Treat HIM with Kindness
The inspiration for this imagine is a picture that I’ve seen recently on Instagram but also the newest interview with Cate Blanchett and Ellen Degeneres. Even though I know what they’ve said is supposed to be a “joke”, it still bothered me! When will people stop objectifiying and sexualizing Harry?! It makes me sad because Harry does not deserve this, absolutely not! And I want to underline that everything that is being said in the story, does not go for every fan. I know there are girls who do think the same as I do! Enjoy! And leave your comment below! Btw, I’m sorry for the very bad ending but I hope you don’t mind!
(Pictures are not mine!!!!)
“Harry Edward Styles!” I screamed through the entire house and immediately made my way to Harry’s study where he was currently working on some new stuff. As I stormed into his room, I almost knocked him off with the door because he was already in a hurry to get out of the room but he luckily dodged away in time. He wore a confused expression on his face while he examined my body from top to bottom.
“What’s the matter, love? Are you okay?” He asked worriedly.
Instead of giving him an answer, I shoved my smart phone right into his face.
“What’s this, Harry?” I screeched in anger, making him more perplexed about the situation. He examined the screen of my smart phone intently before he gave an answer to my question.
“What’s on the picture, Harry?” He looked at the photo again.
“Is that my thigh on that picture?”
“Damn yeah, and what the hell is on your thigh?”
“A fucking hand, yes Harry! What in god’s name is a fucking hand doing on your fucking thigh?!”
Just a few minutes ago when I was peacefully scrolling through Instagram, I stumbled across this post by coincidence that a Harry fan page had uploaded. It made me beyond mad, no furious even as I saw the content of this picture. It showed Harry on one of his last concerts in the US, bending down to his audience. He was extremely close to the girls standing on the front row and of course one girl took the advantage of the possibility and laid her hand on Harry’s thigh. The worst thing was the area that girl was touching him; she had her hand placed very close to his intimate part and seeing this made me completely cringe the second I saw it. Who the fuck was she and allowed herself to touch Harry in that inappropriate way? Especially if she knew that he was already taken?
“Love, would you calm down?” He laid his both hands on my shoulders to help me get some steam of. However it made me more furious.
“Don’t expect me to calm down, Harry! This is a no go! What the hell?!”
“(Y/N), yes it happened, now what?” He asked, raising his voice slightly, acting like it wasn’t a serious matter.
I shook my head in disbelief and ran my hand through my hair in frustration. How couldn’t he get the message that I tried to transmit?
“You don’t get it do you?”
“What? I didn’t even notice that the girl did what she did!”
“That’s the thing Harry! You almost never notice! And even when you do, you just stay silent and don’t say anything about it! This girl crossed a line where it was too much! Her hand was placed far over your comfort zone and you want me to believe that you didn’t notice? She almost grabbed your dick, Harry! Haven’t you felt anything at all? If you allow them to treat you that way, things will never change and they won’t stop!”
Tears of rage started to develop in my eyes. How many times had I to witness the way Harry was being treated today?
Harry is a good-looking, handsome and very talented young man, I don’t deny it but the way he is being objectified is the way that bothers the shit out of me. It is simply disgusting. No matter how much you adore a person or a celebrity, it never gives you the right to invade their privacy. If this were a man doing this to a woman, it would be called sexual harassment but the same goes for man as well. Nobody is allowed to put their hands onto somebody without their permission. And I doubt that in that moment Harry gave his permission for that girl to touch him that way. All I want is stopping to sexualize Harry! He’s a normal guy just like every other human being on this planet. This goes for any other celebrity as well. Just because he’s the Harry Styles, doesn’t mean he has no private life.
“I hate this.” I sniffled, “I really cannot stand it. People make sexual jokes about you and laugh about it like it means nothing, they are calling you a sex symbol, ruining your image. Fuck!”
He wrapped his arms around me, pressing me against his chest as he soothed me.
“I try to pay more attention, love. I promise. Please, don’t cry.”
“But that’s not enough, Harry.”
“What do you want me to do then?”
“I don’t know, just make them understand this behavior is not okay! And you have a girlfriend, damn it. Even though they know it, they are not afraid. So impolite!”
He gave me gentle kiss on my forehead. “I will see what I can do, love, okay? Don’t be mad anymore. I’ll promise I’ll be more cautious the next time.”
“I love you, Harry and I adore you but you are too kind to people sometimes and they’re using this for their own advantages. Show them your limits. That’s all I want.”
He is really too kind for this world. I wish Harry would be treated the way he deserves to be treated. Not only by the fans but also the media. Even though Harry does never show his annoyance on some interviews when a not so nice question is asked, especially from his past, you still can notice how much it bothers him. Harry is an angel, why not treat him that way? Is that so difficult?
Harry always respects everybody, says everyone is equal and deserves all the kind of love they can get, he supports communities like the LGBT community and so many other organizations. He has a big heart and this fragile heart needs to be kept safe so it cannot be damaged.
Harry hugged me tightly, promising he would do something against the huge problem. He took my phone out of my hand.
“Come one love, no more tears. Let’s sit down on the couch and watch some movies. What do you think, hmm?”
“Under one condition,” I agreed, “I’m gonna choose the move.”
Harry chuckled. ”That’s fine.”
We walked down the stairs and while I choose the movie that we were about to watch, Harry prepared some popcorn in the kitchen.
I know this problem will never be out of the world. There will always be people who will treat others that way but as long as we stand together and speak out for things like sexual harassment, this is a big step into a good future.
“Treat people with kindness” –Harry Edward Styles