i need my own shipper tag for these guys on my blog

What the ever loving fuck is wrong with you people?

You people  You Antis, NST, Truthers, Haters, wtfer name you want to be called or are called. You people. You know I’m talking to you @noshippingallowed @contemplatingoutlander @goldenoutlander @adhara112 @aliceinoutlanerland (oops you forgot the d in outlander. get a d.) @whylimewhyanything (put the lime in the coconut) @whoreallyknowswho (it’s whom! whom! unless you just forgot to finish your sentence) @prodigiousreblogger @bestof60 (are you 60?) @vividdreamer318 (your imagination is certainly leading you astray) @breezylouisey (is that you weezy?) @momofmusa (i thought you were mom of USA lol)  @alittlebitmasss (oops your s key got stuck)
Anyway, there are more of you and I’m sorry I didn’t give you a moment of thrill by acknowledging you by name but I mentioned the Tumblr accounts that I’ve seen making horrendously wild, hateful, fictional, hurtful accusations against other Outlander fans with no speck of proof - accusations meant to inspire others to emulate you and spread hate to those people as well. Let me get this straight. From what I can tell, you are super hopping mad about the content of certain Twitter and Instagram accounts. Fine. Totally fine. You are entitled to your opinions. I can see why those accounts might make some people mad. I mean, irrelevant to my life but maybe not yours.  You are mad that certain Twitter and Instagram accounts have been created for the sole purpose of throwing shade and mocking a certain celebrity you hold in high esteem. I get that. Fine. Be outraged! Express yourselves!!
Speaking of fine I know you will go through this post with a fine toothed comb for anything you can argue with and attack me over because god forbid you actually read the message, digest the information, thoughtfully consider the content and then share your thoughts and opinions and maybe answer some of my questions. Nope that’s not your style. Attack attack attack half-cocked and don’t put any thought or concern for reality into it. Yes you are the borg of Antis as the foil to the Shippers. I didn’t create that world, you did. You wanted to be the anti-shippers. You are gathered on Tumblr together to be this Anti-Shipper fighting army. Go forth and fight uhh I guess? WHY???? 
See, shippers are motivated by love. That’s really obvious. There are all types of shippers just as there are all types of people (and even all types of antis), but what brings them together is not just their love of Outlander (and you guys love Outlander too! Whee we have something in common) but their love of the LOVE parts of Outlander and all the LOVE associated with Outlander in promos, BTS, interviews, Q&As, social media banter between the cast and crew, etc. LOVE is LOVE is LOVE is LOVE is LOVE is LOVE is LOVE is LOVE. So you generally don’t see shippers on social media attacking people with hatred and lies and accusations of criminal activity. Wait wait wait. Correction! YOU see shippers doing those things but no one else does. You mostly see shippers doing those things with accounts that aren’t even recognized shipper names. They are basically troll accounts that you have deduced are shipper accounts. You do have these long convoluted narratives of what certain shippers are alleged to have done and you bandy them about so frequently that your telephone game grows legs and walks it’s own marathon and becomes some weird beast-mode attack shipper who does horrible things. You say you SAW these things but you haven’t. Show me a tweet, a facebook post, an instagram post from an Outlander fan who identifies herself as a shipper and has a known persona in the fandom and is attacking, hating, committing these horrendous crimes you claim. What I mean is, SHOW ME THE MONEY! SHOW ME PROOF to back up your narrative. You have specifically named a number of Outlander fans and made outrageous claims as to their character, behavior, beliefs, actions, off-line actions and more. YOU HAVE NO PROOF BECAUSE THESE STORIES ARE FICTION.
I’ll give you an example of how your lies have grown wings, run a marathon and turned into beast-mode:
So a certain blue check account posts that a certain object of your hatred and hate-mongering did something so illegal that she would have been arrested and would still be in jail. You all headnod, mouth breath, feel righteous for having attacked her because you were soooo right, bang away at your keyboards and continue the lies and hatred and stoke the fires for uhhh fun? Yet you all know that she isn’t in jail and couldn’t have done this highly illegal thing because you watch her every move and you saw her posting pics of herself just last weekend participating in a fitness event. Hmmmm. Are you collectively dumbing each other down with your groupthink or all you all that stupid? YOU KNOW IT’S A LIE. But you’ve all convinced each other it’s ok to lie about it, malign, spread hatred and misinformation about certain fans and tarnish their reputation in the fandom because… because? because why??? Help me out here. So it’s because someone has said rude bad things to an actress you believe is Sam Heughan’s girlfriend even though he has never once said so. You BELIEVE it so it’s your reality. And the fans that you malign? You do that because they believe something else. But the weirdest thing is that you do malign them by tossing out totally unfounded and false accusations about their behavior and ascribe all kinds of unsavory activities, motives, and behaviors to these fans you have chosen to malign. You do the thing to them that you so claim to hate they are doing to the objects of your admiration. 
I’m still working on this and I still need your help. So because you BELIEVE that two actors are dating and BELIEVE that it’s wrong that internet trolls make claims that they are not and some internet trolls say really rude things and tag them, you feel fully justified in making claims that the trolls are not just trolls but actual recognizable Outlander fans. Are you like shippers of trollworld or something? 
I’ll just come right out and say it. Kim Hickey is not behind any of those trolls accounts you claim she is. I know this and you know this. You know which accounts are legitimately hers because she identifies herself. You are even attacking her My Peak Challenge account that she posts inspirational memes and encourages people to donate to Bloodwise. Are you for fucking real? You’re attacking a charity endeavor in your blind hatred of…. hatred of who fucking knows.  Even if you didn’t know she wasn’t behind the troll accounts, you absolutely have no basis for claiming she is. You are making shit up and publicly proclaiming it as truth just like that thing that Shippers do that you claim to hate.  Also, let’s talk about me:  I am a public person online. I don’t hide behind cutesy names. You can look me up and it won’t even be doxing me because it’s all right there, isn’t it? I have no sock accounts. I put my name on all my accounts because I own what I say and share. This tumblr account was created in the middle of last summer as a parody of Starz Obsessable campaign therefore it did not need my name on it. I never had a Tumblr account before that and I have never even sent anons on Tumblr. I never pretended I was anyone else or made any attempt to be anyone else. I posted freely about myself and my life when it was topical, including photos of myself. If you were like BINGO I’m such a supersleuth I figured out who is behind that blog!! you’re not smart or observant. It was obvious. The thing is, though, shippers didn’t know who I was. Not because they didn’t know who was behind “Obsessive Sassenach” but because they didn’t know who Nipuna was. Isn’t that funny? One of the Outlander fans on the top of your BAD SHIPPER LIST WHO MUST BE EXTERMINATED list isn’t even known by other shippers. What makes me a shipper? Just that I have heart eyes for Sam and Cait and think they have chemistry and oh wait, whoah, ZOMG, Arthur Kade thinks that too. Josh Horowitz does too! and ummmm ummmm that one lady at TCA that one year and that one book author who was on the NYT best seller list and you know I could go on. It’s not a crime to be fully happy to enjoy Sam and Caitriona’s chemistry. And if that makes me a shipper, yay. But the only reason I’m actually a known component of the shipper community now is because you guys have dragged my name around and created ridiculous lies about me. It’s like I’m some sort of Shipper Legend (to you, not shippers) who does these super crazy Shipper things in AntiLand. Remember the grave story that was created by one of you weirdos because a family friend of mine who is a caretaker for a military graveyard in the USA was friends with Sam’s father? You guys turned it into: That Crazy Shipper Nipuna stalks Sam’s father’s grave in hopes of running into him and Caitriona making a baby on his dad’s grave in Scotland. Or something like that. Anyway, tour bus guides in Scotland think there are crazy Outlander fans who stalk Sam at his father’s grave but if they stop to think they realize they don’t even know if he has a grave or if it’s even in Scotland. 
You’re maligning the whole fucking fandom you freaks! You’re creating these outrageous, convoluted piece of fiction because you are all worked up about uhh something and then you tag other nasty people and get them to repeat the stories and then the stories get embellished and repeated and you sit back and watch the telephone game continue. But don’t you realize that you’re fucking the whole thing up for yourselves too? I mean, I guess not if you like chaos and mayhem. But most of you profess to care about people being nice and kind and cry out that bullying is bad and wrong. But then you do just that when you pick an Outlander fan and create detailed and convoluted lies about her behavior.  The people you lie about know they are lies, sure. And lots of other people know they are lies and ignore you, but you repeat the lies over and over and you know that saying about how if you repeat a lie often enough people will start to believe you. So you repeat and repeat and then sit back and with self satisfied smiles. Or maybe it’s just that your mouth is open because you’re breathing through it. Whatever. I don’t know your motives. I don’t know what attracts you to fan the way you do. I don’t know what fulfills you. I know it’s not LOVE. But do you even know? Are you just running around half-cocked and brainless and letting yourselves be lied to? What gives? Can you help me understand why you are constantly naming and targeting certain people and pointing others to attack them and if that doesn’t work creating stories that will hopefully motivate them to attack? WHY???

Been seeing a bit of discourse over the fact people think shipping Link with anyone is wrong because he’s (mild spoiler) probably 15 or so like it’s mentioned that Zelda is in a memory.

Realistically though if Link functioned like a real human, needed to sleep, took time to recover, couldn’t die and come back etc; it could take him years to gather all the shrines and save Zelda.

He’d be older by the time he got any leisure time to spend with Sidon if he kept at his quest for a few years diligently. Plus I don’t see either of them rushing into something especially when Link is a mostly silent guy, it would take them a lot of time spent together to even build a close friendship let alone something more.

At least that’s how I see it, kinda wish people would focus more on real issues instead of policing people’s fictional shipping choices. I’m sure there are people out there purposely shipping this problematically but I don’t appreciate when people lump me in with them just because I ship something in my own AU way.

As I’m sure some of you have seen from my previous asks and posts that I advocate for fictional freedom, but that does not mean people should be putting shipping content in the main tags. Be aware not everyone enjoys the ship, it can be a struggle for new blogs wanting as many notes as possible to not put it in the main tags but you are making non shippers uncomfortable and bringing negative attention to the ship.

anonymous asked:

(1/6) as a kl shipper, i wanna say from the bottom of my heart: thank you thank you thank you. so many times i've wanted to shout stuff like "why do yall hate k/eith so much" and "you guys never cared abt s/hiro or a/llura, let alone s/hallura" and "why do you want so bad for this writer/artist to be a p/dophile godDAMN" like, holy shit. u beautiful salty jem of a pearl at the bottom of this tumultuous fandom ocean. -

- (2/6) even your blog title is golden, bc it feels like so many people are so deluded, trying to make a ship, something you’re supposed to sit back and enjoy, into a sort of spiteful activist bullshit-filled “movement” like what??? and telling folks to unfollow if they ship s/haladin bc they’re “cleaning out they’re blog”, like, fuck off??? sorry but here’s a salt-filled rant and i don’t know where else to put it so here! -

- (3/6) side note, i’m rly trying to get across to you that i’m NOT being sarcastic abt how much i want you to keep doing your thing, bc now they’re trying to tackle RACISM. in grosser and grosser ways every day! calling some of the only asian rep i see in media “white-passing” and saying that l/ance can’t have a last name that isn’t 1000% authentically cuban, whatever that means, buncha hypocritical racists. i have never been so angry and ashamed of a fandom. -

- (4/6) it’s gotten to the point where i, someone who ships kl and NOT sk (just my personal tastes), am rly happy to see any sk on my dash bc that poster must have been so brave! to post something as simple as sk hugging or smooching or whateverthefuck, i don’t care! you do you! fuck all these nasty haters, THEY’RE the toxic ones who just want someone to hate! yall deserve props! -

- (5/6) also, my compliments to the chef regarding that pining k/eith theory, it’s So Good, like i ghostwrote it somehow. the whole “projecting onto l/ance” thing (which is being done to a painful degree, i can testify) tries so hard to remove or overvalidate his flaws that it’s laughable. making lance into an insecure martyr angst-sponge hybrid with no agency and no room for personal growth, it’s sooo bad. -

- (6/6) and villainizing everyone else! reminds me of that jaden smith tweet: “when i die, then you will realize” shit he wrote when he was like 14. transparent af, like we get it, you’re insecure. and sometimes i WANT to hop aboard the black paladin lance train, but it’s always this idealized version of him that’s almost unrecognizable, and it’s at the expense of better black paladin candidates. goddamn ok, that was all my salt for the time being! much love, thank you and goodnight!

