i mean how can someone deny that

Aries: Let yourself heal. Drink enough vodka to clean out the wounds they left on your insides. It’s okay to shatter sometimes and it’s okay to stand for what’s right. Even if everything hurts, just keep breathing.

Taurus: sometimes making excuses isn’t good enough, how dare you deny someone else their pain. Sometimes a situation is just fucked up and that’s all there is too it. Sometimes it can’t be fixed, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt.

Gemini: Think about yourself for once. Stop putting people before you, even if it’s me. Let yourself rest you can’t keep running ragged all the god damn time. I know you want to protect everyone but you cant. We love you for it, but you cant.

Cancer: Pain is going to end I swear it will. I know it feels eternal right now. If it’s all you can do to hang on then fucking hang on because you’re strong enough to beat this.

Leo:  Learn to keep your lips shut because some things aren’t meant to be shared. I know they aren’t told as secrets or at two am but they are still not to be talked about so damn casually.

Virgo: This time of year is always hard. Always scary. But you can pull through. I believe you. Believe that you’re past the hospital visits and all the scary parts of this. You are past it.

Libra: Sometimes cutting up yourself to give others isn’t the best solution. You are not always the missing puzzle piece. You don’t always belong and you won’t always be enough. That’s okay.

Scorpio: Wrap yourself up in bubble wrap if you have to. Keep yourself from getting hurt. Keep yourself from opening wounds again as hard as it is. I know you’re scared. I am too. But you’ll be okay.

Sagittarius: Sometimes recovery Isn’t linear. I know you’ve been fighting for progress but sometimes all you need is a backslide to get a little strength back. I know it’s not easy. But you’ll be okay.

Capricorn: What are you doing? Seriously. What the hell are you trying to do here? You need to say what the plan is so we can get on board. Because all we can tell right now is you’re exploding. We need to know how to pick up the pieces.

Aquarius: Stop being ashamed. Your scars, your wounds, your damage is nothing to fucking hide. If it makes them uncomfortable tell them to fuck off. This is your life and you should be proud.

Pisces: Learn to stop taking so many risks. Running right to the edge one day you won’t be able to stop. Learn how to pull back sometimes. I know it’s hard but it’s all you can do.

—  This week’s horoscope

“Certainly someone they call ‘The Negotiator’ should be able to find a solution without resorting to -”

“Satine.”

“No amount of excuses will convince me of the necessity -”

“Satine.”

“What?”

“At least, can’t there be peace between us?”

“Well… That’s unfair. You know my principles don’t allow me to deny such a plea.”

Obi-Wan has Seen Some Things in the war. I like to think there were some offscreen moments with Satine when he let himself be vulnerable enough to show her how much he needed comfort and gentleness.

Systemic violence enables interpersonal violence. A society that denies some of its members autonomy, safety, healthcare, etc., makes those people vulnerable to more direct abuses, since they are denied their own resources and must depend on the goodwill of people who have power over them.

In such a culture there will always be individuals who take advantage of that vulnerability to do further harm.

BTS as things I've had to tell my 3rd grade students
  • Taehyung: Please, stop trying to fit your entire fist into your mouth
  • Seokjin: You're not going to die from missing snack time, please stop crying
  • Rap Mon: So run me through this again...just how exactly did you break your desk?
  • Yoongi: Don't deny that you were sleeping through math you literally had a puddle of drool on your desk
  • J-Hope: Just because we're having indoor recess doesn't mean you can gallop around the classroom screaming at the top of your lungs
  • Jungkook: So you're saying you can't work with your partner because she's a girl and girls annoy you?
  • Jimin: I know that they tease you for being short but calling someone a "big fat giant" isn't acceptable

Literally the weakest argument I’ve seen about why allosexual is a bad word is because it sounds like a slur in a totally unrelated language

You know what else sounds like a slur? The Spanish word for black. Which is negro. (Of course, there are other terrible terms for black ppl in Spanish but I digress)

If someone were to call me a negro… In the context of “oh lookit that dirty negro!!” or something like that then that would be… Bad, lol

But if I were to deny a Spanish speaking person the autonomy of using their own word (which literally just means the color black) simply because it sounded like a slur… I can’t describe how unnecessary that is. And allosexual literally just means not asexual. That’s all.

Does that make sense? I don’t know ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

We all know, but it never ceases to amaze me, just how much Hide means for Kaneki. How many times he’s been to one to push Kaneki forward. How many times he’s turned a sorrowful day into something brighter. He was the one to always trust him, always support him, always care about him. Hide wasn’t just someone who accepted Kaneki’s existence; he appreciated him, Kaneki ken, and loved him no matter what.

Romantic or platonic, I don’t think it matters much. But one can’t deny that what these two share is beautiful and deep.

