i need to unfollow but i don't want to be rude

anonymous asked:

i'm sorry it why do you ship junkrat with mei?? if you haven't noticed or actually played overwatch, you'd know that mei hates junkrat, they despise each other and they're total opposites. and no, opposites don't always attract.

Ladies and Gentleman, we have a first!

In the two or so years I’ve had this blog, I’ve never had an antagonistic anon before. Then again, I only ever started branching out into non-Soul Eater things in September, so maybe this is just what happens when you start to create content for bigger fandoms? 

First things first: If you don’t like the content I post, I suggest that you either unfollow my blog or use blacklist to block the tags for content you don’t like. Your Tumblr experience is curated by you. I’ll tag my content to help you blacklist topics you wish to avoid, but it’s ultimately up to each user to take the necessary steps to tailor their dashboard.

Secondly, in sending me a rude ask, you have given me an excuse to talk about a favorite ship of mine. So buckle up, we’ve got a long post incoming!

Why ship Junkrat and Mei? Why ship any two characters?

Take a gander at this post by @chaoticlivi. It’s a pretty exhaustive list of reasons people get invested in the relationship between any two characters. They span from aesthetic and visual tastes (these two look great together!) to more in depth, thematic ones (their relationship embodies a theme I care about). Basically, there are many many reasons to love a ship, and canon rarely has much to do with it.  

In general, canon is a box of scraps. This is especially true for Overwatch, which despite its exhaustive lore leaves many holes in character stories and relationships. Nothing in the game itself (which I do play often, btw) is ‘canon.’ The voicelines you hear haven’t actually happened. They are meant to give us insight into the characters, their histories, and their relationships, but you can’t quote them as something Mei or Junkrat have actually said.  

In-game content is also in flux. As more shorts and comics come out, as the actual Overwatch lore grows, the game evolves too. It’s possible what’s canon within the game now will change later on. 

What I’m saying is, you can point at two voicelines and wave around words like ‘hate’ until you are blue in the face, but that won’t 1) make it canon that Junkrat and Mei will be at odds forever or 2) make me any less likely to ship them.

Now that I’ve got the “shipping doesn’t need a canon basis and Overwatch shipping is a crapshoot built on nearly nothing anyway” part done, I can actually talk about Mei and Junkrat.

Keep reading

anonymous asked:

Okie dokie, so I'm trans too and I'll admit genderbends do make me uncomfortable, I really don't think you did anything wrong. Your posts were easily hidden with blacklisting and a post blocker, so no harm done. I really don't get why that person felt the need to yell at you over an ask :/ The least they could've done was nicely explain the issue and ask without all the caps

I understand that. I suppose that person just didn’t know how to communicate. I seriously meant no harm and had no idea. Sorry If I caused you or anyone discomfort. Believe me. I’m not anything that anon called me. That was crossing the line. I apologized but will never receive one from them. It’s the way of the world. As much as I hats to, I may be moving my art elsewhere. My fan base is here, but I keep running into issues with anonymous people saying hurtful things to me, leaving me with no way to counter the attacks. All I want to do is share my craft with you all. I’m not a malicious person out to hurt people. Coming from someone who as been through her own struggles in life, believe me when I say that I love everyone. I don’t see how anyone can hate anyone or say such ugly things about them. I just hope that anon his happy now and will please leave me be. I hope that they will take down their post that is CLEARLY about me. Calling me a disgusting transphobe. If they truly hate me that much, then they need to just unfollow me and forget I exist. This is bringing me back to my days in high school. That was clearly very immature and uncalled for. I’d like to think we are all adults here and can resolve issues without hurtful name calling or being down right rude. Thank you for writing me. Sorry I ranted… I love you all and thank you for your kind words

tothestarsandbacktofireheart  asked:

In reference to you saying that you don't shit on anyone who has different opinions then you, "I fucking hate elriel. Every time it shows up on my dash I want to vomit..." "... except to say that Elriel can die". Would you say that these quotes from you encourage friendly discourse? Cause I wouldn't. You said other inflammatory things about this topic but I felt these quotes summed it up the best. Honestly I've seen you encourage us all to be nice and polite to each other,but then you post this?