This is one of those asks that I’d love to keep in my inbox forever, but I’ve spent the last three days trying to come up with a response because you deserve one.

I think we’re all aware that tumblr is an explictly shitty place when it comes to “activism”. There’s this black-white-mentality that anything and anyone needs to be put in a box based on whether they agree with someone’s world views. Everything needs to conform to a specific label too, fiction is only allowed to be healthy, you condone what you enjoy etc., and the #1 argument by people on this site, also widely used by antis, is “Think about the children” but also “Expect everyone else to take care of you”.

People actively go into tags of pairings they hate and then yell about how triggered they are. Really? I’ve been repeatedly told to kill myself because I liked something they didn’t (and I’m talking about my 99.5% discourse-free main blog, not this one where I passively seek out conflict). You either conform to the popular way of thinking (shipping, in this case) or you’re irredeemable trash and a threat to the public. Any shit you get over having your own opinion will be justified because you deserve to be punished for thinking on your own. Tumblr mentality is the modern equivalent to medieval politics.

Fandom always has a terrible side - I know - but the Vo/tron fandom has become a place where people tear each other down rather than block the content they don’t want to see. Converting people to one’s own thinking has becume such an essential part of “activism” to the point where people forming their own opinions and learning about an issue on their own pose a threat.

In the Vo/tron fandom you see this toxic mentality with K/ance, rabid L/ance stans, anti Sha/adins and so on. You said everything I’ve been trying to say since I made this blog, and it saddens me that people can only safely voice their opinions and concerns when hidden behind the Anon feature.

Fandom isn’t always fun, but the Voltron fandom has become a place where people are too scared of posting their art or speaking up because they’ll legit receive death threats over liking a fictional ship. I don’t know if I’m doing a good job at pushing back against the anti side or if I’m just making it worse at this point. But salt, spite and messages like yours keep me going. 

Lemme get my point through.
We HideKane enthusiasts are salty and bitter about this, yes.
But remember: Each has their own blog and everyone can rant, let out their rage and emotions out. About anything they want. Bc this is their blog just as yours is yours.
We will eventually calm down so just let us be this way for the time being and endure it. We are not trying to find approval. We just want to get it off our chest and let our voices be heard and to share it (and also to interact with people who feel the same way.) And NOT to get it rubbed off on our faces that we are stupid fujoshi losers. Not to aggravate anyone on this platform. We also not ask for feedback or con arguments to the things we state. So please dont.
I was a touken shipper at the beginning but the more i got to know about Kaneki’s deep connection to Hide the more i detached from Touken. That doesnt mean that Touka and Kaneki do not have a deep relationship. But i just dont support it anymore and ofc we are not pleased with this chapter that we not support. But who cares? Each to their own guys. Just let us talk about what bothers us , u dont need to interfere. Pls respect that just as i respect other views rather its Touka or Tsukiyama with Kaneki or whoever, even Mutsuki. At the same time that im not happy about the outcome tho , im looking forward to Yomo’s and Ayato’s reaction. And that Kaneki deserves the love he gets, i mean we all cheer for his happiness, are we not?
Noow to Ishida (i love ishida).

I see that there are irrational pple due to rage but me as a pretty rational personality.. It’s Ishida’s manga and he is free to decide what to do. Insulting him wont do shit and it’s just basically a wrong thing to do.
Stop insulting the blessed mangaka who brought TG upon us. He deserves respect just like any other person does.
My message dont insult Ishida for doing what he likes to do. Do you wanna be treated like that? No? Good, then stop.

(I cant talk for everyone but for myself. Yet Im sure others feel this way as well so stop being mean and dickheads everyone, for fuck’s n peace’s sake)

Im not tagging this to gain anger but let my voice be heard.

anonymous asked:

Gotta love how the J*nerys shippers act like they're impeccable angels and this is all a one-way street, while ignoring the anon hate several Jonsa shippers have gotten from their side, not to mention people like lucky10248, a J*nerys fan who's been putting hate in our tag and harrassing Jonsa shippers for nearly a year now. Fair enough if they want us to respect them, but if they're going to demand it, they need to practice what they preach and own up to their own ugliness.

I kind of disagree. Lucky90324578349507 is a gift to our fandom. I have never laughed more than while reading her blog. But if any of you feel personally offended by her, feel free to message me for moral support lmao. My personal fave was when she called me a “Class Five Buffoon”. 

I mean, some gems:

“As a ruler she managed to freed millions slaves simply because it was the right thing to do. As a result she’s loved by millions.

“Yeah right, and I’m an astronaut. You are a punk kid who knows very little about the world.”

“How is diversity anyone’s strength.”

“I personally hate the whining little idiot Sansa. She’s by far the most worthless character on the show.”

“Trump hasn’t banned anyone from saying anything you fucking liar.”

“I couldn’t disagree with you more. Jonerys fits the narrative like a glove. They’ve been having parallels since season.”

“You are a coward just like most Jonsa fans. All you little people do is talk trash to a Jonerys shipper then block them.”

More lucky098742390875 gold behind the cut.

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The Much Needed ‘The 100′ Fandom Intervention

Alright guys. I have had fucking ENOUGH. This fandom is spiraling into a new realm of absolute STUPIDITY and here’s a much-much-needed fucking intervention. So, sit all your asses down and listen up. 

First of all, WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON. This fandom used to be a fun place to hang out and enjoy this show and day-by-day it is becoming the biggest trash pile of toxic hate and stupidity and I, for one, am absolutely DONE with this. I want my friendly and fun fandom back where people weren’t over-reacting and overanalyzing and jumping at each other’s throats for NO FUCKING REASON. It’s gotten to the point where I can’t even go into the tags without getting my blood boiling over the absolute fuckery that this fandom has become.

I don’t care if you ship Bellarke or you ship Clexa or you ship Braven/Rellamy or you ship Kane with that fucking tree or you ship Jasper with a goddamn shoelace, you all need to CALM THE FUCK DOWN.

There is absolutely ZERO need for everyone to jump at other people’s throat for shipping what they like/not shipping what you like. Welcome to the real fucking world: NOT EVERYONE IS GOING AGREE WITH YOU ABOUT EVERY GODDAMN THING ON THE PLANET. So, instead of spreading pointless hate and unfounded accusations, sit down on your asses and ship your own ship in peace and let others do the same. And this is directed TO EVERY DAMN SHIP FANDOM IN THIS FANDOM including Bellarke and Clexa equally. 

You ship Clexa? 

THAT’S FUCKING GREAT. Talk about how great your ship is and how you got a great leadership dynamic and a beautiful kiss scene and a heartbreaking goodbye IN YOUR OWN DAMN TAG.

You ship Bellarke? 

THAT’S ABSOLUTELY AWESOME. Rave about how great a chemistry the two have and what a great development they have had over two seasons and how much they complement each other IN YOUR OWN DAMN TAG.

You dislike Clexa? 

HOW NICE FOR YOU. Discuss the things about it that make you uncomfortable and why you find it hard to ship RESPECTFULLY in the ANTI-CLEXA tag. Don’t shit on other people’s ship. Don’t trash talk other people’s tag. AND FOR FUCK’S SAKE STAY OUT OF THE CLEXA TAG. Tag your shit with anti-clexa and refrain from spelling out the full word ‘clexa’ in your posts. Instead opt for something like ‘Cl*xa’ or something of the sort to make sure your post doesn’t creep into the Clexa tag and muddy it up with hate. 

You dislike Bellarke? 

GOOD FOR YOU. Discuss why the ship makes you uncomfortable and why you don’t ship it RESPECTFULLY in the ANTI-BELLARKE tag. Don’t shit on other people’s ships, don’t call the shippers names for shipping something you don;t approve of, and DON’T FILL THE BELLARKE TAG WITH YOUR HATE FOR THE SHIP. As I said for anti-clexa above, tag your stuff as ‘anti-bellarke’ and refrain from spelling out the full word ‘bellarke’ in your posts to keep it from appearing in the tag and screwing up the positive ship tag. 

Ship Bellarke as ONLY a brotp? 

YOU GO GLEN COCO. Talk about it in the BROLLARKE tag and refrain from trash talking romantic Bellarke shipping. Also, refrain from using the bellarke tag which is used mainly for romantically shipping Bellarke. 

STOP WORRYING ABOUT THE FACT THAT OTHER PEOPLE DON’T SHIP YOUR SHIP. WORRY ABOUT SHIPPING YOUR OWN DAMN SHIP. 

There’s people talking against your ship in the anti tag? GOOD FOR THEM. They are using their own blogs to RESPECTFULLY share their opinions. They’re discussing things about their favorite show that they have opinions on. GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON. You do not have to get butthurt and shit talk other people or bully them or create unfounded accusations and fandom drama just because every person on the planet doesn’t worship your OTP. 

If you see people shit-talking your ship and it doesn’t make you feel nice, USE THE IGNORE BUTTON and block them. Don’t stoop to their level and start trash-talking things that they ship and feed the horrible vicious cycle of hate.

Fighting fire with fire only causes a fuckton of fire and burns everyone involved. Stop using other people’s hate as an excuse to start your own hate. Stop acting like little childish brats and learn to hold yourself accountable. 

TL;DR: START USING APPROPRIATE TAGS AND STOP DISRESPECTING OTHER PEOPLE’S SHIPS/OPINIONS. 

THE. FUCKING. END.

Hi there im back with another “theory”

[skip this rambling of mine] Sorry to some of you who have been waiting for my post (tbh I don’t feel my post is worth the wait, they’re just… delulu thoughts) and have been messaging where am I or if I am fine etc…  I disappear for a while bc 1. University/college assignments: it seems this semester my professors/lectures try to kill us slowly, 2. I don’t mean to disrespect anybody but there were lots of drama here, like “Kaisoo is dead/broke up/not close anymore” etc and tbh those things made me sad, I’m already dying enough bc of the papers I need to do to survive my student life, I couldn’t afford to be sad bc my otp’s gayness wasn’t exposed in public like it used to be.

Erhm, yeah… again I remind you this is how I see things, it doesn’t mean they’re true. I do not know these boys personally. I repeat: this is how I see them, how I perceive them, and I’m deluded af so don’t take my words seriously.

Now, what I want to talk about is sexism (what?)

Yeah you heard me.

Why?

Not long ago Soo wore a gray long-sleeved shirt with a big yellow embroidery rectangle patched on the front of his shirt (on the right side of the chest area) and “gender equality” was written on it, clear, bold and vivid. (I don’t have the picture but I remember the uploader put #equality gender then #love wins on the tags)

And when Nini babysat Tae0h, he taught the kid to protect women (he said something about; Tae0h needs to be strong like iron man so he could protect his sister and his mother). (I don’t have the picture/gif, but if you have watched the episode/have seen the gifs on his tag, you’ll know what I am talking about)

This idea struck me when I read an article about S.K having new curriculum which is teaching their young students about the dispute of “comfort women” that existed during Japanese imperialism in Korea. (You can read the article here on Wall Street Journal if you’re interested).

