How do you deal with being a 'lipstick lesbian'? I struggle with this so much, like I'm (23) pretty sure I'm gay but I literally don't fit any gay stereotypes or whatever... I hate drugs and rarely drink, don't have any tattoos or crazy piercings or whatever it makes it really, really hard for me... I hate it all uh. I'm super girly and literally so 'straight' looking/acting whatever. I'm just confused and struggling so much
so to be honest i totally struggle with this still sometimes….. i feel like i am taken less seriously in the lesbian community because i look “straight”. it’s so silly! i totally went through a phase when i first came out where i felt like i had to dress a certain way to fit in and i realized it just wasn’t me. i love dresses and makeup and i also fucking love vagina. you don’t have to dress a certain way to be gay and you just have to remind yourself of that. you are who you are and you don’t need to conform for anyone. you are valid!!!!