i need my own shipper tag for these guys on my blog

Soooo I don’t really know what I’m doing here but these thoughts have been rolling around in my brain for the longest time and I need a place to let them fly free. 

Why is it still considered a “creepy” and “invasive” thing to ship celebrities together?

I mean, I sort of get it. When you think of the word ship, you immediately get war flashbacks to twitter wars and hateful anonymous asks sent to you for not supporting the same ship as one other person and the crazed fangirls/fanboys who become full fledged obsessed. Like, I get that aspect. 

But aren’t we forgetting where ‘ship’ even comes from? It’s just a shortened version of relationship. When I think of ship, my first thought is “This means I appreciate/admire/respect the relationship between these two people. It means I support it.” 

I creep a lot on the Sprousehart and Lilicole tags for my roleplaying page, and I’ve seen so much. I’ve seen the mild shippers who express an interest in these two as a pairing but can’t really be bothered to see past Bughead. I’ve seen moderate shippers who get excited about “breadcrumbs” but seem to leave it at that, and I’ve seen extreme shippers who dissect every little tweet and Insta like (I have a soft spot for you guys. I’m analytical trash and think there’s a meaning behind everything). And mostly everybody stays in their own zone and respects each others opinion and it’s just like, a super chill and happy tag where we gush about Lili, Cole, and their adorable chemistry on and off screen.

And then you come across blogs who act as if the idea of Sprousehart getting together would be great but don’t understand why people wish for it to happen/talk about it happening.


Have you never had a pair of friends before and noticed the sparks flying between them before they did? Real talk, my cousin and her husband were slow burn for YEARS. It was obvious how in love with her he was and she was so oblivious to it. I stood back and watched and you bet your ass I was the first one clapping when they finally announced they were dating. I supported them. I appreciated what they did for each other. I admired the love between them and watching it grow.

I shipped them. Does that make me creepy? If you wanna say that, sure, but it’s literally just another word for saying I was rooting for my two of my favorite people to be happy.

Let’s get rid of this taboo thing that shipping implicates that we don’t understand they’re real people. I get it. They’re individuals. They have their own things going on, their own history, their own friendships with other people. They’re not a brand and they’re not conjoined twins. When Cole does amazing stuff with his photography, we shouldn’t bombard him with “omg you’re shooting another girl this must mean you don’t appreciate lili anymore”. When Lili hangs out with male friends or gets another project with another love interest, don’t spam her with “you’re cheating on cole!!/you must like this person more”. Obviously not. Have common sense. What I’ve seen from most of this fandom is that a good majority of Sprousehart shippers get that. There’s crazies in every family, though. (Also, some tweenagers should NOT be allowed social media privileges.)

I love Lili. I love Cole. As separate people. I love Lili’s goofy sense of humor, and her ‘no fucks given’ attitude. I love Cole’s intelligence and compassion towards total strangers. I love them together. Heart eyes galore, teasing banter, complete respect is my couple goals aesthetic and they give it to me in spades. 

So yeah. I fucking ship Sprousehart because I respect/admire/appreciate how good these two seem to be together. Whether that ends up being just completely shipping their friendship, or shipping them as a couple if they ever go public, I just support the two of them wholly. In every aspect.

I guess that makes me a creepy motherfucker.

I’m really glad I wrote this lengthy ramble instead of getting dressed. I spend my days productively. 

What the ever loving fuck is wrong with you people?

You people  You Antis, NST, Truthers, Haters, wtfer name you want to be called or are called. You people. You know I’m talking to you @noshippingallowed @contemplatingoutlander @goldenoutlander @adhara112 @aliceinoutlanerland (oops you forgot the d in outlander. get a d.) @whylimewhyanything (put the lime in the coconut) @whoreallyknowswho (it’s whom! whom! unless you just forgot to finish your sentence) @prodigiousreblogger @bestof60 (are you 60?) @vividdreamer318 (your imagination is certainly leading you astray) @breezylouisey (is that you weezy?) @momofmusa (i thought you were mom of USA lol)  @alittlebitmasss (oops your s key got stuck)
Anyway, there are more of you and I’m sorry I didn’t give you a moment of thrill by acknowledging you by name but I mentioned the Tumblr accounts that I’ve seen making horrendously wild, hateful, fictional, hurtful accusations against other Outlander fans with no speck of proof - accusations meant to inspire others to emulate you and spread hate to those people as well. Let me get this straight. From what I can tell, you are super hopping mad about the content of certain Twitter and Instagram accounts. Fine. Totally fine. You are entitled to your opinions. I can see why those accounts might make some people mad. I mean, irrelevant to my life but maybe not yours.  You are mad that certain Twitter and Instagram accounts have been created for the sole purpose of throwing shade and mocking a certain celebrity you hold in high esteem. I get that. Fine. Be outraged! Express yourselves!!
Speaking of fine I know you will go through this post with a fine toothed comb for anything you can argue with and attack me over because god forbid you actually read the message, digest the information, thoughtfully consider the content and then share your thoughts and opinions and maybe answer some of my questions. Nope that’s not your style. Attack attack attack half-cocked and don’t put any thought or concern for reality into it. Yes you are the borg of Antis as the foil to the Shippers. I didn’t create that world, you did. You wanted to be the anti-shippers. You are gathered on Tumblr together to be this Anti-Shipper fighting army. Go forth and fight uhh I guess? WHY???? 
See, shippers are motivated by love. That’s really obvious. There are all types of shippers just as there are all types of people (and even all types of antis), but what brings them together is not just their love of Outlander (and you guys love Outlander too! Whee we have something in common) but their love of the LOVE parts of Outlander and all the LOVE associated with Outlander in promos, BTS, interviews, Q&As, social media banter between the cast and crew, etc. LOVE is LOVE is LOVE is LOVE is LOVE is LOVE is LOVE is LOVE. So you generally don’t see shippers on social media attacking people with hatred and lies and accusations of criminal activity. Wait wait wait. Correction! YOU see shippers doing those things but no one else does. You mostly see shippers doing those things with accounts that aren’t even recognized shipper names. They are basically troll accounts that you have deduced are shipper accounts. You do have these long convoluted narratives of what certain shippers are alleged to have done and you bandy them about so frequently that your telephone game grows legs and walks it’s own marathon and becomes some weird beast-mode attack shipper who does horrible things. You say you SAW these things but you haven’t. Show me a tweet, a facebook post, an instagram post from an Outlander fan who identifies herself as a shipper and has a known persona in the fandom and is attacking, hating, committing these horrendous crimes you claim. What I mean is, SHOW ME THE MONEY! SHOW ME PROOF to back up your narrative. You have specifically named a number of Outlander fans and made outrageous claims as to their character, behavior, beliefs, actions, off-line actions and more. YOU HAVE NO PROOF BECAUSE THESE STORIES ARE FICTION.
I’ll give you an example of how your lies have grown wings, run a marathon and turned into beast-mode:
So a certain blue check account posts that a certain object of your hatred and hate-mongering did something so illegal that she would have been arrested and would still be in jail. You all headnod, mouth breath, feel righteous for having attacked her because you were soooo right, bang away at your keyboards and continue the lies and hatred and stoke the fires for uhhh fun? Yet you all know that she isn’t in jail and couldn’t have done this highly illegal thing because you watch her every move and you saw her posting pics of herself just last weekend participating in a fitness event. Hmmmm. Are you collectively dumbing each other down with your groupthink or all you all that stupid? YOU KNOW IT’S A LIE. But you’ve all convinced each other it’s ok to lie about it, malign, spread hatred and misinformation about certain fans and tarnish their reputation in the fandom because… because? because why??? Help me out here. So it’s because someone has said rude bad things to an actress you believe is Sam Heughan’s girlfriend even though he has never once said so. You BELIEVE it so it’s your reality. And the fans that you malign? You do that because they believe something else. But the weirdest thing is that you do malign them by tossing out totally unfounded and false accusations about their behavior and ascribe all kinds of unsavory activities, motives, and behaviors to these fans you have chosen to malign. You do the thing to them that you so claim to hate they are doing to the objects of your admiration. 
I’m still working on this and I still need your help. So because you BELIEVE that two actors are dating and BELIEVE that it’s wrong that internet trolls make claims that they are not and some internet trolls say really rude things and tag them, you feel fully justified in making claims that the trolls are not just trolls but actual recognizable Outlander fans. Are you like shippers of trollworld or something? 
I’ll just come right out and say it. Kim Hickey is not behind any of those trolls accounts you claim she is. I know this and you know this. You know which accounts are legitimately hers because she identifies herself. You are even attacking her My Peak Challenge account that she posts inspirational memes and encourages people to donate to Bloodwise. Are you for fucking real? You’re attacking a charity endeavor in your blind hatred of…. hatred of who fucking knows.  Even if you didn’t know she wasn’t behind the troll accounts, you absolutely have no basis for claiming she is. You are making shit up and publicly proclaiming it as truth just like that thing that Shippers do that you claim to hate.  Also, let’s talk about me:  I am a public person online. I don’t hide behind cutesy names. You can look me up and it won’t even be doxing me because it’s all right there, isn’t it? I have no sock accounts. I put my name on all my accounts because I own what I say and share. This tumblr account was created in the middle of last summer as a parody of Starz Obsessable campaign therefore it did not need my name on it. I never had a Tumblr account before that and I have never even sent anons on Tumblr. I never pretended I was anyone else or made any attempt to be anyone else. I posted freely about myself and my life when it was topical, including photos of myself. If you were like BINGO I’m such a supersleuth I figured out who is behind that blog!! you’re not smart or observant. It was obvious. The thing is, though, shippers didn’t know who I was. Not because they didn’t know who was behind “Obsessive Sassenach” but because they didn’t know who Nipuna was. Isn’t that funny? One of the Outlander fans on the top of your BAD SHIPPER LIST WHO MUST BE EXTERMINATED list isn’t even known by other shippers. What makes me a shipper? Just that I have heart eyes for Sam and Cait and think they have chemistry and oh wait, whoah, ZOMG, Arthur Kade thinks that too. Josh Horowitz does too! and ummmm ummmm that one lady at TCA that one year and that one book author who was on the NYT best seller list and you know I could go on. It’s not a crime to be fully happy to enjoy Sam and Caitriona’s chemistry. And if that makes me a shipper, yay. But the only reason I’m actually a known component of the shipper community now is because you guys have dragged my name around and created ridiculous lies about me. It’s like I’m some sort of Shipper Legend (to you, not shippers) who does these super crazy Shipper things in AntiLand. Remember the grave story that was created by one of you weirdos because a family friend of mine who is a caretaker for a military graveyard in the USA was friends with Sam’s father? You guys turned it into: That Crazy Shipper Nipuna stalks Sam’s father’s grave in hopes of running into him and Caitriona making a baby on his dad’s grave in Scotland. Or something like that. Anyway, tour bus guides in Scotland think there are crazy Outlander fans who stalk Sam at his father’s grave but if they stop to think they realize they don’t even know if he has a grave or if it’s even in Scotland. 
You’re maligning the whole fucking fandom you freaks! You’re creating these outrageous, convoluted piece of fiction because you are all worked up about uhh something and then you tag other nasty people and get them to repeat the stories and then the stories get embellished and repeated and you sit back and watch the telephone game continue. But don’t you realize that you’re fucking the whole thing up for yourselves too? I mean, I guess not if you like chaos and mayhem. But most of you profess to care about people being nice and kind and cry out that bullying is bad and wrong. But then you do just that when you pick an Outlander fan and create detailed and convoluted lies about her behavior.  The people you lie about know they are lies, sure. And lots of other people know they are lies and ignore you, but you repeat the lies over and over and you know that saying about how if you repeat a lie often enough people will start to believe you. So you repeat and repeat and then sit back and with self satisfied smiles. Or maybe it’s just that your mouth is open because you’re breathing through it. Whatever. I don’t know your motives. I don’t know what attracts you to fan the way you do. I don’t know what fulfills you. I know it’s not LOVE. But do you even know? Are you just running around half-cocked and brainless and letting yourselves be lied to? What gives? Can you help me understand why you are constantly naming and targeting certain people and pointing others to attack them and if that doesn’t work creating stories that will hopefully motivate them to attack? WHY???

