i should feel ashamed but i'm not

anonymous asked:

I've been questioning whether I like girls and guys for a while but I don't know what to do or if I should come out or just keep it all to myself. Things have been this way since grade 9 & now I'm almost graduating and still unsure of myself. Any advice?

It’s perfectly natural to be curious. Give yourself the opportunity to explore your emotions and your sexuality. You don’t need to share anything with anyone until you’re comfortable or ready, but what you’re feeling right now is nothing to be ashamed of. You’re not alone.

anonymous asked:

I want to show you my fanart of your yuuri's cat version but I'm a huge newbee (?) In art I feel ashamed but I want you to saw it 😔😔😖😖😖😭😭😟😟

You should definitely show it if you’re comfortable! I’d love to see it!

But if you’re nervous it’s okay!

Yuri is nervous too;;

Originally posted by gif-007

….

…Of all the (non-fanmade) stage musicals that I’m a fan of… Wicked. Les Mis. Phantom. Into the Woods. Legally Blonde. Matilda. Jekyll and Hyde. All the ones based on Disney movies, you get the idea.

All of those…. and THIS is the one I automatically do a fanart of. And I haven’t even seen it yet.

That’s how low I’ve sunk, people.

( @kashimalin​ made me do it!!!)

anonymous asked:

Do you have any advice for how to respond to people that are morally opposed to pugs? I have a pug that I adopted from a Pug Rescue when she was 5 and abandoned because the owner "didn't have time for her." I know that breeding pugs for the traits it has been bred for has been unhealthy for the breed, I deal with those pug health issues, but I love my little girl and don't know how to politely tell people to stop assuming I'm a horrible person for having a pug.

Simply telling people that she is a rescue should stop any judgement. People love to criticize without knowing the facts, so there really isn’t anyway around the jerks who insult and leave. But if someone has the decency to actually talk to you, explaining that she was rescued voids out all opposing arguments. 

Owning a Pug isn’t a crime. You must be prepared for their many ailments due to terrible breeding, but outside of that - you shouldn’t feel ashamed to have one.

What should ultimately be avoided is supporting any breeders that continue to breed for the unhealthy traits that make a Pug’s life miserable. In order to steer this breed into the right direction, we have to encourage cross breeding to pick up traits that will lengthen the snout, soften the eyes, strengthen the spine, and flatten out some wrinkles. 

But, alas, Purebred Pug Clubs want their Pugs to remain Pugs and, for the sake of the show ring, won’t be crossbred. And when you talk about cross breeding, you don’t want to fall into a “designer dog” trap either. We’re not looking for Puggles, we’re looking for an outside breed to be introduced temporarily to create healthier offspring that can pass those traits off to their own and still remain “Pugs.” 

All purebred dogs started out as a mix of something anyway, so the idea that they are remaining pure is bs. How many times have I done my fun facts and said “this breed originated from 4 different breeds.” Take Saint Bernards for example 

Since the late 1800s, the St. Bernard breed has been ever refined and improved using many different large Molosser breeds, including the Newfoundland, Great Pyrenees, Greater Swiss Mountain Dog, Bernese Mountain Dog, Great Dane, English Mastiff, and possibly the Tibetan Mastiff and Caucasian Ovcharka. Other breeds such as the Rottweiler, Boxer, and English Bulldog may have contributed to the St. Bernard’s bloodline as well.

So, yeah. Just say she was rescued.

On Charlottesville

I feel like I should be able to say something new. Something innovative. I always do. I’m very good with words, you see. It’s my chosen profession, in a variety of ways.
But this is… Beyond words.
There was a Nazi rally. An actual Nazi rally. In Virginia. People showed their faces. They weren’t ashamed of their actions. They saw nothing wrong with the fact that they were literally shouting “last stop: Auschwitz!” and Heebs and K*ke and “Jews will not replace us!“
Let’s be clear.
The Nazis’ number one target? Jewish people.
The racial slurs in this protest? Antisemitic.
But antisemitism is dead, isn’t it? Gone, finite, came and went with the Holocaust, isn’t it?
Why am I not seeing anybody but Jewish people being OUTRAGED by this?!
I know that I can’t change anything. I know that antisemitism is a fact of life I’m encouraged to ignore and do nothing about. But I’m not one to sit with my eyes closed and my ears shut. I’m not one to pretend horrible things aren’t happening.
Open your eyes.
Open your goddamn eyes.
Because if you don’t, a whole Jewish people is at stake.
Again.

anonymous asked:

I work at a casino as a card dealer, so I'm not allowed to move away from my table. I had a guy, while sat at my table after playing several hands of poker and losing, that everyone working at the casino should feel ashamed for 'stealing' people's money, and that everyone there should be arrested. He then went on to tell me about how every table game is rigged so players always lose, asked me if I was ashamed of myself, and then came back 20min later to play more poker.

