i really dont understand

anonymous asked:

tbh i see what youre saying,, alot of bi ppl dont really understand that they have straight privilege

bi people don’t have straight privilege what are you talking about sis all i’m saying is that m/f relationships have no need to be prioritized nor do they need positivity. this is like most definitely bait to try and get me to agree to something stupid and it did not work

anonymous asked:

i dont understand? whats wrong with stiefvater???

I really wish I could do links on mobile. That would make this easier, as I could go out and link sources. 1) She gets all offended and defensive over people fancasting Ronan (Maybe other characters, too?) as POC. Lowkey racist, man. 2) She gets all bitchy over people liking K, even going so far as to compare him to some frat boy who raped a friend of hers. Her treatment of K was all-around appalling. He was a child. He deserved redemption, not death. 3) She insists on debunking harmless ships, which is kinda a personal peeve, but still. Sarchengsey are just friends, don'cha know. Bluesey, too. There’s probably more, but I’m a little scared of losing followers just over this, lol

thank you zelda wynn valdes for designing one of my favorite outfits ever👯

Can we talk about Yoonseok/Sope for a moment please

I strive to have a friendship as strong as these two they are the most adorable thing I’ve ever seen

GOALS.

Again, GOALS. 

They just seem to understand one another so well??? They just have a really precious friendship and they care about each other so much

They’re also essentially polar opposites where one is complete sunshine and bubbly and happy all the time and the other is a bit quieter and more reserved and I love friendships/relationships like those where the two people match together so well because they’re nothing alike

However, at the same time, I think that the reason they are such good friends is because they’ve both been through some rough shit and can connect really well in that way and I really admire that their friendship is built off of that because it makes them super supportive of each other

And when Yoongi is with Hoseok, he’s like a different person. He just lets go of himself more and he just seems a lot more carefree and happy. I think they bring out the best in each other and maybe even the side of them that you don’t see all that often because they just work with one another that well.

You don’t even have to necessarily ship them either, but you can’t deny that they have a really wonderful friendship


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Some things I think people need to understand about Killing Stalking

To start, I was to preface this by saying this is coming from someone who typically doesn’t like these types of stories (I like psychological thrillers, but not too big into gore and such) and, this is coming from a gay person (a girl who likes girls). So please, Don’t say I like KS for “””yaoi””” 

It seems many on tumblr have an innate hatred for KS…without having ever read it. “It’s problematic!” you scream, “It’s abusive!” yes…yes, it is. And what many fail to understand is that these are main parts of the story. The relationship between Yoonbum and Sangwoo is never shown in a positive light, every interaction is menacing and foreboding (even the “lovey” seeming ones) it’s all portrayed in a manner that just screams “Stockholm Syndrome” and the more the story goes on, the more we as readers see the deterioration of Yoonbum’s love for Sangwoo and his desperation to escape (he even has thoughts of killing him, for christs sake). It’s an abusive relationship….portrayed as an abusive relationship. I will admit, some fans do romanticize it, but that’s no fault of the stories own or the author, that’s a whole other conversation. Abusive relationships are real, and it should be no surprised to see one portrayed in a story, especially a story such as this. 

“It’s homophobic!!” …what? Are people suggesting that because it’s a gay abusive relationship, that makes it homophobic? I’d say to think that every gay relationship is bright and happy and healthy is slightly homophobic in it’s own right. We’re just like anyone else, gay relationships can be just as toxic and unhealthy as another relationship. And sure, Sangwoo says some homophobic things, but he also comes to accept that side of his sexuality too (he’s also a serial killer so….what are you really expecting)

KS is a psychological horror featuring a gay toxic, abusive relationship. It doesn’t glorify these things. Are there some problematic KS fans? Definitely, but just because someone reads KS doesn’t automatically make them a shitty abusive scumbag like some of you seem to be thinking (looking at you, rude anons in my ask box). Look, I get it if KS isn’t your cup of tea, it’s definitely not for everybody. But don’t go around assuming things and attacking people when you don’t truly understand what you’re talking about. KS portrays abusive and problematic things, but does that make it problematic itself? I don’t think so, it’s a horror story, and has a plot and characters to fit that. Sangwoo is a merciless serial killer, is he sometimes portrayed sympathetically and given a background? Sure. But Criminal Minds does the same thing with it’s serial killers, why arent you complaining about that? Jojo’s Bizzarre adventure does that with Kira and he’s one of the most believable and effective villains i’ve ever seen. And Sangwoo is just that, a villain, just because he can be portrayed sympathetically and given a personality doesn’t detract from that. It’s never really been implied that Sangwoo is a good person that deserves good things. Do some fans seem him that way, or see him a positive light and want him and Yoonbum together all lovey dovey? Sure, theyre out there. But that’s them and their prerogative, not the story (I don’t agree with that but that’s them, not me) Do some people only read for ~yaoi~ they sure do. But again, that’s them, NOT the story itself. 

But you can’t blame the story for some of the fans or your own assumptions about it. KS is a psychological horror, it’s plot is well thought out, its characters are believable and everything is portrayed amazingly through the writing and art. If you think of KS as a “love story” then yeah, it’s “problematic” but that’s not what it is. It’s HORROR, and it’s horror done right. 

I’m worried… He thinks Jesse thinks little of him for some reason…?

whats been troubling me for years is the fact that people actuallu desperately ship skul and val??? as if thats a normal thing to do??? with a girl whos a teenager for the whole series and a 400 YEAR OLD SKELETON??? like nope. skulduggery is basically her dad. i only ship him with china sorrows.

It truly breaks my heart hearing that some of y'all are mistreated and talked down to as if you mean nothing. Let me tell you this, you mean something to me. You are worthy of love and you deserve happiness. You are loved and I promise it gets better, whatever you’re dealing with will pass I know it may seem like it won’t but trust me it will. You’re stronger than you think and you will get through this. God I truly wish I could give you all a giant hug and squeeze you and tell you just how wonderful you truly are. Please don’t be afraid to message me if you need it, it doesn’t matter if we’ve never talked I am here if you ever need me!

the conversation isak has with eva in the last ep of s3 is important because it isnt just isak talking about even-it’s showing that mentally ill people can-and will-be loved regardless of their illness. people are going to love us through relapses and episodes and on the days we cant get out of bed. isak being there for even on his good days and his bad gives hope to mentally ill people, and makes us believe we’re deserving of love and that we’re capable of having a functioning/healthy relationship, just like even.