i mean that's what the post is about

anonymous asked:

I really couldn't care less about Abel, the only thing I have to say is I'll be happy when Bella has a new relationship because she's so supportive, it's cute to see. He posted some pics a few times but she was SO supportive of him with the videos and posts she made, I'm a girl and bi and I'd date her so fast lol. She's girlfriend goals and one day someone will see and appreciate that and treat her like she deserves to be treated. Until then I love how happy and successful she is now.

One of the things I’ve always said I loved about Bella is how supportive, loving, and comfortable she is being affectionate with her loved ones the way she is. It’s so clear she cares deeply for the people in her life and is always there for them. I would really love to see her be in a relationship where not only is that appreciated from her but reciprocated. Almost everything we saw and got from their relationship was initiated by and/or shared by Bella and I want her to be with someone that wants to love and show her off as much as she wants to love and show off because she is a very supportive person, especially with him and that’s an amazing thing and I really hope she’ll get someone real who’ll put energy into her like that. 

Bella seems alright now; she has a lot of her family and real friends always with her lately so I know she’s being loved up and taken care of by then. It’s a new era for Bella and I hope she rides it out single for a while and focuses on work and reflect on everything that’s happened so she can find someone who deserves her attention later and that she can share in the happiness with. 

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That’s definitely not the first thing that should have come to mind, Kuroo

(tho it looks like no one really minds

aside from bokuto that is)

i can’t stop thinking about what kind of criers dan and phil would be. i feel like dan’s crying would be a slow build up. his eyes just get watery at first, and he tries so hard to keep it in, but eventually the tears start cascading down his cheeks. he’d get a runny nose and his forehead would crease out of frustration because he hates crying, but he does it all the time. when his crying hits its peak, he’d be a blubbering mess, wiping furiously at his tears and constantly blowing his nose. he doesn’t like to be comforted while he’s crying, but when he’s finished and all that’s left is tear stained cheeks, he’d cling to the closest thing, preferably another person that would play with his hair, rub his back, and comfort him quietly.

phil on the other hand is a quiet crier. it happens really suddenly because he’s not afraid to be emotional and soft. his tears build up and he doesn’t try to hold them back. his eyes get red and puffy, and he tries to wipe away the tears quickly with his sleeve. he gets sniffly, but hides it by taking deep breaths through his mouth. his eyes are glossy and doe-like when his crying reaches the climax. he likes to be held the whole way through, even if it’s just someone holding his hand or resting a hand on his knee. physical contact calms him down and helps him feel more real. his favorite thing is when people rub their fingers up and down his arm, it nearly lulls him to sleep, but it distracts him from whatever it is he’s crying about.

So here’s the thing, on this blog i make lighthearted posts about being a lesbian who likes swords, like “put [this sword] on your blog if you are gay”

And most of the time interactions with this blog are just people finding my posts fun or relatable having a chortle and tagging themselves, their friends, or sometimes theorising which fictional character runs this blog. it’s just some good fun that i and many others enjoy

But very regularly i get straight people saying ‘but what about straight people’ like. all the time. its very annoying.

cause guess what! im not straight! i dont care. go write your own posts, im not writing Relatable Posts for straight people thats not my job why would i do that

however every time im like ‘i dont care about straight people on my gay blog or in my gay life at all actually’ i get inundated with replies about how Mean And Evil i am because im not making jokes for their consumption

In which case i am just a mean evil gay because im not going to start catering to straight people on my gay blog about being gay and liking swords ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Undiagnosed is not a synonym for “faking your symptoms.”

Granted, the presence of those symptoms doesn’t necessarily mean that you have the condition associated with them.  But it’s important to remember that everyone who had both the symptoms and the diagnosis started with just the former.  The lack of a diagnosis doesn’t make your symptoms less real.

this post is over TWO YEARS OLD so please stop reblogging it!!! the information in the post is incredibly inaccurate and honestly the entire post is flaming hot garbage

