i really like the fact that i made a thing

anonymous asked:

Do you ever imagine what it would be like if mr and mrs curtis were still alive? And if so could you do some hc please!

this is all I ever imagine tbh. Most of these are legit just facts. As always, thank you, and sorry it’s so short
(Some of these might be off timeline wise bc things aren’t mentioned in the book or I’m forgetting them)

-Soda would have really talked to his parents about Sandy. They both have such a way with words and would have made him feel so much better

-I feel like the gang wouldn’t have formed, or wouldn’t be as involved in “activity” as it is

-Ponyboy is still angsty and rebellious

-this may be going out on a limb but I feel like eventually Soda would have gotten his own horse


-Darry’s eyes wouldn’t be so cold.

-Soda stayed in school!!!!

-Ponyboy and Darry would be close again, and Darry would help Pony through his Angst™

-Darry didn’t have to stop to support his brothers!!! He continued on to college!!!

-Everyone would just be happier and healthier tbh


SNS week day three: sns family

It’s meeeeee (and my uncontrollable duckbutt hair). Hahah well anyway y'all know how much I love this fam so guess you call this a appreciation post for all ya guys 😘 Anyways let’s get started 🌈

First off can I just say that EVERYONE in our fam is so hella gorgeous??? Like I can’t stress how pretty y'all are like you were 👏MADE👏TO👏SLAY👏 xoxo I also love how culturally diverse we all are like the fact that we all are so different yet we all love the exact same thing really makes me glad to be with all of you 😊

Secondly, I fucking L O V E how good we all are at defending our ship! I absolutely love it when I see peeps trying to invalidate our ship when BAM! Then we come and absolutely just defend our ship like aaaaaah!!! I mean if our fandom was a debate team, then we would just wreck the competition 😂😂😂.

Thirdly I absolutely adore all the amazing content that y'all being out! Art, edits, text posts, cosplay, fanfiction…Everything you guys produce is just wonderful and im always happy to like/reblog sns content 😇

Finally admire how accepting our fam is 😊 When I first started shipping SNS I was afraid that I would look like a dweeb and get unnoticed and such. But you guys are just such nice people and I’m glad that I could be apart of this fandom ✨

Heheh in the end it’s all for our sons, Sunshine Boy and Edgelord 🐸🌞 x 🌙🐍 Also huge shout out to @bahare-uzuchiha for making sns week possible!!! This is my first one and I’ve been having hell of a lot of fun watching livestreams, looking at all your rad posts, it’s been really fun my dude so thank you for this!!! xoxo

anonymous asked:

Is it okay to reblog your stories?

Absolutely, go for it.

The first time I was called a snake was when I was six years old. So maybe it was a bad idea snitching on Jessica. She was a bit of a bitch (many six year olds are), but she didn’t really have to go overboard. In fact, I was just fine before that. It’s after she said that to me that things started to change and arguably get worse.

It made me sit and contemplate a lot. For the next month or two, I think, I was a very withdrawn kid. My parents started to get worried, and they wondered if maybe I was showing signs of mental illness. But it wasn’t like that: I just needed some time to myself to figure out if I really was a snake.

I liked snakes. They’re not really terrible creatures. They mind their own business, and they only attack humans when threatened. So when Jessica called me a snake, I only knew she was insulting me from the tone of her voice. It’s like how if someone called you, say, a transistor, and used a very rude tone of voice, you’d know they meant it as an insult. It took me a while to learn that we live in a culture where snakes aren’t looked upon very favourably.

It made sense for me to escape, then. When people are afraid of you, they do what they can to get rid of you. For a lot of people, it’s flight, but there’s also the lobby for fight. And that meant a lot of people wanted to fight me. I could sink my fangs into one or two of them, if I caught them by surprise and timed the jump right (for eg. my parents), but against a trained professional, or a crowd? Chances are poor.