The negative things you say about ships or other things you don’t like are the opposite of what you tell others to do. So I’m calling hypocrite. You definitely will shit on someone and their opinions if you don’t like them, a quick skim of your tags clearly shows that. So please get off your high horse and stop pretending your *above such things* because you’re clearly not. This post came out more aggressive then I intended, but hypocrisy really gets me. Sorry for that.

So I’m responding to this publicly because apparently I need to contextualize a lot of what I’ve said, as well as clarify the difference between real people and fictional people, and having a negative opinion versus being a jerk to said real people.

Since you have pointed out my feelings about that particular ship, I thought I would contextualize your argument a bit within my blog. I am very much in a numbers mood, so bear with me:

  • I have made 2,253 posts on this blog.
  • I did a search of my tags, as you did, and I have around 20 posts that mention el*riel, but just to be safe I rounded up to 30. That means that 0.01% of my blog has ever discussed them.
  • To contrast, my pre-acowar OTP was moriel; a quick search of that tag reveals around 400 posts, or 17.7% of my blog talking about them in some way.

Now, clearly, I do not like el*riel. That much is glaringly obvious. What you failed to take into account is how little I discuss them, the fact that I did put my negative opinions under the cut with a warning yesterday, and that I did also start tagging those posts as anti, or using “el*riel” so that it wouldn’t come up when people searched for the ship. I avoid talking about them bc I know that it might hurt people’s feelings because they have difficulty understanding that me not liking a ship does not mean I don’t like them. I do what I can to help people avoid my negative opinions.

So cherry-picking my opinions on that particular ship, when it’s clear I don’t like it, while failing to take into account the other 2,223 posts I have made, and while failing to recognize that I have done what I could to spare people from my negativity on the topic, seems a bit… well, you cherry-picked your evidence. And a few of the posts you mentioned are months old, which… I had 10 followers at the beginning of the year when I started this blog, so I wasn’t exactly concerned at the time about anyone actually paying attention to me. Maybe that’s my bad.

A couple other things that are more generally related to me and my blog and this fandom, not necessarily what you said:

  • I am a person
  • I make mistakes
  • I can be a huge smartass and really snarky
  • I am allowed to dislike things
  • I am allowed to say that I dislike things
  • Me disliking fictional things is not me disliking actual people
  • Not liking a ship is not at all the same thing as being rude to people, and if people (not just you) don’t get that, I really don’t know what to say to you.
  • Again, there is a difference between fictional people and real people. You will notice that the quotes you pulled out? Were never in direct response to someone, or conversation with someone.
  • If you can find an actual example of me being needlessly rude or aggressive to a flesh and blood person, a human being, I will absolutely apologize. But I’m not going to apologize for not being afraid to say what I think in the shitshow that this fandom has become.
  • If someone had sent me an ask that said “moriel can die in a fiery pit of unhealthy obsession and death and torment”, do you know what I would say? Ok then, buddy. Because that opinion? Is not about me personally.
  • You can say you hate a thing that I love. I can say I hate a thing that you love. We can still be friends.
  • Feel free to unfollow or even block people you don’t agree with or who make this fandom less fun than you want it to be. I have become much more liberal with my unfollowing and blocking of people, and let me tell you - it’s been great. You have to take care of yourself, here.

I have received approximately 110 asks since I finished reading ACOWAR just under two weeks ago. Do you know what this tells me? It tells me that people are not afraid to send me their thoughts and opinions, that they do not assume they will be treated with disrespect. Because they aren’t.

My final point about this and the other asks I received last night, is that this is the kind of crap that makes people frustrated. This is the kind of crap that makes people take hiatuses, and message me saying that they want to leave the fandom, and makes people afraid to say what they think. Which, what is the point of any of this, if we don’t feel like we can talk about this stuff without people getting needlessly offended or feeling like they can never say anything negative.

If me trying to be kind and respectful to people as much as possible while still occasionally failing in that regard puts me on a high horse, then I’m going to ride off into the motherfuckin’ sunset on that horse, and never look back. Because at least I’m trying.

anonymous asked:

i hate that you post personal stuff no one actually cares and it's not shakespeare so

if you don’t like the way i run my blog (you know, the blog run by me, the one that i run and post things on, my blog), please feel free to unfollow. everything is tagged so you can blacklist my various personal things if you don’t want to see them, and just the quotes are /tagged/incorrect-shakespeare. (there’s also a link to just the quotes in the sidebar.) 

there’s no need to be rude to me. if you have a complaint, feel free to voice it, but i usually won’t respond if it’s done rudely. i run my blog the way i want to run it, and if a few people asking me about other books i’ve read is a bother to you, this probably isn’t the best space for you anyways.

anonymous asked:

I understand Fizzy's point but her brother did the same thing and nobody ever apologized. And before you attack me because it seems you do whenever anyone has anything negative to say about Louis, all I'm saying is I just wish he could of addressed that or done something to show fans it's not ok to say that word. People do look up to him .

