i need to work on my hair and stuff

Why I need Chicana feminism

Because I was taught to stay away from certain styles because they were too “mexican”. With phrases like “the bigger the hoop, the bigger the hole” when I loved wearing big earrings. Being told that red hair against my brown skin looked “ghetto” instead of fierce and bold. Wearing stylish flannels like the pretty pastel haired girls on tumblr and being told I look like a “chola”. Working hard to get rid of my slang because society taught me that it was “unflattering”. That bright red lips were too much. That my natural intense brows are now a makeup “fad”. When in reality all this shit was made up by people that want to put us down for claiming our own identity. 


My gorgeous poet son

Investing in yourself as a Sugar Baby!

Taking care of your mind and body is important especially when you expect men to drop thousands of dollars on you every month for the pleasure of your company! Personally before even thinking about becoming a sugar baby this year, I’ve been taking care of myself for years because appearance is very important in my line of work. Keep in mind that I’m in my late 20s so some stuff you might not even need at this point since most of you are in your late teens or early 20s. Enjoy those years haha well I can’t complain, I have a baby face ;) So here is a list of things I’ve done or I will be starting this year that keeps me looking good and feeling awesome plus it makes for a hot SB:

  1. Manicure + pedicure - I do them professionally in a salon every 3weeks.
  2. Laser hair removal - I’m doing my whole bikini and underarms right now and will start my legs in the next year..shaving is a pain and too much work..laser is painful especially the whole bikini but worth it!
  3. Removing stretch marks - I will do laser for that when I move to LA because those stupid marks on my butt are a pain in the ass for my confidence sometimes..I have awesome 34DD natural breasts but my ass needs some perfecting to be at the same level lol
  4. Removing cellulite - I just finished a 10 weeks treatment with the Velashape 2 in a beauty clinic for my thighs and butt..I think it helped although I only had a low amount of cellulite and it’s still not perfect or all gone..I think I was expecting too much of a VS model’s perfect ass haha drinking water, exercising and eating healthy plus putting firming body cream (I use an expensive one from my clinic with 10% caffeine) everyday helps plus I’ll need to do maintenance treatments every year to maintain the results.
  5. Removing spider veins on legs - I started treatments this year, it helps but spider veins are a recurring issue for women especially with age so I will have to do maintenance treatments every year but it’s very good that I started young even if I didn’t have a lot but the ones behind my knees were bothering me a lot. I have very white skin so my veins show easily haha I need to tan more!
  6. Dermabrasion - I started dermabrasion aka removing dead skin on your face this year..I used to have bad acnee when I was young but now my skin is much better although I still get occasional pimples and don’t have perfect skin without makeup.
  7. Acnee creams recommended by my dermatologist that I apply every day or 2 days - I mostly only have some redness and occasional pimples but the products help for that and to make my pores less visible.
  8. Laser eye surgery - I wear contacts and I’m thinking of doing the laser surgery but I’m not sure since lots of people have horror stories so I’m still thinking about it but being free of glasses and contacts would be awesome..I’m just scared of surgeries and try to avoid them as much as possible.
  9. Spray Tan - I don’t want skin cancer so I prefer spray tan when I need to have a nice tan although the maintenance is a pain in the butt..I sometimes do tanning creams at home since I’m pretty good at applying it but that’s annoying to maintain also.
  10. Gym membership - I started going to the gym finally this year although I have always had a pretty athletic body but since I like to eat wtv I want and I’m getting older lol I need to watch out!!
  11. Personal trainer for the gym - I’m going to get one soon so I can learn what to do to target the issues I want to work on plus it’s good to have someone to motivate you since I’m lazy lol
  12. Martial arts or self defense classes - Personally I do martial arts because it’s for my line of work but also because I love to kick ass. I took some self defense classes years ago and it was amazing..I think every woman should do that especially sex workers and SBs..I actually need to brush up on those moves especially the ones when your assailant is on top of you.
  13. Hair and eyelash extensions - I need to get new hair extensions because the hair dresser messed them up when she cut them although I basically never wear them lol too lazy to put them on every time so I’ll look into other options soon and get a SD to pay for it and for eyelash extensions. Never tried that and want to see how it will look and feel.
  14. Makeup and hair tutorials or classes - I started watching more videos on youtube to learn more tricks especially with hair since I suck but I’m getting a lot better..I might get a future SD to pay a hairstylist to show me 5-10 ways to do my hair haha.
  15. Good hair products and makeup - Start investing in good products that don’t ruin your hair and face..When you can it’s good to invest in more expensive products when they are better quality and less chemicals.
  16. Keeping your body soft like a baby’s skin - I put cream every night on my body to keep my body all smooth and soft plus to keep my boobs, stomach, thighs and ass all firm..better to start young!
  17. Facial creams - Very important to keep your face moisturized plus eye cream is always good to start young..those SDs want a baby face not a face ruined by sun and age.
  18. Drinking lots of water - You need minimum 2 liters of water everyday..I basically only drink water..no coffee or soft drinks but juices on occasion and I do love wine when I go out.
  19. Eating healthy - I need to be more disciplined for that because I like to eat wtv I want although I do eat vegetables and fruits everyday.
  20. Be happy and confident - Keep yourself healthy mentally..those men pay for no drama..I actually tried hypnotherapy by curiosity this year..only did 4 sessions to work on my self-esteem and confidence and it was pretty interesting to realize how I bring myself down sometimes.
  21. Teeth are very important! Having a nice smile attracts people including SDs! - Keep your teeth clean and white..I do my teeth cleaning every 9 months now (instead of 12) plus I bought a whitening kit made for me from my dentist to use at home although my teeth are pretty white already. I had braces when I was young so I have perfect teeth..I wear my night retainer occasionally to keep them straight and perfect. 
  22. Massages and acupuncture - I did both this year and need to start doing massages every 2 weeks for my back lol I’ll get a SD to pay for that!
  23. Investing in a new wardrobe - Dressing the part is important and you need something to wear for all those awesome dates you will be going on! Get a SD or POT to take you shopping and choose classic pieces that you will be able to mix and match and pull off multiple outfits with. If you don’t have anyone to pay for it, take some of your money and start buying some nice pieces or even just adding an accessory to your outfit might make the difference. You don’t have to buy expensive brands (wait for a SD to do that for you), until then buy pieces that are good quality and in solid neutral colors. Go for classy not trashy!
  24. Reading more about current events, finances and how to invest money but also some of those self help books. Be aware of what is going on in the world. - I need to start doing this more because I personally don’t follow the news or politics (too depressing) plus I want to learn how to manage my money. It’s always good to be able to hold a conversation with a SD especially if you go to events with him! You want to be the whole package of looks, brains and personality!!
  25. Learning new skills is important in my opinion plus it keeps you busy and SDs will be impressed by your hobbies, interests and skills. - Personally I love reading, cooking (I want to take some classes to get even better), dancing (I took a lot of different dance classes but I want to learn the waltz and other more conservative dances for black tie events), learning new languages (I speak multiple languages and it always impresses people especially in the US for some reason), etc.. With my line of work, I like to acquire new skills as often as I can so I can add them to my CV and stand out..plus it’s fun!

