i really just needed this knowing there are people there for me

okay but the line “I know I’m gonna be with you so I take my time” is so beautiful because it’s Taylor’s way of admitting that after all these years of heartbreaks and failed relationships, she has finally found the person who she knows loves her for who she is behind closed doors and is on the same page as her about the relationship. There’s no jealousy, no insecurities, just love between two people and that’s a beautiful thing to hear her sing about because this is the first time she’s writing/releasing a song about a relationship that she’s currently in, so it really emphasises the fact that it’s stable and has a thought out future for it and nothing makes me more emotional because Taylor pretty much has everything she needs in life and being in a healthy relationship where they are both putting in 100% effort to see each other, and is strong enough for her to confidently sing about is all I’ve ever wanted for my baby.

Far from Noise

“Everything, I think, does happen for a reason. Even the most horrible things in life, happen for a reason. Some people are taken from us way too soon but you know what? Maybe… Maybe they were needed elsewhere. Maybe, Maybe they were such a good person, that they were- that power was needed somewhere else? I dunno.” ~@therealjacksepticeye

When Jack said this, it really hit home for me. This whole game did. My mother passed away on November 11 and I thought that my life would just end there. There was no meaning anymore. My mother did almost everything and now that she was gone, I thought everything was meaningless. I’m not exactly a religious or spiritual person either, but I do definitely think that things happen for a reason. My mother was a good person, the type to help people if they needed money, a ride, or were homeless.

Jack, thank you so much for playing this game. It really helped me realize that everything has meaning and life is worth living even through tough times like this. It means so much to me. Thank you.

i like cats so much because honestly i am one. i sleep a lot, am constantly whining, need some alone time every so often, and seem scary to people who don’t know me but really i’m just a big fluffball in need of love and attention

merryginny  asked:

hey I really respect how you've decided to not promote/support FB

I wish more people would do the same thing. lots of people are staying quiet - which is up to them and well, i can’t force someone to speak up - but if enough people cause attention to why this is an issue, we can actually get something done. 

when the news broke out about the allegations, everyone was saying things like ‘his career needs to be over’ and people were reblogging text posts about him tagging it with “ew i hate him sm”

but now, months later, it’s like people are just letting it go?? i know the hype will die down because the movie is coming out late next year. but it’s shocking the amount of people who are so excited for the movie and promoting it, when they were hating on depp before.

let me say one thing: if it had been a really famous woman celebrity abusing her husband or him claiming she did, her career would be over in a second. her life would be over. the media will be tearing her down. everyone would be hating her. but since this is a famous man, people are ignoring it. 

anyway i’m sorry for using your ask to rant, but thank you ily for being sweet. ily hannah :”))

anonymous asked:

Ive felt really shit about me weight recently, like ever since i was told i was overweight by the doctors ive felt shit. This was nearly two weeks ago. I know they said to not worry about it but ive just felt really insecure about it. Ive never been a skinny child you know? And the only way ive been able to feel okay is if i can fit into these size 14 (uk) jeans which i have for about two years now. I jusg feel really shit about it and idk what to do

listen babe. I know lots of ppl say this, but I mean it when I say your weight does not, in any way, decide your worth. you don’t have to be skinny, it’s really so unimportant. this universe is so fucking BIG, it’s full of so many incredible spectacular things, so many different kinds of people, and you needing a larger sized pair of jeans doesn’t mean anything in the grand scheme of things. If the doctors say you’re overweight, there are healthy ways to try and gradually get in better shape if you want, with exercise and eating better and even better sleeping habits. but you’re not somehow Lesser because of it. would you ever hate on a chubby cat? of course not. so don’t hate on yourself. focus on being happy and working what you’ve got, for yourself. fuck beauty standards, you’re doing great just as you are. 💜

miramickey  asked:

I was waiting for the moment when somebody would finally tell Tony what he is doing to his family. I know that it is hard for him and that he feels inferior, but it is really hard for me to see him like this

This ^^^^is definitely a major theme in Tonys recovery in this fic.