You’re making the assumption that he was even allowed to apologize or to acknowledge that video at all, and I think your assumption is incorrect. Uh, no shit he should have apologized? I’m pretty sure nobody would disagree with that. Fans do need to be told that stuff is wrong. Louis should have acknowledged that he fucked up and that he had learned from it. That being said, there are a ton of things that have happened over the years that we should have gotten apologies for, but didn’t. Liam should have properly apologized for his tweet about Duck Dynasty. Harry should have apologized for cultural appropriation. Louis should have apologized for the homophobic tweets (and yes, I know they weren’t really him). Liam should have apologized for stuff that was said (or stuff that was claimed to have said by him) in the Attitude Magazine article. Harry should have apologized for the Israeli hammer thing. Have you noticed a pattern here? Do you really think that the boys didn’t want to apologize for any of this stuff? Did you ever consider that their team is absolute shit and refuses to acknowledge certain things and instead tries to brush a lot of incidents under the rug by not addressing them? I don’t really see how you can automatically blame the boys for their lack of apologies over the years when there is a pretty obvious pattern here.

Also, your bitterness toward me isn’t appreciated. I acknowledge when Louis fucks up. I acknowledge when all the boys fuck up, but I also give them the benefit of the doubt when I think they deserve it, which you apparently don’t do. If you’re going to write asks with subtle rude implications like this one, maybe just don’t. I’m not interested in reading bitter comments about myself in my inbox when you are free to unfollow, block, and blacklist me.

ETA: Also, Louis’ lack of apology has nothing to do with Fizzy. Don’t take away the positive stuff that Fizzy contributes to the world just because her brother fucked up once two years ago.

anonymous asked:

Men are pigs. They're literally the biggest disappointment in life. Men don't need positivity they already have enough. Most guys are disgusting to look at anyway they don't need to feel attractive especially since they're ugly

First of all, everything about what you just said is just plain wrong.

Not all men are pigs. I’m not going to try to minimize whatever experience you’ve had with men that have made you feel that way, but you can’t go around saying all men are pigs.

Honestly, this personally offends me because most of my closest friends are guys, the most supportive people in my life have pretty much all been guys, and when you say shit like that about the people I love I do not take it well.

My guy friends are there for me when I cry, take away my drinks when I’ve had enough (or when I shouldn’t have anything at all), walk on the outside of the sidewalk closest to the street, listen to me vent when I’m stressed out, give me advice, support me, compliment me, lay around watching movies and doing nothing with me, stand up for me to ANYONE who would ever try to mess with me,and just generally make me happy.

If you’re not physically attracted to men, if you don’t find them aesthetically pleasing, whatever. Personally, I find men EXTREMELY attractive (as do many other people in the world). I have found men with all different body types and variety of appearances attractive. They’re beautiful. Seriously. I can’t even express how pleasing I feel the male body is. We have different opinions, cool, great, whatever. But how would you like it if people said that shit about you? You wouldn’t. 

I don’t know where you get off saying guys have enough positivity because they don’t. That’s why I try to post guy specific stuff. Most things say “to all the girls”, “all girls are”, ect… There are not nearly as many posts like that geared toward men and the one’s that are get like no notes compared to the one’s geared toward women. I like the neutral posts to be honest but sometimes it’s nice to have something more specific.

I know guys who get really offended by this shit. It hurts them when people are afraid of them simply because they’re guys or when they get stereotyped as an asshole or a pig. I know guys that are insecure and NEED that positivity. Guys that are insecure and afraid to tell anyone because of how society tells guys they should act. Guys are allowed to be insecure and guys deserve support and positivity.

Normally I wouldn’t post this because of how negative and rude and fucking insulting it is but you fucking pissed me off and you picked the WRONG time to piss me off. By insulting men as a whole, you are insulting the most important people in my LIFE and therefore offending me. If you don’t like me posting male positivity, if that bothers you, then you can unfollow me and block me and do whatever the fuck you want.