It made me remember about how women are still treated in S.K now. 

I’m NOT saying S.K is a sexist country (I’m not a Korean nor have I lived there, also my knowledge about them and their culture is not enough to label them with such term), I am also aware that there are many countries that are worse than S.K about this matter (my own country is shit too about this matter).

BUT, still, there are many articles about how unequal women are treated there (in S.K), thus it means we can’t say that sexism doesnt exist there bc it does. if it didnt exist nobody would talk about it on internet.

A quite famous blog channel (that shall not be named here) had talked about this before; women are expected to pour drink for men, pretty girls get dragged forcefully into clubs so they would attract more (male) customers, it’s inappropriate for women to smoke in public but not for men, and there’s “women must be pure and still a virgin” before marriage too (or so I have heard, my country has this ‘rule’ too btw. And I think my country has it worse. Basically here if a girl lost her virginity before marriage she would immediately be branded as “slut” “second-handed girl” “don’t have any moral” etc… sigh)

In their dramas too, you have seen how the male protagonist would yank the girl on the wrist to stop her etc.

We can also see it on the radio interview when nini rubbed soo’s hand (when soo had that red hair),

soo saw the camera, pulled nini’s hand lower (did he tried to hide their linked hands behind the desk? lol)

it seemed nini rubbed soo’s thigh?

^^^apparently in the full video (of the interview) baek and a member of the girl group (it was not only exo who got interviewed at that time. and sorry i dont remember which girl group it was, my kpop knowledge is a bit shitty) participated in arm wrestling, resulted: baek lost, the girl won. AND THEN the host immediately said something like; “A girl should’ve been delicate/soft not strong/brute like that [you].” (sadly I don’t have the link but I swear to god I saw the clip on my dash, or was it on YT? hmm.)

In a different radio interview, Chen also had commented about this. He was asked whether he wanted a boy or a girl as his future child. He chose boy bc he thought having a girl is a worrisome. He said something like, “So many bad things would happen to girls, especially in this [entertainment] industry(?)” (same as above, I don’t have the link. I watched lots of exo interview videos on YT a year ago)

Back to kaisoo. Remember this 

Now connect the dots. Based on what Nini had said, I (and as well many other kaisoo shippers) take that Soo isn’t quiet when Soo is with him. We have been wondering what kind of stuffs these dorks talk about… Imo these 2 talk lots about some deep shit when they’re alone

Ofc, they have their playful moments —

chen was like “chill the fuck out”

soo was like “no! lemme go”

look he only nudged chen

but with soo, he grabbed soo’s arm

— but, I think when they don’t always joke/play around all the time (duh) they would talk about significant things [probably politics, ideologies, etc], not only just chilling. Imo their personalities fit the idea [talking about deep stuffs] bc they don’t seem to be the type to gossip around, [at least not when they’re alone/together IMO].

(Idk prob they would gossip around when they’re not flocked together? like when they hang out with other people? – it had been said that nini hang out with his buddies outside the group (you know who) often, and somehow my mind can’t stop to think that they’re gossiping around when they hang out ( bc his buddies seem to be the playful/teasing type, so I guess they would talk more about lighter topics, but I could be wrong). GUYS gossip too It’s not only women’s things to do.)

Soo also had said this before.

“Mature and sophisticated” Soo wouldn’t say this if both of them don’t talk about some big heavy stuffs often. Often? Well yeah, if they only talked about heavy topics once or twice, Soo wouldn’t have the “sophisticated” impression about Nini (suho seemed to laugh at soo’s words choice tho lol it seemed he didnt believe soo? he did agree with soo tho [in the video], but i think he couldnt disagree  even if he wanted to. bc then it would be unethical? if he did the topic would get dragged on and prob would make soo flustered. he just seems not to be the type to fluster/tease others? if it was baek or chen  i think they would disagree just to mess with soo lol)

(Maybe this is me being delulu but Soo seemed to see Nini in different light (different if we compare it with how other members view nini?), like soo was entranced yet proud at the same time about Nini? like he glorifies him? no, it’s too extreme, like… he sees nini in higher level? 

bc not only he chose nini to be the mature and thinking in sophiscated one (i mean there are xiumin and suho in the group, why nini?), 

soo chose nini to be the most handsome guy in exo (others voted for themselves but soo voted for nini thus nini won - nini had 2 votes, others had 1, soo had 0 bc he gave his vote for nini), 

soo chose nini as the member with the best body in exo (even shindong said, “no, i mean between the 3 [baeksoochen] of you” he still didnt want to change his answer), 

soo had said it twice that he would fall for kai [1st. bc of nini’s perfomance - this is in magazine interview i think? i dont remember , 2nd. would fall [in love] if he was a girl - exoluxion japan] (gdi low-key much)  

erhm…im drifting out from the main topic, sorry.

What am I trying to imply in this post is that kaisoo might or might not have discussed about how unfair women are often treated/sexism? I can’t put a theory which one of them had the idea first/initiating the conversation about this matter but my guts telling me it’s Soo? Since he wore the shirt first, then Nini said those things (protect girls) later on

Sure, Soo might’ve just worn that shirt for fun. But remember this guy has a good English pronunciation, seems to favor English songs, watches quite a lot Hollywood mainstream movies. His English isn’t bad. He must’ve known what that “gender equality” tag means when he decided to wear it.

And Nini too. Some of you might’ve thought that he said those words to please the female fans/boost his image. But if he did, then why he said that? He could’ve chosen others sweet words to make the girls squeal. Imo he was genuine when he said those lines.

I think that’s it.

Sorry if this isn’t a “theory” about KAISOO IZ REALL but it’s more leaning towards to how close they are. Bc imo people need to be really close – especially people with KaiSoo’s personality [reserved] – to talk about such deep matter like this (IF they DID talk about it*, bc this is just a theory folks, im not saying this is true happened to them). At least I do. I won’t talk about ideologies/principles to people whom I’m not close with (bc i’m afraid my view would be judged or frowned upon or belittled).

Again, this is just how I view them. Thank you for reading.  Sorry for some mistakes, English isn’t my native language :)

I’m not sorry if this is too long, and too deluded, go complain at me and i’ll send you my sloth pictures collection.  SUE ME FOR BEING A DELUDED TRASH.

anonymous asked:

I know you don’t like Snily (and it’s okay) but what do you think about the massive anti-snily culture on Tumblr? I ship it but I do know it’s problematic and extremely flawed. I tend to like fucked up ships. I’m not even trying to pretend it’s all healthy and lovey-dovey. I’m just so tired of being treated as a simple, silly fangirl. I love marauders, I have nothing against Jily but I can't help feeling that I'm not welcome to the fandom.

I don’t know what you mean by “anti-Snily culture on Tumblr.” I don’t follow people who ship and post Snape/Lily (as a conscious choice) so I’m not knowledgeable about that part of the fandom on Tumblr or how they’re treated.

If people are sending you hate for shipping Snape and Lily, or posting hate in the ship’s tag(s), or openly insulting the shippers and even reducing to slurs and name-calling, then you’ve every right to get angry. That sort of ship-shaming is gross, and sometimes even borders on outright bullying the shippers. Tell them to go fuck themselves, block and report them. No one has any right to hate on others for their fictional ships, even though they may find it disturbing. Sending hate and bullying is never okay, especially given how we’ve many ways to avoid the ships we hate, like blacklisting the said ship or unfollowing the shippers. 

However, If what you mean by “anti-Snily culture on Tumblr” is people posting their (untagged) anti-Snape/Lily opinions on their own blog, or not following Snape/Lily shippers, or refusing to make and reblog Snape/Lily stuff and so on… then I’m sorry but I don’t think you’ve any right to complain about that. People are allowed to think a character or a ship is terrible, and openly refuse to contribute to that part of the fandom. We don’t have to gif, talk about, follow fans of every character and ship of our fandoms just so everyone feels welcome. That would be like me expecting Ron/Hermione shippers to make effort to make me “feel welcome” as a Harry/Hermione shipper, even though they may have issues with the ship. They have no obligation to cater to me. It’s just not going to happen.

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Heck Yeah–>Welcome to Harrisco Fest!(ノ´ヮ´)ノ*:・゚✧

Originally posted by catvampcrazines

This is a super chill fest designed to be fun, generate content for Harrisco (E-2 Harry/Cisco) shippers to enjoy, grow the community, and to help share and flourish our ship and get it out there! ohhh, and you know there are still some bae-bes thinking they’re all alone that need consoling *sniffle* come to us. we too have been there–in similar depths of rare pair despair. Also, if you’re new to the ship - or writing/editing/drawing period, but want to give it a go… or are simply feeling shy ;) - here’s your chance to dip your toes into those things–with low pressure but a large prompt list to pick from that will give you a little inspiration or simply provide a little starting point and boost to get that brain & muse vibing. *G*

Originally posted by heckyeahharrisco

  • August 1st-31st, you guys pick from the large prompt list below the cut. Write a drabble (100 words) or ficlet (under 1000 words), create a drawing/edit/vid/doodle/whatever art medium you like really! Post between Aug 1-Aug 31. I will reblog your work throughout the month! 
  • Please make sure to @heckyeahharrisco in your post in the notes or somewhere in the post, so that your piece doesn’t get lost in tags or in case it’s tumblr tag dropped, etc. We don’t want to miss out & I’d love to reblog what you’re giving the Harrisco community! If you wish, you can also use #HarriscoFest in your tags. (That craptacular black hole of a tag system though. Oi.) ;D
  • More on prompts: You can use any of the prompts, as many times as you like, and for as many fics/art pieces as you’re craving! Feel free to combine them as well. Woot!.
  • You can post your prompt responses separately and/or bunched together. Keep in mind that you have thirty days, so you could take advantage of both options however you like. 

Originally posted by catvampcrazines

  • If you are posting NSFW/NC-17, I’m still hella down with reblogging it. *omnomthankyousigh* If the fic/art is above a cut and NSFW/NC-17, please make sure to also tag NSFW. Please also remember to add warnings or a head’s up in your posts where and if they apply.
  • Oh and, pssst, if you go over drabble/ficlet word limits… it’s actually fine. I’ll still reblog. I absolutely understand that happening and it’s even a small joy as a writer and reader–plus, the word count “constraints”, drabbles and ficlets, are to lower stress and pressure. Here’s more of the cure in case you’re more worried about going over. Harrisco fest is here to provide you easy excuses to write and create ;)

Thanks for bearing with my easy rules but somehow still-lengthy rambling. I’m excited to see your stuff! Have fun, enjoy whatever you choose to do with Harry and Cisco–or, wayyy more likely, whatever they tell you they’re doing, and know that you’re helping give our little community (fellow shippers) not only more greatly needed treats, but a boost of life!

ETA:  Harrisco Fest Posts Collected So Far

Heck Yeah, Here’s Your Harrisco Prompt List

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anonymous asked:

The only aggressive thing I see here is the way these people are treating the KC fandom. Because sure. Delena fans sent death threats to Nina for leaving, SC fans attack journalists with go die cunt insults and yet the KC fandom once again is the aggressive one.

These people do know how to alienate their audience in the moment they need it the most don’t they?

But unfortunately or fortunately (because at least we are used to it by now) this is really nothing out of the ordinary for us so… chill.

However what I am finding extremely amusing in this situation is not what comes out in public (even by a tongue slip up) but what led to it during to what happens behind the scenes.

