i loved their relationship so much ugh

What?

Did they really try to make the relationship that Barry and Iris have seem the same as what Kara and Mon-Ew have? Okay… So Barry is an amazing guy and he has known Iris his whole life. Mon-hell is someone who has seen a rom com and thinks that Kara should not be mad at him after like a few hours. Plus they know each other for like nine months.. How fucking dare they even try to make their relationship similar? You want to tell me that Mon-Ugh loves Kara as much as Iris loves Barry? I don’t even think that Lena (who I love with my everything btw) loves Kara that much but at least she showed us all that she is to be trusted and is such big help to Supergirl. But the writers couldn’t give Kara one episode to think about anything. Like the fact that they have a fight in every episode is not enough somehow? Suuuuuuuureeeeeeee. And for the love of all that is pure and gay can the writers STOP having Alex say that Mon-ew is good for her

let’s chat 9

Guys wtf Zoe and Joe are so cute like they’re brother/sister goals. The things they talk about and how often they hang out and like just the loving relationship they have, fuck I envy that so much my brother and I fight more than we do anything else. Like sure there are some good days but the majority of the time we’re just arguing. I would love to have a relationship like there’s. I envy it so fucking much ugh

10

jake peralta doing IT for/because of amy santiago

It wasn’t the distance that scared her. She was scared of the idea that he’ll find someone better in between their distance apart.
—  This is killing me.

Hera’s always been the best at making Ezra smile when his mind fills with memories of his parents of his life alone. 

She may not have experienced it. But that doesn’t mean she doesn’t understand. 

4

Love the Coopers (2015) dir. Jessie Nelson.

  • White Fangirls: I love when the male lead ends up with the girl next door or his childhood bff
  • *Girl is Black*
  • White Fangirls: um ... the girl next door thing is so cliched.
  • White Fangirls: I love when the male lead pines over the girl and she's oblivious
  • *Girl is Black*
  • White Fangirls: She's so CRUEL. Why doesn't she see he's in love with her? She's a bitch.
  • White Fangirls: I love when they go from partners to lovers. It's my favorite trope.
  • *Girl is Black*
  • White Fangirls: Why can't they just stay friends. Not every relationship is romantic. Ugh!
  • White Fangirls: I love when the female lead is more than just a love interest. I love when she has her own storyline and can kick ass.
  • *Girl is Black*
  • White Fangirls: Why do they focus on her so much? [Other white character] is so much more interesting.
  • White Fangirls: I don't understand why there aren't more strong female leads.
  • Me: *looks at all the strong Black female leads on TV*
  • Me: What about -
  • White Fangirls: There's just no strong, three-dimensional women on TV to root for. Sigh.

I am absolutely disgusted with all the homophobes on Facebook commenting on the new nygmobblepot post. Honestly get the fuck out of the comments and the fandom if you still haven’t come to ‘terms’ with the fact that Oswald Cobblepot is homosexual and is in love with Edward Nygma, a man. I don’t mind if you don’t ship nygmobblepot, but if you have a problem with them becoming a couple because it’ll be a GAY relationship then get out and don’t you dare comment so much negativity on an Official Gotham Page, or anywhere honestly. Nobody wants to hear the ramblings of a gross homophobic. Especially not the cast and crew and the fandom. 

Thank. You. Very. Much.

Me: Morby is so great. I love those boyfriends!
Them: But it’s not can-
Me: I LOVE THOSE BOYFRIENDS! >:((

honestly though my favorite thing about gintama is the way that sorachi illustrates that it is absolutely fine to rely on other people and accept their help and support while also emphasizing the importance of self-love and self-respect. like there’s no gross “i’d be nothing without you” or “you’re my whole world” aspect to the relationships, it’s about what makes them happiest, not what makes them “whole”

it’s shinpachi, gin, tae, etc who make life on earth so great for kagura, but when she chooses to stay instead of going home with her father, it’s not for them, it’s for her, because she’s happier there. shinpachi is a kind and helpful person by nature and tends to baby gin and kagura at times, but he never lets them use him as a doormat, no matter how much he loves them. tae originally agreed to marry kyuubei but in the end, she chose to go home because she wouldn’t be happy leaving her family behind, and even after everything she kept up her friendship with kyuubei, not because she felt that she owed them anything, but because she loved them so so much. it was gin’s forgiveness and support that gave sakamoto the strength to leave the war behind, but it was still ultimately sakamoto’s choice for his own sake. sakamoto gave mutsu an opportunity to build a better life for herself but it was still her who decided that the change needed to happen at all. shinpachi and kagura want to protect gin not because they couldn’t live without them, but because they don’t want to. they’re happier with him in their lives. i could go on, man.

i just think that there’s this kind of idea going around that without our loved ones, we aren’t whole, and that’s a dangerous idea. no matter how many people come and go in our lives, it doesn’t change our value as individuals or our ability to live fulfilling lives. is it important to have a good support system and surround ourselves with people who have a positive influence on our lives? absolutely yes. but when we go through lonelier parts of our lives when it seems like there’s just nobody around, does that mean that we’re somehow incomplete? fuck that, man.

gin doesn’t replace ken or hajime for shinpachi. toushi and kondo don’t replace mitsuba for sougo. eli doesn’t replace zura’s old joui family. shinpachi and kagura and otose don’t replace shouyou for gin. losing someone doesn’t leave a void for someone else to fill. 

the thing that makes the relationships in gintama so great is that they don’t complete one another so much as they help each other put the pieces of their own lives back together. they offer guidance and support and love and encouragement but in the end, the person they’re supporting comes to love themselves for themselves and do what they feel will make them happiest for their own sake. and that’s how it should be, really. 

*Fangirl/Bias Relationships*

Me: Look at him! Daddy AF! Yasss!

Also Me: Why is my son like this??? I didn’t raise him this way! Ugh my child!

Even More Me: Hmm… Do you think that he would mind if our first dance at our wedding was to his song? Is that weird?

Me to the Max: I want to kill him. This beautiful piece of filth needs to stop existing on my planet with his bouncy hair and flawless skin. I’m done. DONE!

8

You will learn, my dear, as women we control so little of our destiny. Men do. The outcome is that we hate each other, but we should not.

gif request meme // anon asked: the borgias + favorite platonic relationship

The Coach’s Daughter-Scott McCall

Part 2 of The Captain

Teen Wolf Imagine:#54 Prompt:#…none

Word Count: 2,512

Warnings: None?

A/n: Part 2 for The Captain, I’m so excited about this!! I loved writing the first one and I loved writing this one and I love Coach and ugh I hope you like it.

As you all probably have noticed the last few days/weeks (I don’t even know how much time has passed since it all happened) have been really rough on me and I don’t see an end to it any time soon. It was more than losing my grandfather it was like losing my dad, that’s the only thing I can equate our relationship to. Anyway enough with the sad, I appreciate you all being so patient with me during this difficult time. I don’t know when I will have another writing up as the next two I planned on doing are smuts and those are hard for me so just hold on with me a little bit longer. But until then I hope you enjoy this writing because it was really fun to write even though it might not be up to my usual standards of writing.

Originally posted by capatinswan

Masterlist

Coming Soon

Keep reading