i should stop but i'd rather not

  • me: if u feel anxiety after every time u have an argument with someone, maybe u should stop... doing that so much
  • me at every event: heterosexuality is a myth, the electoral college is racist, objectifying dudes is a fun hobby to do with ur friends, here is a list of every historical figure who wronged me, i've never seen breaking bad and i am 100% sure i hate it, do u remember when u pretended to like radiohead because i do and i'm still furious that shit is boring and i'd rather listen to my shitty microwave yell than thom yikes, also bite me

anonymous asked:

Show!Ursa: would very much like her daughter to behave like a "lady", laughs about burning a city to the ground, calls her daughter a monster when she thinks she's not listening, murders the Fire Lord. Comics!Ursa: plays in the backyard, doesn't like hearing about violence or war, is all understandable about her new daughter's behavior, would never murder a fly. Same character?

Originally posted by reaction-resource-center

XD had to.

Ursa was ambiguous enough in the show, you know. You had no idea whether she really loved Azula or not (then the comics do next to nothing to prove that she does, so good going, Yang, thanks for proving Azula right), you had no idea what her political alignments were, and ALSO, you don’t have ANY signs of Ursa not getting along with her husband? LITERALLY. All you know is that she’s not exactly going to shout around that she wants Ozai to be Fire Lord. This can either mean that she was hiding her support of him in that endeavor, (because ffs you can’t conspire about something like a coup and yell about it, Azula, but I guess you’re really young so we let it slide), or that she didn’t support it at all, of course.

Comics, though: no love for Azula confirmed (one kiss when she’s asleep that to me amounts to NOTHING because Azula had no idea it happened), still no real sign that she didn’t like the Fire Nation’s war but she is shown as a victim to, uh, the Fire Nation system because she’s been forced to marry Ozai. So you’re supposed to think that because the Fire Nation traditions made her miserable, she mustn’t like their ways. And because she was forced to marry Ozai, then obviously this must be a horrible marriage from start to end! Despite, uh, the show always had Zuko talking about times when their family was happy, suggesting the relationship deteriorated over time…? :’D

I’m not saying forced marriage should be shown as good, fact is, this trope is seldom portrayed at its worst by fanfiction and um, Yang kinda writes like fanfiction so well, at least I won’t fault him for showing that forced marriage can end badly. But he makes forced marriage awful to the absolute EXTREME by making Ozai horribly controlling, jealous, cruel and whatnot. I know I have what may amount to the most favorable perception of Ozai ever, but I don’t think this was necessary at all. It was just to turn Ursa into an even more victimized mess? Isn’t Ozai bad enough with what he did to Zuko already? Him being an average husband would have never ruled out the harm he has done to his children, but no, Yang makes him a thousand times worse than necessary and instead of letting him keep the teeny tiny bit of depth that he DID have in the show (see him sitting at the turtle-duck pond by himself after Ursa is gone, in the exact same spot she always was at, suggesting that it affects him that she’s gone), Yang makes it so he treats Ursa like crap and just uses her as the means to become Fire Lord via Azulon’s murder. Like, sorry, but I like my Urzai a lot more complex and interesting than “he was soooo bad and she was soooo good but soooo sad and he made her suffer sooo much!”

Long story short, I have no respect for comics’ Ursa for all her decisions and her behavior, but the show’s Ursa, thanks to that wonderful ambiguity from where you can actually build something very complex, where she can have agency, where she can KICK OZAI’S ASS BY PROVING SHE HAS MORE BRAINS THAN HIM…! *heavy breathing* Seriously, though, show Ursa has potential. I’ll never love her, but at least she’s worth writing about.

I really found @loopy777’s essay on the Two Ursas is a great read. If you haven’t read it yet, I’m sure you’d enjoy it, Anon.

