i said i would stop posting but i cant

Things we need to stop doing in the kpop fandom...

1. When an idol, even if it is a fave appropriates someone’s culture and y'all defend them
2. When people of said culture are offended and y'all come for them like naaaw bruh they have a right and said idol needs to learn!!👏👏
3. Making jokes that make idols uncomfortable. Yo if they don’t like it don’t make it it’s simple.
4. Stalking.😐Need I say more??
5. Feeling that they are obligated to you or belong to you. They are humans with personal lives that are none of your business so sit down sis.
6. Sexuallizing minors!!!!!!!👏👏👏👏I would really like y'all to stop sexuallizing anyone but ESPECIALLY minors! You gon catch a charge!!!👏
7. Stop. Being. Disrespectful. I mean stop asking for other members on livestreams, don’t be making fun of them when they are trying to speak another language, all that mess you know what I’m talking about
8. STOP BEING FETISHING CREEPS OH GOD THAT GOES FOR BEING A WHATEVER BOO ITS WEIRD DON’T DO THAT PLEASE!!!!
9. Leave idols weights alone! Okay let me repeat: LEAVE👏THEIR WEIGHT👏ALONE👏
10. These wars and petty fights be on every single nerve on my body I am sicc and tide of it!👏 Be mature please, everyone has differences but some of them don’t need to be fought
11. Respect older kpop groups or singers even if you don’t like them. You really don’t have to like them but at least respect them, a lot of our current faves look up to them and wouldn’t be here without them
12. Okay this is specific but aaaaalllllll my POC kpop fans😐I ask of you, I beg of y'all to not, I mean NOT give idols or other fans the okay to be disrespectful and problematic when it comes to POC matters. I mean from hair to words to style do not give them any more reason to justify bad actions. If YOU personally aren’t offended, good for you, keep that to yourself because some snake will see your tweet, tumblr or IG post and think ‘if this one poc is okay with it then it isnt bad!’. Untrue!!

This is just a little list to help us ALL get along and work on these things okay? Not calling out anyone I just felt it was needed.

alright i saw a post going around a week ago about the demigod-mortal celebs issues and i REALLY don’t know why we don’t talk about it more because it’s not like these adults are nobody’s, they’re CELEBRITIES who have friends and managers and employees, etc.

and specifically in the case of beryl grace i don’t think anyone is fully understanding what WE would do if one of the biggest stars of the our age had two children and then they just suddenly disappeared. think about it, beryl grace was popular, she was on tv, she had fans, she had an agent, and you want to tell me there ISN’T still the unsolved mystery of “goodness graces’ what happened to the kids?”

it’s probably one of those celebrity legends that still haunts people, and wow, think about thalia or jason walking the streets of LA and suddenly this old man with salt and pepper hair, in a nice, sharp suit, grabs them by their shoulders and goes, “you’re her kid, it’s you! i remember you! do you remember me, i was your mother’s agent. she said to call me uncle ronnie.”

like can you imagine what that would do to them? to the world that they’re living in? i need to stop myself this is unbelievable, this universe is literally so untouched someone help

1 am text post about my love life bc i know yall love these -
I fucking love him, i feel like shit, i just want to be with him and i cant bc his dad is homophobic, i want to die, he said he would wait for me if i would wait for him but it could be like 2 fucking years before we can talk again, i hate the world and all i can do anymore is fucking cry, ive been crying for an hour, i dont think ill ever stop, i love him so much, why did this have to happen why did i have to fuck everything up i just want to go back to falling asleep on the phone with him and calling him my boyfriend, but i cant, im stuck in this weird kind of maybe taken but not really thing where im supposed to see other people but i cant, i fucking cant because it makes me feel so guilty. Someone please help me. I feel horrible and disgusting and i hate this

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I swear to heaven I don’t know why I wanted to cosplay Krista lol why I wanted to cosplay in general  So how I added filters to make it look nicer. Actually looks ugly I swear. Still incomplete, tho :B

I swear i need to stop telling you all that im gonna post a thing later, it must be bad luck, like every time i just end up feeling so goddamn awful for various reasons that i just cant do it, and then i feel worse because i didnt do what i said i would and i feel im letting you all down…

