A Message to the Supergirl Fandom and just about ship wars in general
First off, Ship whoever you want. I don’t care. Say whatever you want about whatever characters you want if it makes you feel validated.
But please please remember that when you send hate messages to people and spam their tags and essentially force them to see how much your pretentious ass hates their favorite character, you’re putting a real human being beneath a fictional effing character, played by an actor, made up by a whole bunch of writers who don’t care about you at all. Lena Luthor, Mon-El, Kara Danvers, insert character name here… They aren’t real. They. Are. Fake. The person you just told to kill themselves because they prefer X over Y? They’re real. And you’re putting it in their tags and their inboxes. You clearly put it there to either get a reaction or to make them feel like crap, so don’t deny it, and don’t say (as some anti-karamels that I’ve seen have been) ‘it’s because they’re homophobes/racists/ so intolerant of XYZ!’
When you try to make someone feel like crap for having opinions opposing to yours, you’re the intolerant one.
They have an opinion. So do you. The end.