Been seeing a bit of discourse over the fact people think shipping Link with anyone is wrong because he’s (mild spoiler) probably 15 or so like it’s mentioned that Zelda is in a memory.

Realistically though if Link functioned like a real human, needed to sleep, took time to recover, couldn’t die and come back etc; it could take him years to gather all the shrines and save Zelda.

He’d be older by the time he got any leisure time to spend with Sidon if he kept at his quest for a few years diligently. Plus I don’t see either of them rushing into something especially when Link is a mostly silent guy, it would take them a lot of time spent together to even build a close friendship let alone something more.

At least that’s how I see it, kinda wish people would focus more on real issues instead of policing people’s fictional shipping choices. I’m sure there are people out there purposely shipping this problematically but I don’t appreciate when people lump me in with them just because I ship something in my own AU way.

As I’m sure some of you have seen from my previous asks and posts that I advocate for fictional freedom, but that does not mean people should be putting shipping content in the main tags. Be aware not everyone enjoys the ship, it can be a struggle for new blogs wanting as many notes as possible to not put it in the main tags but you are making non shippers uncomfortable and bringing negative attention to the ship.

anonymous asked:

(1/6) as a kl shipper, i wanna say from the bottom of my heart: thank you thank you thank you. so many times i've wanted to shout stuff like "why do yall hate k/eith so much" and "you guys never cared abt s/hiro or a/llura, let alone s/hallura" and "why do you want so bad for this writer/artist to be a p/dophile godDAMN" like, holy shit. u beautiful salty jem of a pearl at the bottom of this tumultuous fandom ocean. -

- (2/6) even your blog title is golden, bc it feels like so many people are so deluded, trying to make a ship, something you’re supposed to sit back and enjoy, into a sort of spiteful activist bullshit-filled “movement” like what??? and telling folks to unfollow if they ship s/haladin bc they’re “cleaning out they’re blog”, like, fuck off??? sorry but here’s a salt-filled rant and i don’t know where else to put it so here! -

- (3/6) side note, i’m rly trying to get across to you that i’m NOT being sarcastic abt how much i want you to keep doing your thing, bc now they’re trying to tackle RACISM. in grosser and grosser ways every day! calling some of the only asian rep i see in media “white-passing” and saying that l/ance can’t have a last name that isn’t 1000% authentically cuban, whatever that means, buncha hypocritical racists. i have never been so angry and ashamed of a fandom. -

- (4/6) it’s gotten to the point where i, someone who ships kl and NOT sk (just my personal tastes), am rly happy to see any sk on my dash bc that poster must have been so brave! to post something as simple as sk hugging or smooching or whateverthefuck, i don’t care! you do you! fuck all these nasty haters, THEY’RE the toxic ones who just want someone to hate! yall deserve props! -

- (5/6) also, my compliments to the chef regarding that pining k/eith theory, it’s So Good, like i ghostwrote it somehow. the whole “projecting onto l/ance” thing (which is being done to a painful degree, i can testify) tries so hard to remove or overvalidate his flaws that it’s laughable. making lance into an insecure martyr angst-sponge hybrid with no agency and no room for personal growth, it’s sooo bad. -

- (6/6) and villainizing everyone else! reminds me of that jaden smith tweet: “when i die, then you will realize” shit he wrote when he was like 14. transparent af, like we get it, you’re insecure. and sometimes i WANT to hop aboard the black paladin lance train, but it’s always this idealized version of him that’s almost unrecognizable, and it’s at the expense of better black paladin candidates. goddamn ok, that was all my salt for the time being! much love, thank you and goodnight!

This is one of those asks that I’d love to keep in my inbox forever, but I’ve spent the last three days trying to come up with a response because you deserve one.

I think we’re all aware that tumblr is an explictly shitty place when it comes to “activism”. There’s this black-white-mentality that anything and anyone needs to be put in a box based on whether they agree with someone’s world views. Everything needs to conform to a specific label too, fiction is only allowed to be healthy, you condone what you enjoy etc., and the #1 argument by people on this site, also widely used by antis, is “Think about the children” but also “Expect everyone else to take care of you”.

People actively go into tags of pairings they hate and then yell about how triggered they are. Really? I’ve been repeatedly told to kill myself because I liked something they didn’t (and I’m talking about my 99.5% discourse-free main blog, not this one where I passively seek out conflict). You either conform to the popular way of thinking (shipping, in this case) or you’re irredeemable trash and a threat to the public. Any shit you get over having your own opinion will be justified because you deserve to be punished for thinking on your own. Tumblr mentality is the modern equivalent to medieval politics.

Fandom always has a terrible side - I know - but the Vo/tron fandom has become a place where people tear each other down rather than block the content they don’t want to see. Converting people to one’s own thinking has becume such an essential part of “activism” to the point where people forming their own opinions and learning about an issue on their own pose a threat.

In the Vo/tron fandom you see this toxic mentality with K/ance, rabid L/ance stans, anti Sha/adins and so on. You said everything I’ve been trying to say since I made this blog, and it saddens me that people can only safely voice their opinions and concerns when hidden behind the Anon feature.

Fandom isn’t always fun, but the Voltron fandom has become a place where people are too scared of posting their art or speaking up because they’ll legit receive death threats over liking a fictional ship. I don’t know if I’m doing a good job at pushing back against the anti side or if I’m just making it worse at this point. But salt, spite and messages like yours keep me going. 

anonymous asked:

Yeah so you and others really need to call out @nyah86 for literally erasing finn for Kylo. Like stop being hypocrites about shit antis do and get your own house in order. A white fan is literally saying the black guy is not important. Cal this shit out.

Originally posted by n-wordbelike

So anon I just looked into @nyah86 blog I checked their kylo ren and star wars tags.  I saw nothing of them talking ill of Finn. Now if you assume they are erasing Finn because they don’t have a Finn tag well that’s pretty petty of YOU. Their blog looks new since it didn’t take me long to get to the bottom of their tags. And tbh you need to grow a spine anon. So what if they don’t have Finn on their blog you can’t just assume “ Oh OP is erasing Finn!”   If this was some gotcha  then you failed terribly . Keep Finn off your nasty blog then complain as to why Finn isn’t on our blog.

And by the way how about YOU get your anti house together. Cause they been out of line this whole month, stealing artwork, plagiarizing fics, lying and slandering blogs, racial slurs, and sending reylos suicide bait and rape threats. 

Update:  So looking at the blog again I noticed a gif set which was a manip.  I didn’t noticed at first but looks like the rest of reylos shippers are calling it out which is good. ( And I’m gonna assume anon ignore that. They always ignore reylos calling out our own) So my bad on my part not catching it, jc i’m not this fandom security camera . But My point still stands about the bold part

anonymous asked:

I'm really happy that I found your post about Keith not getting the attention he deserves. While I'm a highkey Klance shipper I've been getting really salty bc people have been complaining about season 4 due to the lack of Klance. While they're allowed to have their own opinions, my opinion is that they're not seeing all of the other important aspects of the season. Keith is going through a lot and knowing that his emotions are being disregarded by a fair amount of the fandom upsets me.

You are so welcome, and thank you for sending this ask! It’s important to me to know that there are other’s that have noticed the lack of balance in the Klance fandom when it comes to how the characters are treated. You guys make posting worth it.

And like you, I have seen many people disregarding Keith’s emotional state to focus on Klance or Lance. I’ve seen people calling him selfish, which shows a lack of care for Keith in that those people only seem to care about how his actions affect Lance. I’ve seen people saying that he was happy to leave, which is more kind to him, but doesn’t really consider how he was trying to make himself better for the team by training with the BOM (proven by this article), how sad he looked after the group hug right before he left, how he is willing to sacrifice himself without even saying goodbye- all of which points to him not being happy. I’ve seen people just not talk about it at all, which makes me wonder very strongly if they would be similarly silent if it were Lance.

All of this? It makes me feel the need to get my opinion out, because there is more to the story, and there is so much more to Keith then some fans give him credit for. If I am to be hated for it, then so be it. At the very least, I am providing fans like you (and myself) a voice so that more than one side of the fandom gets a chance to have themselves be heard.

Luckily, I glanced through the Klance tag right before answering this so that I could be fair and not say that no one’s talking about Keith if someone was. And to my delight, there were others. While not the majority of the posts by any means, there were other Klance fans pointing out Keith’s struggles, and some of them were going so far as to say that he does deserve focus, too.

When I get the time and have answered all the messages in my ask box, I’m thinking of creating a side blog devoted just to reblogging any such Keith-friendly posts in the Klance tag, because they have more than earned my support. If I do so, I will link you guys after I’ve made it so you can see those posts (if you haven’t already), too.

I have only one GoT theory and one theory only

That Dan and David are idiots and are incapable of bringing the story GoT/ASOIAF to a somewhat acceptable standard for the fans.

We all need to cope with the mess in the season that shall not be named and coming up with our own theories/specs/ foils are just our own way to rationalize wtf is going on because *spoiler alert* we don’t know how to deal with the unknown/unexpected and all of us Jonsa shippers just want our hearts to be prepared. It’s a ship heavily invested with emotions.

Oh and btw, shipping itself is kind of a laughable thing that we all get red faced about talking about in real life so being the joke of the fandom really shouldn’t be of any concern tbh. Shipping certain characters from a work of fiction, wanting them to be together on a fictional TV show is already a joke in itself. Why get your knickers in a twist over it? We are already the laughing stock of real life society who don’t understand shipping 😂😂😂 am I right people?? We knew what we were getting into, when we started shipping our OTP. Freely use the block button, the blacklist tags, xkit, scroll past, ignore or whatever to make your shipping experience more pleasurable and police your own content, not others. Your blog, your eyes, your responsibility.

So Undercover Jon - great. Sacrificial Jon - awesome. Political Jon - sure why not. They’re all fucking fantastic. Well written and thought out based on certain book references from Jon’s narratives/original character inclinations and his connection to Ygritte and the Wildlings.

If only, the writers of the show were as considerate or as intelligent as all you meta writers are. But I’m guessing they’re not.

So yeah, my theory is probably going to be canon. That Dan and David can’t do it as well as I thought they could, for fucks sake.

But aye! Alas, I cannot deny it and with my aching heart, remaining a prisoner of hope and I still and will always believe in Jonsa. Canon or not. I will write my own versions for my own wee Jonsa shipping heart. Dan & David can just gtfo.

Rant of the day: I can’t FUCKING BELIEVE that there is a FUCKING ANTI on the hetalia fandom making a WHOLE FUCKING BLOG to list “bad blogs”

Before starting: in absolute NO CIRCUNSTANCE this is a motive to go there and harass them in ANY WAY.
If you harass someone, no matter the reason, you are a terrible human being and I’m disgusted by you.

*very deep and tired sigh*


SO FUCKING TIRED of dealing with antis bullshit on the Voltron fandom. I am tired of seeing they harass people, I am tired of seing their shit on the tags I like, but, mostly:

They keep claiming over and over again that incest ships (even self-cest), pedophilia ships and abusive/toxic ships means that whoever ship those are inherently endorsing those things in real life and that those shippers are inherently bad people. They say “fiction afects reality” and think that they are the paladins of truth and justice and protectors of children/minors. 

*very deep and annoyed sigh*

First of all, bitch, YES, MOTHERFUCKER, WE KNOW THAT FICTION AFFECT REALITY. That is why people demand representation in media and that is why people demand better media.


They keep claiming “oh, children will see incest/pedophilia/abuse/rape in fandom and they will think that it is ok in real life”


Dear antis,
If YOUR PARENTS failed to educate you that incest/pedophilia/abuse/rape is wrong, that is, honestly, YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM!

