i really loved this dress

anonymous asked:

Hey sorry if this sounds offensive im not trying to be, but im really curious. I see you use male gender pronouns but you wear makeup and dress somewhat girly are you gender fluid, gender neutral, or trans? Im just curious i dont want to offend you in any way. Btw the way you dress is really cute i love how you can rock that style

yeah i’ve spent the last year ish questioning my gender n i’ve gone through several labels and pronouns n now i’m pretty solidly sure I Am A Boy And Not A Girl which is why i use he/him pronouns now but yeah i. still like to wear makeup and pink and sometimes dresses….. sometimes i wear a bra instead of my binder bc i feel like it….. sometimes i shave my legs + underarms n sometimes i don’t bother………….. i wear boxers n i feel great about it…… i’m only 5 feet tall so it’s hard for other people 2 see i’m a boy but i Am and eventually i’ll go on T and get top surgery but . yeah . cool huh

and thank u lmao i chucked most of my wardrobe out in january n have been slowly collecting mostly second hand clothes from various places n now all my clothes r nice and soft and pretty and yellow and pink and i love them!!!!!! 

i feel kinda really shit.. there’s lots of things i like in the world, and lots of them are really girly, it sounds lame but i would love to dress up in lolita fashion but i know that if i wore the most amazing lolita outfit i would feel like shit because of dysphoria… i know sometimes i don’t care when it comes to make up, but i can’t step over the boundary of clothes for more than a day or two without feeling utterly sick and just terrible. Already my hair has grown into a kind of bob and although it looks fine I just get so dysphoric because I don’t see any other guys with this haircut, cis or trans. It’s getting really hard for me to see other trans men on youtube, and just trans man related stuff, because I know I don’t even pass as a trans guy. Sometimes I don’t give a fuck what people might think, but I am just so unhappy with my own body and my voice and everything. There’s lots of trans people I’ve seen and met in and around uni, and although I am SO happy to see them, I also feel a terrible bite because they are always so obviously men, and even if they do have very feminine features like I do naturally they still dress in a way where you could know that they were trans. I don’t even look like a trans guy, the closest i could possibly get is non binary, and I’m not non binary. At all. I’m simply a gender non conforming trans man. 

I guess in the dream world I would be seen as a guy, and be a guy, and have a male body, and I would go out dressed in whatever I want, wear whatever make up I want, wear my hair how I want, wear feminine wigs, wear skirts and dresses. But I know gender isn’t about what you wear, and I know I’m not non binary, and I’m not a girl, and I know I’m a FTM transgender person who experiences dysphoria and all that comes along with being trans. I just wish other people knew this and didn’t think that a trans guy should wear masculine clothes, masculine hair, no make up, even masculine posture and way of talking. I have a feminine posture and I think it is okay, and my voice can fluctuate from very feminine to masculine, and I don’t think that’s a problem either. All I want is to be seen as at least a trans guy, and to transition. 

I have an appointment to see a pyschotherapist at the gender clinic at the end of April, and he has invited my mental health therapist along too, which I’m very pleased about. So hopefully this year or next year I will be taking testosterone which I think will improve my confidence dramatically! Then maybe I can wear the things I would like to wear.

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Sombra didn’t know what she expected from a man clad in leather and an owl-like skull mask. (my own shitposting about sombra inspired this)

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Day and Night

“when in distress, draw a dude in a dress” is what i always say

and man a lot of you have been mentioning me on this post and the first time i saw it i fell in love but before drawing yuuri in that dress i had to find something for viktor and lo and behold i found this on my dash

i’ll tell you what major aesthetic problem i DO have with frozen though

I HATE THIS DRESS.

not in a concerned mom way of it being ‘too revealing’ or whatever, but it just sticks out like a sore thumb in contrast to the other costume design?? i get the point that elsa wants to be free and ‘different’ but still, having more incorporation of the entire hostoric norway aesthetic would go a long way imo. i really love the design of elsa’s coronation dress. its got the folk motifs and everything going

but then i remember being so upset having to see her wearing….that thing for the majority of the film. even concepts like this still feel like they ‘belong’ in the universe and is more harmonious with the rest of the set

and this is only a mild critique, im not even talking about all the visual creativity that was lost in the early concept art….

eliza in historical dress?? sign me up


Other War Portraits

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Just your gals Kate McKinnon and Kristen Wiig, wearing the same dress. I mean I know we’re all still freaking out about that amazing SNL episode with Kristen Stewart (also because of the shirt sharing thing). But then I found this and it’s just the best! They both look gorgeous!!!!

for anyone who wants to know, these are the sketches (you can find them on YouTube)
Kate: Southern Ladies - aired 05/09/2015
Kristen: Timecrowave - aired 05/15/2010

Gifs are mine

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This started as an excuse to draw Hunk in a pretty dress and it kinda got out of hand….

(don’t tag as genderbend)

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