Yes he is suffering, but his family is ALSO suffering because of the way he is coping, and because he loves them, he needs to change that for both his and their benefit.

I think oftentimes people get so lost in their own grief that they forget about the people next to them/around them that love them, and that’s why so many relationships can’t survive a tragedy.

Having just lost my grandma I witnessed this firsthand with other members of the family, lashing out in their grief, using unhealthy/self harm coping techniques and it was awful and I can guarantee that at least one relationship ship was destroyed over that weekend.

It’s awful, but it’s also very common I think, more common than people think, and I suppose that’s why I’ve been stressing it in this fic.

Lol here you guys thought I was just writing a story, little did you know I’m exorcising my own issues/demons via fan fiction!

I know you needed other people but when I saw the boys lived in The Big Apple I thought of a high school dog walker. Hope ya like her and if you can’t read some of the facts I left on the picture just message me if your confused. One fact I left out is she’s from Texas and has an accent and is a lot more friendly then the common New Yorker. I want to say she’s lived here since she was 12 so that’s also a fact. I love the boys designs and I hope I can draw Luna with the boys someday~ Hope you have a really great day!

Response: I LITERALLY SQUEALED AAAA! I love the idea of a dog walker! I can’t believe I didn’t think about it before! And my boys love animals, especially Mugsy! And their cat is always roaming around the city and playing with the other pets and animals. AAa this is so exciting! And this character is great and the doggos!

Thanks for the submission!

anonymous asked:

Do you struggle with sin? I feel discouraglike a fake Christian lately because of my sin. I’ve talked to coffeeman777 a lot about this and he’s helped me a lot he’s such a wonderful guide and you are smart. So smart. Will you help me like he has? I just need encouragement and I feel embarrassed and ashamed

Hello there friend,

Yes, I do struggle with sin. There are sins I have to actively resist against. We all have particular sins that are weaknesses for us. So please know you are not alone in this struggle.

One sin that I struggle with that you may have seen me talk about on this blog is lustful thoughts. I also tend to have a short temper and lose my patience easily in certain scenarios, which is something I really need to get better at resisting. I’m not proud of these weaknesses and in all honesty, I’m particularly ashamed of my struggle with sexual sin. But I talk about it here because I want people to know they aren’t alone and that He can and will help them resist these sins if they call upon His name.

You’re so sweet to call me smart. :) But the truth is, any help I offer here is not because of intelligence or any ability of my own.. It’s because He gives me the words and ability to help others. And the same Spirit that lives in me lives in you.. His Spirit! That’s why you will be able to get past this.

I am happy to help you in any way I can.. Please let me know how I can help you. You are most welcome to message me as much as necessary with any questions, or if you just need someone to vent/talk to when you’re having a tough moment (or even in the good moments; you can message me any time!)

I hope to hear from you soon. Take care, friend. :)

just a disclosure and a thank you

Just want to say thanks for those who are supportive about this morning’s little dispute. 

Just to be clear, I’m used to people commenting on certain aesthetics i’ve made and deemed it inappropriate, insensitive, etc. It’s very easy for someone in my position to get ruffled up by that, especially since my purpose for my moodboards/aesthetics was never about vanity, and a lot of cases people on here don’t understand what I’m trying to do (and that’s fine), which I’ll explain later.

 I’m used to that, and I would have left it at my first comment, but what really got me was the assumption of my being ignorant of mental illness, which is completely 200% untrue. It frustrated me in ways I’m sure a lot of you understand why; you dont want to be accused of something that you aren’t, especially by someone who wants to appear like the morality police, trying to find fault in people they don’t know. 

I’ve been that type of person … quick to judge people, telling them they’re a horrible person just because they done something that’s not PC, even by a fraction, and trying to find every microscopical reason to find my hatred and my resentment justified. I would blow things out of proportion, and make something nonsensical into a huge fucking deal. 