This is the internet and I ain’t your mama. I’m not here to shelter people against all and every heavy content. 

I’m on the internet and on fandom since I was 11/12 (I don’t remember when). 
I basically raised myself in fandom and I learned about sex and sexuality in fandom firstly.
My first mlm ship was between a 15 yo and a 30 yo. I shipped it, I liked it AND I, WITH 12/13 YEARS OLD KNEW, WITHOUT A SHITTY ANTI TELLING ME THAT, THAT THAT WASN’T OK IN REAL LIFE!

Antis treat people, especially minors, as if they were stupid. 
They treat fiction as if it was a case of “monkey see, monkey do” when that is hardly the case.

People who were socialized correctly WILL NOT EVER THINK THAT THAT IS OK IN REAL LIFE!

Antis treat people as if it was sinful and heinous to like heavy or more problematic stuff/ships.



Meaning that it is ok to like reading/seeing about those kind of things. IT IS NORMAL! (also, before someone asks: yes, it is also ok not to like it. Both are part of the human nature, and one is not more right or wrong than the other. They are just part of humanity. They just are. Period).


Of course, that there is a huge “but” on that.


As I said, I’m in fandom since I was 11/12.
I’ve seen/read a lot of shit during those 14/13 years that I’m in this internet life.
A lot of shit.
And every single fucking time I seen/read some shit, I WAS THE ONE WHO ACTIVELLY CLICKED ON IT.I CHOOSE TO DO THAT.
I’ll never forget about the time when I was starting on the hetalia fandom and I used to read UsUk stuff (yeah, a long time ago, in a galaxy far away…) that I read some heavy fanfics from the same author, about rape, torture and brainwashing (until this day, I’ll never forget that author’s name and I’ll pronounce it just like Timmy Turner’s dad (from Fairy Godparents) pronounce “Dinkleberg”).
That stuff REALLY messed up with my head for a few weeks.
I had ALREADY read some of their stuff (and I was grossed out about it)

You see, that is how the internet works: ONE CHOOSES TO SEE OR NOT!


One last fallacy that the antis LOVE to say is that “adults can use pedo/abuse/incest shipt to groom young children and abuse them uwu”




Predators had existed since the beginning of humanity. In Rome, for example, there were parties where the guests were offered little children (5 to 12 yo) FOR THEM TO RAPE. 


Again: if antis parents failed to show them that incest/pedophilia/abuse/rape is wrong, it is hardly my or anyone in the internet job to teach that to antis. 

Normal minors, children that already know (because their mamas raised no fools) that incest/pedophilia/abuse/rape is wrong, will see problematic content and either avoid it (and learn how to manage their own internet experience) or will explore it (again: there is nothing wrong in liking heavy content, and people start developing their sexuality and their interests during puberty, between 11 to 19 yo. And NO, SEEING/READING ABOUT PEDOPHILIC SHIPS WON’T MAKE PEOPLE PEDOPHILES. THIS IS NOT “MONKEY SEE MONKEY DO”!!!! THAT JUST MEANS THAT THOSE PEOPLE WILL LIKE THAT KIND OF CONTENT)

Normal people (most of the people except antis) don’t need antis to tell them what is right and what is wrong. 


You know with what kind of media the predators groom children? 
With SFW work!!!!
With PG works!!!!!


Of course, to all rule there is a counter example.
Yes, I’ve already read about cases of people who were in fact groomed and that their abuser used pedo/abuse/incest ships to try to justify it. 
Yes, I’ve already read about “the lolita effect” in Japan about predators using that kind of ships to justify their actions.
1) That is not the rule (Japan has a little more problems with this part, but it is not my place, as a westerner, to lecture them without more information on the topic and on their culture)
2) That is bad usage of media and it could happen with ANY MEDIA.
Again, another anedoct of my life: I’ve met a girl a few years ago (I was 18 and she was 19) who had been groomed when she was 12 with pokemon.
I don’t think so.
(She was all right, by the way. She told her mom who called the cops. I think they arrested the guy. Yikes. At least she got more careful on the internet after that).


Do I like pedo ships? Hell No!
Do I like incest ships? Hell No!
DO I like rape ship? …well, I had to be guilty of something, I guess…
Do I like abuse ships? Hell No!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH *screaming to the void with anger*

Originally posted by mariaslittlestuff

Righ, ok. 

If the fandom is so worried about predators and all, what can we effectively do?

I’m glad you asked!

We have to talk about our inner problems (like some fetization of mlm ships that fandons in general still have) AND we have to discuss these subjects between ourselve.
Again, anedocte of my life: I was 15 and I still shipped that 15/30 yo ship (the same ship). I met online other people who shipped it, including a new shipper, younger than us (ages between 16 to 12, the 12 was the new shipper). We talked with the new shipper about how we loved our ship, of course, but how that would be gross in real life. The new shipper was a little dazzled with the fantasie of an older man liking them (just like I had been when I was 12/13) like it happened on the ship. So we the older shippers talked with them about how that doens’t happen in real life like that and how if an older man showed interests on her that would be really messed up. She got a little annoyed with us in the beginning (since she already knew that), but in the end she knew a little bit more about how to spot a predator (since we were talking about what we knew on the subject).
That is just one example of my life, but I think many other people out in the internet have other nice examples.
That is, in my opinion, the most powerful weapon against abuse and predators: information and support. Instead of censoring a “bad ship” and cocooning the new shipper in a bubble of ignorance, we talked about it with her and she learn something important for her life. That is what anyone can do.

If you can, do it. 
If you can call the cops, even better.
That is how we can help.
That is what antis don’t do.
Recently on the Voltron fandom, someone showed screenshots of an anti discord chat where it was posted a link to a rapist blog on tumblr with the caption “PLEASE REPORT THIS FUCKER”. 
The antis mocked that. 
They did nothing.
Then, when the conversation leaked, they acused the person that sent the link of exposing them to troubling content (as if the person had sent the link just to rile them up and not to get help reporting the motherfucker).

If you have the money, of course.
Since I am broke 99% of the time, I can only reblog stuff and pray for the best, but if you have some money and you want to help that is a good oportunity.
There are also other ways to the fandom to help too!
A good example on the Voltron fandom was the Sheith Zine, that donated all the profits to one of those institutions (I can’t remember which now)



Originally posted by usedpimpa

Last note: if you want to talk about it, I’m really more civil than this in one-one conversations. As long as you keep the respect (and sarcasm is still considered a disrespect in this blog), I’ll keep the respect and won’t scream (maybe put stuff in bold for emphasis, but that is it)

A big dedication to the jonsa fandom

This post is about my history with game of thrones and jonsa and how i realized that shipping jonsa and being part of the jonsa fandom became an important part of me. Pls, friends, remind that i'’ brazilian, so my first language isn’t english, so this post is doomed to have some mistakes.

So, basically, i’m a shipper since forever. I always liked shipping even when i didn’t say  the word “shipping” for it. I remember being seven years old and watching harry potter and loving ron and hermione with all of my heart and wanting them to be together (around the time prisoner of azkaban movie was released), and then i was nine and i would spend the whole day watching youtube videos with this couple from the soap opera, i mean, i seriously watched the whole soap opera every single day waiting for a moment with my couple. When i was twelve i started reading fan fiction and then i became a professional shipper, like if i’m watching or reading something, i will look for something to ship. 

I started watching game of thrones around the time season two after reading a post about Sansa character during this season and how she was made for being queen. I remember thinking “omg this girl is so beautiful and seems to be so amazing, i need to know more about her”. So, i already starting watching GOT loving sansa, even if she was a little bit annoying in the beginning (but i already had a great idea about her from the post i read in this blog that i loved with all my heart). 

Then i discovered got fandom actually hated sansa (like????) and people in brazil calls her “Sonsa” that is a pejorative way of saying “fool”. And i was so hurt and so protective of her like she was my best friend and nobody could speak ill of her when next to me (im still like that). I connect a lot with fictional characters, so i always feel protective of those i love. I'm hardcorely (i don’t even know if this word exists, but, if not, im inventing it) Sansa Stark defense squad. I love her and that’s it. 

So, i started watching got, i read the first book (only the first one) and it was time to start reading fanfiction. Back then, i didn’t ship Sansa with anyone, so i would just look for fics with her in fanfiction.net. Almost all the fics were SanSan (Sansa and Sandor) so i gave up reading fic for the time being. But from time to time, i would look in fan fiction.net to see if there was some interesting ship with sansa. And thats when i found “a winter's tale” from justadram back in 2013 and thats it, i became a jonsa shipper. I mean, i didn’t read any meta back then, but after this pic the idea of jon and sansa as ship warmed my heart. 

It wasn’t a ship that was a lot in my mind. I would sometimes look for a fan fiction and thats it. but then, came season five and when Ramsay said to sansa that jon was the new lord commander and the zoomed her face and the next scene was with jon and stannis (and if im right, it was stannis offering jon the north, i think, im not sure, feel free to correct me) and i remember thinking “does that mean that jon and sansa are going to meet”. And after Sans ran away all of my hopes wore on it. And then, came season six. And they met. And not only that, but they met and they had this great chemistry. I saw 6x04 and i thought to myself “is something happening there or it is just my shipper mind?” AND THEN I CAME TO TUMBLR AND I DISCOVERED THAT A LOT OF PEOPLE SAW SOMETHING THERE TOO AND I DISCOVERED THE JON X SANSA TAG AND I BECAME ADDICTED TO IT. 

i mean, seriously, i never had any hope for jonsa really happening or jon and sansa even meeting. And then, there was a possibility for them to meet? and not only did they meet but they also had chemistry? i mean, what are the odds of this happening???????? IS THIS REAL LIFE?

During season six, i would look almost everyday on the jonsa tag. Even after it finished i would read all the amazing fan fiction that started to appear and all the amazing metas (i live for metas, you can all create how many meta you guys want, i love them).

I’m so deep in jonsa that i can’t see game of thrones ending in a good way without then being endgame. And with the approaching of season seven and the beginning of season seven, i start coming a lot more in the jon x sansa tag and the jonsa tag and looking at blogs that sansa, i even started to make, very shyly, my own posts. i cannot lie, im addicted. 

And what i want to say with this post is “thank you, jonsa shippers”, thank you for keeping my hopes up, thank your for the amazing work you do, the fanfics, the metas, the posts, everything. 

I don’t only love shipping jonsa, i love being part of the jonsa fandom. I speak of it like we’re a club of very the coolest people around that meets to drink wine and play cards and you’re all close friends and when i say that i ship jonxsansa to someone and that person reacts like ‘wtf", im all like “we’re an amazing fandom, you should join us”  or when someone says “i don’t know how you have the courage to ship in game of thrones, everyone dies”, i say “but the good part of got isn’t the end, it’s following the history and trying to discover what is going to happen and being part of something”. Shipping jonsa is being part of something.

So, thanks my folks, lets keep with our shipping and with our comrade and our hopes. And thanks to the people who had the courage of reading this giant post that is basically me talking about myself. 

(if i said anything wrong, feel free to correct me)

Lemme get my point through.
We HideKane enthusiasts are salty and bitter about this, yes.
But remember: Each has their own blog and everyone can rant, let out their rage and emotions out. About anything they want. Bc this is their blog just as yours is yours.
We will eventually calm down so just let us be this way for the time being and endure it. We are not trying to find approval. We just want to get it off our chest and let our voices be heard and to share it (and also to interact with people who feel the same way.) And NOT to get it rubbed off on our faces that we are stupid fujoshi losers. Not to aggravate anyone on this platform. We also not ask for feedback or con arguments to the things we state. So please dont.
I was a touken shipper at the beginning but the more i got to know about Kaneki’s deep connection to Hide the more i detached from Touken. That doesnt mean that Touka and Kaneki do not have a deep relationship. But i just dont support it anymore and ofc we are not pleased with this chapter that we not support. But who cares? Each to their own guys. Just let us talk about what bothers us , u dont need to interfere. Pls respect that just as i respect other views rather its Touka or Tsukiyama with Kaneki or whoever, even Mutsuki. At the same time that im not happy about the outcome tho , im looking forward to Yomo’s and Ayato’s reaction. And that Kaneki deserves the love he gets, i mean we all cheer for his happiness, are we not?
Noow to Ishida (i love ishida).

