How to Get Rich Quick as a Sugar Baby
1. Learn now that there is NO get rich quick formula.
This process takes times, and for many of us money…it takes money to make money honey! That said; some girls are lucky, some are in better areas(around men with fatter wallets), some are in a better position(i.e. have their own car/apt to travel and host) Everybody’s situation is different. Sugar babies are like snowflakes, no two are the same. The sooner you learn that and CAPITALIZE ON IT, the happier you will be. While you can’t get rich immediately there are ways of jumping into the bowl and starting on your best foot forward. It’s always better to start ahead than behind. That said brings me to #2
2. VET, VET, VET DO YOU RESEARCH.
Research your area, what’s normal for the girls around your area, How they look, How they dress what’s normal etc. Look up sample sugar accounts and see how they look. As for the men? Stalk the shit out of them make sure you reverse image search, if they give you a card search their name and company. Pretend he’s your man and he’s cheating on you with a woman at his job FIND EVERYTHING YOU CAN ON HIM. Yes sometimes they are apprehensive about giving too many personal details…rightfully so a sugar baby scorned can be a very dangerous thing. Girls out men to family members, jobs etc. But your safety comes first which leads me into the next point
3. YOUR SAFETY COMES FIRST
Please don’t be out here doing dumb shit, if it doesn’t occur to you that you should be meeting a strange new man in a public place BEFORE ever going to his hotel room, apt, etc…you’re too naive to be doing this in the first place. Being naive in the sugar game is enough to get you killed. I mean that literally. Tell someone, anyone where you will be meeting POTs, time, place, how long it should last. They don’t have to know, just tell them you have a date and just wanted someone to know your whereabouts whatever you have to say to keep them from asking too many questions. I have someone call me about 15 minutes into the date so if it’s going bad I can pretend it’s a family emergency and leave and if it’s going great I let them know I’ll call them when it’s over. This is important. Calling when it’s over keeps yo ass from getting kidnapped. Take heed to my warning dear women of the bowl. Say what you must to insure your saftey…bringing me to my next point
4. LIE, LIE, LIE..Fake it until you make it.
Fake name, fake adress, fake school, fake ID, fake everything. Keep yours lies IN ORDER! Men are oblivious…not stupid, they will notice if you say you go to NYU then say you go to Standford later on. Keep it simple. Keep it believable. Keep it together. Use the same lie for every POT /or/ use the same ~method~ of lying for each…make their alma mttern your school, their job your aspiration etc. Do not ever get so comfortable with an SD/SM/POT that you start giving out personal details. This is how you get caught, outed, or stalked. And those are not the worst of what can happen when an SD has your information. We know the world we live in, and while I may not care about family knowing I’m an SB I don’t need the implications of that ever getting back to the professional world.
5. Make business cards.
Have your sugar identity well put together. Be ready to deflect questions don’t ever give more than what he asked. If you have cards it makes you look more professional that’s bonus points..it let’s a POT know you don’t play. It makes your sugar identity more realistic. And hell, it helps you to remember your own sugar name, I forgot mine a few times when I first started lol
6. Cultivate your online identity. Make sure you use pictures that you don’t have on ANY other site other than sugar sites.
You don’t want him reverse image searching your most popular facbook/instagram/Twitter picture because we all know that’s a slippery slope to seeing a wholeeeeee Lotta people you know. THIS IS IMPORTANT: Facebook sometimes uses your location to show people if they should friend you, so please don’t be logged in when you meet with a client or POT…this goes for everybody escorts, full service sex workers, strippers etc. You do not want your personal Facebook page getting into the wrong hands. Make a fake Facebook and have that logged in…even if you don’t have the app open, or on if it’s used through other apps (like candy crush) you will come up in the suggested area. That is not something you want…there are posts about how to dismantle that. Find them.
7. Keep your vanilla life out of your sugar life.
I’m not saying your BF/GF has to go, but they have no place in conversations with your POT. Just because they may know about your sugar life doesn’t mean your sugar life has to know about them. And be careful who you tell, friends get jeaous. Significant others get jealous. Parents get defesive (at the fact that they cant provide for you and they dont agree with the way youve decided to provide for yourself). Be very careful about telling other hoes too, everybody’s your friend until you’re making more than them.
8. Tell a friend.
Seriously. It helps. Find a person you know won’t judge you, even if it’s just online and make them your confidante…it helps this life can be stressful. ONE PERSON
9. Back to fake it til you make it. Just cuz you don’t HAVE money, doesn’t mean you can’t LOOK like money.
Staple pieces are important in any collection. In the words of my savior Cardi B. LEARN TO BUDGET HOE. You can make a $20 outfit look like a $200 outfit depending on the shoes and jewelry you wear. Make sure your outfits don’t say too much. And make sure you’re dressed for the occassion. If you’re going to a dinner dress and heels should suffice play it up with your bag.. movies? Dress down a little bit, play it up on the jewelry. Shopping? Wear something comfortable to walk around in, but easy to change in and out of, men love seeing you try shit on! So flats, a sundress and a clutch; you’ll already have bags to take home don’t add another. You’re outfit doesn’t have to COST money to LOOK like money. Remember that. Especially since men have no taste and know shit about what’s name brand and what isn’t. Real name brand is on the tags not the item.
Staple pieces include(theres 100 of these so I’m not adding pictures):
•nice pair of blue jeans
•nice bikini & one piece
•cute but classy pair of shorts
•simple lightweight blazer
•plain neutral heels
• open toe shoes
•strappy sandles(trust me these are a must have they dress up ANY outfit)
• nice silky ~looking blouse..doesn’t actually have to be silk (forever 21)
• fitted nuetral button up shirt(s) that play up your boobs
•a good strapless bra
•a good pushup bra
•a good nude bra Black & Brown sugar babies nude is not one color, please get something that suits YOUR skin tone.
10. Trust your gut, and use common sense. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t!
If a POT scares you, leave! You owe no explanation. Excuse yourself and LEAVE. Your instincts are real do not ignore them, you can’t spend money if you’re dead. Play it smart ladies and stay safe. Staple saftey items you can find on Groupon, Amazon, Ebay or a local store near you:
•Portable flats aka roll up flats (can’t run in stilettos)
•Portable phone charger (life saver)
•Tazer(stun gun) check the laws of your state though
•Mase (legal everywhere)
•Incognito Knife (they come in cute designs such as pen, lipstick, key etc)
•A PERSON THAT KNOWS YOUR WHEREABOUTS I CANNOT STRESS THIS E-FUCKING-NOUGH
•Your common sense, no amount of money is worth your life Sugar!