Really, I am sorry for posting this and I want any guys that read this to know that whoever sent me this message is a complete asshole and don’t believe a single word they said. You are amazing. Every single one of you is attractive in your own way. You are all handsome in your own way. You deserve to feel like the handsome man you are. You are all deserving of positivity and love and support. I made the guysrecover tag just for you, even if you’re not in recovery, I post general male positivity there too.

Alright, it’s my blog, so I’m making a small fuss. This is probably just me beating that dead horse yet again. If you’re not into that, you know exactly what you can do about that. (Hint: it involves that shiny “unfollow” button.)

I have pet peeves. All people do. I do my best not to let them get the best of me, especially when it’s not something personal. But since this is my blog and my art, I’ve got some things I want to clear up to those who are not in the know. (Most of you are, and that’s great, and YOU’RE GREAT and don’t you ever forget how much I appreciate your AWESOMENESS.)

Anyway! Stuff that makes me hit the punching bag: 

1. Removing the text from my posts, or from other people’s posts. Generally speaking, when I see people doing it, it puts a nasty taste in my mouth. You don’t like my text? Do me a favor and do not reblog my posts. (Or install the themes that display posts as photos only until the post is clicked on.) How hard is it to be respectful? Serious question. I do not understand why people think it’s okay to do this. RUDE.

2. This one is as old as the hills, but newcomers might not know how annoying it is when they tag my pallanophs as “wolves” or as “werewolves” or as any variant of canine. They are not. They have never been, and they never will be. The years will never change my mind on this, and unfortunately it has not gotten any less annoying. Which sucks. (I don’t even draw canines, let alone wolves, so this will be eternally perplexing to me.)

3. Assuming that, since my work looks generic, that one can copy/paste + trace my concepts instead of doing their own work. That’s plagiarism. Inspiration is a whole different animal, and that’s well and good, there’s no harm in that. I don’t claim to be unique in the slightest, but that doesn’t mean you can photochop my things to pieces and call them yours.

In conclusion: You do not have to like me or my art, but I would greatly appreciate it if the contents of my blog were respected. It isn’t asking for much; in fact, it pretty much requires minimal effort.

Bonus grumpy pallanoph channeling my frustrations as of late. Please send chill pill?

anonymous asked:

Can you tag the comics? Even the ones advertising products (like the otis plushie), I think they're drawn well, but the writing is lacking, It just doesn't translate well to comic form (it's not funny). I've blocked the tags on the other posts, but sometimes you reblog your own stuff and don't re-tag it so it still shows up. I love everything else you guys post, and have taken the effort to block it, but i need you guys to tag it. Thanks!

I know you said thanks and everything, but did you consider maybe not writing this message? That perhaps telling a creator they suck is kind of rude? That maybe you can handle scrolling past a thing once in a while or even just unfollowing?

I have not been feeling well.

Like… super extra not well.

My depression has been pretty bad. I am so incredibly tired and there isn’t anything I can do about it. The doctor basically shrugged at me. My self esteem has not been too great. I feel like I’m letting people down. I feel like I’m not doing my job well enough. I’m worried that I can’t handle life in general.

And then I get this message.

And even though it is just one person’s opinion and it really doesn’t matter much… it still is a punch in the self esteem bits. Something I really didn’t need right now. 

There is stuff I don’t like that people make. But I realize that taste is subjective and there are probably lots of people who enjoy that stuff. And that’s why I would never go out of my way to tell them I don’t like their stuff. That’s pretty discouraging and we need creators to keep going. They are a sensitive bunch and they work hard to try and entertain. You can put all the thanks you want on your message, but it is still kinda mean. 

Maybe my writing hasn’t been the best lately. But perhaps you could let someone have a slump and not kick them when their down.

I am telling you this in the hopes that you won’t send anymore messages like this to other folks. I want to let you know this wasn’t super tactful and you should be more considerate. If you don’t like something, just quietly unfollow or deal with it. 

anonymous asked:

okay, if you seriously don't see the parallels between humanist vs feminist and all lives matter vs black lives matter you're either really good at lying to yourself or a hypocrite or one of those great women who are like i don't need feminism i'm not oppressed :):):) i know you're gonna give a rude/sarcastic/dismissive answer and i don't really care, like, i'm just honestly kind of shocked and pretty disappointed because you were one of my favourite blogs. i'm sure he means well but come on

To be frank, I don’t have time for people constantly attacking harry for EVERY. LITTLE. SHIT. HE. SAYS. And if you don’t like it then my dear the unfollow button is always there.

