in regard to the Finn discourse, i just wanna say one last thing before i leave it alone. being a fan is about more than simply liking an actor. it’s about more than admiring them or thinking they’re cute or funny or whatever. it’s about respecting that actor as a person. i have no doubt that the fans who are giving finn a hard time on social media aren’t trying to come across as rude or negative– they do it because they love him and they love the show, and they’re invested in it. but you have to understand that asking invasive questions about people’s personal lives and holding them up to ridiculous standards and crossing lines that ultimately embarrass that actor is not respectful no matter what your intentions are.