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Boyfriend Ramblings Pt. 1

Aight, I weigh 160lbs. And sometimes I feel fat, especially around my 126lb. Boyfriend…. like, maybe it’s just me, but I feel lk my boyfriend should weigh more than me, ya know? But he works out and does track, while I absolutely hate exercise and I love food. Tbh, I don’t care that he’s smaller, I lk his size no matter what, I just have always thought in the back of my mind that this made me a fat gf.

One night, something happened where he was trying to lift me up, but then I apologized for weighing more than him. (Granted, he doesn’t know my actual weight. And idk if he knows I looked at his license to discover his tbh lol) But ya know what, instead of being a butthead, he said, “its ok, I still love you anyways.”

1. Yes, he basically admitted that I weigh more than him. That is not an insult, it is a fact. He is honest with me.

2. He did not in any way call me fat tho.

3. He doesn’t care that I weigh more than him.

4. He loves me AND my size. Even tho I weigh more than him and it is clearly obvious.

So, I just want to say to everyone out there who struggles with body shaming in any way that someday you’re gonna find somebody who doesn’t even give a flip if you weigh more than them, they’re going to love you anyways. :-)

Idk just saw lots of body shaming lately and thought I’d try to help share my story and help others to think more positively? :-)