i needed both on my blog

anonymous asked:

I just wanted to tell you (especially with the rude person you're talking to now) that this blog is awesome. It's nice to find an anti sjw blog that isn't radical in the opposite direction. I feel like everyone goes to such an extreme on either end on this site that it's refreshing to find a blog that can both discuss sjws without also being a literal 'I hate poc/women/lgbt' blog.

I took a long time to answer this so fortunately that rude person I think you’re talking about has stopped bothering me (it was that discussion about deafness and deaf culture as I recall).

But yeah, I try to make that “my thing” on Tumblr since there are certainly already a large number of both SJW and anti-SJW blogs already. I consider myself left leaning but I think we still need to evaluate the world critically and not assume the worst out of everyone.

Glad you like the blog!

Long Hiatus

Hello everyone!
I just wanted to give you some news.

As you can see, I’ll be absent for a long time. Recently I haven’t feeling very well, both physically and mentally due…many things are happening in my life right now.

I don’t want to lie to you all and pretend I’m always smiling and being funny and silly. This time I really need a time to deal with all those stuff that requires time  that I’m spending in my blogs and chats with people. I need some time alone. 

I’ll come back when Underverse 0.3-2 is finished, maybe in the middle of July, I’ll try to update a few advances of the animation, nothing else. I won’t stream until that day comes, too. I prefer to not using the chat for a while. I need to focus and save a lot of time to finish this animation and then being able to take important choices that are about to change many things of my daily life.

I have a couple of things to do before leaving, so don’t worry to people I promised to do those things this week.

…So, see you soon and thanks for everything.
Have fun.

It is strange to me to continually see people associating the conscious decision to not engage in sexual relations as being ‘asexual’.

That’s not asexuality. That’s celibacy.

I’m asexual because sexual desire is not a normal experience for me.

People who experience sexual desire regularly, but for whatever reason have decided to no longer have sex, are celibate. (Think about nuns for this; they have sacrificed sexuality for spirituality, and it is a sacrifice because they still experience desire. Giving up sex doesn’t make them asexual, but to them it is actually, spiritually, more meaningful to have that desire but give it up for your faith, like what people do during Lent. Choosing celibacy is a common practice in Catholicism.)

You don’t ‘become asexual’ when you decide to stop having sex, in much the same way a bisexual person does not ‘become heterosexual’ when they only engage in opposite-gender sexual relations. It is an identity, not the results of your decisions or your actions.

(Disclaimer because someone is bound to address it: Of course asexuality can be the results of life events and experiences for some, but that’s not what I’m talking about.)

I’m insecure.
I’ll always want you to remind me that I’m beautiful and that I matter. I’ll always want you to hold me and touch me, or else I’ll feel like maybe you’re mad at me or you’ve finally seen all my flaws and decided that I’m not what you want anymore. I will try and give you everything, but my body will be the hardest.
I need you to understand. I need you to understand that the years of photoshopped magazine covers and standards didn’t surpass me and I need you to understand I need you to love me enough for the both of us.
Cause I’ve never loved myself, and I don’t know when I’ll be able to.
—  v.m

Warning: flashing image below!




Chapter Three of a Fatal_Error has Occurred will start in a few weeks!

Taking a break before starting this past chapter made a HUGE difference in how quickly, efficiently, and stress-free creating updates was for me because I spent time writing a script, sketching updates ahead of time, and getting organized. So that’s how I’m going to approach this upcoming chapter as well :) This’ll also give me a chance to just draw and derp around and have a bit of fun with the asks, which I’ve missed doing :D

Also, we’ve finally reached the point in the story that I can start introducing some other story elements that I’d like to explore, like the File Not Found comic. And I think ya’ll will be interested to see what I have in mind as well ;) But this requires some pretty careful planning, and I want to make sure I get it right, and at the level of quality I hold myself to. So look out for announcements about this in the weeks to come~

Along with all of this (and on a more personal note) I’ve got a LOT of things going on in my life right now, both blog/comic related and not, and I just need some time to take care of things right now so that I can keep working on my art in the future the way that I want to :) It’s nothing bad, I promise, but as a seasoned procrastinator it’s just important that I take some things seriously and handle my potato business like the potato I am.