So I ended up slithering away. I fed on rats and dead birds, but mostly rats. The scales took some time to develop. I’d shed skin very often, sometimes too much. I lost all my fur and hair, and my eyes started looking different. My tongue forked. My fangs had been developed the earliest, and they’d been filled with venom. I could feel it in me, which is why I had to think twice (exactly twice) before dispatching the humans I had to take care of. It helps that they always have the same reaction when they see me: that one step back, the drop of the jaw, the wide open eyes. It’s a classic.

It’s hard to quit the city. When you’ve lived here long enough, it’s hard to come to terms with your inner nature and accept what you’re supposed to be. So some parts of the old me survived. I still looked at the glass windows longingly, and I wished I could do more than just swallow things.

I wished I had hands again.

So I could wring Jessica’s throat instead of biting her.

Today’s throwback story is about ghost stories in digital worlds.


On my selfies i either look really angry or really sad and idk how to change this tbh

Thank you so much @eizenmark for tagging me on this!!! you’re so gorgeous and cool aaaaa

The rules are: post your lockscreen, a homescreen, your most recent selfie and the last song you listened to and i tag (only if u want to ofc)  @nnightwing and @zagfros (who tagged me on a thing a while ago and i made the mistake of not liking it so i lost it on my notifications but i will find and do it either today or tomorrow i promise!!)

On the subject of Jughead again: It’s really weird when they say stuff like “they made him ace to avoid homophobic backlash.” Like, not only has Archie Comics been making it clear since Kevin was introduced that they don’t want bigots in their audience in the first place, but there WAS a backlash!

The Straights were very upset about asexual Jughead. In fact, the backlash was the first thing I saw about ace Jughead, and was one of the main reasons I went out of my way to read it (my local comic shop did not carry the title). The Straights accused Archie Comics of injecting their gay agenda, and a lot of them dropped the book immediately.

REGs have literally no idea how straight people see asexuals. They are constantly talking out their ass despite being demonstrably wrong.

I’m alone
i’m unwanted
i’m undesired
i’m worthless
i’m a burden
i’m a freak
i’m an anomaly
i’m the problem

“you’re not alone. you are loved. I’ll always be here for you”

Ok so after seeing Moana on the big screen last night I wanna talk about a couple things I really loved when it came to legit detail-oriented stuff.

• My favorite part when it came to detail was when we got a close-up of Maui’s tattoos, and you could see the slight texture of skin every time. That blew me away, the fact that they made sure to actually make it look like tattoos on skin.
• Also, the cracks and hairs on Tamatoa’s claws when he’s holding Moana. Every time the camera shifted to her in his claws, you could see all the scratches and cracks and little hairs on them.
• I loved the way they did Grandma Tala and her spirit. I love the fact that when she came back as a ray, she has patterns on her just like her tattoo.
• When Maui had the shark head, I noticed the tattoo on his belly also had a shark head. I thought that was a really funny and clever thing.
• They had nipples! And belly buttons! Yeah, the nipples in most cases were under tattoos (ow), but they were still there. The same with the belly buttons, like on the Chief, which made it a little harder to tell if it was actually there or just part of the tattoo. But that was a pretty big thing, IMO
• And last, for Te Ka/Te Fiti. The cracks in Te Ka’s hardened lava, and the way they had the lava flow, was absolutely amazing. And then that transition when she changed was so beautiful and natural. The way the flowers spread across her. Even how she pressed her hand into the hardened lava of the island and it looked like it does when you stick your hand in dirt.

All in all it was such a beautiful movie and I loved it so very much. Definitely expect to see some drawings from me soon.

As a psychological nerd that loves to overthink things… I hope people in the Markiplier and JackSepticEye community take in the fact that we completely made up our own mythos.

I’m not even joking. I’m pretty sure we’ve collectively popularized a certain kind of internet demon that specifically on attention. I’m sure that there’s other versions of “internet demons” out there (like in Unfriended, maybe? i know it’s a bad movie forgive me for that example), but I think the sprouting popularity of YouTube, as well as Jack and Mark specifically, have really given wake to that specific subspecies of internet demon.