I was not a happy person when I was that person, and when I realized what I was doing, I felt even worse at how badly I treated people just because I wanted to feel morally superior. And I’m fully aware that this person is not feeling regretful about making wild unfair assumptions and accusations about me, and is misquoting me, ghosting my tumblr for responses, vague posting, etc, etc. But despite that, I wish this person all the love and luck in the world, since I know what they’re doing they believe is the right thing to do. They’re sticking up for something they feel strongly about, albeit in the wrong place. So if you’re reading this, I just want to apologize for my image use that offended you, but I’m also going to say I’m not changing it.

I’ve said this in the first paragraph; my graphics on this blog are not meant for vanity. Most of them are not, anyway, and those that are, are usually more bright and pc. I spend time picking the right images to portray a story, not a sense of style. I create characters, stories, and scenarios with images. Every image placed on the grid is put there with a purpose. I’m not perfect, but I try to make everything have balance and flow. It’s not meant to be quirky. It’s not meant to be edgy. It’s meant to invoke thought, emotion, inspiration, and for people to read a story that isn’t being told verbally. 

In the Zodiac After Dark series, every Zodiac is a representation of negative traits and stereotypes of each zodiac, some based off of character tropes, and others based off of real life people I know and the negative traits I’ve seen in person. 

I’m not going to further this discussion, because this is the last I’ll say on the matter. So I won’t respond to anything. Hope everyone has a great day, I know I had a good day downtown with my friends, and I don’t wish to tarnish my rainy saturday with arguments. 

Originally posted by luzbeldualism

I… don’t know why I did that to be honest??? I was in the middle of drinking my iced cappuccino and when I got on the bus, a man across from me looked kind of distressed and pointed at my drink like “caffeine pls miss I really need it right now” and I just gave him my drink like “whoa ok here you go dude”

I wonder if people on the bus are questioning why I did that LMAO

I don’t really know tbh but he seemed troubled so?????

this is a psa of sorts…
i’m bad at keeping in touch —just a fact. i have moments in which all i want is to isolate myself from people and i will 100% ignore everyone while i’m in those moods. it’s not personal, and usually it passes fairly quickly & i’ll be back to screaming @ you about our muses, etc. 

that being said…
if ever you need someone to talk to —whether we’ve talked in the past, whether or not we’re mutuals, whatever. PLEASE message me and say you need that, and i will be there to the best of my ability, regardless of the situation. i’m bad at keeping in touch but i’m really good at being a sounding board, a shoulder, or someone to validate how you’re feeling. 

in closing (tl;dr)
- don’t take it personal if i’m anti-social
- but also don’t ever think you have to suffer alone.

anonymous asked:

hey Christine my boyfriend and I are doing a show together and we only have one scene together. he's confessed to me that he's developed a crush on one of the girls who's in scenes with him. advice? is that common?

It is actually really common.  When you’re around someone so much, you start to see traits in them you wish you had in your significant other, but it’s really an illusion, because you’re just seeing a tiny sliver of them on stage and in rehearsal.  You’re also getting close to them because of the trust you build with other actors during a rehearsal process, which adds this non-romantic intimacy between people that can feel like a crush. I’m glad he told you he’s feeling these things, because what that says to me is that he has no intention of acting on it and he needs to be honest with you so that you’re aware and can trust him.  Know that this kinda thing almost always goes away as the show goes on or after the show, because those rose-colored glasses fall away, you don’t see them as much anymore, and you come back to reality. In the mean-time, try to be honest with him about how you feel and decide on boundaries together to make sure you’re both comfortable and not resentful!

anonymous asked:

Hal/Clark or Superlantern is also really cute. There was this one New Adventures of Superboy comic where they first met as teenagers and Hal is pretty 😍, and since then there's been a minor running thing where Hal tries to get Clark to go to dinner with him. Honestly I feel like it should be more popular and wish more people read GL so more content existed.

Anonymous said: Also there’s a comic where Hal and Clark are hanging out in space playing fetch with Krypto and it is the most domestic.

Anon, I’ll need those exact names and issues. Ya know, for science.

Also that one with the dinner…is that lower panel part of that? (Also Hal is wearing that turtleneck like a champ. I wanted to draw a small project which includes that)

Boy I think I need an infograph for all those ships. Let me just… There.