Anywhoo! As for the main comic, ya’ll will know when I’m ready to get things started once I post the Chapter Three cover :3 I thank ya’ll in advance for your patience! <3

Dating Min Yoongi/ Suga would Include

1. I don’t know if anyone has asked already… But could we get a “dating would include” for us Yoongi stans? Btw I absolutely love your blog😍

2.  May I request you a “dating Suga would include”? Thanks in advance :3

Note: You both requested on the same day, and it made me very happy that I can finally write for my bias wrecker this BTS members. I hope you will enjoy! 

Disclaimer: I don’t own the gifs/images used. 

In the Daytime

Originally posted by yoonkooks

  • This lovable man is going to be the best boyfriend on the planet
  • Waking up in the morning consists of you telling him that you both need to get up and his response being “five more minutes” for the next half an hour as he holds you in his arms.
  • Him not being able to function until he’s had a cup of coffee
  • Him kissing you on the cheek everyday before he leaves for work
  • Unless you’ve had an argument
  • That’s when you know shits serious when he doesn’t give you that “goodbye I’m off to work” kiss
  • Him having a busy schedule, but always making time for you in his day even if it means he loses out on sleep
  • Him working long hours into the night in the recording studio to write songs for BTS
  • It isn’t unheard of for you to go there to find him asleep in the most uncomfortable positions
  • You bringing him home because you don’t want him to have a crippled back before he’s reached 30
  • Him writing songs for you that no one ever hears except for him and you
  • Lost of humming, rapping and singing around the house. 
  • Especially while he’s playing the piano. 
  • Which you never get tired of watching because oml who can resist the way he looks so passionate when he’s playing music and his long fingers are pressing against every perfect note
  • If he’s feeling generous he’ll let you sit on his knee and teach you a few simple songs to play on the piano
  • Him being private about your relationship but still taking you out on dates because he knows you love it
  • Hates being teased, especially when you’re around
  • “J-Hope I will kick your fucking ass if you don’t shut up.” 
  • Him getting embarrassed when the others tease him about his sex life
  • “I saw {y/n} had a few hickeys on her neck earlier, there was like one or two… or ten.” 
  • “J-HOPE!”
  • Him making you playlists full of songs that remind him of you, the relationship or times you’ve shared together. 
  • Smiling when it brings you to tears of joy because nothing makes him happier than seeing you happy. 
  • Him holding your hand when he’s nervous. 
  • His thumb will rub the back of your hand and his clasp will become tighter as his nerves run high. 
  • Being the most supportive person on the planet.
  • “If you want to do that Jagi, I will support you the whole way through.” 
  • Him taking secret photos of you when you’re not looking because those are what real beauty is to him. 
  • Like his lock screen is a picture of you looking up in awe at a fireworks display and he treasures it more than life.
  • Min Yoongi being the best fucking boyfriend on the damn Earth. 


At Nighttime

Originally posted by bwiseoks

  • Since he’s busy in the day time most of the time your true hanging out time will more than likely be in the evening 
  • The two of you cuddling on the sofa and watching a film together
  • Except the film is long forgotten about since you started kissing
  • Him leaving small kisses all over your face and neck to show you how much he loves you in smaller gestures
  • You sitting between his legs as you play video games together
  • Him ticking your sides when you’re about to win to he can catch you off guard and take over. 
  • “You cheated!”
  • “N’aww c’mere Jagi~” 
  • Hugging you tightly until you’re over your grudge which usually lasts about 5 seconds let’s be honest, who can be mad at him?
  • Him taking you out to basketball courts in the dead of night because no one else will be around to see you two together
  • Him teaching you how to score a basket
  • His arms holding the ball with you from behind as he teaches you how to position yourself and aim the ball. 
  • Picking you up and spinning you around when you score your first basket on your own. 
  • Him taking you out for night time drives when there’s no one around
  • Blasting music out the windows because it makes you both happy and who is around to judge or give a fuck?
  • backsteat car sex
  • The two of you cuddling up in bed gives him life
  • But sometimes he needs to be more intimate
  • rough sex
  • You telling him you’d like him to be more dominant and thinking he’s forgotten about it until he pushes you up against the wall and starts showing you whose really in charge. 
  • marks, scratches and love bites that get you both into shit
  • “Yoongi, how many times have I told you to stop getting those ugly marks.” 
  • “How many times have I told you I really don’t give a fuck what you think about my ugly marks, Jin.” 
  • Smirking when he see’s the other member’s jealousy, or Jungkook’s blushing, because you’re his and nothing will change that. 