Guys. These communities have made a type of demon. Not just Dark and Anti– a type of demon.

To quote Anti, “YOU ALL MADE THIS HAPPEN.” :’)

hey guys, i get that there are killing stalking fans who don’t romanticize or normalize the relationship between the two mcs, but what i and most everyone else are upset about is the fact that there ARE people who do that. there are people slinging around the word ps*cho, making really shitty memes that make light of the abusive situation bum is in, joke about things that really shouldn’t be joked about, and treat sangwoo like he’s the hottest shit to ever shit– it’s really harmful; you shouldn’t idolize an abusive person no matter how ‘attractive’ you find them. so, people who read k/s, please do your part in educating your community. there’s a reason why the ‘sjws’ are getting upset in the tag. thank you!

alright so ive been thinkin bout this for a while and i just wanted to like. kinda say something on the subject of TERFs (trans exclusionary radical feminists)

i see a lotta MLM blogs making posts saying not to follow if ur a TERF/seeing them having “dont follow if you’re a TERF” in their bios/etc etc and while that is great and, as a trans guy, i’m really glad so many MLM blogs are trans inclusive we also gotta acknowledge the fact that TERFs are usually way way worse towards trans women than trans men

like, 90% of the time when I see posts that are made by TERFs or whatever they are super transmisogynistic and anti-trans women and that’s like… way more common for TERFs than being anti-trans men (like… i’ve seen a bunch of radfems being like “TERF is a synonym for lesbian” i.e. excluding trans women from lesbianism because they “arent real women” (thats just one example of a ton of transmisogynistic things that TERFs say)) 

so as trans men we really need to support our trans sisters because, even though trans men also get a ton of shit, theres a huge problem of us just grouping transmisogynistic issues in with general transphobia when like… they arent the same. transmisogyny is trans women specific and TERFs are usually transmisogynistic specifically 

so yeah its cool that so many MLM blogs are trans inclusive but just be careful to seperate the differences between transphobia as a whole and transmisogyny (and also be as good and supportive as you can to trans women because they get so much fucking shit that they really, really do not deserve)

(btw you dont have to be trans to reblog this- anyone can rb this)


So yeah, to everyone who’s dropped hints/straight up asked me to read this, I have, in fact, read Bubb’s fanfic, “A Little Change”. Actually I can’t remember if I had started reading it before or after I had finished sketching the human designs I made for Branch and Poppy (I know I definitely posted them after the fic had already gotten some popularity). I’m gonna be honest, I really like this fic, I think it’s very well written! Seriously, if I could give multiple kudos, I would be!! Only thing is, it gets a little too real sometimes, and that isn’t a bad thing!!! It just happens to remind me a little too much of how I used to be 3 years ago ;w;;;;;;

So yeah I hadn’t really drawing anything for the fic, per say, and instead venting because of it. (I believe I ended up writing the bit about Branch starving himself after reading a particularly tough chapter) Now, though, it looks like things might be heading upwards (here’s hoping!!) and I’ve been inspired to illustrate the last scene from the latest chapter, where Poppy catches Branch breaking down after distancing himself from her…! I really can’t wait to see this all get resolved ;w;

anonymous asked:

What was the thing that sealed the deal for you with the a team? Like what made you go "yep they're together"???

i went really far back in my tags to give you a ~good answer~ but tbh im not sure? i guess it was always the fact that they were both obviously in a loving committed relationship and the only person they seemed to be close to was each other, but i do have some moments that sealed the deal for me x x x x x x x x x x x x

floofypinkmagilou  asked:

How is mikayuu abusive? I have been abused and I don't see how it's in any way abuse. It could be unhealthy as mika is clingy to Yuu but that's stretching it. Can you help here