Hi this is literally the most mail I’ve gotten on this blog ever in history and I don’t know how to deal so I’m answering in bulk like I do on my side blog

???????? I am flattered??????

anonymous asks: I will love you and your art. Your spiteful stubbornness inspires me


@4314harper asks: YOUR ART IS SO GOOD?? I DONT EVEN KNOW WHO THESE PEOPLE ARE BUT I LOVE THEM AND I LOVE YOU AND IM PROBS REALLY AGGRESSIVE RN BUT I NEED TO BE SO THAT YOU FEEL AS MUCH AS YOU RIGHTFULLY DESERVE FOR THE GOOD ARE™ YOU DO. (I know I just followed but I scrolled through before i did so this whole thing is legit I swear.)(sorry for yelling I’m just !!! about art and their artists)

Dude this means a lot, this is really flattering and I’m so glad you like my doodles, you are a pal and I wish you the world

anonymous asks: You are such a good artist! Just keep swimmin friendo💖

you know what i WILL. I will ALWAYS KEEP SWIMMING. You are a PEACH and i LIKE YOU

@chithemagicalgirl asks: I found you through your comic about being an artist on tumblr, and wow am I happy I saw it (and related to it, strongly ;u;). I love your work you make me want to draw again and I haven’t in about a year and a half because brain surgeries seem to have given me a permanent art block. I’ll always like and reblog your work if rebloggin is ok with you. I hope you have a wonderful day💕

Keep drawing, my dude. Even if it’s just a stupid doodle, just put something out. Draw an orange slice. That’s what I do if I don’t have any ideas. I just draw orange slices. Draw me an orange slice, I believe in you and you’re the sweetest thank you so much you have a wonderful day as well I can’t do emojis I’m on my laptop

anonymous asks: You are beautiful and so is your arts. 💜

[heart emoji] [100 emoji] [thumbs-up emoji] THANK you’re beautiful too

@castiel-angel-of-sass asks: Your art is so neat and satisfying that it warms my heart! I’m not joking please don’t leave tumblr! Ever. Thanks x

I’M SO GLAD YOUR HEART IS WARM also yeah I’m not going anywhere I just like to complain I WILL CONTINUE

((like actually I’ve had such a wave of people being the sweetest ever and it’s been amazing, thanks so much you guys you’ve really brightened my week a lot, I wish you all the best and thank you a billion times))

I never thought i would be emotionally ok with “taking a break” from ttc. I really don’t know how people do multiple cycles back to back. But I’m so drained and stressed all the time which isn’t healthy. It’s more financially draining than originally anticipated. I feel like a quitter taking a break after 3 cycles. But our bank accounts need it. And so does my sanity. I just got over constant hot flashes roughly a week ago and here i am taking the medicine again that kicks them off. We’re going to wait until the holidays are over. Take the next cycle off and just relax for a bit. I’m sure David will enjoy me not being impatient and cranky all the time. I hate the term “battling infertility” personally. But damn if I’m not coming around to it. Because this shit is a battle and we’re not giving up.

just a mushy rant, no need to read

ive been through a lotta shit and nothing really surpises me anymore and i know a lot of yallre struggling with shit and i want you to know you can always come to me with anything you’re facing because i wanna help, i want to teach people what i’ve learned through all my mistakes so that they dont have to suffer?

i just wanna be a good wizened older brother so everyone can have someone to come to when they need it

“SF9, Pentagon, add Victon then let’s name them Holy Fl*p Trinity” I fucking hate disrecful people like did you really have to move those ugly little demon claws of yours and type that out? Did you really think someone would appreciate your stupid and again, stupid comment? There is no need to call ANYTHING a fl*p just because you don’t like them asshole

