Do you ever get that feeling that Rogue may sometimes be really unreasonable to Remy and that maybe, just maybe, she doesn't love him as much as he loves her? Boy was that painful to say, coming from a Romy shipper.
I don’t think either one of them loves the other more than the other, I think they love one another differently. They have different needs, desires, and insecurities, which is pretty normal for any couple. I think its those insecurities that make up the biggest problems for them. Rogue learned, out of necessity, how to be emotionally close to someone without touching, but never was able to satisfy her longing for a normal romantic relationship. Gambit had almost the exact opposite experience, having lots of physical intimacy, but little emotional involvement. So while Rogue feels insecure about the physical attributes of a romantic relationship, Remy finds it hard to believe they he is deserving of unconditional love. They need separate things to over-come these insecurities, which is a big factor on why they haven’t been able to settle down permanently together.