Ok so I’m going to stop here because this post is freaking long lol I’ll add more if I think about something else but just remember that you are selling a product which is yourself and you need to stand out! Being a SB is not just about looking pretty..you have to be interesting too! I see a lot of SD’s profiles that mention personality and not just looks. So take care of yourself mentally and physically :) You got to invest in yourself (the product) to make money..that’s how marketing and business work and it’s the same with sugar dating! Pay your bills and then use some of that allowance on bettering yourself to catch an even bigger fish (or whale lol)!! Go get them girls! xoxo

yall have said that sportacus is a hippie because he doesnt have a house or pay taxes, so how about an au where he is an actual hippie who lives in a van and has like flowers braided into his hair and stuff!

he goes around different towns and does some random work where ever needed, and entertains people by doing aerobics stunts in the streets


A monster in my mirror but I did not run away
I did not shed a tear or hide beneath my bed
Though the monster looked at me


The one

A/N: This is my very first shot in a while, I was daydreaming about it and I just needed to write it. I hope you like it.  I’ve been immersed on school and work stuff I’m so sorry. I have some song-fics and no time to post them.

Warnings: fluff.


My head was up as the makeup artist was making the last detail of my makeup. I heard a bunch of “aws” and I smiled. The hotel room was full of woman.

“You’re ready, you can look yourself now” I sighed and found myself with the look I had dreamt. I couldn’t believe my eyes, I felt absolutely stunning. My hair was already done, there was one thing left for me to feel like a bride: the dress.

This was my special day and everything was doing great, although I was feeling a whole in my chest. I wasn’t fully chuffed. There was a missing piece, with name and last name.

“Do you need help with the dress?” I nodded, there was only me and my mom.

“You look beautiful, I can’t believe my baby girl’s getting married” my move was touched and she was about to cry, I hugged her.