I see that there are irrational pple due to rage but me as a pretty rational personality.. It’s Ishida’s manga and he is free to decide what to do. Insulting him wont do shit and it’s just basically a wrong thing to do.
Stop insulting the blessed mangaka who brought TG upon us. He deserves respect just like any other person does.
My message dont insult Ishida for doing what he likes to do. Do you wanna be treated like that? No? Good, then stop.

(I cant talk for everyone but for myself. Yet Im sure others feel this way as well so stop being mean and dickheads everyone, for fuck’s n peace’s sake)

Im not tagging this to gain anger but let my voice be heard.

Honestly I can’t believe it’s 2017 and I’m about to make a post like this.

But, you know, that’s how it goes sometimes. I feel like I’ve put up with a lot of overall nonsense from this fandom as a whole. People who want things their own way, regardless of the arguments and explanations against certain things: tagging, “discourse”, bickering about which part of the fandom, exactly, is mean to the other. And I’ve been pretty silent on most of it because it’s stupid frankly and if someone needs to tag something in the wrong tag to make them happy than that’s great for them.

But I’m not going to be silent on this latest round of nonsense. Because we’ve kinda passed the realm of nonsense and gone straight into bullshit territory. Because that’s exactly what it is; it’s bullshit when you feel the need to send people hate mail not only bashing their shipping preferences but telling them to kill themselves. I don’t know any other word for this type of petty, childish nonsense.

And that’s why I’m not going to say silent on this. Because when people are sending messages like that to my friend, someone I love and care about in real life then enough is enough. And I might very well be on my soapbox here shouting out into the void but I’m just going to go on shouting.

There are two main points to this post: the first being that this is basically a call out post. And yes, I am tagging a specific fandom in this post because I am calling you out. Not all of you, of course, because I’m in not the habit of judging people based on what they ship, but some of your are guilty and you know you are guilty. So I’m calling you out here, on my soapbox.

If you don’t like a ship, that’s fine. If you don’t like a ship specifically because it messes with your OTP fine. Whatever. But you know what a good way to avoid that ship is? Blacklist the tags. Unfollow the person who seems to be a big shipper of that particular ship. As terrible as tumblr might be, it does come with this clever button marked “unfollow” so you know exactly what you’re getting when you push it. Everyone I know, especially in the particular part of the fandom that seems to be causing so much drama, uses tags on everything they post or reblog.

There are so many elements of AoS that are problematic, we all get that. There are so many things that we wish they did better or handled differently. Everyone disagrees with something on the show: a plot line, a character, a ship. Everything, it seems, is problematic. I’m not saying that it isn’t, I’m not saying that the pairing is without it’s issues. What I am saying is that people see things differently. My opinion of Fraida is different than yours; my opinion of Fitzsimmons is different than yours. I’m sorry that my opinion and the things I like hurts your ship, or your feelings in any way. I’m sorry that my tiny fandom of about five people is making it impossible for you to write fics, or make gif sets, or ship what you want to ship.

You know what is a good way to talk to someone about something you feel is problematic or bothersome: talk to them, Have a discussion. A nice, civil discussion. I guarantee that having a conversation is much better than telling someone that they are wrong, evil, terrible and that they should kill themselves.

And as an aside like what the fuck people really? Are you really sending messages on anon telling someone to kill themselves?! Really?! Why on earth is that an okay thing to do. And why would that ever be a way to handle a problem that you have with someone else? About a fictional ship, made up of fictional people on a fictional TV show?

I swear this shipping nonsense has gone on long enough. I get that you don’t like it, okay? everyone in the world totally hears you loud and clear. You think my pairing of choice is problematic, unhealthy and gross. I disagree. I’ll come right out and say it: I completely disagree with a lot of the perception about this ship. But you know what, who cares? I feel that way about Fitzsimmons and I know people will disagree with me about that. And that’s totally fine. I’ll have a discussion with you any day of the week. But how does that make it okay to send such hateful, vile messages to a real person on the other side of your computer screen?

I’m just tired of this. I’ve been tired of this shipping bullshit for a long time. But enough is enough. Stay away from my friends, stay away from my tag, stay away from our blogs if you have to. It’s that easy, honestly! What happened to the idea of “ship and let ship?” Why is it so difficult to put your money where your mouth is and actually practice what is said in those nice little positive posts that you’re always reblogging. Again, I know this isn’t everyone. But it is some people, and I am calling you out because no one else ever seems to.

I honestly can’t understand getting so upset about something pretend that you want to hurt a real person. I think you need to seriously step back and think very hard about the things you say and think and messages you send to people. Guys, this is not okay. Seriously. If we can’t play together can we just leave each other alone?

The second part of this post is simple enough: the next time you feel so inclined to send someone a hateful message, I invite you to come check out my blog. My inbox is always open. You can find it right here.

shipping in this fandom is so weird. it’s like… i’m sure there are shipwars to an extent (from my seat in the otayuri section i have definitely seen people actively shit on any opposing ships for both characters - pls don’t do this guys, come on, people hate us enough already lmao), but i feel like for the most part it’s not ship vs. ship, it’s just… anti vs. ship. since otayuri antis are so far up their own asses about age, there’s basically no one it’s acceptable to ship yuri with, so it’s almost entirely on principle rather than because they prefer to see one or both of them with someone else.

but it’s like… man, if you’re uncomfortable with this ship, that’s fine. blacklist it. that’s the entire purpose of the function. i don’t understand why people feel the need to embark on some kind of holy crusade and shit up the tag. like, i get it, i’m a horrible person. but has anyone ever actually stopped shipping something because of something some random anti said? for that matter, has an anti ever stopped being an anti because of something a shipper said? what’s the point of any of this? who am i? why am i here?? incoming existential shipping crisis.

oh, and as a side note, it’s pretty incredible how many people on this hellsite there are who have presumably gone through puberty but somehow still have no fucking clue how it works. pro tip: it’s not a light switch. you don’t just start dinging like a microwave when you turn 18. you can make arguments about the law, but don’t act like you’re a child one minute and an adult the next. it’s a process. and another pro tip: if you think yuri is “prepubescent,” you’re either high, bad at biology, or you watched the show on mute. i feel like i’m taking crazy pills sometimes.

Hi there im back with another “theory”

[skip this rambling of mine] Sorry to some of you who have been waiting for my post (tbh I don’t feel my post is worth the wait, they’re just… delulu thoughts) and have been messaging where am I or if I am fine etc…  I disappear for a while bc 1. University/college assignments: it seems this semester my professors/lectures try to kill us slowly, 2. I don’t mean to disrespect anybody but there were lots of drama here, like “Kaisoo is dead/broke up/not close anymore” etc and tbh those things made me sad, I’m already dying enough bc of the papers I need to do to survive my student life, I couldn’t afford to be sad bc my otp’s gayness wasn’t exposed in public like it used to be.

Erhm, yeah… again I remind you this is how I see things, it doesn’t mean they’re true. I do not know these boys personally. I repeat: this is how I see them, how I perceive them, and I’m deluded af so don’t take my words seriously.

Now, what I want to talk about is sexism (what?)

Yeah you heard me.


Not long ago Soo wore a gray long-sleeved shirt with a big yellow embroidery rectangle patched on the front of his shirt (on the right side of the chest area) and “gender equality” was written on it, clear, bold and vivid. (I don’t have the picture but I remember the uploader put #equality gender then #love wins on the tags)

And when Nini babysat Tae0h, he taught the kid to protect women (he said something about; Tae0h needs to be strong like iron man so he could protect his sister and his mother). (I don’t have the picture/gif, but if you have watched the episode/have seen the gifs on his tag, you’ll know what I am talking about)

This idea struck me when I read an article about S.K having new curriculum which is teaching their young students about the dispute of “comfort women” that existed during Japanese imperialism in Korea. (You can read the article here on Wall Street Journal if you’re interested).

It made me remember about how women are still treated in S.K now. 

I’m NOT saying S.K is a sexist country (I’m not a Korean nor have I lived there, also my knowledge about them and their culture is not enough to label them with such term), I am also aware that there are many countries that are worse than S.K about this matter (my own country is shit too about this matter).

BUT, still, there are many articles about how unequal women are treated there (in S.K), thus it means we can’t say that sexism doesnt exist there bc it does. if it didnt exist nobody would talk about it on internet.

A quite famous blog channel (that shall not be named here) had talked about this before; women are expected to pour drink for men, pretty girls get dragged forcefully into clubs so they would attract more (male) customers, it’s inappropriate for women to smoke in public but not for men, and there’s “women must be pure and still a virgin” before marriage too (or so I have heard, my country has this ‘rule’ too btw. And I think my country has it worse. Basically here if a girl lost her virginity before marriage she would immediately be branded as “slut” “second-handed girl” “don’t have any moral” etc… sigh)

In their dramas too, you have seen how the male protagonist would yank the girl on the wrist to stop her etc.

We can also see it on the radio interview when nini rubbed soo’s hand (when soo had that red hair),

soo saw the camera, pulled nini’s hand lower (did he tried to hide their linked hands behind the desk? lol)

it seemed nini rubbed soo’s thigh?

^^^apparently in the full video (of the interview) baek and a member of the girl group (it was not only exo who got interviewed at that time. and sorry i dont remember which girl group it was, my kpop knowledge is a bit shitty) participated in arm wrestling, resulted: baek lost, the girl won. AND THEN the host immediately said something like; “A girl should’ve been delicate/soft not strong/brute like that [you].” (sadly I don’t have the link but I swear to god I saw the clip on my dash, or was it on YT? hmm.)

In a different radio interview, Chen also had commented about this. He was asked whether he wanted a boy or a girl as his future child. He chose boy bc he thought having a girl is a worrisome. He said something like, “So many bad things would happen to girls, especially in this [entertainment] industry(?)” (same as above, I don’t have the link. I watched lots of exo interview videos on YT a year ago)

Back to kaisoo. Remember this 

Now connect the dots. Based on what Nini had said, I (and as well many other kaisoo shippers) take that Soo isn’t quiet when Soo is with him. We have been wondering what kind of stuffs these dorks talk about… Imo these 2 talk lots about some deep shit when they’re alone

Ofc, they have their playful moments —

chen was like “chill the fuck out”

soo was like “no! lemme go”

look he only nudged chen

but with soo, he grabbed soo’s arm

— but, I think when they don’t always joke/play around all the time (duh) they would talk about significant things [probably politics, ideologies, etc], not only just chilling. Imo their personalities fit the idea [talking about deep stuffs] bc they don’t seem to be the type to gossip around, [at least not when they’re alone/together IMO].

(Idk prob they would gossip around when they’re not flocked together? like when they hang out with other people? – it had been said that nini hang out with his buddies outside the group (you know who) often, and somehow my mind can’t stop to think that they’re gossiping around when they hang out ( bc his buddies seem to be the playful/teasing type, so I guess they would talk more about lighter topics, but I could be wrong). GUYS gossip too It’s not only women’s things to do.)

Soo also had said this before.

