i should not find this as pretty as i do tbh

anonymous asked:

You seem to be really good at advice, and I was wondering whether you have any advice on dealing with nosy people/people who pressure you in to doing things that you're not comfortable talking about? I find it difficult to change the topic/answering the question without answering it. Is there anything you do it avoid these awkward situations? I feel like I should ask why they feel obligated to know, but I'm sure they'd keep pestering me about stuff like that in the future. I try and avoid (1/2)

them as much as possible, but it’s difficult when you share the same class’ or change seats etc (2/2)

Hii! :)

Ugh, I feel you, nosy people are my least favorite kind of people, tbh. Especially the ones that you don’t even know that well, yet they feel like it’s totally okay to interrogate you.

Now I gotta say that I’m a pretty blunt person in real life actually, lol! I have plenty of patience with friends/family, but otherwise, I’m a rather private person and if you’re sticking your nose where it shouldn’t be, you’ll know when it’s time to stop talking to me. :p 

But I totally get that not everyone’s like that, and you might find it difficult to flat out tell someone (or even just let them know with short, dismissive answers, like I usually do) “this doesn’t concern you, and I don’t feel comfortable talking about this”, but nonetheless, you have every right to do so. 

If you tell a friend or family member this, surely they’ll understand, and if you tell anyone else that you aren’t really close to at all, it means that it wasn’t their business in the first place. 

Never feel guilty or bad or awkward for not wanting to share your entire life story with anyone who happens to be curious, or to politely let them know. 

Another great tip: The thing about people is, no matter how nosy they are, for most human beings it’s in their nature that they can’t resist talking about themselves when given the chance. As much as they want to know stuff about you, a lot of folks are big fans of talking about their own weekly drama even more.

So whenever someone fires one of those questions at you, what works all the time (for me at least), is the wonderful line “idk, what about you?”, or “meh, what about you?” and the chances are that when given the opportunity, they’ll take the bait, and you’ll easily turn the conversation around for it to focus on them. 

But hey, I’m afraid there’s no way to avoid these kind of situations altogether, sadly. I hope this helped a little though! 

anonymous asked:

Do you have any parallel gifs about things Damon does for Bonnie that he doesn't do for Elena i.e. carrying Bonnie bridal style? If not, could you make one (pretty pleaseeeee)

Hmm, Damon actually has carried Elena bridal style a couple times, to be fair. 

I think the things Damon has with Bonnie that he doesn’t have with Elena are more along the emotional scale… that easy intimacy, the way he reaches out to her and talks to her about things that he’s scared to tell Elena. Along those lines, I remember someone did make a gifset comparing Damon telling the story of 1994 to Bonnie vs. Elena. 

With Bonnie, he told her the whole thing, the good bad and ugly, up to and including that Stefan basically called him irredeemable and how he retaliated by murdering everyone including pregnant Gail. With Elena afterwards, he glossed over it, never mentioning Gail and saying that he couldn’t really remember why he’d been so angry with Stefan.

I can’t find the gifset, oops. If I do stumble across it, I’ll add it here.

anonymous asked:

hey, could you give a brief tutorial on how you made this gifset /post/129789289845/the-world-is-a-dangerous-place-not-because-of ?? or at least what i should look up to find a tutorial for a gifset like that? thank you :))

hey :) ok since i promised ages ago that i will post this tutorial and i never did, i’ll do it now. if this is confusing i apologize, feel free to message me about anything, english is not my first language and i’m bad at explaining things, but i included a lot of pictures so i hope it’s going to be ok. and also i’m pretty sure there are easier ways to do this, but this is how i do it. so anyway, i’m gonna explain how i made these two gifs, or at least try to :) here is gifset, all other gifs are made pretty much the same way. so, 

1. from this

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2. and from this

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I know I make a ton of jokes about Chaol just whining about Dorian throughout his entire novel but you know what I want that should be realistic that isn’t?

I want Chaol and Nesryn’s romance to be drawn out and well developed and not rushed. I want Nesryn going up to Chaol and saying “hey let’s be friends for now to not distract us from our mission.” And Chaol thinking “okay that’s not horrible I can deal” and agreeing.

