i probably only think so bc they are all male sub

Anime List

Bullet points are the newly added animes.

Italics are Titles

BOLD is for finished, currently watching, and Next.


FINISHED ANIMES:

Inuyasha -my life

Avatar- The Last Airbender -if you count that as anime

The Legend of Kora-if you count this as anime as well

Ouran Highschool Host Club -SO MAD THERE IS NO SEASON 2

B Gata H Kei- WHAT IS UP WITH THESE ANIMES NOT HAVING A SEASON 2, interesting plot btw lmao

Kaichou Wa Maid Sama -sooooooo cute thought it was pretty well executed story

Fruits Basket - very cute and the characters were very well written and developed. although i didn’t really care the lack of plot, i didn’t really care for the main character at all

Aria the Scarlet Ammo- wasn’t my favorite but i loved the main character, he was actually the only character i liked

Amnesia-was pretty good but i was confused like 80% of time

Arcana Famigila- Thought this was a pretty creative plot and I really liked the story line and the characters were rad, I really didn’t know how much i like it until it was over and then I was empty inside)

KamiSama Kiss-LOVED LOVED LOVED, currently waiting on season 3 and I wasn’t sure if I should put this in the finished list or currently watching

Sekai Ichi Hatsukoi -my first yaoi anime and I loved it, it was very cute

The K Project- wasn’t sure if this went in finished animes or not because I finished season 1 but I heard there was going to be a season 3. Tbh I thought I was going to hate this but I turned out LOVING IT

Say I Love You- This anime was damn cute and very satisfying to say the least

Hiiro no Kakera (Tamayori Princess)- This one was one of those animes that  I started off hating and ended up loving. It was a little too cheesy for my taste and some of the animation sucked. I also think that the series was not long for what they’re were trying to accomplish at the end because of the lack of development everything seemed rushed. But overall I did enjoy it.

Full Metal Alchemist-THE WHOLE THING WAS GR8 UNTIL THE END

Beyond The Boundary- Really like it, thought it was very well put together for being of of the shorter series

Special A-Very much liked this anime, very funny and entertaining

Itazura Na Kiss-  Okay this anime I liked it at first but it really just turned me off with the amount of like verbal and then physical abuse the main protagonist received by her significant other. I understand where the writer was trying to go with this idea of like the male lead having a tough exterior but then end up being a softy but I think she just overdid it. I really want to love this anime but I can’t and honestly, I couldn’t focus on the story line much becasue I was always thinking about why the main protagonist received so much abuse from an anime that’s not that serious of a drama. And also I don’t appreciate how fast it went along, but ya know its not my story, so you do you Kaoru Tada.

Dance With Devils- I liked it, didn’t have any complaints, was just a typical anime for me tbh nothing special

Monthly Girls Nnozaki Kun- Omg I was so mad about this anime because it really had so much potential to be a good romance story and it literally just went nowhere. NOWHERE. And becasue of that it was pretty boring to me; I found myself hoping that something would actually happen and create some kind of plot 24/7.

Akagami-no-Shirayuki-hime- Very cute, I loved it. I really like the main character.

Seven Deadly Sins- I wasn’t really into this at first but as I got to know the characters more I found I really loved it. The story itself is okay but the characters really are the selling point for this anime.

Vampire Knights- Okay I am going to try and push my bitterness aside about the couple in this anime, though i heard that in the manga my ship is cannon. I like the concept, but main characters who are treated like they need to be protected and nurtured like a child always upset me and that kinda ruined this one for me.

Takanoichigo- (Orange): MY FUCKING HEART MAN. IM SO SAD AND HAPPY AT THE SAME TIME. IM GLAD I WATCHED THIS IT WAS GREAT. ONE OF THE BEST I’VE EVER WATCHED. I LUUUVVV IT.

Green Green- It was cute. I think it needed to be developed more, like it shouldn’t have been a short series. Lots of potential to be a lot better. Very short and sweet.

Kiss Him, Not Me -I wasn’t feeling it at first but I warmed up to it. I wish the main character would focus on the romance more though, that’s what I was there for lol.

