i really think this should happen

anonymous asked:

Hey! How do I tell if I'm ftm trans and not just a tomboy? Sometimes I seriously consider going on T or changing myself, but I really want biological kids so I won't, but I don't know how to get rid of these feelings.

Hey back! ;P I couldn’t possibly answer this question briefly, but it just so happens I wrote a book to help people figure out the answers to questions like these! The first chapter should help you figure out your identity. The second chapter should help you explore whether different aspects of physical transition are right for you. I think it might also be helpful for you to have access to the information in there, as you will learn that going on T does not mean you cannot have biological kids. (For example you could freeze your eggs before starting hormones and/or there are trans men who go off of hormones for a period of time later in life so that they can carry and give birth to a child.) I hope you will find that you don’t have to get rid of any feelings at all, but that those feelings will help guide you to find what path is right for you. Happy gender quest!

anonymous asked:

Ship, are you aware of/a fan of the voluntary human extintion project?

I’m aware of it, and theoretically support it as an extension of deep ecology. I’m not really 100% convinced that total extinction should be an end goal… I like to think that there are qualities about us worth preserving, perhaps by programming partial consciousnesses into space probes and sending them out like messages in a bottle, a la ‘The Inner Light’ episode of Stat Trek.

We will go extinct, eventually. I just hope we take drag as few other species down with us when it happens.

Can we talk about ACOMAF for a moment

Like, I think this book hits deeper than I would have thought it would. It’s a fantasy book. I’ve never really… connected, so so deeply, in a book. But I wanted to cry, so many times. Especially in the first and last few chapters.

Like when Feyre can’t get over what happened under the mountain. And maybe if Tamlin had tried to help her and not just ignored the way she was fading away, she wouldn’t have become so malnourished. He doesn’t really even help her heal.

I feel like this is the definition of an abusive relationship. He doesn’t really… care about her. I mean, I think he does in some way, but not the way she needed.

And the way he treats her, like he should be cautious about her power. And he’s over 500 years old, he should know what that much magic does to someone. What powerful magic does. He should know how to treat someone right.

I wonder if he acts the way he does because she was human and not because she died. Because humans, mortals, need protection. And despite that she’s High Fae now, he doesn’t think of her as one of his kind.

He’s still a bastard because of it. A possessive one at that.

I think we can all agree at one point in our lives we where so, so, so depressed that moving felt like it was an anomaly. That food became unapatizing. That we just… didnt want to live or couldn’t feel anything. And maybe it lasted a day. Maybe it lasted longer. Maybe you’re still going through it. But at some point everyone is going to feel this way.

These are the parts that hit me the hardest. The parts where she wants to die, where she doesn’t have the will to fight anymore. And she doesn’t think anyone else will, either.

And I wish, I wish to God, that someone had been there to help me and I didn’t feel like I was so alone. I remember going days without eating, with just going through the motions. I don’t remember how I got myself into such a dark pit.

But on bad days, I don’t want to move, I don’t want to work, I don’t want to Human. And on those days the only reason I go to work is because other people are dependent on me check.

So many books that I’ve read rarely, if ever, hit depression head on. And if they do, the characters always bounce back so quickly that it’s like What Depression???

Being coddled and told what to do, as an adult, I feel is more damaging than anyone would ever think. I think that’s why Feyre was starting to heal during the week she was at the Night Court.

Like, yes Rhys worried about her, but if she was content and healing and was still feeling something, he let her be. He made it more than clear, a couple of times, that he was there if she wanted to talk.

And I think she had gotten so used to no one caring, when she was human and now as a High Fae, so she didn’t recognize the offer for what it was.

Rhys did more for her than Tamiln wanted too. And Rhys wasn’t doing it for some ulterior motive. So maybe teaching her to read was part of a plan, but he’d never make her do something she wasn’t comfortable with, as shown when they went to the Bone Cleaver.

But he was right in teaching her how to read and write. It is a skill needed. And that is the only thing that kept her sane while she was at the Spring Court.

I don’t think her being his Mate had much to do with how he was treating her. He would probably want to help anyone depressed feel something again. Like, OK, yes some of what he did was because he loved her, but most of it was just because he wanted her to start healing.

Rhys is just as broken, healing just as much, and the only reason, I think, that some part of him didn’t fade day by day was because he surround himself by people he knew cared.

And he had like 500 years that she didn’t. He had done terrible things for a lot longer than she had, but he also had the experience to know what he was getting into.

She had an idea of what it was, but she didn’t know exactly what she was going to have to do. I think that makes a difference too, in how they reacted to their actions.