TVD and TO are right now failing HARD. Many actors are coming out and begging for viewers and ratings; That shows extreme panicking.

The writers might try to pretend that they do not care about the ratings but oh trust me they do! I am willing to bet that there is a constant discussion and pressure on how to fix their mess and the only result is getting the mess to become bigger and bigger and this is turning everyone behind the scenes crazy, frustrated and irritated. It is like you are in burning building and everyone shouts “HELP” and “SOMEONE DO SOMETHING” but they are all jumping up and down without doing anything while the fire gets bigger.

How much do you want to bet that in almost every discussion about fixing stuff Klaroline gets mentioned again and again and again LMAO. And trust me again that they keep on discussing on and on about how to save their shows.

Do you really want to know why they are so angry with the KC fandom? Screw their PR and what they are saying in public. It is not about the bad members of the fandom because the TVD fandom in total has some pretty bad apples in each and every sub fanbase.

Klaroline however was and still is the ONLY fandom that didn’t serve its purpose.

But guys really …we didn’t lmao

In the writers and even in the actors eyes we are indeed the problematic child. Not because we are “aggressive” or “ill-mannered” because the TVD/TO stuff are handling all sorts of fans from every fanbase. The big difference however is that Delena/Stelena/Steroline/Klayley/Klamille etc etc have served their purpose nicely one way or another while KC have not been able to be contained in a form that would be complacent and convenient for the writers.

The other fandoms gave them the attention, they gave in under the writer’s push every single time, they gave to the writers exactly what the writers asked. Let us face facts. The Klaroline fans… didn’t. The problem these people have is not the attitude the bad apples of the KC fandom have; it is the fact that the KC fandom remained loyal to the ship but once the shows started going to shit without any Klaroline in the horizon the KC fans simply said… fuck it. And not only they said it but they also did it. You see words are easy and each fandom uses them even as threats but the KC fans instead of words used actions and made their promises come true and that must have stung really badly because it was not expected. The writers and the actors were sure that sooner or later the KC fandom would either give in or fade away. Well it didn’t. The KC fans refused to follow the pattern the shows demanded from them especially after the fans have been treated badly for so long. Any other fandom (like all the other TVD/TO fandoms have done so far) would either plead with the writers or rage on (while still sticking along for the ride) or follow directions based on false promises. Delena had to lose Nina in order to retaliate. If Nina had stayed even if Delena was to be destroyed they would still be remaining loyal to the show and follow whatever Plec was to give them, either good or bad.

Klaroline is the only fandom that has managed to turn fanon into actual parsonal canon for the fanbase and to continue shipping without supporting the actual shitty canon Plec gives. The KC fandom speaks up, trends, shows its strength with no scenes and without believing false promises anymore. That is like a punch in the gut for the the TVD/TO writers. Plec wanted the support of the KC fandom. She wanted our devotion, our aggressiveness, our passion, our voice, our dedication but she wanted all those things in her own terms. But the KC fandom didn’t just retaliate but managed to be force to be reckoned with under circumstances that would have made other fandoms certainly give in. And that affected the presence of the shows in the media and their general standing.

Just how annoying must it be for the writers and the actors to be reminded of their bad judgement when while the shows are tanking the interviewers and the media and the fans keep on asking and reminding them about …Klaroline. Seriously. It must be their nightmare. Klaroline here there everywhere. The writers want to push their plots and new ships and the noise in the front and background keeps on being Klaroline lol.

All the above have managed to anger and frustrate the writers and the actors. KC is hindering a lot of their plans. The Klaroline fandom is not going anywhere. The Klaroline fandom is a thorn in their side. And a constant pain for them. They surely keep talking and even nagging behind the scenes for their rebel child LMAO.

And I for once I am very happy for this. Call me a sadist or an aggressive asshole but I admit it. I am. And the fact that all their inside annoyance comes out unintentionally in a time where they obviously need this fandom the most is even more funny to me. Because it shows to me the pressure they are under. The thirst is real. And after everything that has happened in the past this is like a winning parade for me and not a source of discomfort.

And guess what. The Klaroline fandom will still remain -even without scenes- active and vocal and united when everything in TVD and TO is currently burning and crushing.

And since I am not attached with the shows anymore but I am still a Klaroline shipper this is bringing me great enjoyment lmao…well I am just standing in the sidelines and I am observing. I am not actively doing anything to harm the shows. I do not ramble on in twitter. I do not affect the twitter ratings. I am from Europe. I do not affect their live ratings. Basically I am just pointing and laughing from my own personal blog in tumblr. I am not involved or going to show any ounce of support to shows of no quality and to people that have disrespected my fandom and me as an extension; However that apathy I have is spreading like a wildfire to everyone nowadays and no one seems to care about these shows so if by their book that translates as aggressive then so be it.

Aggressive is it? I so am. And in all honesty I would take honest aggressiveness over constant passive aggressiveness and patronizing every time of the day.

                                       LET’S SHIP IT MEME
                                                  made by
               popokki | waningxmoon | sacrificialfrailty | dereliquit

RULES;;
1. REBLOG IT, make those notes boom!
2. TAG ANYONE WHOSE “APPLICATION” YOU
LIKE AND/OR MATCHES YOURS UNDER “LET’S SHIP IT”.
3. AND/OR TAG ANYONE YOU WOULD LIKE TO
SEE MAKE AN APPLICATION UNDER “SHOW YOUR SAIL”.
4. BOLD EVERYTHING THAT APPLIES TO YOU
OR YOUR MUSE & EXPLAIN WHERE NEEDED.
5. HAVE FUN.

reasoning for this meme;; this is a meme to help you have access to everyone’s preference in shipping. everyone has their own desires for the subject and sometimes we stumble into a really good one, other times we regret, and at times they are just mediocre. if everyone just posted their very own profile of preferences in shipping, then you might just find your very best ship partner that much easier! just remember to tag a mun (or multiple) who posted an application that resonates with yours and if so far, no one’s application has piqued your interest but you would like to see a particular mun’s stats, just tag them (gently) in the appropriate section below.

LET’S SHIP IT !?! TAGGING: nobody because i am the first to make this!! ;D
SHOW YOUR SAIL !! TAGGING: @dereliquit, @unstoppablefate, @waningxmoon@moraldysplasia@albitails, @aoxre, @psythe@kingxfmischief@gin-ichimaru, @saisci, @twobasstards, @peoplejuiice, @ifrinncu@tenxcious, @dearnicolai, @hyperdetect, @talentedropout, @eshajjouri, @shiicn, @tefechi, @duckisms oh my gosh i’m laughing so much–pls love me & don’t feel like you have to do this either!! (i wanted to tag more ppl but i’ll leav e it to everyone else to tag… more ppl!!)
TAGGED BY: nobody </3

THE MUN

Mun Age: 15 or under | 16+ | 18+ | 21+ | 25+ | 28+

!!!

How Many Blogs: 1    2    3    4    5+

this is extremely important… i only have ONE blog which means i’m pouring all my effort into this one place. i honestly don’t mind if someone has two blogs, but usually if i see more than that, i get skeptical about how swift one might lose muse for a specific blog. 

Type of Blog: Main | Secondary | Side

i only got one, so i would hope this is the case lmfao!

How Many Muses: Solo | Dual | Multi

this is extremely important! with only one blog and one muse, the aim is development but also to avoid any ruts. it’s stated in my rules but i won’t be shipping with anyone who has more than one muse on their blog.

Type of Ship: Single | Dual | Poly | Multi for each AU | Multi but Single for each AU

you would think i couldn’t highlight two of these. i am a single-shipper! however, with my muse having an interest in polyship, i would be willing to try it out and see how it works. i have seen one in the past and it looked beautiful. but yes, it’s potential hence why i italicized it. however, i lean more toward single-shipping since i’m familiar with it.

Type of Verse: Single | Multi Main | Multi AUs

my partner’s doesn’t need to be single-verse. i’m fine when they are multi-main or multi-au tbh BUT i do insist on being in their main verse, lol!

Activity: Sparse | Leisure | Weekly | Daily | Multiple Times A Day

okay, how is it that i can do all of these? i legit thought i was a leisure for the longest time but i’m actually a fast rper when i’m into a thread or muses interactions. often times, if my interest is piqued i can reply multiple times in a day but if not, then it will be at a daily pace. i italicized weekly because if a thread doesn’t hold my muse at the moment, it could take me a week to get around to it. in shipping, i would probably hope for the same enthusiasm from my partner and thus, seeing replies on a daily to multiple times a day basis. of course, i’m understanding when situations arise but if it’s just frequent lulls or you happen to be a weekly replier? it might be a little too excruciating for me.

Writing Length Preference: One-Liner | Para | Multi-Para | Novella | Match

yeah… pretty much i’m flexible on this and it depends on the scenario that is unfolding between the muses. i usually do match the other mun’s length but i don’t keep it my focus? it just happens most of the time. i did italicize one-liner because i wouldn’t be able to write a ship with only doing one-liners all the time. i enjoy getting in depth and really fleshing out the development with muses.

Thread Flow: Multiple Scenarios At Once | Sequential Story Line

i will always want progression and thus, i look for sequential threads. mostly focusing on one thread, completing the current ongoing plot or progressing it forward (if per se, they need to escape from some bad guys, i would ensure the thread finishes before posting a silly mundane thing in the askbox irrelevant to the ongoing thread unless if it was crack). of course, if there isn’t any driving plot or scene ongoing atm, multiple scenarios at once of a ‘Slice Of Life’ is p fun.

Planning Process: Plot | Pre - Established | Go With The Flow

okay, so i only plot where i feel it is necessary? for example combat, adventure, some compelling happening, disaster, etc… otherwise, i usually only like to set the scene and then have the muses take the reigns from there. often i won’t plot at all except for a starter post at the ‘greeting stages’. after that, my muse can often take the lead whether it’s by popping into someone’s askbox or shooting random starters.

Do You Write The Do: Smut | No Smut 

yes!! not even going to lie, i love to write smut where there is chemistry. not that i write it often (i haven’t for once written it on this blog). but i know for sure if i ship w/ someone, it’d be with someone who’d be up for writing it and is of age.

Genre: Slice Of Life | Fluff | AdventureActionAngst | Horror | Dark Themes | Crack

yes, all the things pls. i want a fully rounded ship with a lot of development, strife, stuggle, cute, sweltering hotness, give it all–and yes, i’m willing to write even the darker themes. this obviously just depends on the interactions between the muses and who the other muse may be? currently Gale is not some sadistic, evil muse so it wouldn’t really be him but he definitely has had moments of being not so kind.

Social Level: OOC Post | AskboxIM | Tag | Skype | Kik | LineTexting

let me elaborate. i want to communicate! i want to see the enthusiasm levels! and gosh, tagging me in things, making a tag for our ship, posting about our ship ooc, sending memes/prompts when applicable, sharing ideas through IM or just spamming each other when the other mun is online, sharing skypes to further just… talk all day and perhaps even sharing some mobile way of contact. i love using kik or line to pretend that the muses are texting one another (but i usually ensure that Gale received their phone number via rp first before i allow that). and just basically, being friends and being super comfortable and having a lot of endless fun!! and then breaking each other  c ause someone had to go do the a ng st. <3 LOL!

Extra: Unrequited | Love Triangles | Bromance | Crossover | Strictly Canon | Incest | Selfcest

so, i didn’t have a place to put these? but, yep. figured i should put them somewhere! i love unrequited ships so if your muse develops a crush on mine, go for it! also love triangles?! i never see these on tumblr tbh cause… it’s tricky business especially if you involve more than two muns, this may be even better suitable for muns who rp multi-muse blogs and coordinate it with one other mun who also has a multi-muse blog but… ah well! bromance is a yes and so are crossovers, though Gale is an OC… but, just basically meaning i’m willing to ship with a canon muse, too.