AND ANOTHER THING!!! please stop taking everything you see on tumblr so seriously. if you wanna learn more about asexuality, google it. go to websites dedicated to the information. do your own research. educate yourself. you’ll be thankful for it later trust me

hello all!! it’s a new year which means i’ve had this blog for about half a year which is insane bc i don’t know what i did before this 😂 anyway i am still amazed by the kindness, sweetness and general loveliness of everyone and i can’t believe i have any followers at all let alone over 200 💕 thank you to everyone who made me feel welcome and the few that talked to me despite my awkwardness (thats something i wanna work on in 2017) and to everyone that still tags me in things bc i can never tire of tag games. emosh rant aside here’s everyone that brightens my dash and pulls me further into the kpop trash can i honestly love you all 😘😘 (ps sorry in advance if i missed ppl out or got stuff wrong im not a technology whizz so this took me ages)

mutuals - bold, faves - ❤️

{123-b}
❤️@6baekhyun❤️, @7soojung, @21jngdae, ❤️@92-pcy❤️, @92cby, ❤️@305heaux❤️, @absolutehun, @acousticmym, @addictedkpop, @aeribaek, @ahbaekhyun, @angel-in-slow-motion, @angelickai, @angelksoo, @artificialpuppy, @assbuttbaek, @asshun, @ayy-pcy, ❤️@babydae04❤️, ❤️@babydontpcy❤️, ❤️@babysebaek❤️, @baekfhyun, @baehkkyun, @baekhyeun, @baekhyun-baking-bacon, @baekhyunniee, @baekhyunsama, ❤️@baekhyunstolemyeyeliner❤️, @baekhyuntella, @baekhyy, @baeksaerii, @baeksee, @baekuynh, @baekvocals, @baekyeolsquad, @basic-bitch-baek, ❤️@bbhsthighs❤️, @berribaek, @bhyunq, @biaspentagon, @bigmoneysuho, @blowchanyeolsflute, @bonappejin, @boxianb, @brbcrawlingtokorea, @bulba-suho-r, @byeolks, ❤️@byunbaeklr❤️, @byunbaekssii, @byunchen, @byunspuppy, @byunutella, @byuny, ❤️@byuny-baek❤️

{c-e}
@causekpop, @celaystial, @chaerinrm, @chaichanyeol, @chaisoo, @chanbaekwife, @chanffeine, @chanshine, @chanyehet, @chanyeof, @chanyeollipop, @chanyeols-ear, @chanyeolsdeepvoice, @chanyeolsoo, @chanyoool, @chanys, @chenbaekery, @chenchantment, @chengineering, @chnyeollie, ❤️@conishizm❤️, @coolecstaticm, @corgibaek, @curlyheaux, @cyoungsjae, @cypherkookie, @cytaoplasm, @daenso, ❤️@danisonthefire❤️, @dayafterdae, @dazedjongin, @dazzlingkai, @dazzlynini, @death-by-jongin, @deerbbh, @derp-yeoll, @divinekai, @doitforsoo, @dokynsoo, @dokyungsooswife, @duckyhun, @dulcetyeoll, @dunwithexo, ❤️@eggheadsoo❤️, @eggsehun, @erinyx-s, @ethereal-baek, ❤️@exo–sexo❤️, @exo-official-lightstick, @exodusandchill, @exostortillachip

{f-j}
@fhawn, @foreversuho, @chanhunsbby, ❤️@ftjoy❤️, ❤️@funniestinexo ❤️ , @fvck-kai, @ga-yun, @galaxychen, @gaudyz, ❤️@gayiconpcy❤️, @girlsgenerachen, @gjrlgeneration, @glorious-soobooty, @glowinghobii, @got7europe, @gothchanbaek, @guitaristjin, @heart-kisori, @helloflowerboykai, @heterosexyeol, @heyyplayboy, @himchan, @hobiga, ❤️@hobisoo❤️, @hoeforluhan, @hoesehun, @hunandonly, @hunisthesun, @hunshines, @igot7dabs, @iluvpcy, @imgonnasooyou, ❤️@imtaebum❤️, @ineffablejhope, @intokai, @irideschen, @its-baekhyun-love, @jediyixing, @jieunyoung, @jihyped, @jiminiehoe, @jiminyoongistuff, @jimiyoong, @jinkis, @jisung, @wendaes, @jongdaemort, @jongdaes-mom, @jongdaesjaan, @jonginplease, @jonginsavedmylife, @jonginssoo, @jongwaedae, @julietmp3, @junbrows, @junmyeon-please, @junmyeonsbae, @jvungkook, @jxeyx