I think that if Tamlin had just listened to her instead of fucking her, she would have healed a lot faster and wouldn’t have been as broken as she was. She broke so much more after that first week with Rhys, when she wanted to go Home because that’s where she’d been living for a year even if it didn’t feel like home anymore.

I mean, she threw both she wedding shoes at him the first time and she was focused on getting better. The second time, she didn’t feel anything. If she did feel something, it was probably resignation at her situation. And I think if Tamlin hadn’t locked her in the house like a prisoner, I don’t think she would have had the will to follow him and Lucion.

I think that if she hadn’t had the panic attack that she would have stopped feeling again and locked herself in her room and maybe, just maybe, she would have tried to kill herself.

Because that is what she wanted. She wanted the guilt to go away so she stopped feeling but every bloody night she woke up and puked her guts out and she felt so alone.

This is why I relate on a personal level. The realistic depression. The realistic healing.

It scares me so much that Feyre is back in the Spring Court. Like, maybe she’d be fine for a few months before nightmares come back and she wants Rhys so bad but she just can’t have him and she starts to break and fade and then she’s just so mentally drained that she just stops trying. Again.

That’s what I’m worried about.

anonymous asked:

Everyone thinks it and even the CDAN blinds have said DK set him up and he was nOT pleased about it. Will be interesting to see what happens next but I think a lot of the damage has been done and Norman Reedus should really think about the sort of person he is and how he treats both his fanbase (what's left of it anyway), his close friends and family, and most importantly HIMSELF.

I really, really hope this will be the sobering wake-up call he needs.

my thoughts on betty + jughead

ok so I saw the leaked kiss (cute af) that they will share and I heard that it’ll be happening very soon. It’s quite obvious that both of them have a blooming friendship and I am definitely interested in seeing them turn into a couple because for me, they do have chemistry. However, I think it’s happening too quickly. Usually, the couples I ship have a lot of development before they officially become a couple. I just hope that the writers don’t rush their relationship because it would just feel very forced. As of now, I would like to see them as friends first. I’m not in to insta-love. If ever the writers really plan on making them a couple, I would like to see first how their relationship gradually turns from platonic to romantic. They should take their time, it’s still the first season.

also, i have never read the comics, but I’ve been hearing that there are a lot of archie fans out there, who are quite sad about bughead being a thing. But like c'mon guys, the fact that they made Riverdale more of a mysterious teen drama like “PLL” and less of a high school romance teen drama like “Awkward” shows that not everything in the series will be exactly the same as the book, like most TV shows that are based on books. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t be sad about it. It’s your emotions. You can’t control how you feel! I’m just saying to be prepared for changes because I’m pretty sure there will be a lot more to come.

So there’s this video going around of a pro-life 16 year old responding to a Teen Vogue article about “what to get a friend post-abortion”, and one of the points she tries to make is that the article trivializes abortion in the sense that it minimizes the pain and suffering for those who regret their abortions. Okay, sure, fine. I skimmed the article and do think parts of it were pretty tactless and I can see how some people could be offended by it. But then she goes on to say abortion is “the most invasive and degrading thing that can happen to a girl.” Ok…… but by saying this aren’t you trivializing rape victims? Then she goes on and on for eleven minutes about how apparently her 16 year old self knows exactly how women should feel after an abortion… really? You’re sixteen years old. You know nothing other than what your Christian upbringing has fed you. No one cares what you have to say about a subject you can’t even remotely relate to.

anonymous asked:

Do you think Glenn is really leaving in the finale? I mean, I'd be fine with Dennis leaving and then us having to wait until next season to see what happens...but if Glenn left the show for good I don't know if I could take it 😩😩😩

my thing is like…. even if dennis leaves i find it really hard to believe that glenn is leaving. he has NOTHING else going on in terms of acting right now and like…. all he really does outside of sunny atm is producing stuff?? which doesn’t seem like it should take a ton of time

unless he just personally needs a break (i know he mentioned in some interview or something that he took a week off last year just because he was going through some stuff) then i don’t see why he’d leave. sunny is his baby and he loves dennis so like…..?? idk i just think it’s not very likely that glenn would completely walk away from the show

althaia-voltz  asked:

What would the perfect day, for you, involve?

