Hi daddy. I'm extremely new to the sugar bowl. My biggest fear and possible the only one is being arrested or in trouble with the law. What are your suggestions on wording or phrases to use when asking for money so I avoid being in trouble with the law? Thank xoxo
I have a post on this subject that you
should read: How do I spot a real POT from a
real COP? >.< ? Not sure if you’re the right person to ask, but I am.
Your chance of running into a cop, as
opposed to a POT, is relatively small if you stick with standard sugaring
websites like SA. They go up
dramatically if you’re posting or responding to posts on a site like Craig’s
As I stated in the above link, the best
way to avoid a cop’s attention is to watch for the red flags that I detailed. Further, in initial messages, play up the
approach that the allowance you seek is for companionship, a relationship, so
to speak, and not strictly for sex.
Also, insist on meeting the POT for a coffee or drink for the first
time, not a hotel room. Most cops don’t
want the hassle of multiple messages and dates before springing the trap.
There is no sure fire way of
successfully avoiding a vice cop who is committed to busting you. The problem is that legitimate sugar daddies
want assurance that the allowance they pay is going to give them access to your
pussy. No way around that. And, they’ll be mighty direct about it
too. There will be a lot of times you
will sit there, scratching your head, wondering if the guy is a legit POT or a
cop. Some of the cops are real “good” at
what they do, so you won’t know until it is too late. However, if you do too much dancing around
the subject of sex, a real non-cop POT is going to lose interest and move
I know, it’s a conundrum with no concrete solution. As with everything else in sugaring, you’ll develop a better “radar” over time and with experience.