THE MUSE

NOTE (optional): cross out anything your muse prefers in a male, italicize anything your muse is prefers in a female, if fine with either simply bold it. also keep in mind that muses are ever-changing, especially through development and preferences can shift along with it if the mun wills it. if there is a preference not listed, add it in your additional words to keep the meme standard.

Current Status: Single & Not Looking | Single Ready To Mingle | Crushing | Dating | Married

Romantic Orientation: Panromantic | Polyromantic | Heteroromantic |
Homoromantic | Biromantic | Demiromantic | Aromantic

Sexual Orientation: Pansexual | Polysexual | Heterosexual |
Homosexual | Bisexual | Demisexual | Asexual

okay wow, a lot of you might be wondering why this? Gale doesn’t really know his sexual orientation. he only has done heterosexual so far and it would take a loooooot of encouragement for him to do that again, he really likes the fluff with girls though. thus, he is more curious than anything right now about his sexual orientation. there are further reasons behind this but do know that Gale does not officially know where he stands. he currently in rp, stated he wanted to try a polyship but judging Gale and how smitten he can get with someone, i don’t know if he could handle a polyship. and personally, as the mun, i don’t think i would have such a great time writing smut for a heteroship unfortunately; there’ll just be a hell of a lot more fluff if i did a heteroship.

Gender Preference: Male | Female | Bigender | Trans | Fluid | Agender | No Preference

Aesthetic Values: A-Cup | Addict | Athletic | Artsy | Biker | Cross-dressing | Culinary | Curvy | Dangerous | Drinks | Fantasy | Farmer | Hair | IS IT BIG | Legs | Loner | Muscular | Musician | Nerdy | Piercings | Popular | Power | Short | Slender | Smokes | Sporty | Street-Smart | Supernatural | Stylish | Tall | Tattoos | Teeth | Tech-Savvy | Traveler | Wealthy 

Personality Attractions: Adventurous | BAD BOY | BAD GIRL | BashfulBenevolent | Calm | Comedic | Compassionate | Courageous | DaredevilDependable | Dominant | Eccentric | Energetic | Extrovert | FlirtatiousFriendly | Good-Listener | Hard-Worker | Innocent | Intelligent | Introvert | Mature | Mysterious | PlayfulProtective | OptimisticRomantic | Shy | Stoic | Studious | Submissive | Tidy | UnpredictableYouthful

Supernatural and this blog.

There’s been some drama (again) in the SPN fandom the last couple of days. I’m not linking to it. I’m not giving out the person’s blog url. I don’t usually get involved in anything that has to do with shipping in regards to SPN. But when shipping causes this much drama and affects the guys directly, I can’t keep quiet.

Since I usually don’t say anything about shipping, maybe there are some of you who don’t know where I stand on a few things that usually causes drama within the fandom, so let’s go over a few things. (This is long, but I’m not putting it under a cut because it’s important for my followers to read.)

1) I have NO ships for SPN. None. Zilch. Shipping is not what this show is about. The writers have said it. Jensen and Jared have said it. Aisha Tyler has it! (Bless her.)

2) I don’t care what you ship in your own private time and on your personal blog. Do your thing.

But let me go a little deeper.

Destiel
Despite the fact that Misha likes to play with the minds of Destiel shippers, Destiel is not canon and was never meant to canon. They are close friends, like brothers, and that is all. Now, when it comes to Jensen and Misha, they handle the idea of Destiel very differently. Misha likes to play with it and get you guys hyped up about your ship. That’s fine. Play around with him. He seems to like it. Jensen and the writers and others in charge, however, have expressed each time a Destiel question is asked that Dean is straight. They have shown Castiel in human form to be straight. And Jensen has expressed his complete disinterest at addressing the subject any further. If you have the nerve to ask him a question about it at a con, don’t get upset when he moves on to the next question without acknowledging yours. Don’t pretend you didn’t know he’s done talking about it.

Wincest
This is just wrong. They are brothers. Both Jared and Jensen have denounced this. It’s so wrong that they included it in the show and had Dean say “That’s just sick.” Let that sink in.

And for those of you who say Wincest isn’t sexual. Please stop. If you are a fan simply of the deep emotional bond that Sam and Dean have, then call yourself a brothers fan. The term Wincest was created BECAUSE it has the word “incest” in it. Incest is sexual. Don’t believe me? Grab a dictionary. If you don’t see their relationship as sexual, that should gross you out.

Any other out of character ship
Once again, ship what you want on your own private time and your blog, but I find it extremely hypocritical that straight characters on this show are constantly shipped in gay relationships. But if people were to ship Charlie in a straight relationship there would be a riot. And everyone knows it.

And, once again, do not try to push your ships (gay or straight) on the actors or other staff. Enjoy your fantasy. Keep it between you and your fellow shippers.

J2/Cockles/Mishalecki
It’s one thing to closely follow an actual celeb couple. People have always been fascinated by their favorite celebs’ personal lives. Actors and other celebs realize this and do their best to handle that aspect of fame. That doesn’t mean that fans have a right to be disrespectful and ask inappropriate, personal questions.

It is an entirely different thing to ship two people who are not together. Especially if they are friends. It’s a little weird.

It is yet an entirely different thing to ship two people who are married to two other people. If you want to fantasize about it, fine. But do not bring that fantasy to J2M or any of the other cast members.

And if you honestly believe that J2M are in secret gay relationships and their marriages are fake, then you are delusional. That includes Matt Cohen, Rob Benedict, and Richard Speight, because I’ve seen people talking about them being in secret relationships with each other. You have let your fantasies cloud reality and you need to seek mental help. No, that’s not a dig or an insult. Sincerely. You’re delusional.

If you bring up your delusion in front of (or directly to) any of these guys, you deserve however they handle the situation, because you have disrespected them, their wives, and their kids.

And speaking of wives…

Danneel/Gen
If you are hating on these two beautiful, talented, kind-hearted women, it is for one of two reasons: they interfere with your delusion, or you are jealous.

Hating on the cast and crew
I DO NOT tolerate hate toward the cast and crew of this show. They devote far too much time to the fans to deserve hate. I don’t care if you didn’t like the episode that one writer did. I DON’T CARE that they killed of your favorite character. I DO NOT CARE that they don’t support your ship.

They are entertainers. THEY are in control of the content of the show. They DO NOT have to cater to the whims of the fans, because the entire fandom DOES NOT WANT THE SAME THINGS! They would always piss off some portion of the fandom. So, they do what they should do. They cater to NO ONE. They write and produce the show that THEY want to put forward. If YOU don’t like it you have two choices: quit watching or suck it up.

This blog
Because I don’t ship, I prefer not to see it on my dash, therefore I do not follow shipper blogs or personal blogs that post lots of shipping. I do have a couple of mutual followers who will occasionally reblog a very mild Destiel-related post. That’s okay. I like 99% of their other content. But I don’t want to see sexual/romantic Destiel posts on my dash.

When doing a search (and because of Tumblr’s BRILLIANT changes to the tracked tags system where stuff just randomly pops into your dash) I do block any blogs that contain sexual/romantic Destiel, Wincest, ANY real person shipping, or ANY hate for the cast, crew, or their wives. I don’t want to see your stuff, and, to be honest, in some of these cases I don’t want you reblogging anything from me and have my URL showing up on your blog.

No, I will not use Tumblr Savior. No, I will not use Xkit.

If anything I’ve said here offends you, please feel free to unfollow or even block me. No hard feelings. As I’ve said before, I don’t normally post about this stuff, but recent events being what they are… well, here you go.

I will now go back to not discussing shipping or drama.

I have a few things to say

Yes, it’s Kishimoto’s manga and yes I cannot do anything to change what’s already done, but for heaven’s sake, if you are a true and logical fan of Naruto there’s no way you can calmly accept that ending.  And don’t you dare tell me that I’m not a true fan because I’m upset and complaining about the ending. Being a fan doesn’t mean I have to be in agreement with all the decisions the author makes. Being a fan doesn’t stop me from having my own opinions. Naruto is a work of art, published for the public, hence it is open to criticism.

Now with that out of the way, let me first say that I’ve been reading/watching Naruto since I was like 10. I’ve invested almost 10 years of my life into this series, hence I’ve pretty much caught the gist of the story. This is why I’m allowed to be disappointed, because the ending wasn’t even nearly as great as the buildup. I am disappointed because:

  • When did Naruto become merely about “who ends up with up whom?” As a matter of fact, when I started reading Naruto, romance wasn’t even listed as a genre. I still don’t think it is…idk go check. What about all those lovely life lessons and morals it taught us such as friendship, determination, hard work, never going back on your word, going against tradition and culture if necessary, seeing people change for the best and many more…..Have you all forgotten about those? Naruto could have ended with absolutely no couples and I’d be completely happy because it was a great story and I have learnt a lot.

But since you guys have decided to focus only on the ships, I must talk about those. I am a SASUNARUSASU shipper, without apologies.  I ship them, not because I’m gay, because I’m not, but because based on everything that I’ve been watching and reading their relationship is the most logical and most developed. It is also the strongest relationship in the series when compared to all others. The plot basically revolves around Naruto chasing Sasuke and if you don’t see this, I do not know which manga you have been reading. Open your eyes people!! Brotherly love you say. Heh! Greatest bull. Sasuke had Itachi . He knew what brotherly love was;the feelings for Naruto was so strong, he didn’t even understand it. He was scared. Naruto made friends. He had Shikamaru, Gaara, Neji, Kiba etc. You think by now he doesnt know what brotherly love is!? Naruto doesn’t even know how to explain it himself, because they’ve both never had that feeling before for anyone else. . Also, Kishimoto is the biggest SASUNARUSASU shipper there is, so do not be fooled. Take the entire manga and anime series as proof. (the data books, opening, endings, cover pages, their conversations, the entire Naruto plot etc).

Of course, being the rational person that I am, I was more than prepared for  SASUNARU to not be “officially canon”….because admit it, (it’s been canon from the beginning.) Our society does not accept this type of lifestyle so I didn’t expect to see Naruto and Sasuke running through the meadows, holding hands and what not or whatever weird things you guys think sasunaru shippers are thinking about. Actually, I was fine with chapter 699 and Naruto returning the headband was just so sweet and that’s all I ever wanted since Sasuke left….wipe tears. Also, Naruto is not yaoi (it might as well have been), it’s shonen, and hence its main target is males. I was prepared. But what I wasn’t expecting was crack ships, ooc, and babies everywhere.

Firstly….

NARUHINA

  • This is the most disappointing ship, because it had potential. I might have shipped it were it more developed. Hinata loves Naruto because she sees in him something that she desired. She wanted to be praised and acknowledged. He was confident in himself despite being deemed a failure, much like herself. Hence she strived to be like him and adopted his nindo way. However, there is too little interaction between them for me to accept that they fell in love, married and had children. He never once addressed her feelings. As a matter of fact, Naruto has always been oblivious to Hinata’s feelings (like all that blushing and fainting didn’t give it away)   Even up until Shippuden, he was clueless, until she confessed and even then….nothing. Naruto also went as far as to tell his father in chapter 691 that he hasn’t found the right girl as yet…nine chapters later they have kids.  So tell me, if he always knew he was “in love” with Hinata what the hell kind of statement is that?
  • I’ve never been a NARUSAKU shipper, but even that makes more sense than NARUHINA. Naruto and Sakura basically grew up together and have come to know many things about one another and accepted each other. Naruto also always claim that he loves Sakura, even down to her worse trait, her forehead, which no one else accepted. Even Sakura must have developed some sort of feelings for Naruto after all he’s done for her and all they’ve been through together.