Avengers Chatroom: Hold The Door
  • A/N: Game of thrones spoilers, if you haven't seen the latest episodes.
  • Clint has created a chatroom.
  • Clint has invited Y/N, Tony, Steve, Nat, Bucky, Sam, Wanda, Vision.
  • Clint: Hold the door.
  • Y/N: Clint no.
  • Clint: Hold the door.
  • Nat: Don't start.
  • Clint: Hold the door.
  • Nat: I spent an entire mission with you saying this. Bye.
  • Nat has left the chat.
  • Wanda: SPOILERS! NO.
  • Wanda has left the chat.
  • Clint: Hold the door.
  • Steve: do you need help with the door? I don't understand? Are you locked out?
  • Y/N: No Steve, he's referencing game of thrones. :(
  • Steve: Oh I missed a few episodes.
  • Clint: Hold the door.
  • Bucky: Steve you should go watch them and then come back to the chat.
  • Steve: but he's not even spoiling it, buck.
  • Y/N: sigh
  • Clint: Hold the door.
  • Tony: It's a shame he died, I liked him. :(
  • Steve: who died?????
  • Clint: Hold the door.
  • Y/N: Steve, leave. Spoilers are coming.
  • Sam: I hate white walkers. Man, I'd rather face the hulk than those things.
  • Clint: HOLD THE DOOR.
  • Clint: HOLD THE DOOR.
  • Bucky: HOLD THE DOOR!!!
  • Steve: What the hell is going on?
  • Y/N: I warned you.
  • Clint: HODOR!!!
  • Sam: HODOR!!!
  • Bucky: HODOR!!!
  • Steve: wait a second
  • Steve has left the chat.
  • Y/N: ... Well
  • Tony: HE SWORE!
  • Sam: That was so worth it. Don't care if he throws his shield at me.
  • Bucky: I'll protect you, Y/N
  • Clint: ohohoho what have we here
  • Y/N: shut up, don't you have a nest to build
  • Clint: you wound me :(
  • Y/N has left the chat.
  • Clint has left the chat.
  • Bucky: I'm going to check on Steve.
  • Tony: No, I will.
  • Bucky: he's MY friend.
  • Tony: he's MY FRIEND AS WELL.
  • Sam: lol u losers I'm ALREADY WITH STEVE. MY BEST FRIEND.
  • Sam has left the chat.
  • Bucky has left the chat.
  • Tony has left the chat.
  • Vision: Wait... Hodor dies? NOOOOOOO!
  • Vision has left the chat.
  • *the lab*
  • Sherlock: *sulking*
  • Molly: *working* It's all in your head, you know.
  • Sherlock: *frowns* No. He's got it in for me.
  • Molly: *chuckles* He's a cat.
  • John: *confused* What's the matter?
  • Molly: *rolls her eyes* Oh, Sherlock's declared war on Toby. He thinks he hates him. I've told you not to antagonise him.
  • Sherlock: *through gritted teeth* And I've told you, when we're in bed, the only pussy I want to see is the one beneath your nightie.
  • John: *mortified* I swear to GOD.
  • Sherlock: Swear all you like; won't stop being true.

anonymous asked:

Can people plz stop giving koogi so much shit. Like she said that her doctors recommended months of time off but guess what, she's only taking a week off. And if you're so pissed about it, then bye have fun not reading ks. I'm fine waiting about week honestly, I'd much rather have a decent chapter than something that is rushed and messy because she's trying to please the impatient fans. So if you're so upset, then don't come back.

I think any medical condition should be excused regardless whether they deserve it or not!!!! A doctor even said Koogi’s condition is bad enough to have months rest!!!!! If she ends up worsening her eyes for us I’d be guilty forever

anonymous asked:

I hate my kid, I don't tell them that but I feel so overwhelmingly disappointed when I have to be around them, I'm afraid I'm going to snap one day and tell them how I really feel. How can I stop feeling this way about them? It gets so bad I'd rather kill myself than spend another minute with them

hah okay uh im going to be as objective as i possibly can here, but seeing as you’ve sent this to a blog for abused children and specifically asking advice from a victim of different types of child abuse, this may not be entirely unbiased or kind. 

if this is a baby/toddler that you gave birth to, you might be going through postpartum depression. it’s quite common. if this is the case for you, you should seek a doctor/therapist for a diagnosis and proper treatment. 