Oh, that post I made about abusive relationships wasn’t really pertaining to Mikayuu as much as it was pointing out some things that anti-shippers like to go off on. A good chunk of them used to (and probably still do) claim that Mikayuu is toxic and abusive because Mika’s super-focused on Yuu and because he’s almost always shooting down Yuu’s admiration for Guren, etc. It’s a completely stupid argument, considering the fact that Mikayuu is probably the least abusive ship I’ve seen in a while, and while the whole clingy thing isn’t exactly healthy, considering Mika’s past and position I’d say that it’s pretty much justified. Plus, Yuu’s never seemed to be extremely hurt or offended by Mika’s distrust of Guren or the rest of his friends, so it’s not really a problem in the long run- just a point of disagreement. Which is normal in any type of relationship anyways, so it’s really people grasping at straws because they don’t want anything ‘problematic’ in their ships.



// things i’m gonna ignore: the fact that milestones usually happen every 100s, me missing what should have been raka’s second milestone at 300 because i do mine every 150 (because i can), and taliyah being ahead by ~30 on what should have been her first milestone. oops.

// but holy chucklenuts you guys. i’ve only been here for like, a month and a half ?? but i already know that coming back to the league rp community, despite all its faults, is the best decision i’ve made to close off 2k16. so here’s a bit of an appreciation to show everyone who’s stuck with me so far, with special mention to a couple of amazing individuals i’ve come to know.

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// pretty sure i missed zillions of people i should have tagged, but i’m afraid i’m only human!! if you think you should be on either list but aren’t there, it’s not because i think you’re bad, or don’t like you. i’m just a horribly forgetful person! i swear, i love every single one of you <33

// also throwing out a special mention to @eternal-life-endless-torture. it’s me, buddy. i’m back.

Gotham really wouldn’t lose anything by making Nygmobblepot canon (already lost the homophobes when they made Oswald LGBT) … they’re basically already acting like a married couple. The only thing that would change would be the fact that we’d probably see them kiss every now and then. But I mean even Barbara and Tabitha don’t kiss that often so …

They live together, share intimate discussions and embraces, give each other compliments, Ed is basically the first lady, do domestic stuff like eat together all the time…

They are already doing everything a married couple does. A kiss and a “I love you” won’t harm them as characters in any way.

She’s My Sister// Brother!Sherlock

Originally posted by charnamefic

I really need to get on my game with these… Being stuck in your house literally 24/7 is seriously not a good thing. 

Requested by Anon: Being the baby sister to Sherlock and Mycroft Holmes is already exhausting enough, but the fact that you are nothing like them only makes it more difficult. When your mother sends you away to Sherlock, you must learn to adapt to his life style.. It’s really not as easy as it sounds. But you manage, and you learn the heart of the man who really is your big brother. 

Set during Season 3; I made the reader a little bit older then 17/18 because I assume Sherlock is somewhere in his thirties, so we’re gonna go with 21 or 22.

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  “Mum, are you seriously sending me to Sherlocks flat in the heart of London? Of all people… He can’t even take care of a goldfish!” 

Your mother cast you an indignant look as the taxi cab pulled up to the road just down the driveway from your house. “I think you need a change of scenery. Get all that rebelliousness out of your lungs.” 

  “Sherlock and Mycroft are both rebellious. You think I’m going to learn any better from them?” You replied, sliding into the back seat as she set your luggage in the trunk and slammed it shut. Her gaze softened as you unzipped your leather jacket and pulled out your headphone and IPhone. “You’d have better luck getting Sherlock to go on a date.” 

  “Just give him a chance, please? You never know y/n, he may surprise you.” 

If there was one thing Sherlock never did, it was surprise you. Due to the fact that you were literally nothing like your brothers, it had made it incredibly difficult for the two of you to get along. You were the bookworm, the one who buried herself in her violin because it reminded her of something good and beautiful; the one who went on dates and to the opera and graduated high school. The one who lived. 