Sir - 

There are a lot of misconceptions about D/s or M/s relationships.  I hear them all the time when I meet new people in the lifestyle, or I see blogs dedicated to a very specific fetish.   One of these misconceptions is that a Dominant is unfeeling, strict, even abusive.  It doesn’t have to be that way.  As much as we don’t want to be labelled as vanilla, much of our lives are still very much grounded in “the norm”.   My little princess and I recognize that, and we have a very open and loving relationship that incorporates kink and D/s into it, but does not replace the basic needs for emotional support and nurturing love. 

You can have both.  

I love my little everything.  She has diagnosed anxiety disorders that she takes medication for, and she probably has other un-diagnosed issues as well.  I am well aware that I cannot “fix” her.  I cannot make her see a psychiatrist.  I cannot magically make her see herself as I see her.  You might say, if you own her, then you should be able to make her.  My response would be, an unwilling participant in treatment will never respond to treatment.  She has to go when she is ready.  I have accepted her as she is.  When I accepted ownership of her, I accepted this about her as well.  She became my responsibility, and as such, so did her disorders.  I cannot fix them, I cannot balance the chemicals in her brain.  I have accepted this as well.

This is what I can do.  I can be there every single time she needs me.  I can show her again and again that her Dom, her Owner, her Lover, accepts who and what she is.  I can encourage her.  I can tell her that she is gorgeous.  I can show her that my love is unconditional.  I can spank her when she needs that release.  I can hold her when she needs to feel safe.  I can stay up way past the point of exhaustion to have these types of conversations with her.  

I can do all of these things and still expect her to drop to her knees when she is told.  

Every relationship needs to be built on mutual trust and respect.  Ours is no different.

little girl - 

Daddy explained it perfectly. He is my greatest support system and the person I am free to be completely myself with. I can tell anything and everything to him. Tumblr often shows the physical side of D/s relationships, and it can be hard to remember how important the mental and emotional aspect of a Dom/sub relationship is. Daddy has held me as I cried until I calmed down, wiped away my tears, put work aside to answer my calls during low points, and has listened and comforted me as I bawled to him over the phone during my break after a shitty day at work because his voice calms me down like nothing else can. Daddy’s calm, patient demeanor perfectly matches my wild instability. As he stated, we both recognize that he cannot just make my disorders go away, and I have to make the swim for myself, but he is my life boat when it feels like I am drowning.

Back in the early days of my Crewt blogging I talked extensively about how destroyed Newt is by the sculpted sharp beauty that is a confident Credence at his full potential

but tbh that definitely goes both ways. Newt is going around scarred and muscled and tenderly cradling baby venemous and magically charged creatures probably shirtless because it’s HOT in some of the environments no need to get uncomfortable. so he is sitting there both chiding and gently cooing at this probable hellbeast and Credence is shaken to his entire core with the realization of just how gay he is.

It’s so gay. That is how gay. Every time Newt takes his shirt off look in the background somewhere for a Credence who is SO DISTRESSED ABOUT IT

Taking a few days to myself

Hello all! 

As you may know, I’ve had a pretty bad past few weeks. To top it off, I’ve been in the hospital for the past 2 days. I was just released but need some time to recover. This means that both this blog and my other blog @unflatteringcatselfies may not be very active this week. 

I apologize for any inconveniences. The queue is up for both blogs, so there will still be content! 

Have a fun and cat filled day! 

anonymous asked:

hi i love your blog! basically i have a problem with describing characters... i have tons of inspirational boards on pinterest that help me gauge their appearance but i don't want my reader to assume everyone is beautiful, perfect, etc. is there any like prominent "ugly" facial features you can think of to make my characters more realistic looking? i don't want anyone thinking they're all models

Hi, and thank you! I’m glad this blog is helpful.

I can certainly give you a list things society defines as physical imperfections, both for face and body. Keep in mind that appearance is mostly subjective – what one person finds attractive another could think is butt-ugly. So just because you give your character one or more of these traits doesn’t mean they’re not attractive to other characters, if you need or want them to be – adding an imperfection just prevents Mary-Sueism.

