalty? It's like MCU Spidey's quote "When you can do the things that I can, but you don't, and then the bad things happen, they happen because of you."

2/2] I guess I just feel like itd be cool if tony kinda explained that his duties are more than just what was groomed into him? (And for the others to go like o shit I get where ur coming from?? WHY ARE YOU SO SELF SACRIFICING?????????)

(I’m not gonna lie I hate this line so much lmao. It’s so egotistical and immature.)

The problem with this is that Tony’s duty was skewed for him by Obadiah (in some ways irreparably). Maria and Howard made it clear that he had duties but disregarding your child’s wants and forcing them to marry someone they didn’t want to definitely isn’t one of them. They would never have allowed Tony to marry Tiberius and if Tony found he couldn’t get along with whoever his parents chose originally they wouldn’t force him to carry through with the marriage. (This is partly due to their own rocky start at marriage but also royal parents are very picky about the alpha their omega child will marry.)

It’s not so much that his duties were groomed into him. It’s that Obadiah abused him and groomed him to accept that he didn’t have any agency of his own (and especially wouldn’t in a marriage to an alpha) and when he wanted to protect his people he made it about duty so that Obadiah couldn’t tell him no without thinking very carefully about it. (Like Obadiah wanted to make the draft age fourteen but Tony had insisted that that was too young, some children hadn’t even presented yet, and who would take care of the farms that provided most of their country’s capital? No. They couldn’t do that. Tony had a duty to make sure his country’s assets were protected. Obadiah could see the merit in that and decided against it. Tony didn’t really care about the money; he just wanted to make sure that even younger children weren’t being sent off as cannon fodder.) Duty is ingrained into him as a defense mechanism and a survival tactic. The way he sees duty is not healthy.

thegaypumpingthroughyourveins  asked:

Like, Graves needs help on a case, and he's utterly desperate, alright - he researches books in his library and stumbles upon this thing about demons who supposedly know everything ? and he shouldn't, really, but he does anyway. blood, pentagram, candles, he feels silly and then he feels sillier when the demon who appears is - is cute as hell. what the heck. he didn't order that. oh shit.

Ahhhh Demon!Newt!!! I started writing this on my lunch break bc i couldn’t wait. Read it here or read it on Ao3

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Who you should fight: Shadowhunters edition
  • Clary: she's tiny and might seem an easy target, but she's also a shadowhunter and generally filled with rage. A very careful approach is advised
  • Simon: you could fight Simon. Even as a vampire, he's pretty harmless. You could take him, although I'm not sure why you'd want to hurt this cinnamon roll. Just be aware you'll have a clan of vampires and a few shadowhunters out for your head if you do
  • Jace: not a good idea. Don't fight Jace. The only chance you'd have is to attack him when he's too deep in his self-loathing to notice you approaching, and even then you would only get a punch or two before he breaks every bone in your body
  • Isabelle: do NOT fight Isabelle Lightwood. She'll wreck you and you will look up from the ground, lying in a pool of your own blood, wondering why you decided to anger this beautiful, warrior goddess, as she smirks at you, and you'll think that no death will be sweeter than the one where you can look upon her face
  • Alec: don't fight Alec. Even if you do manage to beat him, which is very unlikely but let's say for a second you do beat him somehow, you'll have to face his enraged siblings and his boyfriend, and that's not a situation you can come out of alive
  • Magnus: are you kidding me. Do you wanna fucking die buddy. Because that's a High Warlock, he'll atomize you and send your remains in the deepest, darkest reaches of Hell by snapping his fingers as he drinks his cocktail in his armchair. And magic aside, have you seen those arms? Dude is ripped, I wouldn't want to get punched by him. Also, look at you, there's an arrow in your knee, wonder how it got there
  • Raphael: bad idea. Don't fight Raphael. He's a vampire and has biceps that could make his shirts explode
  • Luke: why the fuck would you fight Luke. You'll lose, and hasn't this guy been through enough already? Give this dad a break, Jeez
  • Lydia: you probably shouldn't. We haven't seen that much of her fighting, but I have the feeling it won't end well for you
  • Valentine: well, I'm rooting for you but you're gonna be dead before you even reach him, torn to shreds by all of his followers. Although if you do manage to reach him, then please hit him for me too before he guts you

pokemaniacgemini  asked:

Is it bad that I feel bad for Anti? It's just, he reminds me of myself when I was younger. I was troubled and I lashed out to get attention. I was lonely. And I feel like...if that's why Anti keeps acting up, shouldn't we be trying to help him? I think he just needs a friend. Idk maybe I'm projecting but that's how I feel.

can we start a hug train for that glitchy bean please and thanks?