Perfect’ you say, I don’t really think something like that is possible for me~

However that ‘perfect’ day should include nearly everything I like:

So that day should start with my society following all of my orders without fail, followed by spending time with Saihara-chan, having an unlimited supply of panta would be a dream come true (I know that won’t happen but wouldn’t it be wonderful~ Nishishi~)

I guess it would be great if more people fell for my lies and pranks~ A lot of people do, so I guess that should just carry on as usual~

Also more people joining my evil society~ that way I can become even more powerful than I already am~ Nishishi

anonymous asked:

I'm sure I'm not the first one to think of this, but when I learned that MML takes place in the same city as P&F (at least I'm pretty sure it does), I immediately had a thought: Y'know how in P&F these weird, unpredictable, spontaneous events would always happen at the last second to get rid of their newest invention before their mom could see it? And it was never really explained why these things kept happening? Well, I'd bet that a lot of that stuff happened because of Milo.

i think murphys law and the mysterious force should be, like, sisters. not caused by eachother in any way, but similarly charged forces
tho itd be interesting to have an episode where candace tries to get milo to decide he doesnt want pnfs mom to see their invention so smthn goes wrong… and she makes him do that eventually by lamenting about how she just wants to bust them and then milos like “wait… like, get them in trouble??”

the signs as Bob Ross things

Aries: “just really make it come alive”

Taurus: tons and tons of mountains. he loved painting those rascals

Gemini: let’s paint this tree a friend. i think everyone should have a friend, they are very important

Cancer: on our canvas, there is no hate or pain. there is only peace and happiness

Leo: perhaps we love painting because we can control the canvas and the world we are creating

Virgo: let it happen! in the time you’ve been sitting around worrying you could’ve finished the whole painting

Libra: “now look at that. in just a matter of a few minutes we have something beautiful”

Scorpio: for every highlight we have to have some shadow, some darkness

Sagittarius: “the Almighty ___”

Capricorn: “oh what the heck. let’s do this.”

Aquarius: trees and leaves and bushes hidin’ in your brush

Pisces: look at all the happy little clouds just playing in the sky

#snl_성추행 (#snl_sexualharassment) is trending #1 in Korea right now

I’m so shocked that I don’t even know what to type but here’s a brief summary of what happened.
Today some backstage videos of Infinite and B1A4 on SNL went viral in which the female staff members can be seen how they grab the boys genitals, cheering loudly and celebrating how they managed to get a touch of it. I think it isn’t necessary to add that both, Infinite and B1A4 looked BEYOND uncomfortable, some of them even covering their crotches while the staff members just continue to clap and laugh.
I am fully disgusted. I can’t believe that these kind of things really happened backstage, that the boys needed to brush it off with some pressed laughs and that they went out there and finished this show like nothing happened. This is sexual harassment and should under NO CIRCUMSTANCES taken lightly. I just hope that these staff members get fired and B1A4 and Infinite get a more than proper apology from SNL or even better TVN because I don’t know what is wrong with their heads to brush it off as a joke because things like these are not funny. TOUCHING SOMEONE WITHOUT THEIR PERMISSION NO MATTER IF MALE OR FEMALE ISN’T FUNNY. IT’S HARASSMENT AND SHOULD BE PUNISHED ACCORDING SO.
And just imagine how many times this must’ve happened without any video evidence. SNL is cancelled, over for me.


OTPs (in no particular order): Tsukishima Kei & Yamaguchi Tadashi

““How many did you miss?” Go on, say it to me. I only managed to stop one single spike. We played five whole sets. I’m so un―”

“I can think of a lot of words, but uncool definitely isn’t one of them!”


I’ve spent a lot of time deciding whether or not I should write this post now, when I’m upset and salty, but with every negative comment about Russia and Russian people I was growing more assured that you, guys, really should read this and fucking THINK.
Here’s the thing: I LOVE Sherlock fandom. I love the Russian part of it, full of incredibly talented people who literally make ART and I love this big English-speaking part, too, you’re fantastic. We don’t ALWAYS get along, there’s a bunch of really bad toxic people talking shit. These guys are everywhere. But the big question is: are those the ones talking right now or is the whole fandom full of shit?
You know what happened: Russian Federal Channel leaked the new episode before the actual air date. Let’s not talk about all the “fake ep” thing with multiple endings theory and whatever and focus on the part where SOMEONE. FROM THE TV. FUCKED UP. We don’t know and probably we’ll NEVER know if it was an accident or this certain someone did it on purpose, but RUSSIAN DUB OF TFP HAS ENDED UP SOMEWHERE WHERE IT SHOULDN’T BE.
We, Russians, all reacted differently. Some people stopped whatever they were doing and went to watch the episode (and I’m SURE that most of you would have probably done the same thing), some were very upset and quit all the social media to avoid SPOILERS, some started spreading these spoilers EVERYWHERE (who can judge them? It is Sherlock after all).
That’s it. That’s the whole story. We didn’t have a referendum on deciding should we leak TFP ep or not. We didn’t ask the channel to do this. We are probably even more surprised than you are, AND lots of people are not even going to watch the leaked episode.
When I logged in to my tumblr account I EXPECTED something like this. You, guys, are not really fond of Russians or Russia in general, I understand that. It’s funny and upsetting and we just kinda accepted this shit. However I never expected the amounts of HATE towards our nation and our country and WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?
I haven’t said anything to the yoi fandom, because, well, homophobia is smth we really are responsible for and I have nothing to say but THIS.
I really REALLY wanted to finish this with wishing you love and peace, but not this time, no.
THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU’VE DONE. About all the people like me (angry, bitter and disappointed), or unlike me (probably REALLY upset and insulted). THINK AND