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“The split in 1993 was during the filming of Ed Wood and there were days he would come crying, I felt so bad. I asked him why it happened but all he said was, ‘It wasn’t her fault, it was mine.’ And when he met Kate in January of 94, it wasn’t the same as Winona. I felt weird to be around him like he wasn’t acting like Johnny anymore. It’s almost like Winona took Johnny’s soul, Johnny’s love.” - Tim Burton

OK SO IM SURE A LOT OF YOU HAVE SEEN MY EARLIER POST ABOUT NEVERSTOPFIGHTINGDRAGONS BEING A MAN AND PRETENDING TO BE A TEENAGE GIRL. AFTER SEEING SOME RECENT POSTS HOWEVER FROM this-girl-wants-a-pug IT TURNS OUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION WAS APPARENTLY A JOKE PULLED BY NEVERSTOPFIGHTINGDRAGONS AND THAT SHE IS WHO SHE SAYS SHE IS, A GIRL

IM SORRY I GAVE ALL OF YOU FALSE INFO BUT AT THAT TIME I DID BELIEVE IT TO BE TRUE AND I DO CARE ABOUT YOUR SAFETY

SO IF I COULD ASK YOU TO STOP REBLOGGING THAT PLEASE IT WOULD BE VERY HELPFUL TO THE SITUATION

HOWEVER WHILE I WANT THE POST TO NOT BE REBLOGGED ANYMORE I STILL WANT YOU GUYS TO BE WARY OF NEVERSTOPFIGHTINGDRAGONS BECAUSE WHILE SHE SAID IT WAS A JOKE AND APOLOGZED I STILL HAVE SUSPICIONS AS TO WHY SHE’D PULL A JOKE LIKE THAT

AND I CANT STRESS THIS ENOUGH IF YOU SEE THIS DO NOT GIVE this-girl-wants-a-pug ANY HATE FOR OVERREACTING BECAUSE SHE WAS BEING SAFE AND ITS NOT AT ALL HER FAULT 

IM GOING TO TAG EVERYONE WHO REBLOGGED THE ORIGINAL POST:

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SO AGAIN IM SORRY TO ALL OF YOU FOR WORRYING YOU, PLEASE JUST STOP REBLOGGING THE ORIGINAL POST BUT STILL BE WARY OF NEVERSTOPFIGHTINGDRAGONS BECAUSE WHILE SHE SAID IT WAS A JOKE ITS STILL BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. I LOVE YOU ALL AND WHILE THIS MAY HAVE BEEN FAKE PLEASE BE CAREFUL IN THE FUTURE

What really, honestly bothers me about cis people is inappropriate relation. Like for example, a while back I made a comic about my self discovery as a trans person, and I’d mentioned that I, as a transgender male, have been ID'ed as a tomboy all my life, and how that wasn’t exactly the right ID for me even though I claimed it for years. When cis girls would reblog it, they’d tag it “#Same minus the trans part” or something.

I get that this is a blogging platform where people are allowed to do what they want. I cant stop cis girls from relating to my comic up until i said “im really a boy”. But its horribly rude.

Cis people need to stop taking trans people’s stories and trans peoples things and making it about them in some way. Yes, you were or are a tomboy. No, being a tomboy does not automatically mean you’re transgender. No, this post is not yours to halfway identify with because this post isn’t about your cis experiences, its about my trans experiences

anonymous asked:

THIS GUY AT MY SCHOOL FOUND MY PHIL FANFIC AND HE KEEPS TAUNTING ME TO THE POINT WHERE I UNPUBLISHED ALL OF IT AND IM LIKE IN TEARS. HE SAID HE WOULDNT TELL ANYONE ABOUT IT BUT HES BAD AT THAT SO NOW IM SCARED THAT EVERYONES GONNA KNOW AND ILL GET MADE FUN OF EVEN MORE AND I HATE HIM. I CANT STOP CRYING. WHAT DO I DO?

Oh my gosh im so sorry he did that thats terrible, and ive never been in that situation before so i cant tell you exactly what to do but i would start by trying to relax, this post has some tips for that (x). If he keeps taunting you tell an adult you trust because theyre probably going to know how to handle it better than me-