“Mom, if I cry my makeup is going to be ruined and so will yours”. My mom helped me and I was face to face, wearing the beautiful lace-mermaid dress. “How do I look?”

“I’m going to cry, no matter what you say. I remember when ou were a little girl and you were playing with my heels, you wore a scarf as a veil… and now, it’s like a dream come true. I feel like I’ve done an amazing job with you, you’re a caring, beautiful, humble and down to earth girl. You have goals and you’re gonna reach them. I’m so proud of you” I was already crying, I hugged her. And felt my heart warm.

“I love you, mommy” I whispered.

“I love you too, y/n. I’m going for your dad, he’d love to see you. I’ll be right back” I nodded and looked myself in the mirror. I ironed an invisible wrinkle with my hand. I heard the door opening and I saw through the mirror the worried and most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen in my life.

“Chris…” I felt my heart racing “What are you doing here?”

“First of all, wow. You look beautiful, y/n. Second, I needed to see you. I…” I frowned and looked at him confused.

“You’re not supposed to be here” he walked towards me and grabbed my hand. And everything began again.

“I know… I’m being the most selfish human being in the world by showing up like this. I convinced myself that it was better to keep my distance and let you be happy with him, but then I realized that I could make you happier. You’ve made me happy just with your clumsy smile and the way you sing while you’re cooking. I love the good and the amazing you, but I also love the side that not everybody has seen. I have loved you since the moment I saw you, I know that you’re the love of my life and I’m yours. Please…” he looked me straight into my eyes, I felt my whole body shiver. “Please, don’t get marry. Run away with me” I released his hand. I grabbed his face. Touching the barely showing beard and running my fingers through his messy hair.



I walked to the aisle. I smiled when I saw the man that was waiting for me in the end of the hall. This was a very different Chris from the one that was asking me to run away with him a year ago. His eyes were smiling, but his actual smile couldn’t be bigger. This was it. There was no turning back, he was the one that I was going to spend the rest of my life with. As I approached, he moved his lips with an “I love you”. And I knew it was truth. He was the one. He is the one.


Trick or Treat to @kane-and-griffin who, just like me, can’t resist a good Agatha Christie style murder mystery, and by the most…frankly bizarre coincidence I have ever seen in my life, just a week after I started work on the art for this, posted the first chapter of her amazing fic, Something Wicked This Way Comes

I briefly considered doing something else to make it more of a surprise but…screw it, who doesn’t love a good 1920s murder mystery AU? :P Hope y’all enjoy!



“My favorite one is a guy that I nicknamed Fernando. He has long shoulder-length hair and a moustache and sometimes a little goatee and usually works as a sort of janitor figure or whatever, whatever’s needed. He’s been my favorite I think, just because of the elaborate backstory I’ve given him as a flamenco-dancing assassin.” - Matthew Rhys

“Our favorite, the one that all the ladies like, is Fernando. |Laughter] And Fernando is spanish. We decided he’s a flamenco teacher and he’s incredibly sexy.” - Keri Russell

Tag meme

Tagged by @grayburzum (thanks friend, I’ll do me best!)

Relationship status: Married…somehow :/

Favorite color: PURPLE!

Lipstick or chapstick: Neither. I’m too lazy to even brush my own hair sometimes soooo…

Last song I listened to: Medieval Warfare by Grimes.

Last movie I watched: Ghostbusters (new one)

Top 3 TV shows: Doctor Who. Sherlock and Constantine (BRING IT BAAAAAACK!)

Top 3 characters: Batman, Joker and Luke Skywalker.

Top 3 ships: Batjokes, QuiObi and Natalie Portman with myself.

Books I’m currently reading: Batjokes fanfics.

5 things in my bag: Whatever shit I need for work. I dare not venture into it just yet.

5 things in my room: Bed, Drawing stuff, the wife, ceiling, floor.

5 things on my to-do list:
1. Get through the day
2. Draw vampire Joker
3. Finish other drawing requests
4. Keep my kids alive
5. Get chap 9 of A New Game underway

5 things I’m currently into: Wishing I could get some muthafukkin sleeeeep! Batjokes (always), the Lego Batman movie ost, crying over awesome fanfics and daydreaming.