I also can’t hear you over how incredibly humane he is.

I can’t here you while he’s part of a movement to illuminating mother to child transmission of HIV.

I can’t hear you while talks about culture differences.

I also can’t hear you over how he has always and will continue to support lgbtq+ people.

I’m sorry I just can’t hear you.

anonymous asked:

Not to take the side of the rude anons or anything, but for the past week or two, you’ve been cluttering up everyone’s newsfeed with the more-than-occasional anon-hate replies, and even independent posts talking about them. I follow your blog for fashion stuffs, etc, and it’s really getting annoying that you keep giving those people the time of day. You're always going to get hate mail, but you don't HAVE to acknowledge it. In fact, that's probably the reason they keep coming back- you respond.

Let me just say this - if the way that I choose to run MY blog somehow does not live up to YOUR needs - please, feel free to click that unfollow button.
I do not run my blog for you.  I am not getting paid for this.  If it bugs you so much that I have made one (yes, count that, one) individual post referring to how health trolls are annoying, then feel free to no longer have me on your dash.  It is incredibly silly and presumptuous of you to just assume that I’m ‘cluttering up everyone’s dash’ with who I choose to respond to.  What’s even sillier though, is that you are complaining when the vast majority of things I have been posting are not at all negative.  If you actually scroll through my blog right now, you’ll see just how much you are exaggerating and being obnoxiously rude.

This is a personal blog.  You don’t get to choose who I respond to or how I run it.  Instead of realizing that this is MY space and letting me run it how I see fit, you are actively choosing to send me something negative because it’s not living up to your expectations.  I don’t think you get to talk about what’s annoying when you’re sending this kind of shit.

Also, for your information, I tend to ignore/block 80% of the hatemail that I do receive (which is what I will be doing to you if you decide to message me again).  If you actually cared about what I had to say or my personal posts, outside of just being a source of fashion for you and not an actual person, you would know that when I do respond to these kind of messages..it’s always for a specific reasoning.  

Honestly, I’m perfectly happy not having followers like you.  If you expect my blog to be foxes, sunshine, rainbows, and 100% of what you want to see all of the time - go find another blog that is specifically catering to you because this is not one of them.

anonymous asked:

I thought you were quitting writing in july. i checked ur blog to see you still are. I wish with everything that you fucking quit soon! ur a shitty writer, u can't write smut, you suck at writing fluff and not to mention u can't write dean to save your life. ur not deansdirtylittlesecretblog or ilostmyshoe-79 aprofoundbondwithdean doesnt want u tagging her in ur fics because she doesn't read bs. your ugly, fat and i hope that you lose every single one of ur followers cause you don't deserve any!

First of all:

You are not a very nice person, and thats putting it nicely. Who do you think you are? You know what, it’s perfectly fine to not like my blog, you know. I’m not concerned about that, that’s your own personal opinion. But there is ZERO need for you to express your opinion over ANON to me. There is a time to express your opinion and there is a time to not. This is one of those times you don’t. Don’t wish for me to delete my blog, don’t wish for me to quit writing. Don’t do any of that. And if you hate me so much, WHY DO YOU CARE WHAT I DO? If you hate this blog, why the hell do you keep checking, why do you read my posts, why do you even type my name in the search bar? Why did you even come on my blog, click that little ask button, then flip the Anon on and type this hateful, and spiteful message, then click send huh? As a human being, if I can even call you that, it is your job to respect those around you. Just because there is an anon button, and I may never find out who you are, doesn’t mean you can abuse that.

Secondly:

Yeah, you know what. deansdirtylittlesecretsblog and ilostmyshoe-79 are both wonderful amazing blogs that I love reading! Following both of them was a very good decision on my part. Now, I may not exist to them the way they exist to me. I’m not either one of them, and I don’t intend to be. Part of being a writer is expressing a part of yourself through words, and through fics. I’m not the same person as Mimi or Kim. I don’t have the extreme amount of writing talent they have. They have probably been writing for longer than I have and like any writer would know, you improve over time.