I think we all remember that scene where Kaneki used his kagune for the first time to save Hide from Nishiki.

“The bird fights its way out of the egg. The egg is the world. He who would be born, must first destroy a world.”

Just as people say, living is far more than just existing. For Kaneki, stuck between the desperate need for love and the doubt that he deserves it, existing was merely a wait until the moment when his desires would be fulfilled. But in that cycle of hope and fear there was no room for accepting the love people were already giving him, he just couldn’t see himself being loved.

But he still couldn’t give it up, and searching for a way to satisfy it his wish to be loved became a reason to die, rather than a reason to live. He became unable to see his own worth, deaf to his own voice that, deep down, wished to go on.

But now the world he used to live in, under a wish that only brought him closer to his end, has been destroyed. That world and his deadly wish have both been broken, through the voice of the one that’s saved him again and again by proving him that there’s a meaning in him being alive.

K’s egg, his world has been destroyed. What kind of new world has he been born into? What kind of meaning will he find in it? We can’t know for sure, but we do know that this world is one Kaneki has walked into by himself. This is a life- a true life that he has chosen to live from now on.

Because in the end, that “I wanted to live on with you” wasn’t said by Hide.

It’s what Kaneki thinks, and I’m glad he’s finally realised it himself.

anonymous asked:

I remember this one post from a couple years ago that said "I don't get how someone can be a Liam stan when the other boys exist" and I was like what????? That makes no sense at all and nobody would ever make that kind of post about the others. Liam gets so much shit from this fandom and idc what anybody says I know the others get shit too but Liam gets the most and if you deny it then you're part of the problem(not you as in you btw I mean you as in general)

That’s absolutely ridiculous like??????? And it irritates me the most because Liam used to be bullied when he was younger and he went through a lot to overcome his insecurity. Now he’s being successful and has completed a lot of achievements yet people still won’t let him live and still tryna come @ him for his appearance??????? I know Liam has said dumb fatphobia things which I don’t approve of, but if people could have just stfu about his body shape then he wouldn’t have thought being fat is something terrible. Would you just go and tell someone “hey idk why would someone like you over other people when other people just…. exist” like imagine you’re the one being told this…. then come back again tell me if that’s acceptable

anonymous asked:

How can you give away a Tom Hardy movie? The man is too glorious to pass up!

I picked This Means War and Jack Reacher, because I already own them. If I bought movies I own, then sending these ones off into the world was less of a struggle. Besides, if I give away Tom, someone else gets to enjoy his awesomeness. 

I’m just spreading the love bb :) Tuck is one of my favourite Tom characters, by giving the movie away, I can bestow that love in someone else. Hopefully. 

Originally posted by tom-hardy-everywhere

Originally posted by the-3rd-of-may

Originally posted by cutegroot

How can you not love Tuck? Look at him! Hot damn! I need to go watch this, I’ll be back. 

You can say what you want about the characters on HxH, specifically Killua, but you cannot deny the character development. I mean Killua was raised by ASSASSINS who have no mercy if it doesn’t benefit them and yet here’s Killua who manages to smile despite all the pain he must feel, someone who cries when he sees his best friend cry, someone who manages to have his own ideals despite being tortured into having someone else’s. I don’t know how you could possibly deny how well-written that character is.

There are some quality canon-deniers on my dash today.

I mean, who can deny the Sisters of Purification? They’re RIGHT THERE? Oh, what was that? Canon doesn’t matter anymore because you think Space Marines can only be dudes? Weren’t you harping on how canon was super important five minutes ago, until someone gave you proof that it WAS canon?

Keep up the good work, fluffsketeers. 

a piece of my body / lays itself flat / for someone else to comprehend / but how can he? with all the mist / that sits between us / this heavy fog: longing with its arms crossed over its bare chest / and I know that I have done harm / to the moon / by having seen it / 

       [I have done harm in permanent ways / I take the blame and tuck it in my pocket]

if there is love in me / I cannot deny it / even if it means autopsy, white paint around my form and knives stealing / dignity is no longer a word / I wait to read /

  Dear Lover,
  I surrender. Take the skin, the bones,
  the plastic touch. Whatever you want.
  Whatever keeps you where you are. 

though a note as such is hardly defeat– nudity, in any form, is a brave thing / 

                                               Keep me 

ok but really it’s a little impressive how totally Kylo Ren has missed the entire point of Darth Vader

like Kylo Ren’s going to extremes to deny his history and his family and like? Anakin’s entire motivation was protecting the people he loved? I mean he was kind of an awful shithead who got some wires crossed and decided that the best way to protect the people he loved was to gain control over everyone and everything that might possibly ever hurt someone he loved but. still. the moment you suggest to Vader that he’s got living family he starts plotting how he can get them where he can take care of them (you know, for sith-style tough love sometimes you gotta cut a hand off values of take care. he’s trying). it’s like the exact opposite of the shit Kylo Ren is pulling.

