Anon: dating dk?
Seokmin is the kind of boyfriend who’s loving but also needs to stfu. Like, he’s great and you adore him and he adores you but .. someone please stop him. His favourite past time is annoying you and he does it so well. He’s always sending you memes (”It’s 3 am, go to bed!!”) or teasing you or pulling your hair. He’s basically that boy in playschool who has a crush so he steals their crayons & makes them cry.
Except he’s an adult not a child.
But don’t read too much into his teasing.
The reason he bugs you so much is because he wants your constant attention, he wants to talk to you all the time, to hear your voice, even if it’s through annoying you. He knows there’s a limit and would never push past it. And if you seriously ask him to stop something, he 100% will. His joking is purely playful but he understands that jokes have their limits.
Humour is what he’s known for. It’s what he turns to in order deal with sadness or stress. And he aims to make others smile too and forget their worries. As they say, laughter is the best medicine.
So sometimes, under that bright smile of his, there’s a lot of not-so-bright emotions.
Idol life is stressful; he gets tired, he gets hungry and feels isolated and easily irritable. Keeping up a happy, perfect appearance can be hard, and is even harder with so many eyes on him. He sometimes feels lost in the group. His looks aren’t the typical idol type, his voice is always second best to Seungkwan, he’s not the best dancer, the best actor, the best .. anything.
So humour is his support.
And so are you.
He feels like he may annoy you sometimes but don’t let him think that, let him know that you will always listen to him. When the feelings & thoughts get too much for him, he always turns to you. Which only makes him love you more. And the boys love you for this too. They always know when Seokmin’s spoken to you because his smiles are much brighter and more free.
Since you mean so much him, the boys were weary of you at first. If you ever break his heart, just know there will be 11 angry boys and 1 short one wielding a guitar at your doorstep. But when they seen that you truly love and care for him, well, welcome to the family!! :D
They regularly invite you over to the dorm & interrupt DK when he wants to call or Skype you. Although he wants to talk to you alone sometimes, it also means so much that you and the guys get on so well.
The relationship is a relatively serious one, considering his age. Most guys his age are casually dating but with his lifestyle, he appreciates having someone constantly there to be his rock, having a partner to love and rely on. But you two have your .. less serious moments too.
Because, just like other guys his age, he has hormones and less than innocent thoughts. Living with so many others is frustrating because when he’s not busy with his career, he gets a solid 3 seconds alone time with you before one of the guys comes to ruin it.
You assure him there’s no rush with these type of things but he can’t help it, his body just takes the lead sometimes.
“Please, we can be quick -”
“COUPS HYUNG! SEOKMINNIE JUST TOUCHED Y/N’S BUTT!”
“asdfghjkl I wanna move out.”
To sum up, he’s very loving and warm. While he can be playful and silly at times, when it comes down to it, he adores you so much. He turns to you in his moments of need and will always be there when you need him. Even if he’s had a full day of practice and it’s 4 am, if you’re feeling down, he will run to you with a bucket of ice cream and your favourite movies. He remembers all the little things about you (how you got that scar when you were 4, how pumpkin spice makes you sneeze, and so on), since he truly listens when you talk, even if it may not seem like it. While the love you share is a serious one, you’re both not ready for anything too serious. There’s still a childish innocence from his age & inexperience and there’s nothing wrong with that. There’s no need to rush and just enjoy these moments are they come.