{k-o}
@k-popandchill, @kae-popx, @kaibility, @kaicahuetes, @kaifection, @kaimint, @kaipital, @kairamelo, @kaisdonuts, @kaisoo-on-ice, @kaiternity, @kaiuary, @kaixpcy, @kibub, @kimjunnoodle, @kimkaisohsehun, ❤️@kingbyunny❤️, ❤️@kingusoo❤️, @kinkjongin, @kireinakai, ❤️@kittyhunnie❤️, @kjonginswife, @kpopthirstaddicted, @krisinsanity,❤️@ksooslipring❤️, ❤️@ksoosoo❤️, @kystal, @kyungsmoothhh, @kyungsoss, @kyvngsoo, ❤️@lawlliets❤️, @laygion, @leaderirene, @lionbaekkie, @littlebyuns, @littlechefsoo, @lottobh, @lottomp3byexo, @love-seok, ❤️@lsdk❤️, @ludork, @luhan-vevo, @luhaven, @luhtella, @lullabyun, @memesyoongi, @minhyoks, @miniseokk, @minseokblackgf, @minjoonv@minseokslilmochi, @mpci, @mrsmamamoo, ❤️@nerdtasticawkwardpenguin❤️, @nunbuchen, ❤️@occasianallysuho❤️, @ohhhappydae, @ohhsenshine, @ohs-hun, @ohsehons, @ohsehunpai, ❤️@okaybaekhyun❤️, @omyvelvet, ❤️@oohsehunnies❤️, @oohsenun, @ooomybaek, @osh-personaltrashcan, @ot9s, @overnightprincess

{p-s}
@parkchanyoyo, @parklunatic, ❤️@parksexyeol❤️, @pastelhunnie, ❤️@pchan-yeol❤️, @peachyjwwoo, @peachysuho, @petityeols, @phallicsoo, @please-dyo-me, @pohroro, @porkdo-bi, @prankchanyeol, @prince-hobis-castle, @princekjm, @princewangeun, @puppy-chanyeol, @puppyeoll, @queenbyun, ❤️@r-velvets❤️, @rapperbaeksoo, @rhendyo, @royalnini, @rysooo, @sanadoll, @savesuho, @sebaeked, @sebaekkk, @sefuns, @sehlun, @sehun-the-last-airbender, @sehuncallmemonster, @sehungotbaek, @sehunjusthitthelotto, @sehunlays, @sehunnified, @sehunsdick, @sehunsi, @sehunsvocals, @sehunxng, @sehunyi, @sehurn, @senfinity, @senshisuho, @seokjinim, @seuldy, @shadesofyifan, @shesdreamjng, @shypcy, @sirjinki, ❤️@slayeol❤️ , @sleepyxing, @smhsehun, @soft-suho, @sonicdae, @soodolf, @soofection, @squeezemybyuns, @squishyssoo, @stardustksoo, @su-lay, @suavesehun, @sugacooki, @suhokai, ❤️@suhos-butt❤️, @suhosankles, @sunbaejin, @sunflowersoo, @suuhyngho, @svgamon, @sweetyeol, @sxhuns, @syuhope

{t-z}
@taeblush, @taehyunganae, @taejagi, @taendelion, @taengs, @teddyjongin, @tellmewhatislove, @tenderloveforyou, @thatsjustmegs, @the-baekery, @thekimcouple, @thesofthun, @thickdicksuho, @tinyjunmyeon, @tipannies, ❤️@tousdae❤️, @tzuyuuwu, @untouchabyeolman, @v-dyo, @velvetsehun, @veriloquentmind, @versaceyeols, @viruspcy, @vitunkpoppi, @waltzsofa, @wendeer, @wetsekai, @winterheatmp3, @winters-lullaby, @wtfyixing, @wuboxian, @xehun, @xiao-saseum, @xiumania, @xiuminel, @xiuminsdreams, ❤️@xiupling❤️ , @yeolhighness, @yeollovemebaek, @yeollure, @yeolosaur, @yixingeol, @yixingsgf, @yooaesthetic, @yoongbeans, @yooseok, @yugyeomism, @zhangyixings, @zyxzjsdimple 

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Sweet summer child Yugyeom’s struggles during girlfriend-related missions

The other thing is like….. let’s just all pretend that aphobia exists as an axis to be oppressed upon, and that all non-aces/aros (regardless of orientation) had non-ace/aro privilege and oppressed a-spec people

Why would aces/aros want to be in a community with their non-ace/aro oppressors? the LGBT+ community was formed because lgbp people and trans people had enough in common with regards to oppression that it did (and still does!) make sense for the two groups to work together. Transphobia can sometimes include misdirected homophobia (because people think trans people are “really just gay” or whatever other transphobic bullshit), and at the time the community formed society as a whole had a less nuanced and more incomplete understanding of gender, meaning the line between sexuality and gender was a lot less defined than it is today (remember the “is Marsha P Johnson a trans woman?” discourse that’s still going on? Yeah that)

