so me and my boyfriend are playing Life Is Strange on his PS4 and I mentioned it being kind of popular lesbian stuff and he just looked at me all confused like: whaat what lesbian there are none… wait you mean Chloe and Max… they are friends..umm but they are cute…ummmmmm I don’t know Kate.
*3 hours later*
Chloe: If you’re hardcore then kiss me Max choice one: Kiss Chloe choice two: don’t kiss Chloe
me: ooooh yeeesss finally boyfriend looks at me grinning while I laugh and try to steal the controller from him: ooooooooookaaay you were right *he himself hits option one*
HAPPY (LONDON) PRIDE TO ALL MY LGBT FOOLS! i know we all did pride month already but here in london, we dont throw our big party til july! it’s one of my fave days of the year and i’m always all tingly for days after 🌈✨
You tell us that genders are equal, then laugh at the struggles of trans people. You tell us race doesn’t matter, then stay silent when we are killed. You tell us LGBTQ+ people are equal now, yet still make “fag” and “queer” jokes.
This is a call to revolution. The battle did not start with Trump and it will not end with Trump. We have to keep fighting.
The revolution is coming…and it’s brown, queer, and trans. Femme fatales, unite!
(In case you guys are wondering, my Halloween costume is a femme fatale)
I am so delighted right now - look at these amazing queer chevron things that @scribbleowl found in the wild at ECCC! As soon as I have the website where they may be purchased I’ll add it, or if someone knows, plz add the link. Look, @officialqueer!
how did it ever take me so long to realise I am attracted to women and want more tv shows with women kissing and having like complicated relationships with assassins and stuff?
because we see so few of them that it's hard to recognise a preference
I mean. Okay, this is probably oversharing? But. I was so... I dunno, repressed? Uncertain? SOMETHING... that I think I felt actually lust - I mean looking at someone and having a frisson of pantsfeelings - maybe twice between the age of fifteen and twenty-five. it's sort of no wonder I thought I was mostly asexual.
dude, I totally get it. even now, I still constantly wonder if I'm *really* bisexual, because internalised bullshit
it's like... we're taught that Being Queer is this thing you are *constantly*, like queerness is a constant obvious unmistakable performance, like we're constantly gonna be walking around thinking LOOK AT HOW FUCKING QUEER I AM, right? and okay, yeah, there are days and moments where that's true, but sometimes you're just existing, you aren't thinking about your sexuality at all, and precisely *because* you're not thinking about it, this bullshit voice pipes up with "well maybe you're not REALLY queer if it's not consciously dominating your EVERY WAKING MOMENT", because that's what straight homophobes and relentlessly heteronormative stereotyping has taught us that queerness IS
as though straight people ever look up from the middle of a fucking soy latte and think, 'gosh, it's been HOURS since I had a sexual thought about a member of the opposite sex - does that mean I'm really gay?' BAH