tbh one thing i find really weird about the whole topic and discussions of fat acceptence and all is that people are always like “you can be overweight and still healthy, it doesnt necessarily mean that youre unhealthy” and while thats true and all bodies are different and its certainly possible, i dont see how that should even have an impact on how we as a society view fat people in general. like, even IF someone is unhealthy because of their weight, that is no reason to deny them access to fashionable and affordable clothing, or representation in the media.

like im 100% for fighting the stereotype that you need to be skinny in order to be fit and healthy, but i also want everyone to remember that no one should be ashamed for being unhealthy

and to people who are like “but if we support an unhealthy lifestyle people wont be willing to get healthier”: unless an unhealthy overweight person comes to you and directly asks you for help, you can mind your own business. if someone wants to lose weight they should do it for their own sake because THEY want to do it. not because theyre shamed into it. making people feel bad about what they look like has nothing to do with health and if you pretend you are concerned about peoples safety and use that as an excuse to be a rude prick, please unfollow me

You know? I am so sad right now.
I think it’s crazy to cancel a beautiful piece of art like “Hannibal”. It’s like one of the best tv series I have ever seen and I’m still very mad about NBC’s decision. I MEAN WHAT?! It’s like destroying a Da Vinci’s painting, for me.

I’m talking as a Fannibal, but no one can deny how amazing Hannibal is.
And I really hope that someone else will give him a second chance.
#SaveHannibal

But seriously the fact that phrases like ‘you think you’re sooooo cool’, 'she thinks she’s so great’ and 'you think you’re hot shit’ etc etc are considered valid ways of insulting someone should tell you everything you need to know about our culture and how it teaches you true self esteem, love and pride is the worst thing you can have and you must deny you have these at all costs

This whole Bowie thing is driving me fucking crazy. He was a completely terrible fucking person for what he did, but stop fucking shitting on people mourning who grew up listening to him, unaware of his wrongdoings until recently (myself included). Bowie was influential to A LOT of people. To a lot of queer kids and “oddballs” and people questioning their identities. You can’t deny that. Feeling bad that someone whose music or art meant a lot to you has passed DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE AUTOMATICALLY EXCUSING THEM FOR WHAT THEY DID. You are allowed to feel upset over the passing of people no matter how terrible they are. Your sadness is still valid. Not everyone has the ability to separate their emotions like that so easily. I know when I heard of his death, Mark put on Space Oddity and I cried. Now browsing tumblr, I am feeling like my feelings are not allowed and invalid and frankly it’s fucking with my head. It’s not easy for me for just completely pull a 180 and turn around and not feel bad and hate him. Like I said, I am NOT excusing him for what he did. But he WAS influential and a role model to a lot of kids who felt like they didn’t fit in. Artists can become part of our identities and I think it’s super rude and shitty to shit on people for being influenced by art that has become a big part of their lives. Yes, they should also recognize that his actions were beyond awful, but they are also allowed to feel what they are feeling. Give people time to grieve and process everything that is happening.*

Those are my feelings on the subject and if you disagree then okay, whatever. 

And now back to regularly scheduled reblogging. 

*This of course does NOT include people who are saying it doesn’t matter what he did, because it does matter. This is about people who had no idea and are having a hard time processing everything in the wake of his death.

I do realize I'm asking for truble

May I just remind you all that by insulting Lee, you are also insulting Richard. Romance or bromance, Lee is someone who means a great deal to Richard. No one can deny that. So when you insult Lee, you also insult Richard because you insinuate he has bad judgement when it comes to people he chooses as friends and partners. If you think he’d be cool with that, you’re wrong and delusional.

And everyone who thinks their age and how many years they’ve been a fan makes them superior, you’re all wrong and you should all drop the holier-than-thou attitude you’ve got going.

For the 283349 time, RICHARD DOES NOT NEED ANY OF YOUR PROTECTION. He’s a grown ass man who is fully capable of taking care of himself! STOP treating him like he’s a fucking helpless infant.

What Richard needs, is your support and respect, not shriveled old women who go out of their way to insult someone important to him. He doesn’t need your homophobia and he doesn’t need you shitting one someone he loves. 

Yes, I’m pissed off and I know this post will be just stirring shit up, but I’m really sick of people throwing so much shit on Lee, which has been totally uncalled for. I get that 13 year old girls hate girlfriends/boyfriends of the celebrity they’re currently crushing on, but grown women with families and children? Grow the fuck up. 

And yes, I’m in your fucking holy tag. Look at my big bucket of care.

Bye.