Just as you had suspected, Sherlock couldn’t have cared less you were now living in his flat. The only thing that made it remotely bearable was John Watson and his fiance Mary, who consciously made an effort to make you feel wanted every time she came around. She even went to the trouble of putting you in her wedding. 

But it didn’t mean you and Sherlock didn’t bicker like five year olds. 

  “Y/n, it’s quite clear that lavender is not your color.” 

You turned away from where you stood playing the harmonic duet to Sherlock’s wedding song for the Watsons, wrinkling your nose as your brother looked at you with the most pompous expression you’d seen in the month you’d been on Baker Street. “You want to know what’s not your color, Detective Sunshine? Anything. You don’t wear any colors except black which I assume is about equivalent to the darkness of your soul.” 

John dropped his phone at your comment, running his hands over his face to keep himself from laughing hysterically. “Oh, I can see it now.” Mary replied, continuing to rummage through the RSVPS in her hands. “You two totally are related. The sarcastic comments say it all.” 

But no matter what you did, you just didn’t own up to what Sherlock referred to as ‘’the family name.’’ You were just you. Why was that not enough for him? 

  “I’ve made few friends since I’ve moved here y/f/n.” You murmured, leaning up against the wall in your bedroom with your phone pressed against your ear. “Mary and John are so sweet that it literally makes me want to throw up. Lestrade is one seriously good gin rummy player, and Molly is good for girl talk. I just..” 

  “You just want to impress your brother, don’t you?” Y/f/n replied softly. “I know you y/n and I know how you work. You love him because he’s your brother, and he’s also super protective of your heart. He doesn’t want to hurt you. I just think he does it unintentionally.” 

Sherlock had just returned from the rehearsal dinner, confused to why you had called in sick at the last minute. It wasn’t until he was right outside your door that he finally realized why you had been so bitter and hostile since arriving at his flat. He rested his head against the wall outside your bedroom and exhaled deeply through his nose. 

  “Sherlock! Can I play pirates with you? Don’t tell me that you’re too old for it.” Y/n called out, running into the graveyard where he had been scrawling down notes in what he called his pirate journal. There was a fairly large age gap between the two of you and he was aching to play pirates again even if it was one last time. Mycroft was much too old for his imagination and it was rare for the two of you to get along.

  “Only if you wear the hat!” He cried, pulling off his pirates hat and laying it against your hair. You grinned widely as it tipped to the side seeing as it was already too big for your head. “Help me find the treasure!” 

Your mother told that story for years because when she came home from work, she found you asleep in Sherlocks arms on the sofa, his fingers still wrapped around his sword and his hat still on your head. 

  “I may not be the greatest at deduction, but my intelligence matches theirs to a certain degree.” You wiped away the tears rolling down your face, quickly hanging up the call as Sherlock came into the room. “Oh good lord, are you coming in here to make fun of me again? I don’t need it right now.” 

Much to your surprise, he extended his arm and motioned for you to stand to your feet. Your heart sped up as you did, and he enveloped you in a hug so tight you could feel his heartbeat beneath your fingers. The tension in your body seeped out of your muscles as you buried your face in his neck, clutching onto his Belstaff for dear life. 

  “Why do you think I don’t love you?” He said softly, running his fingers through your hair. “Granted, you’re a pain because you’re so much younger then me but everything about you is Holmes. I’m sorry for being so arrogant. It’s a habit I’m trying rather hard to break.” His gaze softened as you gently kissed his cheek. “I love you but you’re an idiot.”

You exhaled through your nose and smiled softly, spinning away from your brother to grab at your violin on the other side of your bed. “Well, it’s nice to see you’re at least trying. Just do me a favor and try not to make me kill you every time we speak to one another.” You motioned with your bow to follow into the living room where you’d left your sheet music for John and Mary’s duet. “I wrote this a few weeks ago. It’s a harmonic part to your violin piece.” 