  • Hoseok expressed how BTS love Korean food that’s why for catering there is always Korean food.
  • He agreed to do a Vlive and wanted to keep his promise. He said “to be honest I’m not doing anything special, but I haven’t done it in a while contrary to the members. I just wanted to talk”
  • He commented on the shows they appeared in and how unbelievable it still feels “I watch youtube a lot and v app [laughs] and it was shocking that I was able to go on shows I always watch online and able to do performances. we were on James Corden and Jimmy Kimmel and it was such a new experience”
  • A fan asked him if he lost weight and he stated how well he eats lately he thought he gained weight.
  • When asked about his mixtape, it showed how still nervous he feels about it “I feel like I'm going to get indigestion if I talk about my mixtape while eating. I’m still working on it. to be honest, I can’t for sure say when it’s going to come out. it will when the results are good”. He is treating his mixtape with care like an album “my tracks haven’t been organized yet. it’s hard. I don’t know what songs to add and what kind of style to make the mixtape. you create a mixtape like you’re an album. I want to count this as an album. it’s hard to select as the quality has to be good” he will add later “I do worry about my mixtape. I didn’t know what kind of message to show. I’ve decided now it’s just selecting the tracks now that’s difficult. I’m working hard preparing the mixtape so please anticipate.”
  • He watched his MAMA live in Brazil and loved how the fans were so supportive so he thanked them
  • When asked to dance, he commented on how big the room and started dancing and moving “the hotel room is so big I can do hope on the street”
  • He spoke about the Mic Drop Remix Teaser that came out today and compliments Steve Aoki on his acting. They are going to meet him soon and they plan to gift him stew to show their appreciation. 
  • He was proud and happy about their recent outfits and expressed how clothes can affect your mood and actions. And the dancing needs to match the clothes. 
  • He promised the European ARMY that BTS will come soon to Europe and to wait for them. 
  • He died his hair red for AMA because it matches him well. Fans were worried in case his and BTS’ scalp were damaged and he answered “We dye our hairs a lot it’s true. but it’s for the concept, we take care of our hair a lot and use hair treatment”
  • A WISE ARMY PROPOSED THE FOLLOWING: “We want all BTS with black hair” to which Jhope showed big interest “WOW! OT7 with black hair? we’ve never done that before right?” (let’s pray for this death sentence to come soon) 
  • He can’t believe what is happening right now and believes that all that is happening is thanks to the ARMY “it’s still hard to believe that this is real. it’s all thanks to our fans cheering us on so much that we’re able to perform at an American award show. I think I’m living a happy life. being able to work with such great people and receiving lots of support”
  • He shared with us the book he is reading recently and it’s about self-love “speaking of loving yourself I’m reading a book [korean] “as you live your love and learn” and it talks about loving yourself as well. when I read books I get so sleepy, so it’s amazing that I even read this much. I really want to finish this book through”
  • He wants to do Hope On The streets and invite talented dancers. He is still so in love with dancing and wants to learn more if he has time.
  • About the Wings Tour Finale, he expressed how amazing it will be and described it as “different” when asked to give a spoiler. 
  • ARMY told him to keep his promise. In the past, he said he will show his abs if they gain 10 million followers on VAPP. He was so startled ““abs” ABS?! we don’t have 10 million followers on v app yet, wow don’t scare me like that when I’m eating” (That means this promise is still going)
  • He danced to ‘Gucci Gang’. It is his recent favorite song. 
  • He didn’t know his passion for music will grow so big and it turned this way thanks to both RM and Suga 
  • He was happy to share the fact that Jungkook is making beats lately (they always brag about the maknae whenever they go)
  • He called Namjoon 'Rap Monster’ then realized that he can’t call him this way anymore “[called Nnamjoon rap monster] [in eng] OH SORRY RM. [in korean] our Namjoonie changed his name to RM so please call him RM. rm backward is Mr. because I was beside him, I saw how much he worried and thought this through. he has affection towards this name”
  • He was enjoying the live stream as all ARMYs were showering him with love “I didn’t know a livestream was this fun” and promised he will do them more often from now on. 
  • He wants to study languages so he can communicate better with the fans
  • He can’t drink alcohol because his face turns very red (that’s why he drinks soda)
  • “Sprite or Coke?” for him it’s all the same
  • He said goodbye a lot and felt bad finishing the live stream and saying bye ARMY (he was very sweet)

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