I love your post about Gemma.I mean,she seems like a very nice girl.I'm sorry if she has difficulties with the fandom but your brother is very famous.I don't think the posts about he and his bandmate are the worst thing you see on sm,even Louis blocks people who talks shit about H.I've seen people writing horrible things.She has saying anything about it.Not even when Nora' friend wrote on IG about a very disturbing and sexual comment(Harry finge** him)or when Bellassai writes about H'ass.
yes, that’s why i think she is struggling to navigate the fandom. she is in contact with those people, knows them personally, can have a conversation about her concerns, gauge their sense of humour, decide if she can/wants to separate certain things. and come to a decision that we may or may not agree with. but what i think is important for her to remember is that The Fandom isn’t this huge elusive entity. her words have an impact and while some of the comments that prompt a reaction aren’t from the smart, funny, respectful part of the fandom they hit the smart, funny, respectful part just as hard.