i love their relationship so hard

anonymous asked:

Okay you wanted questions, do you think Nymphadora was more like her mom or her dad?

(( OOC: I think she was the best of both of them. From Andromeda, she got her quick wit and her sharp tongue, plus her die-hard stubbornness and rebellious streak. But I think Tonks is much softer-hearted than her mum, which of course comes from Ted. Like seriously, god bless Ted Tonks. He’s an angel.

I think Tonks is one of the most passionate and emotional characters for me hello she cries at absolutely everything she’s an emotional wreck. She has this fierce ability to love people and not let go, no matter how much they feel they don’t deserve it, which is exactly what Ted Tonks did for Andromeda. So I love how Ted’s relationship with Andromeda and Tonks’s relationship with Remus mirror each other. Two equally stubborn individuals from completely different worlds who have to fight tooth and nail against war, prejudice, and their own self doubt just to love each other. And they love each other so much.

I’m so goddamn emotional someone help me. ))

A quick drawing of Jeff and Abed watching the first Die Hard movie. 

(it’s transparent!)

I’ve been rewatching Community over the last few weeks and am very into Jeff and Abed’s relationship (and may have a mighty need for Abed sitting on Jeff’s lap).

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anonymous asked:

Hi! I don't know if you've already written about this so if you did, feel free to ignore my question! I believe it is canon that Hannibal is in love with Will but struggle to see it as reciprocal. If unrequited, isn't the story ultimately a variation of the old and kinda derogatory tale "non-straight guy falls for straight male friend" and is doomed to pine forever because straight friend will never love him back in *that* (erotic, sensual, sexual, you name it) way? What do you think?

“If unrequited”… that’s a pretty big if! Like you I tend to stress Will as an oppositional force in his relationship with Hannibal. His reluctance and resistance are so very important to me! But I still find it mighty hard, outright impossible really, to declare outright that Hannibal’s love for Will is unrequited. While it’s debatable whether Will returns Hannibal’s love in kind, it seems to me incontrovertible that he does return it in his own way. That’s the problem for Will. If he didn’t return Hannibal’s love, his life would be ten million times easier. So the equivalent tale wouldn’t be ‘non-straight guy falls for straight friend;’ it’d be something more along the lines of ‘non-straight guy falls for tormented, closeted friend.’

Hannibal is definitely doomed to pine – and personally I thank god for it everyday – but that’s due to the fact that the demands he makes of Will as a partner are so impossible for Will to comply with. Those demands don’t spring from Hannibal’s sexuality or the hot burning fire of his love – maybe then it would fit into the mold of the derogatory trope (TV Tropes calls it “gayngst”) in which a non-straight man is depicted as predatory and undeserving of affection? Hannibal’s demands are mostly concerning aestheticized murder. He commits acts of cruelty that he sees as beautiful, and he wants Will to join him in committing those acts together. If Will were to embrace and accept Hannibal, he’d have to embrace and accept the very real, very present part of himself that relishes in brutal violence, and Will just can’t do that, even though Hannibal is convinced he’d be a happier person for it.

I’m leery of trying to use analysis to make stories conform to tropes, derogatory or otherwise, because I am a big believer that a good story is ALWAYS going to push against the confines of a trope. A good story should be so jam-packed with complexity, ambiguity, and contradictory character motivation that it can’t be pigeon-holed into a simple logline of ‘older man loves a younger man who can’t love him back.’ But good stories are often aware of the tropes they intersect with, and can even play off of them for artistic effect. Hannibal’s Florentine moping in S3 has self-conscious shades of gayngst. Hannibal transforms himself into a deliberate stereotype in a fit of petulant spite – he does Death in Venice except it’s Death in Florence. It’s romantic and absurd. There isn’t enough Montrachet in the world for Bedelia to cope with that.

And then there’s fanfic, which does all sorts of interesting things with familiar tropes. For instance in Greatest Show (self-pimpery of hiatus-fic, whoops!), Hannibal pines for Will with the force of a shimmering supernova; it’s real, but it also becomes a performance to which he’s inviting other people to react. And because other people don’t understand Hannibal and Will’s relationship, they have only the familiar trope to guide them. Thus gayngst becomes a framework for how Hannibal himself wants that relationship perceived. He sees the trope, he works the trope, it’s just one of many tools he can use to manipulate people and shape his ends. I think if you as a writer have a perspective on a trope, if you’re cultivating an angle, then you’re already haring towards something socially conscious and original.

anonymous asked:

Do you believe in love? Idk what I think about it.. To me its a fairytale or an idea that isn't real. It doesn't make any sense and it seems unrealistic. You seem like the kind of closed off type in that department.. well from what I can tell you aren't looking for a relationship (I don't want to assume anything correct me if I'm wrong!) but what are your thoughts on love? Is it real or a temporary feeling of happiness and unrealistic, unattainable.. and the pain really doesn't see worth it..