And you know what, aprofoundbondwithdean hasn’t told me that she isn’t okay with me not tagging her in fics. She hasn’t told me to stop, or that she doesn’t like them, or is not including them in her wonderful shout out post.

If I’m such a shitty writer, if I can’t write smut, or fluff or Dean for that matter, why are you the only person to tell me that? I’m sure there have been 1000 people out there who have at least read one one shot that I have posted, and to be fair it was probably Dean because most of my fics are Dean. I have never had someone tell me that I can’t write Dean or fluff, or even smut. Hey my best friend has even masturbated to it.  But yes, I probably suck. 6,685 people will unfollow me within a two minute time frame of posting this.

Thirdly:

I’ve said this once and I’ll say it again; who do you think you are? It is one thing to send me hate over this blog and what I write about and how much you hate me, but you never EVER shame someone for their body. You don’t call someone fat, and you don’t call someone ugly. You just don’t. Its going back to the whole being a decent human being. You’re a really shitty person if you feel like you need to make rude and unnecessary comments about the way they look. I can guarantee that you wouldn’t enjoy it if if were happening to you! 

It has taken me almost my entire life to be comfortable in my own skin, and I’m still not 100% confident in it, but I’ll be damned if I let some rude anon get the better of me.

Lastly,

Because even though I know you are just a speck of dirt on the side of the road and i shouldn’t care about what you say, a tiny part of me, the anxiety filled part of me is always going to think of this. Please never contact me again or I will find a way to find you, then I’m going to find your parents and tell them about what a shitty person you have been on the internet. This is not okay and you need to stop. You need to grow up.

Here is a list of helplines you can call. Hopefully you will and maybe you can sort everything out instead of taking it out on others.

anonymous asked:

What do you have against Stalia? All I can tell so far is that you're a hardcore Sterek shipper that doesn't like really any other ships. And, why don't you give Stalia a chance? (I'm really sorry if I come off as rude, I'm not trying to be, I'm just curious as to your reasons)

Hi anon! I know you’re just curious, so I want you to know that the rant I’m about to go on isn’t directed at you. It’s directed at everyone in general and it’s my own personal feelings that have been growing on this matter.

I’m a hardcore Sterek shipper. They are my forever OTP. I will be shipping them when I go to Hell and I’ll enjoy every second of it. And as they are my forever OTP, I am not obligated in any way, shape, or form to like other ships involving Derek and Stiles, be that canon ships or fanon ships. I’m not obligated to give new canon ships a chance just because they’re in the show. Logically, I know that Sterek will never be canon, but that doesn’t mean, once again, that I have to like the canon ships Derek and Stiles are involved in. And I’m allowed to voice my opinions on those ships and the way I feel about them. That doesn’t mean that I’m going to make a hate post about Stalia and tag it with “Stalia” so everyone trying to enjoy that ship will be subjected to my “negative” opinions because that’s just rude and childish. 

As for Stalia, I don’t like it, not only because my OTP is Sterek, but because the writers started their “relationship” in the worst possible way. And no matter what they try to do to rectify the monstrosity that was “Echo House”, that episode will always stick with me, as will the introduction of Stalia as a ship. The fact that Dylan himself had to tell Jeff that a sex scene in that setting was not right and he wouldn’t do it is pretty telling in and of itself. Everyone can say that it was a “sweet” and “innocent” scene, but it really was so not. For a number of reasons. They were in the basement of a mental institution, for hell’s sake. Stiles was possessed and not in his right frame of mind (which gives me consent issues) and Malia should have had the mentality of a child.

And I just straight up don’t like Malia. According to Jeff and Ian, she has the emotional range of a teaspoon, which is not something Stiles needs in a romantic partner. She should literally have the mind set of a 9 year old, not a well adjusted teenager as she spent so many years as a feral werecoyote (which, really. werecoyote?). And, according to Ian, that’s just something they overlook on set, which is just a terrible way to run your show. Malia might end up being a kickass character, but I’m not going to end up liking her. And that’s probably got to do more with the writing of her character than anything else. But there you have it.

tl;dr: I will go down shipping Sterek and I am not obligated to ever like other canon or fanon ships involving Stiles and Derek. I don’t like Stalia, never will. Same goes for Malia. 

