I know you’re all fucking deceased at this point and probably have no idea what to believe but I’m just gonna say it because I know a lot of people are feeling the same
Even if they brought Thomas back it doesnt make it ok for them to just make silverflint platonic. Not after 4 seasons of relationship development and build up, not to mention the amount of paralells we’ve been given with them and other canon romantic couples. Toby saying that Silver is the love of Flint’s life without them being canon and flinthamilton being endgame just doesn’t add up
The only way I can see any of this making sense would be if they were to make Silver and Flint’s feelings for each other canon, and the tragedy of it all in the end being James choosing Thomas and John choosing Madi
“It is some kind of hell to be forced to choose one irreplaceable thing over another”
Honestly, I feel like the entire supercorp, and supergirl fandom in general would be happy with karaxjames. Cuz first of all they firm a pretty healthy relationship which is 257173638x OK with me, and Straights will be decently satisfied. No need to be overdramatic and pair her up with a mistake(I meant to write mysoginist, but autocorrect knows whats up!!). I cant speak for all, but would you agree?
i know a lot of people who would be really happy with karolsen including me. like it was a healthy, loving relationship i really can’t believed they dropped it for something as nasty and abusive as karamel honestly
Because when she smiles, when she’s laughing, it’s like all the planets and stars are aligned and it’s the greatest feeling in the world to see the person you’re in love with just being happy.
I’m in love with her. It’s a fact.
Because when she’s upset, when she cries, it’s like a knife being plunged into my chest, slowly twisting. It just breaks my heart to know that something or someone has punctured her heart and caused her pain. It’s a horrible feeling to see the person you’re in love feel so hurt.
I’d do anything to make her happy and I’d do anything not to make her cry. Because she is my heart and I want to be with her for as long as she’ll let me. And I want to keep it that way.
[In which Jace and Alec were lovers (a.k.a Jace reciprocated Alec’s feelings), but having to keep it a secret, since it’s forbidden for parabatai, brings a lot of pressure on their relationship causing them to break up. However, no matter all the things keeping them apart, they always gravitate towards each other.]
Can I have at least one Danvers Sisters scene where they don’t mention Maggie nor Mon-*l?
I miss them cuddling up on the couch, eating Potstickers and just being there for each other.
Lately it seems like it’s all about their relationships and as much as I love hearing Alex talking about Maggie, I am in desperate need of just some Danvers Sisters time about the two of them, no one else involved.
And I mean, for beginning to end, no changing topics in the middle of the conversation!
Guys I’ve never been so obsessed and so freaking in love with a couple like Westallen. I literally cannot watch a single second of their scenes without crying and screaming. We are blessed with cuteness and beauty and grace that is Westallen and I just cannot handle it. I love both of them as individuals but they together… oh boy it’s all I want in my life because they are literally everything 😍😍 I can hear my heart break when I see how much these two are loving each other and honestly if you don’t agree you can fight me because I’m gonna defend them till my last breath (which I have no doubt will be because of them; let’s be honest I died a couple of times in the past watching them and that’s how I would wanna go 😂).
Please tell me I’m not the only one who feels like my soul and heart are getting ripped out every time I see them and loving it because they are literally goals 🙌🏾❤️ I’m thankful that the writers gave (and still giving) us this healthy relationship and I’m thankful for the fandom cuz no matter where you’re from or who you are the love we feel for Westallen connects us and we would pretty much start a war if anything would happen to them 😂😘
P.S. they are so sweet I can’t even choose a gif without wanting to cry ❣️🤷🏾♀️💁🏾
hiiii here the oscar anon (i like to think that's my name) i know you've been busy but i just wanted to say i cannnnnnnnnnnnot wait for the oscars special <3 all the fluff all the love all the jfkjdfhdksjaf you know
Hello my lovely!
I’ve been busy indeed, but never too much to give a lil’ cookie to my oscar anon ;).
Here you go, cupcake:
Alec seems hesitant for a second but he quickly relaxes, clearing his throat. “Nothing has really changed,” he says truthfully. “We were already close friends but we were able to separate our private and professional relationships before and we keep doing it. I still yell at him when he’s being stubborn and he still refuses to listen to me.”
“That’s not true!” Magnus protests. “I listen to you!”
“After hours-long arguments and the occasional blackmail,” Alec deadpans.
“You can be very persuasive,” Magnus purrs, his lips curling at the corner in wickedness.
Alec rolls his eyes and throws a desperate, see-what-I’m-dealing-with look at Aline, but it doesn’t manage to hide the way his cheeks flush slightly.