But actually neither of them can deal and they find themselves sneaking glances at each other and Chaol finally gets her to laugh but immediately regrets it because “what the actual fuck that is the most heavenly sound I’ve ever heard?” I want to see them falling in love and thinking it’s unrequited, the whole damn process. And I want each of them having a “holy shit I’m in love with her/him” moment and not in you-know-who’s “I can’t control my boner” way but in a “I want to spend the rest of my life with this person” way. And then neither of them doing anything about it because they’re stubborn little shits until the inevitable “oh my god we did something successfully kiss” and then still pretending that it was just adrenaline and we aren’t actually in love hahaha because goddammit I love me a good slow burn and S/JM has been doing just friends-> straight to sex relationships since Chaolaena and I am sick of it

And more importantly than my shipping needs, we need to see Nesryn develop away from Chaol. Like, I dare you to name one Nesryn trait that hasn’t been pointed out by Chaol. You can’t, can you? Let the girl be single. Let her not be stuck in a rushed romance. Let us see how she falls in love with him, because as much as I would totally fall for him if I was a str8, we have gotten no explanation as to how or when or why she fell in love with him, and I’d like to think we aren’t quite there yet and we get to see her by herself. Separate her from Chaol and let her blossom.

And the sad part is, we most likely won’t get any of this. Idk if anyone else read the WHSmith short story but it was them having almost-sex on a boat and then Nesryn giving him advice, because you know, she isn’t good for anything else 🙄. I wouldn’t be surprised if it stayed that way for the whole book, knowing this author.

BTS Demon/Gang AU

Author’s Note: So back a while ago when I first started this blog, I posted a BTS demon/gang au called Meraki(idek why I picked that name tbh) I came back to it last night, and decided that my writing had improved so I should try to re-vamp it! This is still one of my first tries doing first person, though, so sorry for any mistakes! Also, though I try to keep my fanfiction pretty gender-neutral most of the time, this protagonist is pretty obviously female, so I’m sorry if that annoys anyone. That all said, enjoy!:3

Members in this part: Yoongi

Word Count: 1646

Originally posted by yoongijae

Part One|Psychopath Perverts

You know, I really hate parties. I’m not entirely sure what the reason is. Maybe I don’t find watching random girls drunkenly flirt with every male in sight as entertaining as others. Maybe I don’t want to slowly become deaf from the crappy dance pop blaring in my ears. Maybe it’s because of my glaringly obvious social ineptitude. Either way, they suck major ass.

There’s also the psychopath perverts. Yeah, they kinda suck ass too…

XxX

Shitfuck. Fuckshit. Fuckity fuckity fuckshit.”

These and many other glorious word-combinations fly through my panicked mind as I stumble my way down a dark alley, my crazy stalker mere seconds behind. Why I had decided an abandoned alleyway was a good escape rout I will never understand; but hey, you try running away from a psychopath in a tiny dress and a pair of heels, and see if your mind still works. “Stay away from me you freak!” I shriek behind me, angrily removing my heels and throwing one back at him.

Yeah Y/N, throw insults and a shoe at the bad guy. That outta stop him for sure. Sigh.

Of course, my brilliant plan fails miserably, as the shoe bounces harmlessly off of his chest-what, is he made of steel or some shit?!-and he laughs at my pathetic attempt at an attack on both his ego and face. “Aw cmon baby, you know you want me,” he shouts back drunkenly, continuing the chase.

Okay no. Ew. Nope City. I resist the urge to vomit as I turn the alleys corner, breathing heavily as my bare feet slap against the damp pavement. “Curse my being so out of shape! I swear I gotta hit the gym when I get out of this. If I get out of this alive that is. Wait, what the fuck am I thinking about the gym for? Agh!”

I’m so lost in my own crazy thoughts that I don’t notice the wall in front of me until I run headfirst into it. I exclaim some more choice words as I clutch a now surely bleeding nose. I was at a dead end; no side roads, no escape.

