My brother just told me he was a pan sexual and I think that’s so awesome.
I always just assumed he was straight, which I know is a wrong mind set as we as people shouldn’t just assume that everyone’s default setting is “straight” but I was watching a Reality TV show and one of the guys in it was asexual and I started thinking: hey, I think my brother is asexual as I’ve never seen him particularly be into anyone. So, I asked him straight up (which is probably not a cool thing to do but it turned out great in the end) and he said no, why would I think that and I explained. Then he just straight up says, “no, I am what people call a "pansexual” “.
Frankly, I think that’s so awesome. I’m not fetishing or anything, what I’m saying is I think it is so awesome how he is so up front about it and if you saw him, he was like "yes, this is my sexuality, problem?” And I was like “ wow, dude. That’s badass.”
I’ve never seen him so sure about something, is what I mean.
I hope I’m not coming off as an asshole and please tell me if I am. I never expected that but at the end of the day, I think it’s great and I love that he seems to know exactly who he is which is more than I can say for myself. Proud of him for not giving a fuck.