People suck.

-Rodney

safe word

I get horny sometimes
mostly I feel more ashamed
than anything else
my sex drive is a cement
block tied around my neck
as I sink in the sea of the unclean

sometimes I want to fuck
a woman so hard that she
forgets her name
she just mouths screams
she forgets how to speak
she just loves me

is it so wrong?
does it make me a freak?
should I just chop my dick
off
&
pray I don’t need it again?

sometimes I get so lonely
I wish to be pulled so deeply
inside of someone that I
never find my way back out
again

I want to be the sunrise
someone wakes up early for
I want to be someone’s
favorite season
I want to feel her most private
essences
on my tongue
on my chin
I want to be something different
than a human being
if only for a few minutes
that won’t be counted
just experienced

I want to be someone’s drug
they can’t quit
I want someone to turn me
into an addict
I want to be the answer
to every question she’s ever had
&
I want to be the reason she
always has a new one to ask

I want to be punched in the chest
I want to be choked until turning
blue is my safe word
I want to be ground into dust
then pieced back together as
best as possible
then I want to be lit on fire
only to be rebuilt again

I want to be a book you read
from cover to cover
&
as soon as the last word is
devoured I want to be read
again

I want to be sacrificed in
the moonlight and haunt you
I want purple bite marks poking
out from my shirt collar that
incites riots in the pants of
other women

maybe I will take them too
maybe I won’t
maybe I only want her or you
maybe I’m too ashamed to
figure out what the fuck to do

I just want to be four posted
reverse cowgirl because I’m
out of metaphor
&
when I’m manic
I’m kind of a whore

that’s okay right?
am I wrong?
am I broken?
am I a demon?

at this point
I don’t care
my only safe
word is don’t
stop
because

I’m drowning
I’m alone

I’m already dead

lilchorizomalparido  asked:

How do you feel about the new healthcare bill they are trying to pass? Do you feel like there should be healthcare for all? I'm worried about people not being covered? Also, what can I do as a citizen to play a roll in making sure the latino community is protected?

I think the Republicans’ healthcare bill, or “TrumpCare,” as I prefer to call it, is a horrible piece of legislation that they should be ashamed of trying to make into law. Unfortunately, you are right to worry about the people not being covered if the bill is passed – experts and nonpartisan groups have predicted that TrumpCare will cause millions of Americans to lose their health insurance. Every American, regardless of income, background, race, gender, or age, should have access to quality, affordable healthcare.

It’s great that you are interested in helping the community on this issue! As Congress continues to debate this legislation, the best thing you can do is call your representatives in Congress and urge them to reject this bill. Now more than ever, it’s important that Americans speak up about their concerns and make sure members in Congress are working for the community that they were elected to represent. And make sure your friends, family, and neighbors are doing it, too! When we come together and use our voices, we can be a powerful influence for change.

2skip  asked:

Chapter 31 (the church scene) of BLLB ends with Ronan being very angry. Why? This scene really bothers me, like I'm missing something important. He could be angry just because, but I don't think so. It's like this time, he's actually really hurt. Did the dream upset him? He almost seems ashamed (?), but I can't for the life of me figure out why. Or maybe I'm reading too much into it and he's upset because he's Ronan Lynch. What do I know? He challenges us all to learn him again :) Thanks, Kat

Dear wolfwings7,

The short answer to this is he thought he didn’t have to feel that way anymore. 

The longer answer requires spoilers. 


Spoilers.


Spoilers.


Spoilers. 

Is that far enough? If you’re spoiled after this, it’s your own fault. 

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“The Shaladins are bitching about how Kl///ance is dead!!!!111 I feel victimized!”

So what? I can agree that some people take it too far, but you antis have been pulling “All hetero and Shaladin ships are dead!” card for a whole year.

You can still ship whatever you want, and the entire damn reason people are going “K///LANCE IS DEAD” is because you antis kept harassing us and treating us like garbage over a ship. People have started to hate it out of spite and as a result, you’ve gotten a bad reputation and backlash for insulting innocent people.