Like I said before: Shitfuck.

I whip back around to face my pursuer head on as he rounds the corner, holding the heel end of my shoe out like a dagger. “Don’t come any closer!” I exclaim, fighting to keep my voice steady as my nose blood oozes between my fingers and down the back of my hand. My pursuer-fuck I just realized I have no clue what his name is…I guess we’ll call him Mr. Pervert Guy-ignores my threat and advances closer. “If you come any closer I swear I’ll…I’ll…”

Wait, shit, what was I going to do?

Mr. Pervert Guy seems to follow my train of thought, a wide grin spreading across his face. “You’ll what? Shoe me to death?” He throws back his head in a maniacal laugh.

Wow. The only thing missing in this shit show is some lightning and a crack of thunder.

I throw my heel down and back myself against the wall, trying to keep as much blood in my nose as possible. I resort to the only thing I can think of to keep him distracted; shit talking. “Wel,l what are you gonna do huh? I don’t see any weapons on you.”

Mr. Pervert Guy freezes in place, cocking his head to the side. For a moment, I think I have him, but his evil smile quickly returns. “Oh, that’s right, you don’t know what I am.”

“Uuuh…a creepy pervert trying to kill me and use my body for his own needs? I figured we were on the same page here buddy.”

Mr. Pervert Guy rolls his eyes. “No, idiot, I’m a demon.” He puts particular emphasis on the last word, his lips pulling back in a snarl. “A demon with a job to do…though I might do those things too…”

Oh great. Not only did I get a psychopath pervert; I got a psychopath pervert who thinks he’s a demon. Just my luck. I still keep up my shit talking act, glancing over Mr. P’s shoulder every once in a while to see if anyone is coming to rescue me. “Oh really? And what exactly is that job, demon boy?”

This time, he looks genuinely confused. “Wait, you are Y/N Y/L/N right?” he asks.

He knows my last name? How the hell does he know my last name? Or even my first name for that matter? I’m only able to nod my head in response. Mr. P seems completely dumbstruck,staring at me in confusion. “You don’t even know what you are, do you?” he asks, his voice barely above a whisper. I can only stare back in utter confusion. What I am? What does that even mean? I don’t get the chance to ask him, as he quickly shakes his head, the darkness back in his eyes full force. “It doesn’t matter. Only makes killing you that much easier,” he growls. “Now, come quietly and I promise I’ll make this quick.”

“I don’t think that will be necessary Akira.”

The voice had come from somewhere above me. Mr. P’s-or I guess now Akira’s- head shoots up toward the voice, and his lips pull back in a snarl. “What the hell are you doing here, Yoongi?” he asks, glaring somewhere above my head.

I follow his gaze to see a figure perched on the wall above me, their face cast in shadow. I stumble away from the wall, my eyes never leaving the shadowy stranger. Slowly they stand and drop from the wall, landing softly on their feet and stepping into the yellow of the streetlight. His dark brown eyes glance at me for only a moment before landing on Akira, his face breaking into a lazy smile. “Oh ya know, just wandering around as usual.” His eyes land on me again and he cocks his head to the side. “You scream quite loud you know.” He suddenly launches into a horrible impression of my screams; when he laughs his silver hair shakes, catching the light.

“Okay, did you come here to do lousy impressions of me, or save my ass?” I ask, my voice muffled behind my hand.

I catch a mad glint in Yoongi’s eyes. “Both,” he says with a wink. He gently pushes me aside as he approaches Akira, who growls again and cracks his knuckles. “A bit pathetic Akira, preying on helpless humans like this. Don’t you have something better to do with your time?”

Oh great, so this one’s a nutjob too.

“I don’t know if you’ve noticed, idiot, but she’s not a human.”

I couldn’t help it, my snarkiness comes out again. “Oh, well good thing I have you around since you seem to know so much about me. Creep.”

Akira’s glare falls on me again. “Shut up bitch,” he growls between gritted teeth.