  • Mayo Chiki- hmm I really like the main character in this one, he was a cute and simple boy next door but other than that there wasn’t anything that stood out about it. It was very average to me. But still it wasn’t bad, nice and short and sweet.


`CURRENTLY WATCHING (longer animes, who knows when I’ll finish):

Bleach-Not my fave anime but i’m already 100 episodes in and theres no stopping me from finishing…Literally haven’t even watched a new episode in like months but I gonna finish it sooner or later. I don’t think I’ll ever get around to finishing bleach tbh lol

Naruto Shippuden- I’ve been watching this for a long time but i made the mistake of watching the dub and i don’t feeling like making that big of a switch to sub so i have to wait and i am probably not gonna finish for like 5 years) And also i’m currently caught up with Gaiden so i guess theres no point in watching anymore but i’m gonna watch anyways. but this is one of my fave animes of all time

FairyTail- Caught Up and waiting for new episodes, omg my heart is breaking bc i didnt even realize how much i was invested in this show and im sad i have to wait for more episodes and also one of my fave animes

Sword Art Online- Kirito is such a QT awh, I’m all caught up btw

Noragami- I’m liking it, it can be a  little slow at times but overall I enjoy it

One Piece- I must say this is really good for not having any real romance, which is something I love in anime. Awesome plot, and I love the characters, though there is something lacking in character development but idk what yet, but it probably doesn’t matter because I’ve barley made a dent in the series.

NEXT TO WATCH:

A LOT. I’m watching all the ones everyone suggested so it might be a while til I get to whatever you recommended last time.

A lot of these are romantic/school/slice of life animes so if you like that kinda stuff I recommenced looking into some of these. Also when it comes to action or fantasy ones I watch, I usually like those to be longer and have very well developed plots that’s why I don’t watch a lot of those because a lot of them are very short lived series.

I’m feeling so much pain for my trans siblings and fellow females right now

Today I saw a post that really set me off, it was something along the lines of

“Trans men/masc ppl love to mis/degender themselves to discuss misogyny and to gain access to women’s spaces / time / resources / bodies and that’s fucked up” then obviously the discourse descends into the “trans men are our privileged oppressors, they’re so entitled, stop talking over us you assholes” and all that crap. If you don’t think this is complete crap I’m going to deconstruct it for you and explain some of my own experiences with this line of ~reasoning.

1) First of all, the absence of femininity and the performance that’s expected to come with femaleness does not make someone “masculine”. Trans masc ppl, in my experience, are females who’re trying to distance themselves from misogyny and femininity. How in the fuck are you gonna tell me that a gender non conforming female who doesn’t even pass as a man (usually) is “misgendering” themselves by referring to themselves as female? I’ve even seen ppl discuss this like “Today i was read as a cis women and X happened to me and that’s misogyny” and then get shouted down for ~speaking over transwomen, the ultimate arbiters of misogyny dontcha know?

2) Even if a trans guy passes and doesn’t experience day to day interactions while being perceived as a female, transwomen will be the first ones to shut down any repro justice debate for being exclusive of transmen. Gender non conforming females and trans men need just as much access to birth control, pap smears, abortion, natal care, etc as any other female, (probably more if they’re on T tbh) BUT Drs have no fucking clue what to do with us, we’re educating them, walking into things uninformed, receiving sub par medical care all while these same Drs are cutting into us. Statistically, gender non conforming females have no voice when it comes to this topic and receive the worst medical care so don’t you dare call us entitled for wanting some fucking respect when no one explained to us that we’re experiencing vaginal atrophy or when we can’t go see our gynos for routine checks bc if you’re not having sex with a man they don’t have any business with you or if they make the whole ordeal so unbearable for so many of us that we never go back when we need to.

3) No trans man ever ~demanded the energy and time of women for anything didn’t effect other females. When talk about our experiences of misogyny, you better fucking believe that theres another female out there listening thinking, “OMG I’m not alone, I really thought I was just imagining it” because what else are we supposed to think after living in a patriarchal society that dismisses our feelings and experiences so often? The amount of females from the trans community who’ve experienced sexual violence, esp at the hands of trans males, is STAGGERING but I only ever heard about it from others after leaving the community because females in the trans community are silenced by everyone so we can all listen to what transwomen have to say, the same transwomen who are abusing females behind closed doors in my experience.

