A wise advice to every fandom & a note to self. Don’t let your fangirling life take the lead & make you forget about your own real life. Make a balance between both to enjoy both, and go after ur dreams & ambitions, just like what ur idols been doing to theirs, while sustaining ur fangirling mode at a moderate level. & Never ever be a sasaeng fan! .. Your idols don’t take responsibility for your lives.