Oh you’re so wrong. I have a very hard outer shell that makes people think I’m a “hard ass”. But that’s simply not the case.
I’m a huge softy that loves to love. I believe in true love and I believe in soulmates.
I believe everybody has that certain someone that becomes their missing puzzle piece.
I, personally, cannot wait to find the love of my life and best friend. I’m currently working on my puzzle by myself. I just need someone to come along and help me finish it.

tagged by @orangeyouglad8

Relationship status: proper gay married
Favourite colour: turquoise and teal
Lipstick or chapstick: Lucas’ Papaw Ointment all day erry day. I would drop down and die without it.
Last song i listened to: I Feel Love - Donna Summer
Last movie i watched: I haven’t had time to watch a film in weeks and weeks so I actually can’t remember. I’m planning to watch The Handmaiden this weekend though. 
Top three tv shows: Of all time? Because that’s hard and I can’t pick just three. But I can choose one which is obvs Buffy. 
Top three characters: Again, just three is hard. And is this just for tv shows? I guess Faith Lehane, Leslie Knope, Lexa. 
Top three ships: Fuffy, Clexa, Shoot

tagging: @hedahaven @blue-kiko @pr1deandj0y

this clip resonated so hard with me. i always have this underlying fear that i’ll meet The One and they won’t be the same faith as me. my parents would never accept the relationship.

Just a little PSA. I am the literal worst about talking to people until I get to know them. I feel like I am missing out on so many writing partners/plots because I just won’t pop into their inbox. All because I feel like my ideas might not be good enough, I have NO ideas, or they have already done that plot 67 times. If it’s not as hard for you to approach people as it is me then will you please just pop in and chat with me so we can get to know each other. I want those amazing rp relationships everyone else seems to have. I want that main partner who feels extremely excited when I get online. Scream at me from the rooftops if you would like to write with me. Knock down my door with phenomenal enthusiasm and i will most likely love you forever.

Rules: tag 9 people you want to get to know better! tagged by @maalacath

Relationship Status:
In August I’ll have been with my partner for 7 years :D

Favorite color:
this question is hard because all colours look lovely in the right place/combination :(

Lipstick or chapstick?:
i mean i love lipstick SO MUCH but only sometimes?

Last song I listened to:
I don’t remember, I’ve had disco playing in my head since last Saturday though. September - Earth Wind & Fire or Get Down Saturday Night - Oliver Cheatham

Last movie I watched:
I watched 30 mins of Guardians of the Galaxy because I was tired and bored and it was on tv last night. i’m not into it tbh.

Top 3 fictional characters: i mean pick any of my ocs but I guess.. Space Husband Kaidan, any of ALMSIVI, and most of the Daedra. Too many good characters to pick ??

Top 3 ships: ehhhhhh idk? (My) FemShep/Kaidan, (my eso Khaj) Jiira-dra and Captain Jimila and I guess Vehk/Ayem

Books I’m currently reading: I’m slowly making my way through all the Lovecraft I have on my kindle, currently still on The Horror at Red Hook. After that, Bloodchild by Octavia E. Butler. But there’s so much i wanna read :o

Tagging: no idea if people have already done it but w/e do it if you want.. applies to any tes mutuals tho c:

@jerallmountains @snowelves @mistressdratha @pondwitch @ratwhisperer @glarthir @gravemom @namira @pelinal

This is so hard for us emotionally abused. But it is okay to say no. It’s okay to set boundaries. You are not being selfish nor awful!

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Happy anniversary to my favoritest couple on the face of this earth <3

(WEDDING PHOTOS ARE BY JENNY HAAS PHOTOGRAPHY. The rest of the photos are from Tyler and Jenna’s Instagrams. [[@ jennaajoseph + @ tylerrjoseph ]])

“I’m thirty-four and I haven’t felt real love yet. Sometimes I think: ‘Maybe it’s me. Maybe I’ll never get to that point.’ I’ve had a couple of relationships. But a woman has never really made me feel jealous. And I’ve never felt that I would do anything to be with another person. I’ve read about real love in books, and seen it in movies, but I’ve never felt it. Like in the Titanic movie– they are trying so hard to be together. That is hard for me to understand. I’m not sure what that would feel like. There is one movie with Winona Ryder where she is about to join a monastery, but then she meets a gardener, and she kisses him, and suddenly she feels real love. I’m not sure what love feels like. But I’m guessing I’ll know when I feel it. Like Winona Ryder knew.”

(Rosario, Argentina)

I know I’m hard to deal with at times, but I want you to know that even if I say things I don’t mean, I will always love you for putting up with me. Don’t forget that.
—  Poets Love Her
without really meaning it

The Way You Said “I Love You” Prompts
@stileslydiah requested “24. Without really meaning it”

Watching Derek dote on someone is hard – harder than Stiles thought it would ever be, despite the fact he knows it’s insincere; despite the fact it’s the job and nothing more.

 It’s hard because Stiles hasn’t had those arms around him in months, hasn’t had opportunity to arrange a chance meeting on a crowded street in weeks, hasn’t had Derek’s eyes meet his and watched his mouth curl into a smile for him.