But if aphobia was based off whether someone felt sexual/romantic attraction (although all evidence of “aphobia” has always been based off someone’s behavior and not their feelings, let’s continue to pretend aphobia is a distinct form of oppression that targets a-spec people) then wouldn’t non-ace/aro LGBT+ people be the oppressors of aces? And wouldn’t you want your community to be free of your oppressors with all their violent aphobia? Wouldn’t it not only be harmful to the ace community as a whole, but also to the individual aces/aros who would be victims to aphobia from non-ace LGBT+ people, to deliberately create your spaces in your oppressors’ community?

And I know everyone is going to pull the whole “transphobic gays” thing, and I really don’t mean to act like that’s not an issue or not relevant, because it is, but when the LGBT+ community was formed, our society hardly had the language to differentiate between straight trans people and cis gay people, especially if those trans people didn’t medically transition. The point is, even within LGBT+ spaces/communities, there are allowances for trans-only spaces and resources. But again, by and large, many of the issues that trans/non-cis people and lgbp people face are intrinsically linked because of society’s inability to separate sexuality and gender. (This doesn’t mean cis gay people can’t be transphobic and that their transphobia is any less harmful to trans people than that from cishets, 

So although homophobia and transphobia tend to go together (although they certainly don’t always!), aphobia would be an entirely separate thing. So why would aces want to not only have non-ace people (their “oppressors”) in their spaces, but actually create their spaces within the spaces built for their oppressors?

TL;DR If the mean alloLGs were really your oppressors you wouldn’t want to create your safe community spaces within our spaces because it would put you in danger

YALL KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS. ANOTHER CELEBRATORY BLACKHAWKS GOT THEIR ASSES FUCKIN BEAT POST!!!

sign me the FUCK up 👌👀👌👀👌👀👌👀👌👀 good shit go౦ԁ sHit👌 thats ✔ some good👌👌shit right👌👌th 👌 ere👌👌👌 right✔there ✔✔if i do ƽaү so my self 💯 i say so 💯 thats what im talking about right there right there (chorus: ʳᶦᵍʰᵗ ᵗʰᵉʳᵉ) mMMMMᎷМ💯 👌👌 👌НO0ОଠOOOOOОଠଠOoooᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒ👌 👌👌 👌 💯 👌 👀 👀 👀 👌👌Good shit

Let’s get cynical.

Apparently, people think saying anything positive about autism or saying stims are cute or posting stimboards is ‘glamorizing autism.’

Apparently, people think laughing at our own expense because of an executive dysfunction fail, making videos or gifs of our stims or taking selfies with stim toys is ‘not taking autism seriously.’

Apparently, people think anyone capable of understandable communication or navigating some of the world without needing help means we ‘have no clue of what real autism is.’

Apparently, people think the autistic community is full of fakers who self dx because they think people just go ‘I’m quirky and awkward so I’m autistic.’

Apparently, people think self dx’ing is wrong and yet they are happy to armchair “undiagnose” somebody they never met in their life because ‘self dx isn’t real.’

Apparently, people don’t like it when the autistic community they just shit on has something to say back and they want us to look like ‘the bad guys.’

[Animated gif of the 9th Doctor rolling his eyes, tilting his head and slow blinking as if to say ‘whatever.’]


Don’t claim (general) you are okay with autistic people expressing themselves or having autistic headcanons if you’re going to shit on the autistic community for those very things in the next sentence. All you do is contradict yourself and look foolish.

I have a photo of everyone who has ever done that. Here ya go.

[Image of a douche bag.]

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Listen up. Got some bad news. There is a patrol set for tonight – so far, Speirs wants McClung–

@taylorswift I just wanted to say thank you, from the bottom of my heart. I have never met you, but I’ve seen you in concert nine times, and I’ve interacted with you on here multiple times, and thats what I want to say thank you for. Despite the fact that you have millions of fans, you have chosen to like some of my posts, my personal posts, and my me feel special and important. I can’t even express how much that means to me, and how happy it makes me that you take time out of your day to learn about my life, my struggles, and my accomplishments. Its so refreshing and reassuring to know that you’re aware of how much you’ve helped me recently. I love you so so much. Thank you Tay.

