I don't know if you've gotten this question already...but I'm a little with a daddy who seems to be a good daddy, it's just that it seems like I have to push the little space. It's like he doesn't say anything about little space unless I bring it up. Is there anything I can or should do? (Sorry if that was confusing)
Hi there. There are two possibilities that I immediately think of (although there may be more…). First, there might be unequal interest in DD/lg. In other words, you’re really interested in being a Little and engaging in Little Space, but your interest exceeds his. He might be okay with you being a Little, but not really all that excited about it. In those situations, one partner goes along with it to make the other person happy. That sounds sweet, but in the long run, it can cause resentment from the person that feels like they are indulging their partner.
The second possibility is that he’s just having a hard time getting into “Daddy Space” and therefore doesn’t push you to be in Little Space. Just like you get into Little Space, some Daddies have to slip into Daddy space. If he wants to slip into Daddy space more often, you can help with that by being Little around him and engaging him in activities. Simple things like calling him Daddy, asking him for help with “big girl” things, or inviting him to cuddle and watch a Disney movie can all help you slip into Little space and help him feel like a Daddy.
However, at this point, you don’t know what is really going on, and I have no way of knowing if either of these scenarios apply to your Daddy, they are just suggestions. I think you should talk to him and let him be honest about what he wants and feels. Good luck!