Yoongi watches us with an amused smile, his hands in his pockets. “See. Why did you have to speak up?” he says, looking toward me. I open my mouth to give another snarky remark but jump when I hear Akira let out a yelp before falling to the ground, clutching his jaw. Yoongi stands over him, and when he speaks, his voice is eerily calm. “Now I have to fight him because he tried to kill you and called you a bitch.” He kneels down, grabbing Akira by the hair and yanking his head back, shaking his head. “Tsk tsk Akira. Don’t you know that’s just adding insult to injury?”

Blood streams from Akira’s nose down his chin, but he seems completely unfazed. “Go to fucking hell Yoongi.”

Yoongi chuckles darkly, leaning forward so he can whisper in Akira’s ear. I only just catch what he says. “No thanks man, once was good enough.” He pulls his fist back and punches Akira one more time, effectively rendering him unconscious. He places his head down on the pavement and pats him gently, pushing himself to his feet and brushing off his hands. When he turns to me the mad glint is gone from his eyes. He takes a few cautious steps toward me but I stumble back. He raises an eyebrow and smirks. “You’re really going to back away from me when I just saved your tiny human ass from a crazy demon?” he asks.

Okay, does he know how crazy he sounds right now? Because he sounds really fucking crazy right now.

I try to keep some distance between me and Yoongi. “Okay first of all, demons don’t exist and if you think they do, you’re just as crazy as Mr.-uh I mean, Akira. Second of all, you just knocked some dude out in like two punches, and third of all I’ve dealt with enough crazy nutjobs in this one night to last me a fucking lifetime okay?!”

I can feel my pitch rising as I rant, my voice finally cracking on the final word as angry tears begin to stream down my face. Great; I hate crying in front of people. For a moment, Yoongi seems unsure of what to do; when he speaks his voice is considerably softer. “Look, I understand what you went through tonight really scared you. I can also completely understand why you wouldn’t believe me. But you’re standing here at…” he pulls back his sleeve and glances at his watch before looking back up at me “two in the morning, cold, bare-footed, and scared with a bloody nose; and considering you’re out here alone, I’m going to assume you don’t have any friends I can bring you to or a ride home. So, just…lemme help you okay?” He holds out a hand, looking at me pleadingly.

I only pause for a moment to mull over what crazy shit I’m doing, before taking it.

I love the prologue bad ending so much tbh. yeah I am a girl, not a boy, so I don’t sound exactly like him, but honestly he uses so many effects during this part that it doesn’t even matter . It’s practically not my voice anymore. Anyway, if you wanna see more from me like this, I’d love to hear suggestions.

Transcript Under cut (Cuz that distorted voice oh damn. Also I ended up not voicing MC cuz i sounded weird as her lol)

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nicolejoee  asked:

How do you come up with your names for your sims? They're so different and fit them so well, and I always seem to find myself looking up the baby book online to find "fun" and "creative" names.

most of my sims’ names are objects, months, days, colors, fruits, plants, bodies of water, constellations, tbh anything that i think is pretty

i think that’s how names should be decided, if you like it and it has a nice meaning, then that’s good enough for me :)

i’ve seen a lot of people commenting on how dan talked about cute anime boys and celebrities but hasn’t actually “come out” yet, and while i do agree that it would be cool for him to support the lgbtqa+ community by identifying himself as being a part of it (assuming he is to some degree), i’d like to point out that he’s showing a different sort of support by not saying anything. 

by this point, his youtube channel is fairly mainstream, and he has a lot of people following his videos, actions, and statements, so even for him to imply that he likes boys as well is pretty huge. also, him talking about how he finds guys attractive without actually labeling himself is working towards normalizing those kinds of statements!! 

he shouldn’t have to say “i am bisexual” (or any other label) in order for that to be accepted, and tbh i think more people should just accept what he says as his personal opinions and not pressure him to use any certain labels if he doesn’t feel comfortable, whether he does eventually or if he never chooses to, because people don’t need to “come out” in order for their identities to be valid

I swear choosing which books to buy when you never get the chance to buy books is so overwhelming like im disabled and have zero income occasionally someone will throw me money in exchange for a crocheted thing but most of the time my wallet is full of pennies I find on the ground