4) I’ve NEVER seen a trans dude ~demanding access to women’s bodies. If you mean labeling our bodies as females like… wtf our bodies are female, our uterus functions just as any others females does and that word has a meaning…? If you mean leading a vicious horde to attack a women’s who said she didn’t wanna sleep with one of us because our anatomy, body etc wasn’t attractive to her, I have NEVER seen a trans female doing that, even though we all see transwomen doing that crap all the time.

5) If you think it’d fucked up for you to have to listen to someone unfeminine talk about their experiences of mysogyny, how the fuck do you think it feels to constantly be told that your feelings don’t matter by the community you thought understood you? We come to the trans community thinking we’ve found a safe home only to be told that what we’ve experienced doesn’t matter and in fact that it’s proof of our privilege, that what we’re feeling is wrong and that we should be ashamed for not bowing down to the males we ~oppress ( who hurt us), to be attacked and alienated by the ppl we felt safe around when we speak up about being hurt only to have them back our abusers, to be attacked for asking questions; THAT is some fucked up shit. Also some bearded gamer sex and anime obsessed dudebro telling women to kill themselves bc they’re not respecting “her” pronouns, is totally not at all fucked up either 

6) Lastly, I’d like to talk about how this is all just a silencing tactic. If non trans women and trans females were allowed to really talk about our experiences of misogyny it would show that the misogyny of transwomen is a farce. If we were allowed to question their logic from our opposite perspective, it would be obvious that their ideology makes no sense when they don’t have answers. Instead we’re told from day one that anyone who questions is harmful until our brainwashing of transwomen = female and all that crap sinks in THEN when the questions are asked, they don’t make any sense and all we know is to spew our radikweer crap.

This last point is what really set me off today because the person I saw make a post like this was themselves a genderqueer female. They’re hurting their fellow trans siblings, they’re hurting their fellow females, they’re doing what they think is right on behalf of those who would hurt them and they don’t know it because they’ve been taught not to listen. 

I’m crying again. I just want you all to be protected and to be free. I love you all so much. 

ps sorry if this is kinda rambling, I’m very emotional 

anonymous asked:

Ur tumblr is my dream stream. K real talk I'm 29 and I've never had great sex. Now I'm afraid for the moment of being with a hot guy and having to confess at some level "k I need you to lead this" that feels like really vulnerable and it's not the vulnerability I'm afraid of it's the handing over of power and maybe getting hurt again. Advice for the moment of? I feel so many people have this