if what was previously stated does not apply to you, then you need to get therapy immediately. your child does not deserve a parent that hates them. they deserve better than that. and frankly, if this persists, they deserve better than you.

if you go to therapy and find that you still “hate” your child, then do the kid a favor and set them up with a loving home. you shouldn’t have had a child if you weren’t prepared to care for and love it, but i don’t know the backstory here, so maybe it wasn’t entirely up to you. 

you need to make sure that the child is in a loving home even if that home is not with you, you owe them that much. i would apologize for my harshness, but i honestly don’t think that is necessary due to the statement made at the beginning of this answer. i hope your child finds the loving home that they deserve.

anonymous asked:

you know, i miss old cartoons, because, once they modernize them, they're just.... ugh, u know, here, i'll show you- *shows things like teen titens go, and the original to compare* belive me, you're not missing that much. they even made the new mickey mouse this way, so i'd rather you not change.

… That does look bad. Maybe he should stick to black and white.

Still, it doesn’t stop Bendy’s envy for those that have managed for so long, unlike him. Even when their reincarnations were nothing compared to what they used to be, the little demon couldn’t help but think they had it much easier than he does.

But him, that was a different story.

Let that rat die in the garbage where he belongs.

Pendulums and Spirits

Witchy life update: I’m back at home for the weekend, which is really nice. I finally got myself a lighter, too, so I can actually light my own candles (though my parents kept asking me if I smoked because apparently if you own a lighter = you’re a smoker, when literally all I do is light candles and incense). Idk if they believe me or not buuuuuuut 😅

I lit a candle the other night and suddenly the flame became much brighter and I had the feeling of there being spirits who wanted to communicate with me. So I sat down and cleared my head, and WHOOOOSH HOLY SHIT.

My room was FULL OF SPIRITS.

It was like being in a crowded room and you can’t hear anything except for the constant chatter in your head. I was trying to pick out voices and people and it was just like this giant gathering of a bunch of spirits I know, a god or two, and other random spirits (to be fair, my room at home isn’t warded and my energy is basically like a beacon for spirits).

So I got out my pendulum and decided to ask some specific yes/no questions to make my life easier. And let me tell you, never in my life has my pendulum responded so quickly and so clearly. It was swinging back and forth and literally vibrating with energy. My candle was flickering and going crazy.

It was nice because I got some very clear answers to my questions but good gods the spirit chatter in my head didn’t stop until I fell asleep.

So, uh, I guess the moral of the story is that pendulums work really well when there’s a shit ton of spirits around?? Or that you should ward your room if you want to get a decent night’s sleep (probably the latter).

Anyone else have any weird spirit experiences where there were just a lot of spirits around and it got pretty overwhelming?


anonymous asked:

I don't mean to sound rude but you're the reason I'm depressed. Like it wasn't even like you're writing. You just have a cancerous presence on here and I hope you realize that you should stop. Stop trying to be nice because we all know that you aren't, stop trying to be funny because you're not! I'd block you but you're friends are pretty cool so I'd rather not be hit with that hate. But please just leave our happy fandom alone and take your cancerous content elsewhere! thanks <3

oh, ok

I’ll just go, I’m sorry for any pain I caused you, you deserve to be happy

To the multiple anons who sent me asks yesterday telling me that I need to unfollow / stop reblogging from a particular tumblr blog:

Can you please provide specific details of what the issue is?  Simply telling me to stop because that person is “bad” or “a thief” or that I should google it isn’t really helpful.  Especially since when I google a popular blog name all I get are hundreds of posts from that same blog.  

You may all have very good reasons for telling me to stop following this person.  But I have also seen multiple occasions where nameless faceless people on the internet start a campaign against a specific person or blog and then other people hop on board without doing their due diligence to determine independently whether or not the rumors and accusations are true.  

I need details.  Give me some verifiable information and examples of issues and I will absolutely review the information myself.  But in the absence of specific information – all I have are strangers hidden behind an anonymous ask whose motivations are unknown telling me to take action for reasons I don’t understand.  That’s not something I feel comfortable with. 