So why should we stop celebrating you antis having a taste of your medicine and acknowledging that not all of your fujoshi ships should be canon? You would’ve gotten less of a reaction from Shaladins and the sane part of the fandom if you people haven’t caused problems with us in the first place.

I ship Sheith, Kallura, Pidgance, etc. I wouldn’t throw a fit because the writers can’t promise me with the ships I want. I still respect them and their choices unless the writing and development is bad, which are MORE important than damn ships.

It isn’t ‘fake news’ or queerbait. It’s people putting their writing over popular demand and common ship preference. They literally said ship what you like. Nobody should stop you from that. Ever.

And if you’re a sane Kl///ance fan, you keep shipping Kl///ance because you shouldn’t ever feel ashamed of shipping something.

But congratulations, antis. You’re hypocrites.

I'm gonna go ahead and explain it here

When you’re an aphobe, that means you hate transgender people who are ace, women who are ace, and POC who are ace.

So yeah you’re a racist,transphobic,misogynistic piece of shit you should feel ashamed.

Sorry I believe in equality. Sorry I like to accept people for who they are.

Edit: because people are so stupid. Asexual does not only include cishets. There are lesbian asexuals, gay asexuals, no bisexual aces, and pan aces. There’s a thing call platonic love and love that doesn’t have to include sex

I am sick and tired of this mentality that muslim women should feel ashamed for getting their periods. Why should we feel ashamed for something that naturally happens to our bodies?

“ it’s shameful if the boys find out ” I don’t care!! Some of us experience pain during this time and you want us to worry about what the boys think!!!

People need to stop babying muslim men, they are grown ass men who should know what periods are and should be mature enough to understand it.

Here is my first upload to Tumblr! A drawing of Jake, from Endless Summer I’m not pretty good at Photoshop (because I did it in paper first) I hope to improve in the future xD
I would like to dedicate it to @hollyashton and @jakesmckenzies (you’re the first tumblrs that I followed, I’m not pretty sure if I should tag you,I feel kinda stalker, idk why, but anyway, I hope you like it as much as I like your posts! ) 
I’m up to requests of others characters! 

Today’s Good Morning Post (4/25/17):

Stressed… exhausted… anxious… what do you do when there is nowhere to vent your troubles? Sometimes there isn’t any place. Sometimes, there is only you. That can be a painful, sometimes heartbreaking realization. But you have the strength to get through. You have been through so much already, and if you can just hold on a little longer…things don’t magically get better, but things do change. You change. And you aren’t alone in your feelings.

Just remember to reach out if things ever get too hard. You are so important, and you are who takes care of you best, but if things hurt too much, you should never feel afraid or ashamed to ask for help.

I know we don’t normally get involved in fandom drama. 
But as a lesbian woman, out and proud, with several of years of experience behind me. After teaching about sexuality and being confronted with the treatment we get in society, I cannot stay quiet and watch us take the blame for being vocal on a very important issue. 
We live in a world we’re rights aren’t a given if you aren’t a white, heterosexual, cisgendered male. Which means people have died for you to be where you are today, people have fought so hard for me to be able to get married in my country to the woman of my dreams. But this fight isn’t over. 
When you have a president like Trump threating to turn back the rights that people fought for, you cannot let the media be silent. 
The fight didn’t end when the battle for marriage equality was won, it still on going. It is all around you, maybe you can;t see it, but it is there. Every day the fight for equality amongst all human beings is being fought. 
And I will fight for my rights, my rights in this world to be seen as equal, treated as equal and acknowledged as equal. I am not a breadcrumb, I am not a second hand civilian, I am not a pawn in a game to gain more viewers. I am real, I am valid. I am a human being and I want to be treated as such. 
So this upset, this uproar, this matters. If it can make a change for more equality, humanity won. Love won. And in the end isn’t that what every single person should want. I know I do. I want everybody in this world to feel safe, to be loved and able to be themselves and not afraid or ashamed.

Hey just ur daily reminder that it’s okay to enjoy media that other people on this site have deemed “problematic.” You don’t have to defend yourself and you should never let them make u feel guilty for it, either!

anonymous asked:

I feel horrible that I'm shamed simply because I play on easy/normal. Doesn't matter what fe game it is; I'll be shamed because I am the worst strategist alive.

Are you having fun? Because that’s all that matters.

Never think yourself lesser simply because you may not play to the level you think you should be playing.

The games foremost are to have fun, and if you’re having fun then you’re playing them right. If you want I can teach you get how to get better.

But never be ashamed for playing according to your own style.