 Derek’s team have been fairly indulgent, letting Stiles tag along on the assignment to observe and allowing him to blend with various crowds just to be close to Derek. Early on, before Derek insinuated himself into their mark’s life, they even allowed them to talk on the phone, but that might as well have been in another lifetime.

 Sometimes, Stiles hates his job, hates Derek’s job, hates the fact they’d never have met if it wasn’t for their jobs because then he can’t hate it as much.

 Stiles is across the restaurant and he can’t tear his eyes away from the back of Derek’s head for more than a few seconds at a time, usually at the prompting of the agent he’s sitting across from.

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One company dropped its advertising for our show in one of the early seasons, because they didn’t agree with the relationship. And I was like, “No shit, our relationship is illegal!” And Marlene said, “No, it’s not yours, it’s Emily’s relationship [that’s the problem].” So I could be seen as a statutory rapist, and people are like, “I know, but love knows no bounds, as long as there is a penis and a vagina involved.”
—  Ian Harding (x
I’ve been thinking a lot about “us” lately and everything that we were and weren’t and the more I think the more I realize how we fell apart before we even got a chance to fall together. . 
and you know, I’ve spent so much time going through every single message, every phone call, every memory, just trying to figure out where it all went wrong, where we lost it all. But I never stopped to think, what if we never had it right? and now that I’m finally thinking that, I’m realizing how we never even had anything to lose in the first place.
because okay, sure, you were here, and trust me I know you were because I put more emphasis on that than it deserved. So, yes. yes. YES, YOU WERE HERE! but that didn’t change the fact that this was one sided from the beginning. Because, although you were here, you didn’t want to be, your heart was never with it.
It was always me, It was me carrying the weight of our conversations on my back, it was me who was turning your one worded replies into poetry and it was me who made this “relationship” enough for the both of us. and I never even noticed because I was so convinced that you loved me, but the thing with one sided relationships is, they always catch up to you and in our case, the only reason it caught up to us is because there was nothing else to distract me from it because you stopped being here. the only god damn thing you contributed was just physically being here and even that, became too much for you to do.
And I have so much love inside me that I COULD love for the both of us, I mean I have BEEN loving for the both of us and I would of continued carrying this relationship on my back because I saw so much in you that it was so hard for me to realize that there was nothing actually there cause I wanted something to be there so badly. But I can’t make you be here, I could turn one worded replies into something but I can’t make something out of nothing, and trust me I wish I could of. I wish I could of saved us, I used to stay up all night wondering how I could turn back time, How I could save our downfall but now I realize. Nothing could of saved us. you can’t make people love you and you can’t give people things without stopping to ask if they even want it, and in our case I gave you my heart without even hesitating to check if you wanted it. and thats where I went wrong. 
I still love you, but I’ve accepted the fact that we were never real and that we probably will always be just in my head.
—  Your heart was never with me

By now, I’m convinced that the Supergirl writers had to write the Karamel romance against their will, and they’re making many of the characters on this show make fun of him as a way to rebel against their evil CW overlords.

And no one has given more reasons why she shouldn’t be with Mon-El than Kara herself. In almost every single episode she comes up with a list of things that show how they are not good for each other, but every single time she ends up ignoring her own instincts by the end of the episode.

How do people find this attractive? Mon-El’s jealousy in this episode was terrible, fighting for Kara’s hand as if he has any right to actually make that decision.

“You can’t force love.”

That’s an actual quote from tonight’s episode, and I laughed so hard I started choking. How can they write something like that and then force this relationship between Kara and Mon-El? Mon-El was extremely douchey in this episode, Kara called him out on it more than once, but in the end they still kissed. What the hell?

And exactly how was all of THIS a Sanvers episode? It STILL somehow managed to revolve around Mon-El. There was more chemistry between Winn and that alien than there was between Kara and Mon-El in half a season. How is Mon-El apologizing for being a jerk in almost every single episode considered character development?

I just…I just don’t get it. How many times are they going to make Kara speak her mind and then completely erase everything she said during an ending scene with Mon-El because he smiles at her? How is this at all empowering to women?

sorry but it’s 1 am and I feel some type of way, a yearning for a more simple time in my life when I wasn’t on the chase for something and was 100% unsure of my self but just kicked back and headed into the unknown, when I had a boyfriend by my side who wasn’t at all what I wanted and I’m unsure if I ever loved, but who I spent spring and summer days drifting away with in his cute little suburban neighborhood, only a bus stop away from mine.

and now it’s all gone by so fast, and here I am 2-3 years later, still a little unsure of myself. the picture is clearer and the ride is rougher than I could’ve ever imagined. relationships and every other outcome got so much more intense and real that I felt compelled to build walls around myself. life is hard. flash forward another 2-3 years, and I imagine it’s only going to get harder. I just want to bathe in simplicity once in a while but there’s no real passion in there.