Hi! So my first question to you would be: what makes a guy hot, for you? Because in my experience, the “hottest,” like model-y hot guys, aren’t the hottest, like makes my pussy so wet I douse that. I absolutely infinity percent believe in chemistry, pheromones, soul mates, magic, wtv you wanna think it. And it’s my experience that I only know if that’s there in getting close to another. Sometimes someone’s language is enough to do it for me, like three emails from Ales & I knew (or hoped), but I lust for language. Usually, I have to kiss the person. And from that kiss I can usually tell whether the sex will be great, or not. To figure that out I’ve kissed then fucked not greatly. I’ve had more not-great sex partners than great ones, but I’ve had more great than not-great sex, cause when a partner is great, I fucking cling. So, maybe try kissing, making out, going slow into it with new partners? There’s no need to rush. Making out can be sooo hot. And if it’s not hot, I doubt the sex will be. It’s possible – anything is possible! – but I doubt it. Does something switch in you when it comes to penetrative sex? I remember before I was able to come w/ a partner, I could get really turned on in the foreplay, and in fantasy, but once we got to heavy petting and penetration, I would dry up, turn off, freak out. I wasn’t comfortable. I was all in my head. I worried I couldn’t perform, that he would be dissatisfied. What helped me… Being on top helped. Playing by myself helped. Smoking weed helped. Music helped. One thing I wished I’d done was make a hot thing out of my vulnerability, my virgin quality. I’ll even role play at that now, like oh I’ve never done this dirty thing before oh mmm no one’s made me feel this way I’m so inexperienced teach me please &c. &c. Your sexuality is your’s, and any partner is lucky to be sharing it. They should meet you where you are, as you should with them. Most men I know would loooove to be the first to make a woman ‘x.’ That power trip can be toxic, but sometimes it’s just nice. All to say: be yourself and be honest. No expectations. I think I did myself a disservice by wanting to be the femme fatale when I was the virgin ice queen. You’ll only be a virgin ice queen, or however you’d like to think of your present self, so long – try to enjoy that stage, every stage. Change will come. Be where you are now, play with it. If you deny it, it’ll probably bubble up anyway, but in a way you don’t have control over, or, that’s what happens with me (have to keep saying this bc limits of experience, can’t speak for all blah blah truth). Next question: are you absolutely straight? Because unfortunately most/many straight men I’ve known are lame, or, lazy. To be a great straight male lover you need to study, to zone in, and to respect – again, IMO. You need to communicate. That doesn’t have to be verbal communication. I also very much believe in the hot power of non-verbal communication, mind reading in sex. It happens. It happens through sight, scent, touch, and sound. Men need to listen to – a woman’s breathing! That can tell you soooo much about how she’s feeling. (Btw, how is your breathing when you’re doing it? Do you notice yourself holding your breath? Breath is essential to orgasm.) Great male lovers are hard to find, but they do exist, and they can be made! In my experience, those who identify as queer, or are comfortable with some non-normative masculinity, are better lovers. I think that’s because they’ve struggled w/ being and becoming, they don’t take what is for granted, so they’re more open to learning, to difference and change. Some women aren’t attracted to queer men though. It depends on you. You mention being hurt, fearing that happening again: I wish I knew more about this, had context. I hope you’re okay. It seems humans are programmed to focus on hurt. Maybe some evolutionary survival strategy? Remember harms so as to avoid them later? One traumatic memory can overwhelm years of great ones. Even in the course of a day… This is banal but: I had a great night out last night, great great great, until the last hour when something shifted & I freaked. At first, I obsessed over that shift, considered the whole night a waste, chastised myself for bothering to go out. Then, I thought to relax. I thought: I don’t want to feel bad. I replayed all the great that had come before, and felt grateful… On power: it’s never so simple as one person hands it over, the other has forever. Power is always shifting. One thing I love about BDSM is that it’s explicitly about power dynamics. You role play with power. There’s an understanding, when BDSM is healthy (by my standards), that this power play is contained to the sexual exchange, whatever that may be; the participants don’t assume it outside that “safe space.” You master this by talking about it, defining terms, setting rules. The sub and the dom are in equal control of what will take place. Both agree to act out a power imbalance. They rely on one another. There can be love. BDSM can be very healing. Maybe worth thinking about? Even if you’re not into pain, discussing power with your partner is – again, I believe – key to a hot, lasting sexual relationship. Especially for straights because – 

WE LIVE IN PATRIARCHY. 

I don’t see that ending – global-culture wide – in my lifetime. That’s a real fucking bummer, and yet – there can exist little utopias of equality. My primary relationship is that. It is bc we are both very aware of how patriarchy functions, and that as much as we would like to be exempt from it, we are not. His experience out on the streets, on the Internet, in work, is different than mine, because of gender/sex. It’s different for many other reasons too, not just gender/sex, but gender/sex absolutely informs it, us. We talk about that allllllll the time. Men open to discussing stuff like this do exist, and honestly I think they are the only ones worth fucking. Reward that! Imagine if all women stopped fucking men who were ignorant and/or exploitative of patriarchy. Strike Sex. So cool. 

I hope this wasn’t way too long, or off the mark. I’m hung over, it’s raining outside, there’s ice cream. I enjoyed this. 

Oh one more thing! Are you on birth control? Or any other medication? That can affect your libido. If you’re not, and you’re bio-sexed-female, maybe try paying attention to your hormonal cycle? I know I’m horniest during ovulation. If I can, I like to time first-time hookups for then, bc I’ll be naturally more into it… more into my body. Good luck, have fun, be safe. 

* D’oh – I read back & realized I assumed you were female. You don’t specify. That’s my mistake, projection. Still, I think most of this holds. xx