SASUSAKU

  • I don’t even know where to start with this ship. I could write a book stating all the reasons this ship is poor, underdeveloped and extremely shocking. I mean, unlike NARUHINA, where there was an attempt to develop their ship with subtle hints…this ship….wow. Sakura has always loved Sasuke since she was a child merely because he was cool and good looking. As she grew older she held onto these fleeting emotions. When Sasuke was labelled an S class criminal, she was more than willing to decide with the others that they should kill Sasuke. Even Ino was more against the plan that she was. Meanwhile, Naruto was suffering from a panic attack on hearing those news. She attempted to kill him and failed miserably. Sasuke on the other hand, while he was on team 7 protected Sakura. As a member of team 7, and one of the strongest at that, it was his duty to ensure that his teammates were safe. However, after he left, he rarely ever thought of Sakura, and whenever he did, it was in the context of team 7 (which includes Kakashi and Naruto as well). While He’s had plenty of independent thoughts of just Naruto.  Also, Sasuke is always calling her annoying and speaking badly of her. He tried to hurt her, and if it wasn’t for Naruto he would have killed her, he also placed her under a genjutsu where he’s killing her, like WTF? Someone please explain to me how this equates to love? ( And don’t you dare say this is love because no dictionary in the damn world defines love like this)
  • This pairing only depicts Sakura as a desperate fan girl rather than the strongest kunoichi that she really is. Even after all that she still crawls back to Sasuke begging him to take her with him….. just NO. I know many of you SASUSAKU shippers are girls. I am a girl and I could never ship this. I could never bring myself to support a relationship where the female is constantly being hurt and degraded and abused in all sense of the word. Haven’t Sakura matured….where are her standards and ambitions?  And don’t say he apologized….because that half dead (literally) apology could not make up for shit.  And if this is the case, I am seriously sorry for the girls of this generation. When do they draw a line? When do they say this is enough and I’m better than this? This is like a parallel to why girls stay in abusive relationships in reality. A bad example for all girls. I could never be happy about this becoming canon. In chapter 698, I think, Sasuke was saying that he could not accept anyone else but Naruto ( because everyone else basically gave up on him) and a few chapters before that Sasuke said he had no interest in Sakura and could not see why after all this time she was still dwelling upon thoughts of love with him. He said with his own mouth that Naruto is his only friend. I don’t recall him saying that about Sakura….and you don’t just fall madly in love, marry and have a child with someone you’re not first friends with. And what about Sasuke? He still hasn’t even said a word of love to Sakurahave you guys realized that or are you just playing blind because it’s canon!?  No matter how I look at this ship, I could never be happy about it. And I won’t even go into the forehead thing because that has nothing to do with this.
  • To NARUHINA and SASUSAKU fans if your ship needs an entire 360 turn in the personalities of the characters, the omitting and ignoring of major details, unanswered questions, and a movie to justify it…it might as well never existed. Your ships and fandom never did and will never experience the same level feels that the SASUNARUSASU fandom experienced. Because while your ship was based on subtle hints and vague acts. Ours was based on real and quite obvious actions of both parties; their actions and words. So please, do the SASUNARUSASU fandom a favor and “calm thyself.”
  • And you don’t have to be gay to ship SASUNARUSASU.

If this is what it means to be CANON, I’m really glad that SASUNARUSASU remained non canon. Because they are way happier than the canon ones tbh.I’m sure the SASUNARU fandom is big. If he wanted to please the fans and make some cash he could have ended it without pairings and without the rush or….I won’t even say it… Just for the sake of money, norms and society the perfect manga is being ruined.

  • Because of 700, I couldn’t even be glad about Shikamaru and Temari, which I ship. Plus I won’t even go into all the other ships because they are just crack ships. You don’t just throw people together without  first developing some back story.Kishimoto knows that because he’s a brilliant writer. I was so sure that he didn’t willingly write chapter 700. Just money making business. Some of these characters haven’t even spoke one word to each other and some have never met before but they are making babies. Even Sai, who spoke the most about guys’ dicks and who had stated that he thought Ino was ugly and he didn’t like her, did a 360. LOL. Chapter 700 was like a really bad fanfiction.
  • My view of Naruto and Sasuke as parents are totally ruined. Because out of everyone else, they know loneliness the best and what the absence of parents can do to a child. But what I got in chapter 700 was Naruto hitting his child and telling him that he’s too busy for him because he’s doing hokage work and he should just understand that because he’s a ninja and  Sasuke journeying across the ninja world looking for God knows what!? I thought even if they were going to have children that they’d at least be there for them.
  • The last chapter also ruined the reason for NINJAs. There is peace and tranquility… what is there for Naruto to do as a hokage? The role seems almost useless. Then there are those skyscrapers on the hokage heads and all the technology…I guess it was expected since it’s a few years later, but it totally ruined the traditional old time scenery that the village held. And all the girls who once dreamed and aspired to be great kunoichis are now settling with being just housewives. And nothing is wrong with being a housewife but really, did their dreams just evaporated into thin air? And what’s the purpose of being a housewife if the man isn’t home or in some cases, isn’t coming back. What happened to TAKA? Juugo who always stayed beside Sasuke because he was basically his purpose for living, Suigetsu and I hope what I’ve been hearing about Karin isn’t true.

And about the LAST nothing in that movie can adequately capture or attempt to explain the disaster which is chapter 700. Enough said.

However, Naruto is still my favourite manga, (all 699 chapters). I have nothing else to say about that fanfic at the end though. I will forever ship SASUNARU because it’s the realest and cheers to Kishimoto for writing the best love story ever (even though he doesn’t know it)

These are my few words….

HELLO, HELLOOO EVERYONE!!! HOW ARE YOU GUYS DOING??

I’m pretty okay! I’m having to rush a lot of things and still working on my own stuffs (read: projects and MORE PROJECTS) and it kinda makes me sad that I’m not having enough time to draw loads of ryumakos like I usually do.

It’s no new that the ryumako tag has been… pretty dead lately, if I have to be honest. As the person responsible for “giving birth” for that tag I decided: “hey I may not be able to draw them that much in my current state but what if I started a #ryumakoweek on Tumblr and give the shippers more ideas to draw them? yeah, that sounds great!” This has been one of my plans for a long time (I think since the beginning of November?) but I can finally announce it now!

The #ryumakoweek will be starting on December 6 until December 12 and you can also choose a week of your choice to do it too! I’m still working on the prompts so this post will still have some updates!

Just remember that when you do it you have to tag “#ryumakoweek” and be sure that it’s in the first 5 tags so it will appear on the Tumblr tags. It doesn’t need to be just a drawing, anything that involves being able to participate is acceptable! be creative with anything you can think of! (late entries are acceptable too! don’t worry too much if you won’t be able to finish one on time). And as the host of this project I’ll be sure to reblog them all in my blog, there’s no exceptions!

That’s it for now.

Well my friends,

2015 has come to a close and 2016 has started.

2015 started out with me being stuck in a rut I was in for a long while, I was depressed, and I was trapped in NC as a waitress, not going to college, and just barely making my way through life. Really, everything changed when I had a dream that I needed to grow up and accept that things in life are inevitable. You can’t keep someone from suicide, you can’t bring them back.

I lost her, him, them. She was a she, but I refer to her as a he, a them, a she. She went by all pronouns, literally, she was so open minded. She was everything to me, and then some. She was my first love, she was my life. I lost her at age 16, and for years I was just coping. My parents didn’t know why I was depressed because I had not come out to them as being Pansexual. They never knew we (jasper and I) loved each other, and even then, I knew I didn’t care much for “sex”. She was the first person who ever respected that, and we just held hands, and did things I was comfortable with. Why am I telling you all this? I don’t know, I just have noticed a lot of you tell me stuff about you, so in a sense I am reciprocating. In fact, 6 years ago, I had not even known about the term “Pansexual”. Anywho, I digress.

In the end, she committed suicide. I knew for a while she was suffering, but I didn’t know she was that upset. I had no clue. I was floored by the realization. Then I got mad at her, how could someone I love so much, who loved me, kill themselves? How could someone leave me? Why was I not good enough to live for?

Those are questions I still wonder, but may never have answered. Her journal’s last entry referred to an Alice, something her parents never figured out meant me. (Alice, my name, actually came from her calling me “Alice” from Twilight, she and I both were Twilight fans back in the day. For a short time, until we began to discover how kinda stupid it really was. She called me Alice. So I used it as a gamertag, and have kept it ever since. I am now, Alice. I no longer go by my real life nickname much anymore. She went by Jasper, aka J.G being her initials. I only ever refer to her as Jasper.)

In it, it said she loved me and that she was sorry. That was the only closure I got. I was the first on the scene immediately after it happened. I heard the gunshot, everything.

I even nearly went to the military when I was 18, because I wanted out of the small town I grew up in since I was 8, I was originally from California. But, even though I could have gotten into Linguistics in the Army, I turned it down. I will always regret that decision. Then again, me being like Chloe Price and all, authority and I do not play well together >.>

With all that said and done, down to a recap of this year, 2015 was just me continuing a self-destructive pattern at the start, to sum it all up. Then I had a dream, like I said, and in May I suddenly grew up.  I got my shit together and went back to school, I made a 4.0 my first quarter. Life was good, I started to actually take chances again, I started opening up. I began to live again. It was like a breath of fresh air, it felt so good to be out on my own. During this time, I began the journey of finding myself and my sexuality. I began to figure myself out.

The second week into the second quarter, I began to fall back into a depression. My granddad died. It was a car wreck, a fluke one. It was terrible news, and it was the second time I lost myself in grief. I was the last family member he saw and spoke to in person before his death. The last thing he said to me was “Quit smoking, it will kill you.” I have begun to quit smoking, it’s just taking some time.

A little over a month after his death, I bought all the episodes of LiS and played it. I had played the first episode, but I played it smart, and played the first episode, and waited until all of them came out. I didn’t torture myself for the whole year. Heh.

The moment I saw Chloe in the game, I related. The anger, the resentment toward the world, the acting out to hide the fact she is really suffering. The “go getting” attitude, and the hard ass demeanor. She stole my heart. She lost her fatherly figure, William, I lost Jack, my granddad. My fatherly figure. She has a step father named David, I have an ex LTC from the Army who is an asshole as a father, his name is also David. Whom I resent quite a bit for the PTSD he has given me from screaming at me for no reason, along with a lifetime supply of emotional abuse and other things.

LiS also reminded me of the fact I would rewind time in a heartbeat to save my Granddad, or Jasper, if I could. It gave me such bittersweet comfort. It made me realize, that in life, sometimes not re-doing things is best. Even if you wish you could.

At the end of October I found my first tumblr fandom, and joined the fandom of LIS, and those who ship Pricefield. I met some amazing people, but for a while I was still shy. Then it just dawned on me, why not spread joy, and share the stupid shit I do with my tumblr followers? People responded kindly to my change in behavior, some even admit they like the dumb stuff I rant about and stuff. It makes people smile, and for that, I am thankful.

I have met so many people, so frequently it has happened so fast, so if I forget someone, it is not personal. I just cannot keep up with all the AMAZING people I talk to.

First came @atelierevzimus , a friend I speak with constantly. Evan, you are fucking amazing and I love the shit you message me. It’s always hilarious as fuck.

Next in line is @prcefields known as Andrew, and this guy will keep you in stitches. I love the little *flies off into the sun* tag he does, I hope I am not the only one that notices that either. Just the shit he says, funny as all get out.