how are you gonna argue sherlock is gay based on circumstantial evidence and then ignore that he’s trans based on circumstantial evidence. how are you gonna say one thing is stupider than the other or more of a reach than the other when they’ve been equally as explicitly stated. why are we all agreeing sherlock and john were texting each other based on a Feeling or better yet making up code systems but as soon as someone notices something that can mean sherlock is trans IN A WAY THATS NOT EVEN A STRETCH COMPARATIVELY suddenly we’ve gone too fucking far. just admit that without big name meta-ers holding your hand, you would have never gotten to tjlc on your own and would not have seen sherlock holmes as gay in 1895 because that’s what i’m feeling rn. and yes, i will be rude about this, in my own new post, not naming names, which is nicer in my opinion than people jumping onto someone else’s HARMLESS post just to refute it for no good reason.

ugh i’m trying to compose an eloquent text post about this but i’ve erased it like four times now but like. there’s nothing wrong with being a moderate - in politics and in cultural stuff like fandom and everything else. a person doesn’t need to be Dead To You for saying one wrong thing. and on the flipside (and this is more my point), a generally shitty person (like jason kenney, or fucking like john mccain or someone) shouldn’t be Your God & Bae now for saying one right thing. don’t be reactionary, and don’t be polemic. don’t be inflammatory when you’re arguing with someone; they’re not an enemy to be destroyed. the end.

I asked perhaps a bit too casually. “You told me about the time with Cassian, but did you and Azriel ever …?”

A sharp laugh. “No. Azriel? After that time with Cassian, I swore off any of Rhys’s friends. Azriel’s got no shortage of lovers, though, don’t worry. He’s better at keeping them secret than we are, but … he has them.”

“So if he were ever interested would you …?”

“The issue, actually, wouldn’t be me. It’d be him. I could peel off my clothes right in front of him and he wouldn’t move an inch. He might have defied and proved those Illyrian pricks wrong at every turn, but it won’t matter if Rhys makes him Prince of Velaris—he’ll see himself as a bastard-born nobody, and not good enough for anyone. Especially me.”

painful as this is, I love it. I love the mutual respect with this ship. They protect each other, they’re there for each other and I think they love each other too. As friends, as family, as lovers, as more, as everything; they love each other.

And I love that Sarah has managed to make this healthy though; way too often we get the guy falling in love with the girl and then he pines after her for the rest of forever and it turns into a toxic obsession that he can’t let go of but this is one of the most beautiful subversions of that trope I’ve ever seen.

Yes Azriel loves her; yes he’s loved her for centuries but he has never pressured her; even just with that knowledge. He loves her and he’s allowed to love her because it’s not portrayed as obsessive romantic love; it’s not a jealous love, they’ve both had other lovers and they’re comfortable with it. It’s unconditional love in its purest form. Whatever she is to him, whatever they are to each other he loves her and she loves him.

She knows he loves her and she knows he won’t do anything about it and she knows why he won’t do anything about it and she doesn’t push him. She doesn’t try and overcome those boundaries or barriers. She doesn’t try and convince him that he is worthy of her. She allows him to have his flaws and his insecurities, she knows there are lines between them that he can’t cross; that he may never be able to cross; and she doesn’t try and force him across them.

I would love them to be able to cross those lines but even if they don’t this dynamic and relationship is so deliciously complex that it wouldn’t hugely bother me. They don’t need to be romantically involved; they don’t need to cross that line to love each other; to be there for each other; to protect each other, to die for each other if need be.

It’s, like Feyrhys, a relationship where both characters have been horrifically mistreated in the past and choice is the crux of the matter. Loving each other is a choice; a choice they’ve both made. Being with each other, fully committing to each other in a romantic relationship is a choice that neither of them has yet made for their own reasons and the other has never tried to push it despite what’s between them. That level of mutual trust and respect is so incredibly important to me and to them given what they’ve been through.

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now did I promise myself and a couple other people that I wasn’t going to crack another daddy joke any time soon after this fiasco? yes. yes I did. but then some certain other people persuaded me that this one needed to be done. and I’m deeply sorry, but I succumb easily to peer pressure.

but hey did anyone catch my reference to a certain piece of zootopia fan art

Jonathan Byers head canons

These are my head canons for Jonathan Byers from Stranger Things , if you don’t agree with them thats okay everyone has there own! Just please don’t shout at me;;Also feel free to use these in fics or head canon posts too if you believe/ like them!! I have no problem with that these are just my thought! If you do use these could you tag me, not because I’m mean i just love to see what people create about Jonathan !

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