And those are my thoughts on the matter. If anything I’ve written here bothers you, please feel free to unfollow me because my opinions on this matter will not change.

tedconanchavez-deactivated20160  asked:

Why do you find it necessary to post porographic images on a social networking sit in wich these are not acceptable images? I really do not appreciate going through my feed and having to see dudes fucking hand up a snatch! Whats up with that shit? Good grief.... lol I really don't like it at all though and really will challenge you to question what made you place these images before the entire world and why it was something you felt would represent you as this is a reflection of yourself. Why?

Why do you find it necessary to message me this kind of message on a social networking site? It is really fucking rude and i do not appreciate it. If i want to post a million nsfw pictures im going to do exactly that.would you message a guy this? you judge because im a girl and apparently dont have the right to be sexual. Lol. I go look on your blog, and see a video of you eating a chili pepper? like why. You put yourself through pain for the sole purpose of a meaningless laugh by someone on the internet . Thats  how you want to be represented to the world?  

why dont you unfollow me? You messaging me this trying to make me feel like shit (which didnt work) and what did it accomplish? Did it make you feel better about yourself?

your bio is “Just a dumb guy named Ted”. and i honestly think thats the only thing we can agree on. Your sexist, Immature, and honestly just a straight up asshole. I think you need to take a break from the internet.

Some people do giveaways and some don't. And there are those who need to do giveaways, like me.

So, look what I managed to do  - after selling one’s soul to be able to do art, I can now edit and make gif icons and plain icons. This is my sort of way of saying thank you to all of you who stuck around and managed to tolerate me. 

Rules

Yeah, I know who wants to follow rules? But, if there were no rules, then eh. yes, I’m Canadian. 

♣You must be following me. This is specifically a giveaway to say “Thank You” because sometimes words aren’t enough. Do not follow me and unfollow once the giveaway is over, that’s just plain rude.
♣ You can reblog as much as you want but likes will not count
♣ This giveaway will end on February 14th, 2014, 11:00pm EST. I get a week off after the giveaway is finished, so why not?

Prizes

1st Place: 
     ♣ 35 icons of desired FC
     ♣ 15 gif icons of desired FC
     ♣ 2 Graphic {Crack Ship Gif Set, Gif Banner w/ url, or etc}
     ♣ Back story Drabble between your muse and Jefferson - specified by you
     ♣ Plot of your choosing with Jefferson

2nd Place: 

     ♣ 25 icons of desired FC
     ♣ 10 gif icons of desired FC
     ♣ Graphic {Crack Ship Gif Set, Gif Banner w/ url, or etc}
     ♣ Plot of your choosing with Jefferson

3rd Place: 

     ♣ 15 icons of desired FC
     ♣ 5 gif icons of desired FC
     ♣ Plot of your choosing with Jefferson

Example of Prizes

For the sole fact, you’re not disappointed. I hate disappointing people

Gif Icons: 

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Icons:
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Example of my writing
The Piece called “Grace”

But yeah, that’s all I have to say! I hope you enjoy and that these are good enough for you. I know I’m not quality but I just want to show how much you guys mean to me and give back. Y'know? Anyways, i love you guys and have fun! :)

anonymous asked:

Sorry if this is rude to ask, but will there be any more undertale related stuff on here? I can understand if you don't really want it here much anymore though.

I have answered this a few times, but I will one more time in greater detail.

A couple of months ago, some of you will remember when I was going to delete this blog. Drawing was no longer enjoyable for me, and I found myself miserable every time I picked up the pen. I found myself swamped with requests daily, and was struggling to keep everyone happy. You may remember how I used to complain about my art being lazy or rushed, and this is because, I had no love for what I was drawing. If an artist constantly draws to please others their artwork becomes vapid and detached because they are not drawing from their heart. As an artist my goal is to elicit an emotional response from you. I want to make you feel hateful, tense, anxious, sad, jovial, warm, calm, turned on, or whatever, and I can’t do that if I am not drawing what I feel something for. I get bored easily, I need to change my style and my fandoms.

I am on an Undertale hiatus because if I keep forcing myself to draw what I’m bored of I will grow to hate it. At this point I am very wrapped up in Overwatch, I love the story, I adore the characters, I love the other artists and the fans are all gorgeous and friendly. It’s a very lovely fandom to be welcomed into and I invite all my followers. I have received many messages from my followers saying how they don’t play overwatch or ship certain characters, but because of me they love the characters/ships and HOLY GOSH can I say how ELATED that makes me? I created an emotional response and those people now feel how I feel about those characters, this is the GOAL.