“Mature and sophisticated” Soo wouldn’t say this if both of them don’t talk about some big heavy stuffs often. Often? Well yeah, if they only talked about heavy topics once or twice, Soo wouldn’t have the “sophisticated” impression about Nini (suho seemed to laugh at soo’s words choice tho lol it seemed he didnt believe soo? he did agree with soo tho [in the video], but i think he couldnt disagree  even if he wanted to. bc then it would be unethical? if he did the topic would get dragged on and prob would make soo flustered. he just seems not to be the type to fluster/tease others? if it was baek or chen  i think they would disagree just to mess with soo lol)

(Maybe this is me being delulu but Soo seemed to see Nini in different light (different if we compare it with how other members view nini?), like soo was entranced yet proud at the same time about Nini? like he glorifies him? no, it’s too extreme, like… he sees nini in higher level? 

bc not only he chose nini to be the mature and thinking in sophiscated one (i mean there are xiumin and suho in the group, why nini?), 

soo chose nini to be the most handsome guy in exo (others voted for themselves but soo voted for nini thus nini won - nini had 2 votes, others had 1, soo had 0 bc he gave his vote for nini), 

soo chose nini as the member with the best body in exo (even shindong said, “no, i mean between the 3 [baeksoochen] of you” he still didnt want to change his answer), 

soo had said it twice that he would fall for kai [1st. bc of nini’s perfomance - this is in magazine interview i think? i dont remember , 2nd. would fall [in love] if he was a girl - exoluxion japan] (gdi low-key much)  

erhm…im drifting out from the main topic, sorry.

What am I trying to imply in this post is that kaisoo might or might not have discussed about how unfair women are often treated/sexism? I can’t put a theory which one of them had the idea first/initiating the conversation about this matter but my guts telling me it’s Soo? Since he wore the shirt first, then Nini said those things (protect girls) later on

Sure, Soo might’ve just worn that shirt for fun. But remember this guy has a good English pronunciation, seems to favor English songs, watches quite a lot Hollywood mainstream movies. His English isn’t bad. He must’ve known what that “gender equality” tag means when he decided to wear it.

And Nini too. Some of you might’ve thought that he said those words to please the female fans/boost his image. But if he did, then why he said that? He could’ve chosen others sweet words to make the girls squeal. Imo he was genuine when he said those lines.

I think that’s it.

Sorry if this isn’t a “theory” about KAISOO IZ REALL but it’s more leaning towards to how close they are. Bc imo people need to be really close – especially people with KaiSoo’s personality [reserved] – to talk about such deep matter like this (IF they DID talk about it*, bc this is just a theory folks, im not saying this is true happened to them). At least I do. I won’t talk about ideologies/principles to people whom I’m not close with (bc i’m afraid my view would be judged or frowned upon or belittled).

Again, this is just how I view them. Thank you for reading.  Sorry for some mistakes, English isn’t my native language :)

I’m not sorry if this is too long, and too deluded, go complain at me and i’ll send you my sloth pictures collection.  SUE ME FOR BEING A DELUDED TRASH.

The Much Needed ‘The 100′ Fandom Intervention

Alright guys. I have had fucking ENOUGH. This fandom is spiraling into a new realm of absolute STUPIDITY and here’s a much-much-needed fucking intervention. So, sit all your asses down and listen up. 

First of all, WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON. This fandom used to be a fun place to hang out and enjoy this show and day-by-day it is becoming the biggest trash pile of toxic hate and stupidity and I, for one, am absolutely DONE with this. I want my friendly and fun fandom back where people weren’t over-reacting and overanalyzing and jumping at each other’s throats for NO FUCKING REASON. It’s gotten to the point where I can’t even go into the tags without getting my blood boiling over the absolute fuckery that this fandom has become.

I don’t care if you ship Bellarke or you ship Clexa or you ship Braven/Rellamy or you ship Kane with that fucking tree or you ship Jasper with a goddamn shoelace, you all need to CALM THE FUCK DOWN.

There is absolutely ZERO need for everyone to jump at other people’s throat for shipping what they like/not shipping what you like. Welcome to the real fucking world: NOT EVERYONE IS GOING AGREE WITH YOU ABOUT EVERY GODDAMN THING ON THE PLANET. So, instead of spreading pointless hate and unfounded accusations, sit down on your asses and ship your own ship in peace and let others do the same. And this is directed TO EVERY DAMN SHIP FANDOM IN THIS FANDOM including Bellarke and Clexa equally. 

You ship Clexa? 

THAT’S FUCKING GREAT. Talk about how great your ship is and how you got a great leadership dynamic and a beautiful kiss scene and a heartbreaking goodbye IN YOUR OWN DAMN TAG.

You ship Bellarke? 

THAT’S ABSOLUTELY AWESOME. Rave about how great a chemistry the two have and what a great development they have had over two seasons and how much they complement each other IN YOUR OWN DAMN TAG.

You dislike Clexa? 

HOW NICE FOR YOU. Discuss the things about it that make you uncomfortable and why you find it hard to ship RESPECTFULLY in the ANTI-CLEXA tag. Don’t shit on other people’s ship. Don’t trash talk other people’s tag. AND FOR FUCK’S SAKE STAY OUT OF THE CLEXA TAG. Tag your shit with anti-clexa and refrain from spelling out the full word ‘clexa’ in your posts. Instead opt for something like ‘Cl*xa’ or something of the sort to make sure your post doesn’t creep into the Clexa tag and muddy it up with hate. 

You dislike Bellarke? 

GOOD FOR YOU. Discuss why the ship makes you uncomfortable and why you don’t ship it RESPECTFULLY in the ANTI-BELLARKE tag. Don’t shit on other people’s ships, don’t call the shippers names for shipping something you don;t approve of, and DON’T FILL THE BELLARKE TAG WITH YOUR HATE FOR THE SHIP. As I said for anti-clexa above, tag your stuff as ‘anti-bellarke’ and refrain from spelling out the full word ‘bellarke’ in your posts to keep it from appearing in the tag and screwing up the positive ship tag. 

Ship Bellarke as ONLY a brotp? 

YOU GO GLEN COCO. Talk about it in the BROLLARKE tag and refrain from trash talking romantic Bellarke shipping. Also, refrain from using the bellarke tag which is used mainly for romantically shipping Bellarke. 


There’s people talking against your ship in the anti tag? GOOD FOR THEM. They are using their own blogs to RESPECTFULLY share their opinions. They’re discussing things about their favorite show that they have opinions on. GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON. You do not have to get butthurt and shit talk other people or bully them or create unfounded accusations and fandom drama just because every person on the planet doesn’t worship your OTP. 

If you see people shit-talking your ship and it doesn’t make you feel nice, USE THE IGNORE BUTTON and block them. Don’t stoop to their level and start trash-talking things that they ship and feed the horrible vicious cycle of hate.

Fighting fire with fire only causes a fuckton of fire and burns everyone involved. Stop using other people’s hate as an excuse to start your own hate. Stop acting like little childish brats and learn to hold yourself accountable. 



You know what?

You klainers want to talk trash about me and make up lies yet can not even @ me? @fyiklainesuckeachotheroff everettscolfer vegetableblaine 

I am sick and tired of the lies you Klainers want to spread about me and other Chris stans just because we don’t not worship your sloppy OTP. 

You want to claim that WE are an embarrassment to Chris? What about YOU? Klainers who never tell Crisscolfer shippers to stop attacking Chris because half of you are tinhater Criscolfer shippers your damn self! 

How about YOU Klainers who can easily say you love your boys both equally yet is quick to talk mack about Chris because of his ‘hater fans’ yet you guys are the ones tweeting hate at Glee people, Chris himself, and anyone else you think will care about your whining all over twitter, FB, and instagram!

I can easily list off the top of my head top ten awful things Klainers have done that Chris stans never did!

  1. Tweeted hate and death threats to the actors on Glee who was 'in the way of Klaine’
  2. Claim to be allies and care for LGBT people just because you payed money to TBSP for Glee for so called 'Charity’ that is not really charity at all since that money you gave came with expectations for things in return. Real charity work is not bragged about and you do not get anything in return if you actually gave to charity you Klainers PAYED for Glee shit related to Klaine, you did not give a fuck about Charity.
  3. Hate other LGBT ships on Glee. And Brittana is the ONLY other LGBT ship and a lot of you Klainers hate Brittana. Also you guys hate the other gay characters on Glee and never gave any of them a chance. Funny how you claim Chris fans is hateful and homophobic and want Kurt with any guy with a dick yet why is Kurt and Chris fans and other sane people of the Glee fandom have no problem with shipping other gay ships and people on Glee but you Klainers?  
  4. Klainers attack people who do not ship Klaine, even if you are not in the Glee fandom, Klainers will atttack you if you do not like or care about their OTP. Kurt and Chris fans do not all ship the same thing, yet we never send each other hate about each others OTP Glee preference.  But with Klainers we got harassed in our OTP tags for YEARS and many Kurt stans who did not ship Klaine got bullied off tumblr, there was so many people who were mocked and laughed at, who fanfics were mocked and copy and shared among Klainers just because it was not about Klaine. We are bullies yet you guys stoop so low to chase non Klainers who was not even as vocal as I am off tumblr simply cause they did not ship Klaine. Also what kind of people are cruel enough to mock  someones fanfiction? Never have I ever blogged a Klainers work and mocked their writing. You do not do shit like that!
  5. Klainers have had every single fandom Glee cast stan turn against them at least once. Glee is very divided now, but that is because a lot of Klainers have attacked people in the Glee fandom. How come Chris stans like myself easily can get and follow and be followed by every part of the Glee fandom? How come Chris and Kurt fans can manage to be allies and at peace with the rest of the Glee fandom but Klainers cant? It is not just Chris fans who can not stand Klaine and Klainers, and it has nothing to do with us being 'haters’ Klainers are nasty bullies who have mocked other Glee fans, Glee ships and characters just because you Klainers are entitled and think Klaine deserves everything and Klainers should have everything. Klainers are the worst people in the Glee fandom because you guys do not care about the  other characters, ships, actors, or fans. I am a hater yet I can get a long with my fellow Gle fandom yet you Klainers can’t? Mhm…..
  6. Klainers attack actually LGBT Glee fans all the time, if you do not ship Klaine you get called a dyke! If you ship Kum, Kurtbastian, Kurtofsky, Kadam, and any other Glee ship and you are actually gay, then you are a hater and only want Kurt to fuck every guy he see! And you are a homophobe cause according to Klainers, Klaine is the best LGBT representation, despite the many male Chris stans who identify in the LGBT area, says other wise and the actual female Chris  stans  who identify as lesbian, bi, and pansexual, such as myself, get called dykes. Klainers are the REAL homophobes. The ALWAYS call female queer Glee fans dykes and other offenseive words if they dont ship Klaine.
  7. Klainers have a lot of tinhaters in their fandom. Crisscolfer is not real and a lot of Crisscolfer shippers sends hate to Chris and Will and Mia and all of their friends who tweets about or posts pics of Chris and Will together. Chris fans do not have tin haters in our fandom, we do not tweet hatred to Chris, Will, or their friends like Klainer/Crisscolfer shippers do.
  8. Even though you guys have gotten more screen time than any other OTP and more duets, it is never enough. You guys bully RIB and bully Chris because you do not think he acts 'loving’ enough. Then you make comments harshly bitching and criticizing Chris in CHRIS TAGS about him not being more loving in his acting towards Blaine (And yet get mad when Chris fans see your post in Chris tags and call you out) PLUS you are a Crisscolfer blog so it is basically stating you are angry that Chris is not giving you masturbating material.  Klainers manage to ruin things for not only Chris fans, but to the rare Klainers who never go around threatening and whining all day to RIB. You Klainers are the reason why your OTP sucks. You harass and threat RIB all day long, what did you expect?
  9. Klainers have defended a lot of Darren’s rude and bad behavior yet is quick to criticize Chris and other Glee cast for every tiny thing yet gets angry when Chris stans and other Glee fans mentions Darren’s fuck ups. That is the thing with Klainers, when it comes to Darren, he can do no wrong and you guys fill u Chris tags talking about how much you love Darren and how Chris stans need to stop hating him and how Darren’s comments were 'just jokes’ yet can write in CHRIS TAGS  bullshit about how 'cold’ he is and how he 'ignores the fans’ ignoring all the times that Klainers and Crisscolfer shippers tweeted hate to Chris coworkers and friends and Chris himself and RIB over Klaine. Ignored the times you Klainers and Crisscolfer shippers made Chris so uncomfortable on instagram by being cruel about a picture Chris posted of his boyfriend on his boyfriend birthday that he deleted the pic, then bragged about it. Chris blocked a very rude and harasing Klainer yet that Klainer stalk him on his  book tour and whinnied at him and played victim for Chris blocking them when they were assholes to Chris then bragged about forcing Chris to unblock you. You guys wonder WHY Chris is silent, look how much you guys harass them, and before a Klainer step in to say 'not all Klainers’ guess what? There was ENOUGH Klainers to do this repeatedly and constantly that it had an obvious effect on Chris and how he responds to Klainers now a days./ Also Chris NEVER once said anything negative about his Chis and Kurt fans because we do not tweet him hatred. Chris fans do tweet him love about Kurt and his books and Noel. We do not tweet him 25/7 about Klaine. We do not even tweet him about Klainers or how much we dislike Klaine. We literally talk to Chris about respecting his work and  books and Kurt Hummel. 
  10. You guys threaten to harm, kill or RIB or kill yourself to RIB and Chris Colfer to try to emotionally manipulate them and none of you Klainers call out Klainers for saying and doing stuff like that. Not once have a Chris stan did anything like that. There has been several Chris stans on my posts who called out other Chris stans if they ever said something that went too far. lainers on the other hand is always going and with the 'not all klainers’ bull and then accuse the more tamer and nicer Chris stans of being haters. The Chris stans who actually was very nice and called out other Chris stans if they went to far. You made these Chris stans not even like or respect you because you called them haters on and off anon and told them to kill themselves just because they were Chris stans and not Klainers. Now guess what? Those Chris stans are tired of your bullshit and call you guys out and you do not like it so you know want to play victim and claim we are bullies!

