i mean i'm not gonna date you

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(Well it’s December guys and you know that what means. Selfie dump from selfies over the year and talking about it. It’s gonna get kinda text heavy because I’ve had kind of a shit year, and each of these photos represents either an important event or period of time. Time to get sad but also gay! 

These photos are in chronological order, and under the cut I’ll be explaining them. They all have the dates they were posted as descriptions. My face tag is #ax to the face if you want to go seek out the original posts! (Warning for emotional abuse ment. and suicidal ideation ment. under cut)

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anonymous asked:

To the anon about Laur being Shawn's type, I don't think Shawn has had enough relationships yet to have a specific type. Like dating one girl doesn't mean every other girl is gonna be like that one. After a few relationships then sure determine a type

I agree with you. Just because he was seeing Laur doesn’t mean he’s got a type or that she is his type. 

Also, I don’t really know if Shawn will ever have like a  100% specific “type” we can lean towards, but I believe that about anyone. That you can’t just point out certain things and go like “this person needs to have this and this and this or look like this and that” because I think it changes a lot and I think it’s more about who you are rather than what you look like (if it’s about a long lasting relastionship and not a hook up) If I look back at the people I’ve dated or the different people my friends have dated, they are actually quite different types to be honest. Sure, there might be small features repeading themselves, but their looks and personalities are never really the same. 

We might look for specific appearances that turns us on when we’re looking for a hook up (like brown hair, blue eyes, big boobs, big booty, dimples - what do I know) but I don’t believe that if you meet someone, who has a personality that just turns you on so bad and is attractive to you, you’d be like “Nope, he doesn’t have blond hair or blue eyes, I’m out of here” 

And I think, surely Shawn would get a beautiful girl, because look at him you know, but I also really do believe Shawn is very attractive to a girl’s way of being. Like obviously I know that he’s going to be looking at her appearance, but I also do believe that his “type” might be more about personality than a certain look. Because girls can look so beautiful and stunning in so many different ways and shapes, but the “type” he would fall for, I think would have a lot more to do with who they were and what their personalities were like. 

I don’t know if this made sense lol 

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“I asked you out, and that means that I like you! ‘I like you’ then ‘let’s date.’ does it have to go that way?”
“It does have to go like that. A heart has to be there for a start to be made. Thinking of that person hundreds of times, then gazing at them dozens of times, and then comes the confession. A woman and a man’s relationship, isn’t a child’s play.”

6

In Wu’s head he’s like “dang it Kai! You messed up my excuse. I was low key trying to get out of coming didn’t you pick up on that? Now if I say no I’ll just sound like a jerk.”

Also “rejiggered”

Also the man who was worried his old bones were too weak just flipped through the air no problem.

Also Nya and Jay working on the Samurai X suit together. It was a date. Totally a date.

Reasons To Date D.O

Talking to him through FaceTime  

Him playing with his hair 

Him being flustered when you say I love you for the first time

His body transformation 

His heart shaped smile 

If anybody and I mean anybody hurts you, they’ll have to watch their backs

You know he’s gonna bring the squad to help with the deed 

But he’ll always be fluffy infront of you 

Him giving  you his jacket when you’re cold

Him in a suit like no…. 

Him being awkward with skinship 

But with you he’ll be super cuddley 

@yeol-traash @somewhere-in-cognito

Persona 4 on the topic of Stalking and creepers: “Huh? Did I actually say something mean?” “Yukiko, you shot him right down after he called you Yuki and asked to go on a date with you.” “Wait, that’s what was going on? *completely clueless*” “Woah, someone else failed the Amagi challenge! Does that mean it’s my turn!?”

Persona 5 on the topic of Stalking and creepers: “This guy is stalking me, and it’s been making me feel pretty anxious and worried…” “They’re doing what!? That’s not cool!” “Yeah! Let’s tell him to fuck off! You deserve your space and privacy Ann!”

Persona 5 isn’t even out yet and I already like this game more than Persona 4.

I’m just gonna put something out there

Asexuality isn’t the same as aromanticism. Aromanticism (and the entire spectrum, but I’m not going to get into that right now) are constantly thrown under the label of asexuality, but they’re not the same.

Asexuality is lack of sexual attraction. This just means that you don’t want to do sexual things with someone when you see them. That’s all it is. It has nothing to do with dating or romantic attraction. A person can be asexual and still be romantically attracted to people. 

Aromanticism is lack of romantic attraction. This means that you don’t want to date someone in a romantic way. That’s what it is. It has nothing to do with doing sexual things.

I know that both asexuality and aromanticism aren’t that well known–and aromanticism may be even less known than asexuality–but please, please try not to mix use one as a substitute for the other. Don’t say “I think you two would be cute together, but one of you is asexual so it wouldn’t work.” Even if one of the people is aromantic as well as asexual, please say “aromantic,” not “asexual.” 

Yes, there are people like me, who are aromantic as well as asexual. That doesn’t mean that the term “asexual” can be used instead of “aromantic” when describing my romantic orientation or describing anything to do with my romantic orientation. Many asexuals aren’t aromantic. Many aromantics aren’t asexual. Please stop using “asexual” as a synonym for “aromantic.”

surprise update!

and by that I mean, “isn’t it surprising that I’m still writing at all ever period” update!

“You should stay,” Kat says, trying to keep the pleading out of her voice.
“For the movie. Do you like Harry Potter? You should stay.”

Johanna snorts, sitting up cross legged on her bed and smirking at her. “Look Brainless, I don’t know what kind of Footloose town you grew up in but I’m not gonna stay here and chaperon your little movie date.”

 Kat feels her face turn hot with embarrassment. “It’s not a date,” she snaps.

Johanna smirks again. “Does Peeta know that?”

chapter 3 of Wherever There is You can now be read on AO3 and FFN.