If you followed me for undertale porn and that’s it, you may find yourself disappointed and I welcome you to unfollow me. If you follow me, you follow me for my art. You sit on my ride and witness and experience what I have to give you. What I want to share with you. I will swap back and forth between fandoms as well as expand onto new things, but while I’m in the Overwatch hype, that’s what you’re going to get.
I will be opening commissions so you can pay me to draw whatever you like, but otherwise I’ll do requests I like or feel something for. I think we will all be happier that way. :)

anonymous asked:

I'm sorry if this seems rude, but a lot of people look to you for information for writing and art resources and things, and i don't know but it seems a little selfish that you're not answering things any more. You made a commitment when you started the blog to make this about viking information and to answer questions, and it seems like you owe that to your followers to answer their questions. I don't know it just seems kinda selfish, especially right now.

Seems rude?  Seems rude?  Oh, no.  See, this here?  This just straight up is rude.

I honestly can’t tell if you’re completely unaware of what you’re saying or if you’re just an asshole.  But I’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you’re plain ignorant.

You have pissed me off.  I quite literally want to throw something.  Usually, I can be civil, or I can give some semblance of civility while implying that you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about and that you should lock yourself inside a box and never speak again because no one deserves your condescending behaviour.  And I usually try to remain calm and collected and I do try to respond to things like this in a well-mannered way, because I believe that no amount of provocation merits downright assholery.  But I’m only human, and I can’t always live up to this.  Sometimes, I need to say what I want to say, even when I’m writing and can concsiously censor myself.  Sometimes, I want to be a bitch and damn the consequences.  And you get to take home a trophy today, because you have successfully pissed me off to the point that all my intentions to remain civil have vanished.

So, yeah.  I’m gonna be a bitch.  I’m going to be mean.  I’m going to be insulting.  And a ton of people are probably going to unfollow when they realize that I am not a very nice person.  But do you want to know something funny?  I don’t give a hot shit.

Keep reading

anonymous asked:

ok, so, i'm a new simblr and i just found out that it is a big deal to put dreads on white sims and i just... i don't get it? my sister is black, i'm half-black and we have 2 white friends that have dreads... we never saw it as a problem. i don't mean to be rude at all, i just want to understand.

hi! i’m white, so i’m not the best person to be asking about this, but i will pass on what black simblrs have already been saying: putting black hairstyles onto white sims reflects the real world issue of cultural appropriation and contributes to its normalization in media! this may not be a big deal to you, but it’s still very important to a lot of other people, so it’s best to just Not Do It!

anonymous asked:

Hey guys, I want to cosplay my elf inquisitor but I'm plus size, I am really scared because the da fandom and cosplay community are very one note on acceptance of body types. Should I do it or give up. Not trying to bring you down I just don't know what to do.

Dude whatever the fuck DA cosplay community people you are following who do this: UNFOLLOW IMMEDIATELY. 

I can’t say I’ve seen this in the DA comm, at least not on tumblr. I know Facebook can be hostile and terrible, but most of those people arent cosplayers. Most non-cosplayers dont understand the hobby and assume its competitive and about trying to look EXACTLY like the characters, rather than people dressing up for a chance to be them. 

Anyway, FUCK those people. 

Of course, if your uncomfortable with it, don’t do it – but you wont ever hear me discourage you. Cosplaying is a great chance to boost your confidence. Theres really nothing like stepping into the shoes of your favorite character. 

And I said this a bunch before, but no one at conventions or in person is ever rude. 

AND COSPLAYERS by the majority are amazing and excitable people. I GARUNTEE you there will be a lot of people just excited to see your DA cosplay than care about what you look like.

Hope that helps and if you ever need any help you let me know!!

anonymous asked:

It sucks that you only draw/animate overwatch and don't even accapt other peoples undertail requests anymore. (Btw I'm not the anon who asked, just a person who followed you for your awsome undertale art.) We need our glorious sans sin 😔

There are still SOOO many undertail artists and frankly I find it rude when people ask for requests on something I said I don’t want. If you followed me for my UT art and not for me or my talents then you might wanna unfollow. Ill be doing my thing here and no one elses. At least that’s the goal. I want to enjoy my art I’m sorry if that “sucks”