Remember when the TF2 fandom decided Engie and Sniper were the next big brotp? Whatever happened to that? I never see anybody talk about them anymore.

I mean, look…

I’m just sayin,’ we should really bring that back…I’d weep for joy if they became a big thing again. I think they’d get along perfectly since they’re both quiet cowboy types. It’s not hard to picture the two of them sitting at a campfire at the end of the day, sipping their beer and conversing about the little things in life as they both gaze up at the stars.

So, yeah. Consider this my plea to bring back this brotp.

Today, I fucked up... by gorilla gluing my buttcheeks together

Title says it all. I was curious and wanted to see what would happen. I really need to take a dump and am not sure what is going to happen now. I think I am going to take a shower to try and fix this. Any tips to get me out of this mess I have now found myself in?

Updates: So late last night I was able to separate the cheeks. They are not sealed together anymore, now there is just a ring of gnarled up hair mixed with dry glue chunks. I think a few more bath treatments and it should all come out within the next couple of days. Going to the ER at this point would be pointless, a lot more painful, and probably quite expensive.

Check out more TIFU: Internet`s best fuck ups are here.

For the last time:

If Victor bought that ring for Yuuri ahead of time then the anime would have shown us. And even if they wouldn’t have shown it, if that’s what they wanted us to think, they would have made it explicitly clearEspecially in the episode that was narrated by Victor.

What interest does the anime have in hiding the information that Victor bought the ring earlier?


Which is probably enough reason to believe that it didn’t happen.

Listen, I know it’s a really sweet idea and I know that we’d all like that to be true, but there are limits to wishful thinking.

I keep seeing people speaking of the headcanon (because that’s what it should be called) that Victor bought the ring ahead of time as though it’s a fact and I think it’s very confusing and even misleading to a part of the fandom.

And listen, if you want to believe that’s what happened, that’s cool, but at least acknowledge the fact that you’re talking about a theory or a headcanon like I mentioned above, and don’t act like that’s what canonically happened because if that’s what it really were then it would be clear to everyone and we wouldn’t even have to have this argument.

(Especially that there is much more proof for Yuuri buying both rings/Yuuri and Victor buying the rings in the same store at the same time than of Victor buying one beforehand.)

Rowan Blanchard On Confronting Biases in Friends
  • Teen Vogue: How do you confront a racist or sexist bias with a friend, instead of just not doing it to avoid conflict? What's your advice on confronting biases you find in other people?
  • Rowan Blanchard: I totally understand that feeling of somebody saying something and you not wanting to upset that person further. Recently, I had a friend who said something along the lines of "I don't want to drive by the hood today," or something. It's that weird moment where you're like "Wait, am I really friends with this person? Should I be doing this?" But I think, when something like that happens, you can just say, "Hey, what do you mean by that?"
  • Because then the person might realize the thing they just said was not acceptable and I think people kind of respond to that. When they get a quick response that's like, "What do you mean by that? Can you just elaborate on what you were trying to say?" I’ve found the person will usually not be able to come up with a response because they realize how racist or sexist the thing that they're trying to actually initiate is.
  • The other thing that I try to do [to educate] inadvertently with friends or family members [is by saying], "Well, let's go see this movie instead of this movie,” with me knowing that the movie is more [education] about the topic that I'm trying to educate that person on.
  • I feel like that's how I use my social media; I'll post if I see a film that I really want people to see, and that's my way of suddenly putting that into their head.

The Netflix Series of Unfortunate Events is turning out to be awesome! Super stoked for season 2. Loving how VFD members are getting a lot more screen time too! And Lemony Snicket!! And UNCLE MONTY!!!