There is so much more awful cray you Klainers do but that was just 1 of them! 

Sure you think I run a hate blog but guess what? even if I was this is a BLOG my personal blog that I post what I want on. Never have I ever sent rude crap to Darren, RIB, Chris, or anyone else on twitter and other social media. I do not tweet hate at Klainers, I do not even send hate  in Klainers inbo on tumblr, but sure. I am such the horrible one. Well guess what, I can live with that because it is much better than being in a hateful Klainer cult.

Chris fans tweets is never the deranged and sad crap that bullies Chris and people who are associated with him like you people do! How come you guys claim that myself and other Chris fans are an embarrassment to Chris Colfer yet Klainers is always the people who gets blocked on twitter by actors an show runners? Why is Chris fans the embarrassment of Chris when Klainers tweet people who will ask the Glee Cast questions if they will ask very uncomfortable questions like did Chis and Darren enjoy kissing each other and think that Darren is really gay when he say time and time again he is straight!

How is Chris fans an embarrassment when all we ask is if you people can just stay in your own tags and not sen hate to Chris and people associated with him! 

I can go in Darren’s tag and it is legit 80% Darren and that is perfectly fine, it is Darren’s tag so it of course should be mainly about him. But WHY do Chris tag have to be cluttered with Crisscolfer and Klaine and Darren all day long? Why do you respect Darren’s tags yet not Chris?

Chris is a part of Klaine, but guess what? Their is a Klaine tag. The ONLY time Klaine should be in Chris tag is when posts from Glee news is concerned and not just cluttered old pics of Klaine splattered all over his tags. It is inconsiderate of people who is Chris fans outside of Glee as well as Chris fans who do not care for Klaine.

I know I am not a a little bitch who is gonna let you Klainers walk all over me and I speak my mind and stan up for myself. I have no problems with defending myself and I have no problems from not going in you Klainers inbox on and off anon sending you hate yet you guys do it all the time to us. 

I follow many blogs who love Chris, not all the blogs are even anti Klaine and Anti Darren like I am but guess what? They DO NOT post about Klaine or Darren, they are fans of Chris work and people like them as well as Chris fans and other people who are just now joining the Chris fandom deserve to have his tags about CHRIS COLFER. 

You have Klainer tags, you have Kurt and Blaine tags, those are TWO tags you can use to talk about Klaine. If you a Crisscolfer shipper, then it is THREE tags you can use! And if you want a fourth or fifth tag for Klaine, make one up!

WE Chris fans use the lol tags for a very long time and we stayed in our lane when ever we posted about our disliked but then you Klainers started getting obnoxious and rude and spamming Chris tags and Chris fans could not even go in their without being bombarded with posts after post with Klaine/Darren Criss/Crisscolfer, posts whining about Klaine and saying how much you love Darren in CHRIS TAGS!

I am tired. If I am gonna be lied about and tried to be made out to be some bully just because I speak the truth and is sick of Klainers trying to play victims when they clearly aren’t.

From this day forward, unless it is lol Glee, I am DONE with the lol tags!

 Darren Criss, Crisscolfer, Klaine, and tags like that seems pretty empty lately since you guys love to spout your bull shit all over Chris Colfers tags, I am now gonna post how I feel in there. There is no tumblr law that I have to stay in the lol tags, it was an agreement to try to keep the peace but I am done and tired.

Hate me all you want, I’m staying and I will never be as hateful as you nor a hypocrite. I am a Chris Colfer stan and I am proud. I am an ex Klainer who woke up to reality and left that toxic fandom 2 years ago and I am Proud. Say what you want about Chris fans, the only people that seem to hate us is Klainers, which says something about YOU. Klainers hate Chris fans and ship Klaine while actually Chris stans don’t…. LOL. Classic. 

                                       LET’S SHIP IT MEME
                                                  made by
               popokki | waningxmoon | sacrificialfrailty | dereliquit

1. REBLOG IT, make those notes boom!

reasoning for this meme;; this is a meme to help you have access to everyone’s preference in shipping. everyone has their own desires for the subject and sometimes we stumble into a really good one, other times we regret, and at times they are just mediocre. if everyone just posted their very own profile of preferences in shipping, then you might just find your very best ship partner that much easier! just remember to tag a mun (or multiple) who posted an application that resonates with yours and if so far, no one’s application has piqued your interest but you would like to see a particular mun’s stats, just tag them (gently) in the appropriate section below.

LET’S SHIP IT !?! TAGGING: nobody because i am the first to make this!! ;D
SHOW YOUR SAIL !! TAGGING: @dereliquit, @unstoppablefate, @waningxmoon@moraldysplasia@albitails, @aoxre, @psythe@kingxfmischief@gin-ichimaru, @saisci, @twobasstards, @peoplejuiice, @ifrinncu@tenxcious, @dearnicolai, @hyperdetect, @talentedropout, @eshajjouri, @shiicn, @tefechi, @duckisms oh my gosh i’m laughing so much–pls love me & don’t feel like you have to do this either!! (i wanted to tag more ppl but i’ll leav e it to everyone else to tag… more ppl!!)
TAGGED BY: nobody </3


Mun Age: 15 or under | 16+ | 18+ | 21+ | 25+ | 28+


How Many Blogs: 1    2    3    4    5+

this is extremely important… i only have ONE blog which means i’m pouring all my effort into this one place. i honestly don’t mind if someone has two blogs, but usually if i see more than that, i get skeptical about how swift one might lose muse for a specific blog. 

Type of Blog: Main | Secondary | Side

i only got one, so i would hope this is the case lmfao!

How Many Muses: Solo | Dual | Multi

this is extremely important! with only one blog and one muse, the aim is development but also to avoid any ruts. it’s stated in my rules but i won’t be shipping with anyone who has more than one muse on their blog.

Type of Ship: Single | Dual | Poly | Multi for each AU | Multi but Single for each AU

you would think i couldn’t highlight two of these. i am a single-shipper! however, with my muse having an interest in polyship, i would be willing to try it out and see how it works. i have seen one in the past and it looked beautiful. but yes, it’s potential hence why i italicized it. however, i lean more toward single-shipping since i’m familiar with it.

Type of Verse: Single | Multi Main | Multi AUs

my partner’s doesn’t need to be single-verse. i’m fine when they are multi-main or multi-au tbh BUT i do insist on being in their main verse, lol!

Activity: Sparse | Leisure | Weekly | Daily | Multiple Times A Day

okay, how is it that i can do all of these? i legit thought i was a leisure for the longest time but i’m actually a fast rper when i’m into a thread or muses interactions. often times, if my interest is piqued i can reply multiple times in a day but if not, then it will be at a daily pace. i italicized weekly because if a thread doesn’t hold my muse at the moment, it could take me a week to get around to it. in shipping, i would probably hope for the same enthusiasm from my partner and thus, seeing replies on a daily to multiple times a day basis. of course, i’m understanding when situations arise but if it’s just frequent lulls or you happen to be a weekly replier? it might be a little too excruciating for me.

Writing Length Preference: One-Liner | Para | Multi-Para | Novella | Match

yeah… pretty much i’m flexible on this and it depends on the scenario that is unfolding between the muses. i usually do match the other mun’s length but i don’t keep it my focus? it just happens most of the time. i did italicize one-liner because i wouldn’t be able to write a ship with only doing one-liners all the time. i enjoy getting in depth and really fleshing out the development with muses.

Thread Flow: Multiple Scenarios At Once | Sequential Story Line

i will always want progression and thus, i look for sequential threads. mostly focusing on one thread, completing the current ongoing plot or progressing it forward (if per se, they need to escape from some bad guys, i would ensure the thread finishes before posting a silly mundane thing in the askbox irrelevant to the ongoing thread unless if it was crack). of course, if there isn’t any driving plot or scene ongoing atm, multiple scenarios at once of a ‘Slice Of Life’ is p fun.

Planning Process: Plot | Pre - Established | Go With The Flow

okay, so i only plot where i feel it is necessary? for example combat, adventure, some compelling happening, disaster, etc… otherwise, i usually only like to set the scene and then have the muses take the reigns from there. often i won’t plot at all except for a starter post at the ‘greeting stages’. after that, my muse can often take the lead whether it’s by popping into someone’s askbox or shooting random starters.

Do You Write The Do: Smut | No Smut 

yes!! not even going to lie, i love to write smut where there is chemistry. not that i write it often (i haven’t for once written it on this blog). but i know for sure if i ship w/ someone, it’d be with someone who’d be up for writing it and is of age.

Genre: Slice Of Life | Fluff | AdventureActionAngst | Horror | Dark Themes | Crack

yes, all the things pls. i want a fully rounded ship with a lot of development, strife, stuggle, cute, sweltering hotness, give it all–and yes, i’m willing to write even the darker themes. this obviously just depends on the interactions between the muses and who the other muse may be? currently Gale is not some sadistic, evil muse so it wouldn’t really be him but he definitely has had moments of being not so kind.

Social Level: OOC Post | AskboxIM | Tag | Skype | Kik | LineTexting

let me elaborate. i want to communicate! i want to see the enthusiasm levels! and gosh, tagging me in things, making a tag for our ship, posting about our ship ooc, sending memes/prompts when applicable, sharing ideas through IM or just spamming each other when the other mun is online, sharing skypes to further just… talk all day and perhaps even sharing some mobile way of contact. i love using kik or line to pretend that the muses are texting one another (but i usually ensure that Gale received their phone number via rp first before i allow that). and just basically, being friends and being super comfortable and having a lot of endless fun!! and then breaking each other  c ause someone had to go do the a ng st. <3 LOL!

Extra: Unrequited | Love Triangles | Bromance | Crossover | Strictly Canon | Incest | Selfcest

so, i didn’t have a place to put these? but, yep. figured i should put them somewhere! i love unrequited ships so if your muse develops a crush on mine, go for it! also love triangles?! i never see these on tumblr tbh cause… it’s tricky business especially if you involve more than two muns, this may be even better suitable for muns who rp multi-muse blogs and coordinate it with one other mun who also has a multi-muse blog but… ah well! bromance is a yes and so are crossovers, though Gale is an OC… but, just basically meaning i’m willing to ship with a canon muse, too.