Types and their biggest red flag in a potential partner
  • ISTP: "I heard the juiciest gossip today! X cheated on Y with Z!"
  • ESTP: "I'm super passive. Why take initiative?"
  • INTP: " Why did it take you so long to answer my text?"
  • ENTP: "Oh my God you can't say that!"
  • INFP: "A homeless guy asked me for change. I told him to get a job."
  • ENFP: "People should never question authority."
  • ISFP: "I think art and music classes shouldn't be mandatory."
  • ESFP: "I don't like the fact you spend so much time with other people."
  • ISFJ: "Yeah I used to bully this girl in high school. But she was weird and smelled bad!"
  • ESFJ: "We shouldn't help that guy. Let's not get involved."
  • ISTJ: "I didn't feel like going to work today so I called in and said I was sick lol."
  • ESTJ: "I know I should've used my money to pay my rent but that dress was in sale and soo gorgeous!"
  • INTJ: "I don't know what I want from my future. I never really thought about it."
  • ENTJ: "I hate commitment. I can't imagine going steady with anyone. I cheated on my last spouse."
  • INFJ: "I'm super opportunistic. It's your own fault if you get trampled."
  • ENFJ: "You're too sensitive. Stop crying."

Ok but we have to be missing something regarding this storyline like…

Rebecca being pregnant, Robert being the dad, Aaron forgiving him and wanting to support him, like it’s all too easy?? like where’s the drama in that???

I’m sure we’re still missing something / some twist will occur at some point.

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anonymous asked:

Ok so Draco isn't a good guy, but he's not a bad one either. I don't love him, but I like him waaaay more than Snape. I just think he's one of those people who has goods and bads. He's not evil, but he doesn't have a heart of gold. He shouldn't be glorified or shamed. He's just a person. With strengths and flaws, he's a person. And that's how I feel about Draco.

Okay but this is what I don’t get; why do people glorify draco and hate snape? Like you said, draco has flaws, many of which I can’t forgive, but I don’t understand why people act like that’s so different to snape?

To be honest, I don’t like either of them, but I don’t understand why it’s taboo to like snape but everybody adores draco?? I get that draco can be forgiven more easily because he’s a child but like… if voldemort was still at large while draco was an adult he would have been just as shitty as snape. Or if draco had to work undercover at hogwarts, he’d be a dickhead to harry’s kids just like snape was to harry

Neither of them are good guys but I think the fandom is unjustified in its glorification of draco while furiously condemning other characters 

anonymous asked:

Hoe story kinda?: so basically I lost my virginity this year (I'm a freshman in college) to my friends roommate. He was wayyy out of my league and had been flirting with me hardcore. The one night we were both kinda buzzed and he just randomly kissed me and I ended up sucking his dick and riding him all night. I was also hella nervous cause I hadn't shaved down there and was self conscious but he said I looked beautiful and I shouldn't hook up with a guy who makes me feel bad about that!

Yaaasss 👏🏻👏🏻😭

anonymous asked:

No offense to you for being a Jake fan or complaining about Yvonne because I get it, but why are all the Jake fans complaining about Yvonne and calling her a witch and other things that girls shouldn't say about each other when Sean fans 🙋🏼have his ex who is a literal queen constantly talking aboutt how she planned her life with him and getting to feel like you've wronged her? And the best part is most of the fandom ships them even though they didn't have trust

Hmm… yeah I can see that. The hypocrisy … but IDK we just feel awful and I didn’t even think how bad Sean fans must feel

anonymous asked:

Do you have any tips on how to leave an abusive boyfriend? And not as in, how to leave safely but more as: how to not get back to him? I know he is bad for me and I know I have to leave I'm just worried I'll go back to him bc I love him a lot (even though I shouldn't).

It can be really difficult to let our hearts catch up to our heads when we know someone is trouble for us. Our emotions can lead us back into bad situations. What you’re doing right now is buying your heart time to catch up. 

First thing I would suggest would be to talk to a trusted friend. Let them know about the abuse, and tell them that even though you know you shouldn’t, you still feel the urge to return. Then, working with this friend, make a list of different incidents where your ex was abusive. Physical abuse, social isolation, verbal abuse, belittling you, destroying your property, sabotaging your life, anything that he has done. Write it down, make it a document. And then what I want you to do is keep a copy for yourself, and to give a copy to your friend. 

Now when you start to feel like you miss him, the first thing you should do is distract yourself. Hang out with friends or family, cook yourself something nice, indulge in your favorite movie, play with a pet. Oftentimes, that will kick your mind out of that mode. And if that doesn’t work, you have that list to go back to. The bad things he did, the things your mind attempts to forget, minimize, or excuse. And if that doesn’t work, you need to call your friend. Your friend has that list, and loves you. Ask her to talk to you about those things and assure you that anyone who did that to you does NOT love you, and WILL hurt you again. Abusers don’t change, not to someone they abused. That really is just the truth of it. 

And if you can, erase all ways you have of contacting him. Block his number and delete it from your phone. Block him on all social media. Ask your friends not to mention him, and if they won’t do so, tell them you might have to block them too for a while. Do your best to erase him from your everyday life. Throw out any clothes of his. Get rid of things he gave you. Delete the old text messages (or save them to a thumb drive you give the friend if you need them legally), burn the letters, drive him from your life like he is a demon that you need to drive from your home. Tell your mind, tell your house, tell your social circles: he does not live here. He is not welcome here. 

He can’t be trusted not to hurt you. Treat him the same way you would if he hurt your best friend, or your sister. 

anonymous asked:

That moment when Cole Sprouse said in an interview not to feel too bad about Jughead's homelessness and I'm just sat there thinking 'Well maybe you shouldn't have made him look so damn sad, Cole'

Oh my god what 😂 I need to look for this interview! But yeah, Juggie looked so cut up about it :(