I tag @sombrero-de-copa @frenetic-kinetic @synthwaves @myinnermostapocalypse and anyone else who wants to. No obligation though of course :)

@gradblrchallenge​ | March 2017 | 15.16

I had such a productive day yesterday, despite everything. I read over 100 pages for my class and graded six paper. I died my hair and gave myself a manicure. Oh yeah, I also had an anxiety episode that made me feel really bad towards the end of the afternoon. Because of this, I ended up not posting yesterday because I felt awful - mentally and about my work. I read some fluff YA stuff and actually managed to sleep for the entire night.

The second day of spring was a busy day (as Tuesdays usually go) with a delayed train early in the morning. Class went actually better than I had anticipated, but I was reminded how much I need to go back and actually read Pierre Bourdieu for realsies.

I’m one essay away from wrapping up paper grading and I’ll do it tomorrow because I’m really tired. Then it’s Walden and maybe start grading the midterms tomorrow. Wish me luck reading 35+ hand-written exams!



I’m back ٩(^ᴗ^)۶! Semester is finally over and I have time for fun stuff again (*≧∀≦*) (a lot of time actually since I’ll have only one course next semester before I’ll be working on my bachelor thesis next year - I really need some time to be creative and work freely on my own projects and I don’t have the time if I would rush into my bachelor). So, with all this free time I decided to post something every day from now on for the next few months. I hope I can manage it but let’s just hope for the best ʘ‿ʘ. On the pics you can see some recent looks I’ve tried in the last few weeks. My hair actually went from looking almost pink to purple and now finally white (•̀ᴗ•́)و ̑̑. So happy with this new hair colour.

anonymous asked:

Hearth, I have a horrible headache. I've stayed hydrated and taken some medicine to help, but nothing is working. So I figured, okay, if nothing is going to work, I'll just sleep it off! Right? Wrong. I can't fall asleep because my head hurts so much, and I'm so tired, and I cried and that only made it worse, and I don't know what to do. My head is legit throbbing and I feel like crap. Please help me. I need advice and stuff to make me feel better.

Using a cold pack for 15 minutes should help. Take a break for another 15 minutes then repeat the cycle. If you have long hair, don’t keep it in a bun or ponytail. Keep lights off (including phone screens, computer screens, and TVs), and if you’re going to take medicine, liquid will work fast than pills. Ginger and peppermint are said to also help. Get well soon


anonymous asked:

Hi! Just wondering, because I download clay mashes to make my game run smoother, if I download the hair meshes needed to make yours work will they show up in my game and making it slower?? Love your stuff thanks!!!

Hello! Sorry for the waiting!
Yes, meshes will show up in game. If you don’t want this, but want to use and see my clayified hairs, you can use this tutorial→ click

Aquamarine Spirit

I was inspired by the amazingly awesome @strawberrylogan​ to try speaking with the spirits of my stones. So here’s me talking with my little aquamarine c:

A small fairy with blue hair and a blue dress pokes her body out of the rock. She has clear, thin, butterfly-like wings and long gloves and boots that are a matching dark blue. She looks at me shyly as she flies out and stands in front of me on my desk. I say hello and she hesitantly says hello back, mentioning how she hasn’t talked with many people before. I notice that in her hair is a blue petaled flower with a light blue stone in the middle.

“How have you been since moving in?” I ask.

“Um, it’s okay I guess,” she begins, her voice very soft, “There’s a lot going on and a lot of spirits.” I ask her if she would prefer to be kept somewhere away from all of the activity. “No, it’s fine, I’m just not used to all of this.” I ask her if she communicates with the other rock spirits. “Not really, no. They are loud and I am quiet. Have you spoke with them yet? They can be very noisy.” I’ll tell her that she’s the first one that I’ve spoken with and I inquire if she would like to be moved away from them. She explains how she was around a lot more rock spirits before and that it should be fine although she does nervously ramble about how she wouldn’t mind a quieter spot.

I tell her that I can put her in the bag for my tarot deck. “Oh yes that’d be great! And I can even help you with tarot, I’m really good when it comes to intuition,” she replies. I ask her if she thinks she’ll get along with my tarot deck and decide to call my tarot deck’s spirit to let her know about her possible new roommate. The tarot spirit appears, and it’s weird. She is about half a foot tall which was around the size of the aquamarine fairy. However, now that she has appeared, the aquamarine fairy is just a teeny orb of blue light that flies around the tarot spirit.  

“A little fairy of aquamarine? How cute! We will get along fine,” the tarot spirit says. I ask them why the fairy’s size changed and the tarot spirit answered, “it’s all relative dear.”

The two begin to disappear so I tell the fairy that it was nice talking to her and I get a small, high-pitched “Bye!!” in return. I put the aquamarine stone in the bag with my tarot deck.