Face:
- eyes set too wide apart
- a runaway chin (meaning they don’t have a defined chin)
- a big/hooked nose
- a too-sharp nose
- a large forehead
- a double chin
- eyes set too close together, which makes the face look broader
- crooked/rotten/missing/discolored teeth
- too-thin lips
- a chin that juts out
- too-light eyebrows or eyelashes (if you can’t see eyebrows or eyelashes, it makes the eyes look too wide and kind of scary)

Body:
- dark hair follicles, so girls’ legs or guys’ faces never look completely smooth
- greasy/frizzy/damaged/dead hair
- extra body fat
- cellulite
- being too skinny
- stretch marks
- scars
- physical handicaps
- skin tags
- birthmarks
- a lot of body hair
- ugly feet
- pudgy hands

General:
- acne
- sweating too much/having an unpleasant body odor
- oily skin
- dry/ashy skin
- freckles (I personally love freckles, but some regard them as flaws)
- skin conditions like eczema, rosacea, and plaque psoriasis

I hope this helps! If you need anything else, please feel free to ask. - @authors-haven

Need New Blogs To Follow

I just unfollowed a bunch of non-active blogs and my dash is pretty dead now so reblog/like this post if you post any of the following and I’ll check out your blog.

  • Pro-DCEU
  • The Flash (Both the tv show and the comics) 
  • Westallen
  • Batfamily
  • DC Comics in general
  • Young Justice
  • Brooklyn Nine Nine
  • PJO
  • Magnus Chase and the Gods of Asgard
  • Trials Of Apollo
  • The Kane Chronicles
  • Miraculous Ladybug
“Get a New Tablet” Fundraiser!! (Aka Commissions are Open)

Just yesterday, my tablet completely crapped out on me, and I’m having to watch my wallet more than ever now that I’ve graduated college. SO I’ve decided that I should just get on the commission bandwagon already and ask for some help getting money for a new tablet. I don’t need to fully fund the tablet through this, since my parents are helping cover the cost, just any kind of help would be n i c e. 

I’ll have 10 spots open to draw anything you want. I’ll do OCs, ships, general pretty landscapes, a finely detailed penis, whatever! (just no fetish/kink stuff plz i’ll have to explain my actions to my parents) Once I get the tablet I’ll start on the commissions; It’ll probably take a week to 2 weeks to get my hands on it. For the time being, to make sure people get what they want, I’ll figure out the basic picture in my sketchbook for them to ok before any commitment is made. 

Rates:

Traditional Sketch: $15

Digital Sketch: $20

Digital Sketch (basic color): $25

Lined: $30

Lined (flat color): $35

Lined (detailed color/painted): $40


It would be cool to do personalized watercolors for people, since people seem to love them on here (thank, you btw ❤︎) but I need to figure out how shipping works first to do that. I could always scan it and send the file, though, if that’s enough~ A watercolor would cost $50+ though, just because of expenses. 

Paypal only, please! (cuz it’s all I’ve got)

I don’t know how many people would be interested in this, but I’ve been wanting to do work for other people for a long time. If you’re interested, just send me a message! ❤️

#HugsForHolly

As you guys have seen, @commanderholly is being attacked, and she’s pretty much hurting bad by all the haters, just because she is friends with Danny, who we all know is Jewish, and other very sensitive topics. Can we please send her love and support? She turned off her asks, so we can only tag her in good fanart. Draw birbs, draw Strix, draw her as a Pigeon Mage- Anything to make her a happy Birb Mom again. Use the tag in the title, and give her some love, will ya?

If anything, I’ll start first. Since I’ve discovered her through Ross and Game Grumps, in the Harry Potter playthrough. She and I both shared a love for the series, and I discovered her channel. She was the reason why I grew to love birds more. She even kinda inspired me to get into DnD, and she shows an interest in witchcraft, which is also my own interest.

So, Holly, if you read this, please, take a step back, and breathe in some lavender candles. Drink some tea. Nibble on a cookie. We’re here for you, every step of the way. If you need anything, the Owl Family on my blog will welcome you with open wings, tea or coffee, and endless nerdy awesomeness. I personally never met you, but if I ever did, I am sure we would get along. :)

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