Have a great day/evening/morning/night/whatever, oscar anon <3
i love love ❤️ i want to be full of nothing but love. for all of my friends and my family i want to be the positive and loving one. for strangers having a bad day i want to be the one that brightens it. for my future partner i want to be the one person they can count on for happiness. i am full of love and i am not going to hide it anymore. ❣
I had no problem with the show not shwoing a Malec sex scene since all scenes we have seen with two people in bed was only for hook-ups and not real romance.
Magnus and Alec are sharing a real romance, they are a real relationship. It is not a casual love affair (As Alec said in that episode again, he wants this relationship)
People were saying that it was homophobic that they just went over like that without being more explicit because it was two guys. Here again, I don’t really agree; if they were homophobic at all, they wouldn’t bother showing us the progression of Magnus and Alec’s relationship.
Now, onto the next issue; Simon and Clary are a thing from this ep. As previously said, they have only showed casual hook-ups so far. So I’m telling you this; if they do show us a Simon and Clary bed scene (if they want to go that way with that pair), then maybe I’ll be seriously pissed off and reconsider my judgement.
I’ll give them the benefit of the doubt since I want to enjoy as much as I can the last 2 eps we have before angel knows when.
ok im bored as shit and pidge is my main muse rn so im just gonna have to say fuck it and throw Pidge into smth else lmfao.
just. as of now, all of Pidge’s drama w Shiro’s arm? none of that happened. I deleted a lot of the posts from today, but bc my mobile data is trash, I can’t go far enough back to delete everything but uh.
as of now I guess? that’s the biggest change? I might age them back down to 14 or 15 idk I just usually dont? change canon ages? bc I don’t see the point, and Pidge being 14 makes it so much more heartbreaking that they’re goin through all this shit for some reason idk.
SO UH maybe lms if you can? just so I have an idea who all’s up to speed with this whole soft reset bs.
i hate that they were so dismissive of maggie's feelings and treated her triggered reaction to a life-changing-traumatazing memory like it was freaking tantrum, a "pet peeve". not to mention kara's shovel talk, reinforcing the idea that just bc you're now in a happy and healthy relationship, you're suddenly all 'healed' and all the pain you went through is gone. it doesn't work like that [cont]
[cont] loving and being loved like that, having a strong support system,
having people who will be there for your is so, so important. but no
one will/should fight your battles for you. healing and finding
happiness is a process, one that doesn’t happen over night bc you’re now
on a stable relatioship. that whole “clean up you act bc alex loves
you” was so problematic, i honestly could vent about it for hours *sigh*
This is so well said, darling. So so so well said. I am so proud of you for putting such beautiful, perfect words to such important things.
For my part, I put it mostly into fiction. Hopefully this can soothe/erase/re-canon the awfulness of this episode. I am sending you so much love, darling <3 <3 <3
I seriously can’t believe they made kar*mel happen, like okay, if all they wanted was to write him as kara’s love interest why write him like that? why didn’t they write him like they wrote james, or lena, or anyone who has respected and supported her? why write him as abussive, possesive? just to show that that is cute?, that that’s how they fall in love with each other?, they’re writting such a good couple with sanvers, and failing so hard with kar*mel, like seriously, do they even’t realize what they’re writting? can’t they compare what they’re doing? if all they wanted was kara to get with mon hell why write such an awful story for them? they’re showing that their awful relationship, and how they act and treat each other is something good, something to look up.
I just can’t believe it, I mean, I can, but i really hoped that they would do better
the point is, if they wanted so bad for kar*mel to happen, why write it so badly, so awfuly
There's nothing wrong with allowing yourself to heal through rewriting a traumatic experience - an essay based on personal experience.
I just want to say that, in real life, when you’re an adult, you do have to, sometimes, go past old traumas in order to improve your life. Maggie says herself “well, life is too short!”. There’s no shame or belittlement in trying to build yourself a new memory to replace a traumatic one. That’s not ignoring one’s feelings. That is acknowledging that you found a reason strong enough to go past that. Speaking from experience, Maggie’s actions are completely relatable.
