What does "make selfish choices" mean? Is this purely a Destiel thing, like if Sam wasn't around Dean would then go get with Cas? It just sounds like you are saying that Dean ONLY is around Sam because he was raised to protect him, and not because he loves him or wants him as his partner or enjoys his company. I feel like people forget all the good stuff in-between that we don't see, like how in Swan Song they pointed out the concerts and the off-days. Don't those days count?