NOTE (optional): cross out anything your muse prefers in a male, italicize anything your muse is prefers in a female, if fine with either simply bold it. also keep in mind that muses are ever-changing, especially through development and preferences can shift along with it if the mun wills it. if there is a preference not listed, add it in your additional words to keep the meme standard.

Current Status: Single & Not Looking | Single Ready To Mingle | Crushing | Dating | Married

Romantic Orientation: Panromantic | Polyromantic | Heteroromantic |
Homoromantic | Biromantic | Demiromantic | Aromantic

Sexual Orientation: Pansexual | Polysexual | Heterosexual |
Homosexual | Bisexual | Demisexual | Asexual

okay wow, a lot of you might be wondering why this? Gale doesn’t really know his sexual orientation. he only has done heterosexual so far and it would take a loooooot of encouragement for him to do that again, he really likes the fluff with girls though. thus, he is more curious than anything right now about his sexual orientation. there are further reasons behind this but do know that Gale does not officially know where he stands. he currently in rp, stated he wanted to try a polyship but judging Gale and how smitten he can get with someone, i don’t know if he could handle a polyship. and personally, as the mun, i don’t think i would have such a great time writing smut for a heteroship unfortunately; there’ll just be a hell of a lot more fluff if i did a heteroship.

Gender Preference: Male | Female | Bigender | Trans | Fluid | Agender | No Preference

Aesthetic Values: A-Cup | Addict | Athletic | Artsy | Biker | Cross-dressing | Culinary | Curvy | Dangerous | Drinks | Fantasy | Farmer | Hair | IS IT BIG | Legs | Loner | Muscular | Musician | Nerdy | Piercings | Popular | Power | Short | Slender | Smokes | Sporty | Street-Smart | Supernatural | Stylish | Tall | Tattoos | Teeth | Tech-Savvy | Traveler | Wealthy 

Personality Attractions: Adventurous | BAD BOY | BAD GIRL | BashfulBenevolent | Calm | Comedic | Compassionate | Courageous | DaredevilDependable | Dominant | Eccentric | Energetic | Extrovert | FlirtatiousFriendly | Good-Listener | Hard-Worker | Innocent | Intelligent | Introvert | Mature | Mysterious | PlayfulProtective | OptimisticRomantic | Shy | Stoic | Studious | Submissive | Tidy | UnpredictableYouthful

anonymous asked:

I know you don’t like Snily (and it’s okay) but what do you think about the massive anti-snily culture on Tumblr? I ship it but I do know it’s problematic and extremely flawed. I tend to like fucked up ships. I’m not even trying to pretend it’s all healthy and lovey-dovey. I’m just so tired of being treated as a simple, silly fangirl. I love marauders, I have nothing against Jily but I can't help feeling that I'm not welcome to the fandom.

I don’t know what you mean by “anti-Snily culture on Tumblr.” I don’t follow people who ship and post Snape/Lily (as a conscious choice) so I’m not knowledgeable about that part of the fandom on Tumblr or how they’re treated.

If people are sending you hate for shipping Snape and Lily, or posting hate in the ship’s tag(s), or openly insulting the shippers and even reducing to slurs and name-calling, then you’ve every right to get angry. That sort of ship-shaming is gross, and sometimes even borders on outright bullying the shippers. Tell them to go fuck themselves, block and report them. No one has any right to hate on others for their fictional ships, even though they may find it disturbing. Sending hate and bullying is never okay, especially given how we’ve many ways to avoid the ships we hate, like blacklisting the said ship or unfollowing the shippers. 

However, If what you mean by “anti-Snily culture on Tumblr” is people posting their (untagged) anti-Snape/Lily opinions on their own blog, or not following Snape/Lily shippers, or refusing to make and reblog Snape/Lily stuff and so on… then I’m sorry but I don’t think you’ve any right to complain about that. People are allowed to think a character or a ship is terrible, and openly refuse to contribute to that part of the fandom. We don’t have to gif, talk about, follow fans of every character and ship of our fandoms just so everyone feels welcome. That would be like me expecting Ron/Hermione shippers to make effort to make me “feel welcome” as a Harry/Hermione shipper, even though they may have issues with the ship. They have no obligation to cater to me. It’s just not going to happen.

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Supernatural and this blog.

There’s been some drama (again) in the SPN fandom the last couple of days. I’m not linking to it. I’m not giving out the person’s blog url. I don’t usually get involved in anything that has to do with shipping in regards to SPN. But when shipping causes this much drama and affects the guys directly, I can’t keep quiet.

Since I usually don’t say anything about shipping, maybe there are some of you who don’t know where I stand on a few things that usually causes drama within the fandom, so let’s go over a few things. (This is long, but I’m not putting it under a cut because it’s important for my followers to read.)

1) I have NO ships for SPN. None. Zilch. Shipping is not what this show is about. The writers have said it. Jensen and Jared have said it. Aisha Tyler has it! (Bless her.)

2) I don’t care what you ship in your own private time and on your personal blog. Do your thing.

But let me go a little deeper.

Despite the fact that Misha likes to play with the minds of Destiel shippers, Destiel is not canon and was never meant to canon. They are close friends, like brothers, and that is all. Now, when it comes to Jensen and Misha, they handle the idea of Destiel very differently. Misha likes to play with it and get you guys hyped up about your ship. That’s fine. Play around with him. He seems to like it. Jensen and the writers and others in charge, however, have expressed each time a Destiel question is asked that Dean is straight. They have shown Castiel in human form to be straight. And Jensen has expressed his complete disinterest at addressing the subject any further. If you have the nerve to ask him a question about it at a con, don’t get upset when he moves on to the next question without acknowledging yours. Don’t pretend you didn’t know he’s done talking about it.

This is just wrong. They are brothers. Both Jared and Jensen have denounced this. It’s so wrong that they included it in the show and had Dean say “That’s just sick.” Let that sink in.

And for those of you who say Wincest isn’t sexual. Please stop. If you are a fan simply of the deep emotional bond that Sam and Dean have, then call yourself a brothers fan. The term Wincest was created BECAUSE it has the word “incest” in it. Incest is sexual. Don’t believe me? Grab a dictionary. If you don’t see their relationship as sexual, that should gross you out.

Any other out of character ship
Once again, ship what you want on your own private time and your blog, but I find it extremely hypocritical that straight characters on this show are constantly shipped in gay relationships. But if people were to ship Charlie in a straight relationship there would be a riot. And everyone knows it.

And, once again, do not try to push your ships (gay or straight) on the actors or other staff. Enjoy your fantasy. Keep it between you and your fellow shippers.

It’s one thing to closely follow an actual celeb couple. People have always been fascinated by their favorite celebs’ personal lives. Actors and other celebs realize this and do their best to handle that aspect of fame. That doesn’t mean that fans have a right to be disrespectful and ask inappropriate, personal questions.

It is an entirely different thing to ship two people who are not together. Especially if they are friends. It’s a little weird.

It is yet an entirely different thing to ship two people who are married to two other people. If you want to fantasize about it, fine. But do not bring that fantasy to J2M or any of the other cast members.

And if you honestly believe that J2M are in secret gay relationships and their marriages are fake, then you are delusional. That includes Matt Cohen, Rob Benedict, and Richard Speight, because I’ve seen people talking about them being in secret relationships with each other. You have let your fantasies cloud reality and you need to seek mental help. No, that’s not a dig or an insult. Sincerely. You’re delusional.

If you bring up your delusion in front of (or directly to) any of these guys, you deserve however they handle the situation, because you have disrespected them, their wives, and their kids.

And speaking of wives…

If you are hating on these two beautiful, talented, kind-hearted women, it is for one of two reasons: they interfere with your delusion, or you are jealous.

Hating on the cast and crew
I DO NOT tolerate hate toward the cast and crew of this show. They devote far too much time to the fans to deserve hate. I don’t care if you didn’t like the episode that one writer did. I DON’T CARE that they killed of your favorite character. I DO NOT CARE that they don’t support your ship.

They are entertainers. THEY are in control of the content of the show. They DO NOT have to cater to the whims of the fans, because the entire fandom DOES NOT WANT THE SAME THINGS! They would always piss off some portion of the fandom. So, they do what they should do. They cater to NO ONE. They write and produce the show that THEY want to put forward. If YOU don’t like it you have two choices: quit watching or suck it up.

This blog
Because I don’t ship, I prefer not to see it on my dash, therefore I do not follow shipper blogs or personal blogs that post lots of shipping. I do have a couple of mutual followers who will occasionally reblog a very mild Destiel-related post. That’s okay. I like 99% of their other content. But I don’t want to see sexual/romantic Destiel posts on my dash.

When doing a search (and because of Tumblr’s BRILLIANT changes to the tracked tags system where stuff just randomly pops into your dash) I do block any blogs that contain sexual/romantic Destiel, Wincest, ANY real person shipping, or ANY hate for the cast, crew, or their wives. I don’t want to see your stuff, and, to be honest, in some of these cases I don’t want you reblogging anything from me and have my URL showing up on your blog.

No, I will not use Tumblr Savior. No, I will not use Xkit.

If anything I’ve said here offends you, please feel free to unfollow or even block me. No hard feelings. As I’ve said before, I don’t normally post about this stuff, but recent events being what they are… well, here you go.

I will now go back to not discussing shipping or drama.

I have a few things to say

Yes, it’s Kishimoto’s manga and yes I cannot do anything to change what’s already done, but for heaven’s sake, if you are a true and logical fan of Naruto there’s no way you can calmly accept that ending.  And don’t you dare tell me that I’m not a true fan because I’m upset and complaining about the ending. Being a fan doesn’t mean I have to be in agreement with all the decisions the author makes. Being a fan doesn’t stop me from having my own opinions. Naruto is a work of art, published for the public, hence it is open to criticism.

Now with that out of the way, let me first say that I’ve been reading/watching Naruto since I was like 10. I’ve invested almost 10 years of my life into this series, hence I’ve pretty much caught the gist of the story. This is why I’m allowed to be disappointed, because the ending wasn’t even nearly as great as the buildup. I am disappointed because:

  • When did Naruto become merely about “who ends up with up whom?” As a matter of fact, when I started reading Naruto, romance wasn’t even listed as a genre. I still don’t think it is…idk go check. What about all those lovely life lessons and morals it taught us such as friendship, determination, hard work, never going back on your word, going against tradition and culture if necessary, seeing people change for the best and many more…..Have you all forgotten about those? Naruto could have ended with absolutely no couples and I’d be completely happy because it was a great story and I have learnt a lot.

But since you guys have decided to focus only on the ships, I must talk about those. I am a SASUNARUSASU shipper, without apologies.  I ship them, not because I’m gay, because I’m not, but because based on everything that I’ve been watching and reading their relationship is the most logical and most developed. It is also the strongest relationship in the series when compared to all others. The plot basically revolves around Naruto chasing Sasuke and if you don’t see this, I do not know which manga you have been reading. Open your eyes people!! Brotherly love you say. Heh! Greatest bull. Sasuke had Itachi . He knew what brotherly love was;the feelings for Naruto was so strong, he didn’t even understand it. He was scared. Naruto made friends. He had Shikamaru, Gaara, Neji, Kiba etc. You think by now he doesnt know what brotherly love is!? Naruto doesn’t even know how to explain it himself, because they’ve both never had that feeling before for anyone else. . Also, Kishimoto is the biggest SASUNARUSASU shipper there is, so do not be fooled. Take the entire manga and anime series as proof. (the data books, opening, endings, cover pages, their conversations, the entire Naruto plot etc).

Of course, being the rational person that I am, I was more than prepared for  SASUNARU to not be “officially canon”….because admit it, (it’s been canon from the beginning.) Our society does not accept this type of lifestyle so I didn’t expect to see Naruto and Sasuke running through the meadows, holding hands and what not or whatever weird things you guys think sasunaru shippers are thinking about. Actually, I was fine with chapter 699 and Naruto returning the headband was just so sweet and that’s all I ever wanted since Sasuke left….wipe tears. Also, Naruto is not yaoi (it might as well have been), it’s shonen, and hence its main target is males. I was prepared. But what I wasn’t expecting was crack ships, ooc, and babies everywhere.