And as much as this fandom loves to fantasise a brotp between Maggie and Kara, this relationship doesn’t exist. Those two characters don’t have a relationship. At least not yet. They literally shared two scenes without Alex and they were both work related. So as far as I can see, there’s no Brotp. All Kara knew was that her sister, the person she loves the most in the world, was super excited for valentine’s and then she was not. And guess what, she’s upset now because of Maggie. Again. The same Maggie who made Alex be sobbing on the sofa not long ago. So Alex tells Kara what happened and Kara might feel bad for Maggie but her sister is upset and as far as I know, no one’s feelings are more important than Alex’s for Kara. So you really think Kara would just overlook how sad Alex is and prioritise Maggie’s feelings? No, she would do what she did and tell Maggie - let me remind you again, a person she doesn’t really know at all and has no relationship with yet - “hey, I know you’re experience is not good, but hey, how about you act like the adult you are and don’t let this ruin yet another valentine’s day for yourself because this is not school and that girl, my sister, does like you back and all she wants is to make good memories with you”. Not with these words obviously.
And Maggie does what she does for Alex because Alex is worth it. Alex is worth changing that traumatic memory. Sometimes, all we need is a little push from an outside source to make us stop bathing in our own filth for fucking ever. Some people don’t want to be miserable about past stuff forever and Maggie is one of those people and do you know what? There’s nothing wrong with that. I really don’t see Maggie’s apologies as her apologising for not liking Valentine’s day. I see it as her apologising for walking off when Alex did nothing but listen to her. Also, Maggie never said “ah OK I love valentine’s day now”. She said “you’re the woman who COULD MAKE ME like valentine’s day”. As in “I found a reason that seems to be good enough to let myself heal from my traumatic past experience”. Maggie has feelings too, that is correct but the way I see it, she decided to stop giving a loud voice to these bad feelings and, at the same time, providing to her girlfriend what she wanted, which is going to help her heal. Again, as she said, Alex could make her like valentine’s day. She saw a chance and she’s taking it. And the way Alex is, her body language, her insecure tone when she asks “don’t you hate all this?” shows to me that she more than acknowledges Maggie’s feelings, but she’s questioning why is Maggie doing it if she hates it. And Maggie tells her that it’s because she could make her like valentine’s day, And that’s exactly what she’s doing. Healing instead of perpetuating this pain.
To be honest, I don’t know how old is the average watcher of Supergirl, but after almost 32 years navigating this mess of a world, I really think Maggie carried this whole situation as most adults who are tired of suffering would.
Anyway, this is how I see it based on my personal experience with trauma and healing.
What I think a common misconception about Aquarians is that we’re detached and unfeeling in relationships. Every aquarian I know personally (myself included) loved hard and falls fast. We have no problem expressing emotion and we feel everything oftentimes all at once. Idk where this idea came from that it takes us a long time to feel anything for anyone and that we tend to be cold and disconnected emotionally.
I don’t pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me. Love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person. Love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of. Love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak in the knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.
It makes me so sad that Isak doesn't have a good home life. Like yeah he has Even and he's comfortable (or learning to be) with himself but like, Even can't fix those wounds for him? And even with his mom accepting him and whatever, their relationship is obviously still rocky so like... idk it makes me so sad knowing that Isak has to go through that with the ppl who are supposed to love & care for him more than anything else :/
Awww my gosh yes It actually makes me super sad because all though I am confident that the rift between Isak and his parents is finally starting to mend, I can’t help but think of everything he went through. Like we never saw or were specifically told what exactly Isak dealt with in that house. Only that it was so bad that he had to get out of there.
I feel like there were some extremely scary and confusing and terribly hard times in that house and it makes me so sad and proud of Isak. Of everything he has overcome. I also still believe that Isak put a lot of the blame that happened with his mother and his parents on himself. It just makes so much sense. he has so much self doubt. When Even broke up with Sonja Isak literally swallowed all of his feelings to check if Even was sad and to say sorry for that. and then when he discovered that Even has bipolar he truly believed it was his fault that he was sad. So I really think, that he believed that he made his mother depressed and this just ahhhh it breaks my heart.
So... my ex boyfriend is seeing someone new now and it just breaks my heart so much. He's doing all the cute nice things for her that he never did for me... and I'm like do I not deserve that was I not good enough for him.. I deleted all the social media apps so i can stop lurking on their accounts.. yeals how dumb am I. I've never loved someone that much even though his love for me wasn't the same... idk what to do
Sometimes we can’t help how much we love someone .. and that’s not our faults. That’s just something you have to be patient with. This won’t be the last time loving someone.
As for feeling not good enough to be treated like someone else.. DONT. You never know what a relationship is like unless you are directly involved. You may see happy pics but that’s all we post as humans. The good times.
Hearing that he’s treating someone else good means you had a good affect on him and you will with another soul that will appreciate and return the favor. You’re worthy