Next I met, @rowanred81 whom I adored immediately due to the little gif wars we did, the fact they WRITE for the awesome comic that is “What If?” , and just their overall personality. Fucking amazeballs, this one. And just know I will silently judge you if you are a pricefield shipper, and you aren’t following this amazing person. Like seriously, get with it, yeah?

THEN COMES FENNY WOLF, @fenrirwolff who is like ZOMG my best friend on tumblr, cause we even talk on Kik. Yes. This amazing ball of fluff is like, a brother to me. Especially since they have “wolf” in their name. really, becoming friends with him was a no brainer. And it was totally fucking worth it 10,000 times over.

Somewhere along the way I met @priestessamy whom I impishly pester whenever I get a fucking chance, cause, it’s just a load of fun to see their reaction!! Plus, Amy has an amazing sense of humor, and seems to understand I do things just to make myself laugh, as much as I do it to make the other person laugh, so they never get mad at me. WHICH I LOVE ABOUT YOU, YOU LITTLE DELIGHT!!

@orinn123, another tumblr brutha!!! I also speak to him on Kik, and this one writes hella good poems, and is super down to earth. Super kind, thoughtful, and is always willing to make people smile. And he says funny shit.

Then I met @emsthebassist and I also talk to her via Kik. She and I just get along, idk how to explain it but, we just click. She puts up with me ranting and raving about stuff, especially when I am at work, and yes we still have yet to meet in person. BUT IT WILL HAPPEN! I promise. Still not sure why you want to meet me though. I’m really not interesting irl.

@vanosswriting probably the funniest person I know, and it just kinda happens at times that I need a laugh. Out pops a vanoss, and sure enough, laughter ensues. Plus, they make up for like half of my reblogs. This one here, literally reblogs 0.8 seconds after I reblog something. It’s ridiculously awesome.

Somewhere amidst all of this, @indiestorey came in. I fucking adore this one for drawing a literal MOMENT out of my fanfic, I about died when I saw it. It was super fucking good, and yeah, I cannot express how much I appreciate that kind of support. Like seriously. Just wow.

@painkiller08 has gone through some shit, and I was there for him during a dark time, and after that he had heard I was also going through a hard time, so we are like the two emo people over in the corner who can just talk about tragedy to get it off our chests, and enjoy each others company. Literally, this totally sums up our friendship. A friendship I value tenfold.

@somethingexplosion WHOISLIKESUPERFUCKINGPRETTYIMEANREALLY. Ahem. We have spoken a few times, and I adore and love love love this person. I wish we spoke more ;-; really I do. You seem hella dope. And I wish you a happy 2016, consider this my “MESSAGE ME ALL THE TIME, LET ME LOVE YOU” message. Yes, that.

@thelegendarydarcylewis YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY FAVORITE RP PARTNER. I will forever ship Logan x Aphrodite, and call their ship name Aphgan. And know, from the bottom of my own black heart, I love you, and wish you a happy 2016, and MESSAGE ME ON SKYPE MORE YOU NERD! I really miss you!!

Aaand that’s it. All of these people I mentioned, even the LITTLEST of things they do, give me motivation in life every single day. All of their kind comments, and some of them have even tagged me saying I have touched their lives in a positive manner, and it’s just “wow”.

When I came to tumblr, and joined this fandom, I had no idea people would be so welcoming, so supportive, and so loving. I am glad I have brought some joy into y’alls lives with my stupid and random posts. I just put shit up there, and as my quote before Christmas went;
“My blogs start out as thoughts on tumblr, and end up becoming a story.”

Because you all reblog and add your comments, and it’s just amazing. I love the attention support.

So goodbye 2015, hello 2016. And I hope all of you mentioned above have a hella 2016.

*taps ground with staff, transforms into a wolf, and runs off into the mist*


And Jasper, just know, I have never forgotten you. Just like you asked me not to that day we were at the pond, high as a kite. You will live on, if only through me.

Seven Years - Saosin

CARYL - Creative Sunday With Carylcherokee aka HuddyElectra

The CARYL community is full of amazingly creative and brilliantly talented people whose contributions and masterpieces inspire all of us to continue celebrating what Carol and Daryl are today and what they could be “together” in the future.

Without the numerous fan-fiction stories, fan-edits, fan-metas, fan-art and all the other things that boost our “feels” on a daily basis, the CARYL tag wouldn’t be nearly as awesome and our spirited enthusiasm wouldn’t be nearly as determined to remain hopeful.

These dedicated shippers take their time, their talent and their vision, to create CARYL testaments that are invaluable to all of us because with the amount of hardship, uncertainty and negativity we’ve had to deal with for so long, sometimes our “feels” just need a bit of a boost to continue keeping on.
Everything the artists submit or post for their CARYL community is filled with such passion, such beauty and such dedication, that their existence alone reinforces and confirms the validity of the magic we see playing out between Carol and Daryl. The solidarity alone is beautiful to see.

I like to think of each one of them as mini CARYL celebrations!

While I know a lot of us are more than a little aggressively eager to reblog our favorites I’ve noticed that as of late there appears to be a lot of pleas from these artists asking people to please not repost their art or edit any of it because that is not just unfair to them but it’s also a form of “stealing” their work. So much creativity and thought goes into these projects and each and every piece has intimate meaning to the creator of it, making the infraction even more hurtful. 

I am not an artist and I can’t say that I have any “special talents” that could benefit any of you BUT it occurred to me that my way of giving back could be providing whatever exposure my little blog can give to these creative do-goodies by featuring their works in a weekly regular post. I am constantly asked for recommendations so I figured this would be a way to do so a bit more openly and thereby introduce not just my followers but also myself to some amazing things I haven’t noticed before.
You guys can send me notices about your top picks as well and we can make this into something good for both parties.

For my first Creative Sunday feature I decided to focus on fan-made videos because it seems that these somehow get lost in the shuffle sometimes AND just happen to be things that I personally find the most moving and maybe even most versatile of all other types of media.
Fan videos essentially combine almost everything art can offer, which is probably why their impact goes straight to the heart so quickly.
A video can manifest it’s feels on a lot of different levels - it can tell a story, it can stir up deep emotions through its chosen music, it can be breathtaking visually through editing and thereby can be significantly memorable to the viewer as it stimulates and exploits several senses all at the same time. Just like fan-fiction, fan-videos can tear your heart out and make you feel things that stick with you for a long time after you see it.
I don’t know anything about how these videos are made nor do I know how long it takes to make them BUT from the looks of it I am assuming that the process is difficult and probably even nit picky. The feels from them however can be off the chart and the impact just confirms that the creator really does understand Carol and Daryl’s bond.

My all time favourite videos are usually the ones that are slightly narrative and more prone to the story telling approach with the music being a little more second-hand and a little less purposeful.
The one Caryler than NEVER fails to move me with their video masterpieces is none other but our very own carylcherokee  aka HuddyElectra on YouTube who is probably already well-known (she should be) but I couldn’t help putting her first.
She tugs at my heartstrings every single time and I’ll admit I lost count a long time ago of the number of times I have watched and shared her work! The videos she creates are not just visually or musically appealing BUT show such depth of understanding of the inner workings of CARYL that there has been more than one occasion where I noticed a parallel or subtlety about this relationship that never occurred to me before.

The way the editing is done is so thoughtful and beautiful that you can really feel the love she feels towards Carol and Daryl and she simply gets them….

Here are my Top 5 Picks;

Carol & Daryl - “We Ain’t Ashes”


Carol & Daryl - “Running Up That Hill”

Carol & Daryl - “Tortured Souls”

Carol & Daryl & Tyreese - “Cry Me a River” AU

Carol & Daryl CrackVid Part 1

Carol & Daryl CrackVid Part 2

The CARYL CrackVid can make me laugh no matter how bad of a day I am having!

I encourage ALL OF YOU to go to her YouTube Channel and check out her other videos as well! They are all so-so-so good that I had a hard time choosing my top picks and I bet you will too.

In the meantime send carylcherokee some love and praise - she is an amazing person and a artsy genius that I am very happy found her way on to the good ship USS CARYL!

I can’t wait to see what she does next!

CARYL On My Lovelies - The Best Is Yet To Come

Love XOXO

Sanja

I fucked up! I clicked the wrong buttons and the asked got published before I could answer it propperly:
So here we go again:

Anon asked:
hiya!! so from your blog i can see you’re a HUGE iwaoi shipper! I’ve been following hq for awhile now and while i ship kurotsukki and other stuff I’ve never actually gotten myself into iwaoi! seeing you art and such has reeeeeeeaaaallllyyyy piqued my interest!! if you don’t mind, can you tell me more about iwaoi (why you like it, head canons etc). oh and like I said your art is really amazing and I can stop going through your blog!! thanks you, lots of love xx

My answer:
ASDFGHJKLAHHHHHHHHH ☆*:.。. o(≧▽≦)o .。.:*☆
Can you hear me scream???? Thank you sooo much for your wonderful and sweet message!! THANK YOU!! I got really excited when I first read it and I still am! I hope I can answer this propperly and that my english won’t fail me.

Hehe, yes, you caught me, I’m a HUGE iwaoi shipper. I tell you: HUUUGEEE!
So yeah, what is it about these two that made me fall so deep into Iwaoi hell.
First of all for me to get into a ship I need to find each character on their own interesting. And with both, Oikawa Tooru and Iwaizumi Hajime, I have this.
In my eyes Oikawa is a very multisided Character with a lot of depth to him. He can be a huge dork, silly, even foolish but he his so much more than this beautiful, by girls admired, dork.
He is a strong and good player and a proud one. He can be. He is hardworking and very determind to his work. I love that he, despite his talent, still is a teamplayer. He needs his team, he supports them in the best way and counts on them. He has his difficults with Kageama and Ushiwaka but he cares for his friends and family. And he is loved by his team. Even though they also tend to make fun of him. He has is insecurities and anxieties which make him so much human and believable:D There is so much to him that I can’t even comprise it in words. He could be a protagoist. Shame he isn’t :D

And then we have Iwaizumi Hajime. Oikawa’s best friend since childhood days and his volleyball partner since forver. We don’t know as much about Iwaizumi as we do about Oikawa. But what we know also shows that he is a diverse character. He is not just the strong athlete he is shown as. He is supportive and caring, despite his often shown stern and even aggressive behavior. His team loves him and he cares for them aswell. But he can also be a huge dork and even if it’s not shown much has a funny side.


What makes this ship so great in my eyes is their great dynamic. They’ve known each other for such a long time now and they still play and work together. They have become a great team. Iwaizumi is the one who can call Oikawa out on his bullshit. When Oikawa overworks himself and overthinks stuff Iwaizumi is the one to bring him back. He believes in Oikawa’s talent and in his abilities.

And so does Oikawa. Iwaizumi is his pillar. His strong Ace who he can count and relay on. You really can see how important they are for each other.
I also love their banter. Oikawa really knows how to push Iwaizumi buttons and he loves to do so. But when things get serious they stick together.
I love their dynamic. And the just look great together!! TWO HANDSOME GUYS

I have so many headcanons about them and many of them are part of my AU so they might be out of character. So I’m not so sure about those :D
Other then that I really love those headcanons people come up with about their childhood days. How they played together and have known each other since they were babies. How they were full of shenanigans and always there for each other.
I also truely believe that even though Iwaizumi is Oikawa’s pillar it also works the other way around. Oikawa cares for his Iwa-chan, he supports him and is there for him.
Ahhh this post is already so long and I could say so much more..but also my words are failing me and I don’t know if this is anywhere near to what you wanted to read.
There are so mayn headcanons I really don’t know where to start. I should make a post by it’s own just about hc’s!