  • This is the most disappointing ship, because it had potential. I might have shipped it were it more developed. Hinata loves Naruto because she sees in him something that she desired. She wanted to be praised and acknowledged. He was confident in himself despite being deemed a failure, much like herself. Hence she strived to be like him and adopted his nindo way. However, there is too little interaction between them for me to accept that they fell in love, married and had children. He never once addressed her feelings. As a matter of fact, Naruto has always been oblivious to Hinata’s feelings (like all that blushing and fainting didn’t give it away)   Even up until Shippuden, he was clueless, until she confessed and even then….nothing. Naruto also went as far as to tell his father in chapter 691 that he hasn’t found the right girl as yet…nine chapters later they have kids.  So tell me, if he always knew he was “in love” with Hinata what the hell kind of statement is that?
  • I’ve never been a NARUSAKU shipper, but even that makes more sense than NARUHINA. Naruto and Sakura basically grew up together and have come to know many things about one another and accepted each other. Naruto also always claim that he loves Sakura, even down to her worse trait, her forehead, which no one else accepted. Even Sakura must have developed some sort of feelings for Naruto after all he’s done for her and all they’ve been through together.


  • I don’t even know where to start with this ship. I could write a book stating all the reasons this ship is poor, underdeveloped and extremely shocking. I mean, unlike NARUHINA, where there was an attempt to develop their ship with subtle hints…this ship….wow. Sakura has always loved Sasuke since she was a child merely because he was cool and good looking. As she grew older she held onto these fleeting emotions. When Sasuke was labelled an S class criminal, she was more than willing to decide with the others that they should kill Sasuke. Even Ino was more against the plan that she was. Meanwhile, Naruto was suffering from a panic attack on hearing those news. She attempted to kill him and failed miserably. Sasuke on the other hand, while he was on team 7 protected Sakura. As a member of team 7, and one of the strongest at that, it was his duty to ensure that his teammates were safe. However, after he left, he rarely ever thought of Sakura, and whenever he did, it was in the context of team 7 (which includes Kakashi and Naruto as well). While He’s had plenty of independent thoughts of just Naruto.  Also, Sasuke is always calling her annoying and speaking badly of her. He tried to hurt her, and if it wasn’t for Naruto he would have killed her, he also placed her under a genjutsu where he’s killing her, like WTF? Someone please explain to me how this equates to love? ( And don’t you dare say this is love because no dictionary in the damn world defines love like this)
  • This pairing only depicts Sakura as a desperate fan girl rather than the strongest kunoichi that she really is. Even after all that she still crawls back to Sasuke begging him to take her with him….. just NO. I know many of you SASUSAKU shippers are girls. I am a girl and I could never ship this. I could never bring myself to support a relationship where the female is constantly being hurt and degraded and abused in all sense of the word. Haven’t Sakura matured….where are her standards and ambitions?  And don’t say he apologized….because that half dead (literally) apology could not make up for shit.  And if this is the case, I am seriously sorry for the girls of this generation. When do they draw a line? When do they say this is enough and I’m better than this? This is like a parallel to why girls stay in abusive relationships in reality. A bad example for all girls. I could never be happy about this becoming canon. In chapter 698, I think, Sasuke was saying that he could not accept anyone else but Naruto ( because everyone else basically gave up on him) and a few chapters before that Sasuke said he had no interest in Sakura and could not see why after all this time she was still dwelling upon thoughts of love with him. He said with his own mouth that Naruto is his only friend. I don’t recall him saying that about Sakura….and you don’t just fall madly in love, marry and have a child with someone you’re not first friends with. And what about Sasuke? He still hasn’t even said a word of love to Sakurahave you guys realized that or are you just playing blind because it’s canon!?  No matter how I look at this ship, I could never be happy about it. And I won’t even go into the forehead thing because that has nothing to do with this.
  • To NARUHINA and SASUSAKU fans if your ship needs an entire 360 turn in the personalities of the characters, the omitting and ignoring of major details, unanswered questions, and a movie to justify it…it might as well never existed. Your ships and fandom never did and will never experience the same level feels that the SASUNARUSASU fandom experienced. Because while your ship was based on subtle hints and vague acts. Ours was based on real and quite obvious actions of both parties; their actions and words. So please, do the SASUNARUSASU fandom a favor and “calm thyself.”
  • And you don’t have to be gay to ship SASUNARUSASU.

If this is what it means to be CANON, I’m really glad that SASUNARUSASU remained non canon. Because they are way happier than the canon ones tbh.I’m sure the SASUNARU fandom is big. If he wanted to please the fans and make some cash he could have ended it without pairings and without the rush or….I won’t even say it… Just for the sake of money, norms and society the perfect manga is being ruined.

  • Because of 700, I couldn’t even be glad about Shikamaru and Temari, which I ship. Plus I won’t even go into all the other ships because they are just crack ships. You don’t just throw people together without  first developing some back story.Kishimoto knows that because he’s a brilliant writer. I was so sure that he didn’t willingly write chapter 700. Just money making business. Some of these characters haven’t even spoke one word to each other and some have never met before but they are making babies. Even Sai, who spoke the most about guys’ dicks and who had stated that he thought Ino was ugly and he didn’t like her, did a 360. LOL. Chapter 700 was like a really bad fanfiction.
  • My view of Naruto and Sasuke as parents are totally ruined. Because out of everyone else, they know loneliness the best and what the absence of parents can do to a child. But what I got in chapter 700 was Naruto hitting his child and telling him that he’s too busy for him because he’s doing hokage work and he should just understand that because he’s a ninja and  Sasuke journeying across the ninja world looking for God knows what!? I thought even if they were going to have children that they’d at least be there for them.
  • The last chapter also ruined the reason for NINJAs. There is peace and tranquility… what is there for Naruto to do as a hokage? The role seems almost useless. Then there are those skyscrapers on the hokage heads and all the technology…I guess it was expected since it’s a few years later, but it totally ruined the traditional old time scenery that the village held. And all the girls who once dreamed and aspired to be great kunoichis are now settling with being just housewives. And nothing is wrong with being a housewife but really, did their dreams just evaporated into thin air? And what’s the purpose of being a housewife if the man isn’t home or in some cases, isn’t coming back. What happened to TAKA? Juugo who always stayed beside Sasuke because he was basically his purpose for living, Suigetsu and I hope what I’ve been hearing about Karin isn’t true.

And about the LAST nothing in that movie can adequately capture or attempt to explain the disaster which is chapter 700. Enough said.

However, Naruto is still my favourite manga, (all 699 chapters). I have nothing else to say about that fanfic at the end though. I will forever ship SASUNARU because it’s the realest and cheers to Kishimoto for writing the best love story ever (even though he doesn’t know it)

These are my few words….

anonymous asked:

Don't you ever think that the whole js together and the comm hurts the js? If anything it maybe damaging their reps in HW (controversy I mean nothing is wrong with being gay) 1/2

and say if they were actually married to G/D (I’m fencesitter), this is going to be causing trouble in their marriages? How do you justify what you do? Pushing someone to comeout can be the worst thing someone can do to their mental health. 2/2


First and foremost, happy holidays to you as well, nonnie.

Then, I don’t know how you found my blog because I’m sure I have never used searchable tags for my hat stuff. But let me tell you this, despite tinhats are not shipping the guys together but actually believing they’re indeed together, “shipping two male actors” is not unusual in all fandoms (e.g. Captain America), and nobody ever thinks the “shipping” damage any actor’s image in HW, on the contrary, some think it helps rising their popularity and even encourage it. (Side-eyeing Misha). Only people have something to hide act as conscious as the Js with each other when it comes to “shipping”. The Js surely don’t seem to mind that people shipping them respectively with Misha or Amell, since they pretty much encouraged the “ships” by throwing around shipping crumble all the time, while have never even kissed each other on the cheek in the past 12 years.

And I have never heard “shipping” causes “troubles” in any real marriages – unless the husband or the wife did swing that way. Seriously, it’s ridiculous and even laughable to think a real wife would fight with her real husband, who she knew better than any fan girls of his, only because of people shipping him with his co-star. How insecure the wife must be about her husband’s sex orientation? Don’t they have sexual activities enough to ensure her which team he plays for? lol

Also, as far as I’m concerned, there’s not one single actor who’s ever been so stressed by “gay rumor” that they had mental health issue. Yet I have heard many former closeted celebrities and people talking about their mental illness caused by the pressure of being closeted and by acting who they’re not 24/7.

I don’t need to justify what I do, and I have never forced the guys to come out. All I, and most hats I know, have ever done is talking about gossips and our opinions in the little corners that we have dug for ourselves. It’s het stans who always want to demand “truth” and “validation” of the “marriages” from the Js, because of their great insecurities.

It’s het stans who always threw a temper tantrum when things didn’t go as they had expected and drew massive attention to the gay rumors. It’s that Kimberly lady, a representative of typically het stans, who couldn’t accept the little dip she had heard from someone “working for Jared” so that she trolled, swore, and pulled a massive crap on Jared and demanded him to tell her the truth. It’s S.E.Hinton who brought the “gay rumor” under the spotlight after the years of public silence and spouted her homophobic speech that she’d “throw up” if the Js were together, when there’s nobody was even talking to her about the “gay” – no hat wants to talk to her, period (the trigger question for her hysteria was from a het who apparently worshipped Danneel)

It’s Danneel who pushed Ted C’s gossip in everybody’s face, and thanks to her, everybody – even the ones who didn’t read Ted C’s column – now knows that she’s been called a beard by a gossip columnist.
It’s Sandy who liked a tweet calling her “Jared’s ex-beard” and thanks to her validation, people, even the ones who once believed that she might be a real gf, have started to think an “ex-beard” was what she really was.
It’s Jensen who looked at Jared lovely and said “I got to sleep with one” when he’s asked about what he likes about working on SPN (and Jared chimed in “he got to know its stars”).
It’s Jared who said he “bought” his so-called wife and was “keeping her”.
It’s Jared and Jensen who’re unplanned caught wearing same outfits, and it’s Jensen who looked like a deer caught in headlights.
It’s Cindy (Lisa on SPN) who told everybody on Twitter that she’s not a girl who kisses and tell, and “If you would all like to know if Jensen is a good kisser… I suggest you ask Jarpad.”
It’s Lawson who said had heard from a semi-credible source that the stars from SPN “f-cking in real life”.
It’s Misha who blatantly said something like how does it feel playing brothers on TV but being lovers in real life.
It’s Jim Beaver who used to keep initiating fights with tinhats on Twitter and kept drawing attention to the “gay rumor”.

I’m a nobody and I don’t like or demand attention, while those people are big names (or at least in their own areas) and lots people follow them and what they say. I talk about my opinion in my corner and only few people following my blog and agreeing with my opinions can see, while those “big names” keep drawing the attention of amount of their followers to the gay rumors in public.

No body cares about small potatoes like me and many hats I know or what we think, they/you could easily sort us into the pile of “J2 shippers” – most of which are actually hets, btw – yet the Js and their PR camp keep changing their narratives because of what anons at a anonymous community are thinking, yet you come to my corner of peace and accuse me of damaging the Js’ reputation and outing them? Maybe you should accuse all the people I have listed above especially the Js themselves first.

I have never said this before because i didn’t want it to come out sounding harsh or offensive, but I’m saying this here that I have my own brains and I’m entitled to my own opinion, which I write on my own blog, which demands the least attention and doesn’t bother anybody. I don’t do the “hive of thinking” way, and while I appreciate people coming here to point out my mistakes, I don’t appreciate some people coming and telling me what I should think. And as I have said, I don’t want my peaceful corner to be trolled by unwelcoming people.

Anyways, have a nice holiday. I’ve still got errand to run.