/ i'd rather be sad with you, than anywhere away from you

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topazlight  asked:

Oops I stopped reading the list like halfway through but also 40 is one I'd be immensely interested in hearing your answer to.

Whatโ€™s that? How would I fixย Crisis Core? Wow you caught me completely off-guard on this subject I clearly have never thought about before, guess youโ€™ll have to bear with me!

Prequels in general should contribute context and understanding rather than just a series of things that happened, and Crisis Core did not do that. It wasnโ€™t very good at being about anything, when it should have been pretty clearly about one thing: Shinra is terrible, and working for them is a spiritually and morally corrosive experience, regardless of how apparently decent you are as an individual.ย 

In VII we see Shinra kick a puppy every couple hours, but their real bone-chilling atrocities all stem from a complete disregard for life beyond that which is exploitable. Their real damage is expressed through the characters we meet that they have destroyed. A prequelโ€™s the perfect place to look at that in greater depth, and from the inside.ย 

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  • *a lab, somewhere in Scotland*
  • Sherlock: *on the phone* Now what?
  • Sherlock: *looking through the microscope* Yes, I'm lying down.
  • Sherlock: *adjusts the dials* I think the red one today *rolls his eyes* No, dear, I'm not telling you what to wear.
  • Sherlock: *frowns* Noooo, I just don't see the point. I'm having you naked either way *pauses* why? I am excited!
  • John: *looks up from his work*
  • Sherlock: *writing down his findings* Yes, my hands are touching you, too.
  • Sherlock: *squints through the lens* Yes, those too *raises an eyebrow* Are you sure I'm needed?
  • ...
  • Sherlock: *confused* Talk to you about what? *pauses* It's just my voice, Molly *another pause* I did say your name, Molly. Why do you want me to keep saying your name?
  • John: *looking around*
  • Sherlock: *sighs* No, dearest, I'm not trying to ruin- my tongue where? *smirks* Molly, you wicked woman.
  • John: *horrified* What the hell are you doing?
  • Sherlock: *waves a hand* Already? Hmm, a new record.
  • John: *gaping* For God's sake, stop it! What is the matter with you?
  • Sherlock: *covers the phone* I'm on the phone, John, don't be rude.
  • John: *traumatised*
  • me: i personally don't mind blarke, i'd just rather have a revolutionary f/f couple than the same story told a million times, and i rather like bellamy and clarke as friends, but ship who you want
  • me: just kidding i hate blarke

anonymous asked:

I honestly believe that people getting angry will never stop, I saw a post about a girl saying people should only play what they are; i.e: cis playing cis and trans playing trans and gay playing gay. But I mean, that is really stupid... People can play whatever character they CAN play, I mean, I'd rather see a straight woman playing a lesbian if she is a good actress than I would a good lesbian being a bad actress... It's a MOVIE and we should maybe worry IDK about real life for a change?

I agree.

I think that people need to stop putting so much effort into who’s playing the trans characters and focus instead on how the characters and their experiences are being portrayed.

From the trailers, About Ray and The Danish Girl look like they are going to show genuine trans experiences. I’m definitely looking forward to that, regardless of the main actors’ gender identities.

(* &&. group chat ;; hell raisers )
  • Shae: Okay, look. I usually would rather not do this, but I think we should all talk???? Because apparently I have truths to tell you. Chandler said, and I'm directly quoting here,
  • Shae: "(I'd) probably have fewer issues in my life if (I) stopped falling in love with everything that moves and actually fucking talked to the people in (my) life for a goddamn change."
  • Shae: So that's what we're doing. Talking and airing out things (mainly so Cassie can stop holding them over my head but also in hopes that this will decrease the amount of issues I have in my life)
  • Shae: Also, apparently I need to make an appointment to see Tatum now
  • Shae: I told Chandler, "Hey, can I talk to Tate, it's kind of a matter of my life and death"
  • Shae: And he literally rolls his eyes, gives me a magazine, and tells me to take a fucking number