I really hope this helps and that this is a kinda good answer (/)///(\). I never did something like this. Ay ay ay…I should do a headcanon post.

They are two huge loveable dorks who love and support each other, who fight and make up and who just have to stick together for life.

Look at them!!!

YOUR MESSAGE MADE ME INCREDIBLE HAPPY and I hope I can live up to this with my answer. And that you like my art and took the time to go through my art tag and even to write me this message!! I’m over the moon. And if I can make you ship Iwaoi my job is done! I can die in peace then!!
Have a wonderful day!!

I couldn’t stop thinking about it, so here I’m adding some hcs:

- until they were 10 years old Iwaizumi, who is one month older, used to be taller than Oikawa. Just by an inch or so, but still.
- Iwaizumi always was Oikawa’s first person to run to. Wether he had good or bad news. He found a new great alien doku: Iwa had to know, his parents were fighting: runninh to Iwa.
- Oikawa is very noisy and whiny when it comes to more unimportant stuff. Like when he is cold, or hungry, or some silly first year is being a brat. But when something seriously bothers him, his anxiety keeping him awake at night, he keeps it to himself.  
- when this happenes he mostly gets more quiet and starts to get all serious and is overorking himself. And sometimes he copes with it while getting all noisy and annoying. Iwaizumi needed a while to crack this code. - Iwaizumi is very straight forward when it comes to things that can be changed in an instand. He doesn’t deal with shit and speaks up. - This is very different when it comes to his own feelings. He gets all quiet and very complicated. Nowhere near to the straight forward guy he usual is.
- when his parents got divorced even Oikawa didn’t know for the first weeks. Iwa didn’t tell. He just got more quiet than usual. - when Oikawa found out about the divorce he first was angry that he haven’t been told. But he learned to understand Iwaizumi’s ways.
- sometimes he still is buffled and can’t read the feelings of his stern best friend.
- Iwaizumi doesn’t know what it feels like to not be in love with Oikawa. He always has and never really loved someone else. Sure, there are his parents, and once there was this girl he thought was cute, or this guy from a class above, who was his senpai in volleyball and was pretty cool, but love…

Ahhh, I have so much more. These are just little silly ones. But I don’t know right now…

Sorry my Ichiruki fellow shippers

It hurts reading the shitty ending. 

It hurts that Kubo betrayed his own work. 

It hurts that Kubo betrayed all of us. 

It hurts that we all trusted him.

But it hurts the most seeing some still trusted Kubo to the very last minutes. 

I believe the spoiler is true. No need to fake them. No need to be enemy with the whole fandom.

Only seeing the real things hurt us even more. 

Why we readers defend the bond, the sense of the manga more vigorously than the mangaka himself? 

This hurts like hell. I know.
ETA: if he intended to toy us from the beginning, to hint everything just to shatter it later then wow.

To all the IH that keep poking my blog. I never ever tag you guys once, I don’t want any thing to do with you from the beginning. Why bother screen capturing, reblogging, telling me to do this, do that. Thanks, but no thanks. I’m writing what I feel like in my blog, I dont want to interfere you. (Go enjoying the canon!) [Ah, one might be not IH, so I’m sorry, but the thing above still applied, I do what I want, and I don’t cross the line in others’ zone].

And to Kubo, no hating, but very disappointed, and feel betrayed. 

I love his art the most. 

But he betrayed me, it’s true. No sugar-coating. 

And stop with the “no romance” bla bla bla. If no, why bother with marriage, kids and stuff. 

I don’t reblog to answer because I really don’t want to do anything with you guys.

Repeat: Go enjoy the canon! Do something useful for life. Don’t waste your time correcting me. 

The only one’s wrong is Kubo and his shitty ending. Maybe SWJ

Go correct him if you have time.

Not another lengthy post, oh no

I’ve been meaning to do this.. It goes over several topics because I have been internalizing all of these and I realized that it wasn’t a good thing because I practically screamed at my classmate on the first day back to school for like 5 minutes straight and this is all just making me mad. Alice in Wonderland mad.

This is actually the edited and shortened version of what has been sitting in my drafts for a long time now. yes shortened.

First of all, I’m not speaking for anyone as I do not know how exactly the others in the fandom are feeling or thinking about pertaining to recent events. 

And secondly, the following topics may or may not be related to each other. I’m horrible at sequencing things when I’m not on my laptop or if it’s not being written on paper. 

I’ve wanted to do this a lot of times, but I didn’t have the courage to because a lot of people who write these posts, or have written them before, have gotten rather negative reactions. But a friend of mine had encouraged me, so here goes what contains probably 96% of what people have been posting (yay something to add to the party haha) ((I’m not funny I know))

I’m just going to give a quick summary of where I stand: 

Do I ship Kaylor? Yes. Please respect that and those who do too. Do I ship Tayvin/Talvin? No. Please respect that too and those who share the same opinion. 

Why do I not ship Tayvin/Talvin? Is it something against him? Do I HATE him? WHY? Is it because he’s a HE? 

Well, first of all, I don’t exactly HATE him as that is a very strong word I only reserve for people who have directly wronged me in a way that can NEVER be taken back or be amended. Which means I don’t use the word lightly. Although I do dislike him. Again, please respect that. It’s not being a hater to dislike someone. We all have different opinions and standards and, frankly, I dislike people who have wronged so much people in so much ways I can’t even, for the life of me, contemplate why people do such things. If it were playful jokes, they were distasteful and just plain wrong. It’s been done in the past, but has he apologized? Also, no it is not because he is, in fact, a HE. Even if Karlie wasn’t a girl, I’d still ship Kaylor. I’m not going to go over about why I think so because I have done this too many times and I’m 92% sure the people who visit my blog are getting bored and annoyed. 

Do I still ship Kaylor? 

My only creative answer to that is a question; Is water still wet? 

Am I a Calvin hater? I have no creative response for this, but no. I just dislike him. 

Do I really believe that this whole thing is a sham or a PR stunt? 

I’m going to give everyone included the benefit of the doubt. So no. Not fully, but there had been and there still is too much circumstantial evidence to just ignore the thought. I’m not on anyone’s side with this, but I AM going to follow my gut. If I’m wrong then I’m wrong. As simple as that. Don’t fight me on this. 

Now that that’s over with, on to the next topic. 

The annihilation of Kaylor shippers

Did y'all really have to push all the Kaylor shippers off rainbow road Mario Kart style? As if the shade that the “like” hadn’t been as bad as a turtle shell to the head already. You HAD to make sure we were all double dead. It wasn’t even a mercy kill. It was more like one shot on each limb slowly inching your way towards the heart. But that’s the thing. You didn’t shoot the main thing that had been keeping us alive this whole time. Barely breathing, but alive. This isn’t about a ship anymore. We’ve become family. The Princess may not want to have anything to do with us (which I find saddening, to say the least, if it indeed proves to be true) but we have become such a tight unit running on solar power. Hurt one of us, it will burn. Not us, you. 

I’m not inviting you to test our strength though. Don’t pick up a goldfish out of water just to see how long it takes until it dies. We’re humans too. We’re not THAT strong. Let’s be realistic here. 

Next on my less than well thought out list; Taylor. 

Now I kind of get the gist of your actions, although I am not, in any way, in the position to say that I understand why you do what you do. But please clear this all up. We just need to understand why you do the things you do. I’m not asking for a 15,000 word essay explaining every single thing. We just need an upfront opinion of yours on what’s happening so we could put this all to rest. Likes are not, in any way, valid statements to show/tell us how you feel about the situations that are unfolding. We need something that comes from your thoughts, written with your own words. You could just tell us to tone it down, you know? But you didn’t. So that’s not going to stop people who are posting things that seem to make you uncomfortable. 

Hmm, what if they don’t stop even if you ask? Well there is always the option of just ignoring them. As simple as that. They aren’t wearing neon signs saying LOOK!! AT!! THIS BLOG!! READ EVERYTHING!! c'mon. There is a use for that unfollow button. It’s not just there for aesthetic reasons. 

Let me ask you this; would you sit beside a person who is chewing loudly and slurping like a vacuum cleaner and then tell him or her to stop what they’re doing and eat “properly” or would you just let the woman/man be and mind your own business? I mean, there are other unoccupied seats in the room. And you could sit beside people who eat their food in peace or whatever you deem more comfortable so why sit with the loud eater that would irritate you? 

Tell me, why. 

Also, is all this really worth it? Is alienating an already minuscule portion of your fan base really worth whatever is going on behind the scenes? Has everything that had happened have an actual purpose in a bigger scheme of things? 

People’s feelings are being tugged on by opposing sides right now and it’s exhausting. PEOPLE’S FEELINGS. FEELINGS. I had so much more to say on this topic, but I’ve moved on. I don’t want to have to rehash all those emotions again. 

Taylor, please. We need answers. I’m asking politely. I’m not pressuring you to give us that. But hey, I might as well try asking so I could say that I really tried. 

Moving on; Kaylor/ Karlie/ Speculations/ Miscellaneous ramblings of a teenage girl

Best friends. Normal American Girls. Yup. Honestly, it’s not that I don’t believe you guys. I do. I do believe you’re just normal American girls who are the BEST of friends. But that doesn’t mean I also think you’re soul mates. Who ever made the rule that soul mates had to be partners or lovers? If friendships can be romantic, friends CAN be soul mates. Seriously, with the way you two are acting together, it’s just as clear as a glass. Even when the glass breaks, it’s still clear. 

Now why bother with all the hiding. Why not just SAY like actually SAY you and Karlie aren’t together and just carry on with whatever you two normally do? It’s just a little suspicious. That’s all. Because most people would just shake it off and act the same. Although I do understand that everyone’s essentially not the same. It’s just all really, for a lack of a better word, useless. 

If it’s about work and time differences, that’s understandable. But you both had had so much opportunities. So much free time. Maybe you wanted to spend time with other friends, alright then. Just don’t make it look like Karlie never even existed EVEN THOUGH she was there before, during, AND after your (Taylor’s) image became more respected by people then fell to pieces again. 

I don’t know if Karlie is all good with everything that has been happening. Or if she’s even in cahoots with whatever’s going on. And I won’t say what I would do if I were in her shoes because I have no idea what it’s like to be in her shoes nor do I know what EXACTLY is going on behind the scenes, but we’ve had so much evidence that gave us theories. Theories a lot of people disagree with. I’m not saying these theories are 100% true either. But unless we get an honest and clear reply to all our questions and clarity on what is happening, the speculation is just going to continue. Until. Questions. Are. Answered. 

Some things I just want to put out there in no specific order 

We won’t know if Karlie is uncomfortable unless she tells us herself. With her own words. 

We won’t know Tayvin/Talvin is a PR stunt unless we work in that department and actually know what in the world is going on. 

We won’t know what Taylor is actually thinking or feeling unless we are animated talking emotions who live inside her brain. 

We won’t know whether Karlie/Taylor are straight or not unless they explicitly tell us. 

We’re not telling other people to stop shipping what they want to ship. So are we going to stop shipping Kaylor? No. 

Am I going to go to an opposing ship’s blog to send an anonymous message that wouldn’t affect me AT ALL in 10 years or so? 

That’s just really idiotic, really. It’s not paying your bills, nor is it making you any younger. 

That is all. Okay, most of it anyway.

This post is horribly sequenced but I just kept jotting down things. I didn’t even have to think. It’s just all floating around my brain and I needed to let it out before I start to drag people I know in real life because my mind is unstable due to the millions of different emotions pertaining to different events that have been happening. 

I hope that the read wasn’t stressful. I have missed a few points, feel free to add. 

Have a good day/afternoon/night everyone 😁☀️