So when i DO get the chance to buy books my brain goes into overdrive and second guessing everything because there are SO MANY books I want!! But I also need to plan things out bc some books I want in hardcover others i prefer paperback and some i dont care (which usually means paperback bc cheaper)

I swear one day i will have SOME form of income and this wont be so troublesome _(:3」∠)_

marbles-in-mymouth  asked:

Hi there! First off I just wanted to say congratulations on your weight loss!!!!! I've been trying to lose weight and I haven't been able too. It's so frustrating. Do you mind sharing your meal plan and excercise? It would help a lot!!!!!

I pretty clearly have an eating disorder so this is pretty insensitive tbh. I’m sure that wasn’t your intention so I apologize to come across so harshly but yeah I’m not sugar coating this, do not congratulate strangers for becoming underweight. It’s triggering and it’s not something to be congratulated on.

Use myfitnesspal, eat whatever caloric intake they recommend for your height and weight, drink a lot of water and find an exercise you enjoy doing and do it often. You should be eating over at least 1000 calories a day and I try to drink at least 64 oz of water a day but I shoot for 96. Stay safe and stay healthy!

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get to know me meme [1/10 shows]: Glee (2009-2015)

“It takes a lot of bravery to look around you and see the world not as it is, but as it should be. A world where the quarterback becomes best friends with the gay kid, and the girl with the big nose ends up on Broadway. Glee is about imagining a world like that, and finding the courage to open up your heart and sing about it. That’s what glee club is. And for the longest time, I thought that was silly. And now, I think it’s just about the bravest thing that anyone could do.”

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I do get the tortured-soul roles. I’d like to play a romantic lead, but I don’t necessarily get those offers coming my way. It’s not like I’ve got a chip on my shoulder about it, though, because I’ve been lucky to have filmmakers and casting directors help me just find a freaking job, as well as let me explore good stories and characters.

anonymous asked:

What do you think Shaw's reaction will be if she'd seen root in that girl scout outfit? Immediate jumping? roll eyes and scoff? instant arousal? or a non verbal demand for girl scout cookies? (RQ!anon)

I’m thinking I should start a separate tag for you rq!anon lol :p

But to answer your question, all of these are pretty funny reactions aha :p I think Shaw wouldn’t be particularly surprised tbh & after being away from Root for so long she’d probably also find it endearing because she missed Root and her alias adventures lol

Who to fight in the banana bus squad

VanossGaming: Honestly would you really want to fight a guy who is known as being the buffest of the group?!? I’m not even sure how you would find a reason to fight him but if you did I’m positive he will win and then ask if you’re alright afterwards.

H2O Delirious: You’re really taking a shot in the dark here. If Delirious is anything like he is while gaming in the real world, I would run. It will not end pretty.

Mini Ladd: He works out a lot and always has energy thanks to coffee. You better bring a secret weapon if you want to fight him.

Wildcat: This man is never far from dogs. If you really want to fight be expected to take down a dog or two. That is if you can even somehow beat him first. Good luck with that.

Daithi De Nogla: I have no idea why you would want to fight this precious cinnamon role. Tbh I don’t think you’ll have any problems accept for the extreme guilt after the fight.

Lui Calibre: Nogla’s sure to be nearby filming the whole thing so look your best. On a good day Lui will beat you with no sweat, however if you catch him on a bad day you’ve got a shot.

Moo Snuckel: No. You have to kill me before you can touch Brock.

BasicallyIDoWrk: Ready to fight anytime and won’t go easy on you. He’s probably going to win but you sure will have a ton of fun.

Terroriser: Would be very interesting. He’s sure to have some kind of bad luck while fighting you that gives you a huge advantage. But if that doesn’t happen when he starts talking confident in Arnold’s voice you should give up he’s about to beat you.

And one important thing you have to remember while fighting anyone in the banana bus squad is that if you mess with one you mess with all. Even if you get away with fighting someone be prepared to deal with all of them a day later.