  “You compose?” 

  “Considering I’m between college and living at home still, yes. I compose all the time.” He picked up his violin and stood parallel to you with both of your music stands facing the other person. “I want to watch cheap telly after this so you can teach me to do deductions. Sound good?” 

He smiled over where his bow was poised. “I can’t think of anything else I’d like more. But you have to sweet talk Greg into giving me a murder.”


Originally posted by londoncallingsigh

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spaceman jones would never lie (and other short stories)

Summary:  There is a long, extended pause, the kind within Life Altering Realizations are usually made. Indeed, Luke thinks (if Luke were a little older than nine and used words like indeed in regular conversation) it’s the kind of pause that precludes a person yelling out loud, or gripping at their hair (both things that are once again borrowed from Spaceman Jones’s daring adventures), or, in fact, talking really loudly over one another in a sort of hyper-frenzied babble because you’ve both just realized that you’re long-lost siblings.

HAPPY BIRTH TO MY DEAR FRIEND MAYA @mayabazaar​ TO WHOM I PROMISED I’D FINISH THIS FIC FOR, AS A GIFT. Can u believe that the document name for this is “this fic has been sitting on my computer for two (2) whole years”. The document name for this fic is a true fact. Also, I’m sub-dedicating this to my other pal, @ygrittebardots​, to whom promises were also made about finished my trash family au wips. there we go, bell. i finished it. after Two Years. rip. It’s a bit of a mess, but it’s HERE. happy birthday, maya. ily.

Aunt ‘Soka’s house – or, as Leia starts to call it, The Rebel Hideout (capitalized, as Luke has come to realize is a trend with Leia, for Importance) – is not so much a house as it is a cellar under another house. Luke finds it somewhat confusing that this little hidey-hole and his mother’s lavish apartment on Coruscant can both be called houses. One of them, he reasons, must not be a house. Someone must have named something incorrectly somewhere along the way, and really, Luke thinks, really, it’s terribly unfair that such an irresponsible criminal who names things incorrectly has not been brought to justice when they, personally, are apparently considered Fugitives Under Imperial Law.

Terribly unfair.

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Titled gets really high, he goes to phun’s room and starts crying “i need you to stay, don’t go please” and phun starts telling titled how abusive he is and how he needs to get rid of this wall because no one can get through his head. The fact that Phun would say these “terrible” things about Titled made him get super angry. He started yelling at Phun but after every yelled sentence he would always say sonething really quiet like “I’m sorry” or “stay please.” Titled would yell “I’ve done so much for you and this is how you treat me? After all I’ve done for you,” even though he didn’t even do that much. Phun was confused as hell because he hs done more for Titled. He didnt know what to say so he only cried. Titled has had enough of Phun being sensitive and moody so he throws a picture frame across the wall and yells at Phun to stop being an asshole. He stomps out of Phun’s room to his room and starts screaming in his pillow. He’s done. Titled is so done. He realizes how much he fucked up now. Titled decided to cut everyone off because he doesn’t need anyone. After his anger meltdown, he sits on the floor, rolls up in a ball, and starts sobbing. He wants to leave. He feels so bad for everything he’s done. Everything he’s ever done to hurt Phun or Ves, or anyone around him is catching up to him.

without going into too much spoiler territory can I just say I’m rly happy ffxv gave us a disabled character whose disability is a) not magically “fixed” and b) treated with respect by the people around them ??? This game also has four dude protagonists who express their emotions and are shown visibly crying when things get rough and not one joke is made at their expense??? One of the four main characters has feminine hobbies like sewing and cooking and there’s not one joke made about it–in fact he’s arguably the most respected companion in your party. Not to mention this game tackled how these characters deal with anxiety and grief, and even went so far as to call out one character for trying to use “tough love” as a means to help someone else cope because quite frankly it just wasn’t helping. Just wow thank u square enix.