i like you best when you don't speak

anonymous asked:

I love that post you did a while ago about Pidge actually enjoying Lance's company and how Lance can be himself around her like how sweet! Do you have any headcannons about their relationship? (Either ship wise or just as best bros?)

Listen, I have so many thoughts about Pidge and Lance. Enough that I had to drag myself out of bed and onto my laptop to answer this, because my phone just won’t do. I’m gonna start with brOtp Pidge and Lance, because that’s my jam. 

  • After their initial meetup kerfuffle at the Garrison, Pidge and Lance actually become very close.
  • They’re actually known around the Garrison for their joint effort shenanigans: “Gunderson and McClain are running a poker tournament in their room again tonight.” “I hate playing against them, they always wipe me out of my allowance.” 
  • Total Weebs™. Pidge used to make fun of Lance for watching entry level anime and completely imparted her fathomless depths of anime recommendations on him. 
  • Lance taught Pidge how to swim.  
  • Pidge= makeshift stuffed animal.  Lance has a bad day and just needs to hold onto something or someone, he’s carrying Pidge right onto the couch and squishing his face into her tummy, because she’s soft and warm and plays with his hair and tells him that it’s going to be okay.  
  • Not afraid of crying around each other. 
  • Pidge makes an active effort to learn Spanish (like her attempts at Altean, only more successful).  She doesn’t really ever speak it to him, but it’s important that she learns her best friends first language. 
  • Lance has Protective Mom Mode: “Pidge, sunscreen, this planet has no shade!” “I got you a headband so you can keep all of that hair out of your eyes, it’s dangerous on missions.” 
  • Radio Lance, sings to Pidge when no one’s around and she’s lonely.  Does a rad cover of ‘Steal my Sunshine’ by Len.

I hope my presentation has convinced you all to get on the winning team of Best Friends 5eva Pidge and Lance



We won’t be silent. We will speak out. And we will persist.

yesthegirlofmanyfandoms-part2  asked:

Hi! I don't know if you've answered this already but.. is it rude/offensive to refer to entities like thunderbirds, skin walkers, etc. As criptids? I ask because I've heard conflicting things and I'm just very confused on the whole thing (Also I recognize you don't speak for all native Americans but I do greatly respect your opinion and would like to hear your input)

Thank you.  Like you said, I can’t speak for every Indian, but I personally don’t like it too much when religious beliefs get boiled down to mythology.  I may not have grown up with those beliefs (I’ve been to NAC like…twice?), but I would never tell a Christian that Jesus wasn’t real or a Muslim that Muhammad wasn’t the final prophet.  Thunderbirds are a religious symbol, and to the best of my understanding, Skinwalkers are as well.

anonymous asked:

How would the RFA + V and Saeran react to a bilingual MC, who uses a word in another language when she can't think of the right one in the language she's speaking? (I do this a lot with French + English, and my friends who don't speak French always give me weird looks :( )


The language I picked was the language (Punjabi) I speak at home, but I didn’t know how to spell it in english but I tried my best!!! (Most of these are actually my own experience) (Also sorry I didn’t use several languages, i just like putting my own personal stuff in here sometimes) 404 did the non-Punjabi ones! ~ Admin 626

-He convinced you to play LOLOL with him!!!
-Big mistake
-He knew that he could get loud and angry when something happened, but…
-Did not expect you to get so loud!!!!
-You said it fairly often, and he knows it’s another language, but…. WHAT WERE YOU SAYING?
-He’s asked you constantly what it means but you….couldn’t…..think of the right words?
-”It means… um…. Well. It means… Oh my god? What are the words?
-Scared the hell out of him when you yelled “FUCKING HELL” out of nowhere one day and you had to explain that  you finally remembered what you were trying to say!!! Only this time, not in Swedish!!
-MC!!! BAD!!!
- lowkey google translates anything you can’t remember for you

-The two of you were coming home from a completely boring party you had to attend
-It was full of big, important business owners and directors and you just couldn’t stand it!!!
-”HOW in the WORLD do they run their businesses??”
-”I know! They’re such…. Um… uh, como se dice…pendejos??”
-”I agree, they did seem to be lacking in the knowledge department.”
- okay that wasn’t what i asked exactly but thanks
-This happens more than you’d like to admit, but it’s a good thing he can speak Spanish
-He’ll always understand you, whether you’re speaking in Spanish or not!!!
-”Jumin? Como se dice gato?” “MC, that’s a simple word. It’s cat. How could you forget?”
-”Do you want some… some.. Um… Vino?” “? Wine? Yes, MC, please.”
-YOU’RE SO GRATEFUL THAT HE CAN UNDERSTAND YOU where would you be if he didn’t translate for you???
-He notices when you’re quiet in public and realizes that you probably just can’t think of the correct word outside of Spanish, so he’ll answer you quietly just so you don’t get embarrassed what a cutie omg

-”Shit… what’s the word again….”
-??? So you ask him what word he’s thinking of. He didn’t figure you’d know but he told you anyway
-”I forgot the word for ‘safinat fadayiya’”
-????? Did he not realize you’ve been able to get into his house since the beginning
-Now the two of you speak Arabic around the others just to be jerks
-Not even Jumin knows Arabic
-You don’t say anything meaningful, either. It’s usually random sentences!
-So every time you forget a word, he’s got your back! So long as you you do the same for him
-Except if you forget a word at the gate, he’ll let you suffer and laugh at you
-Well!!!! Until you get angry enough at least. Then he’ll let you in and hide from your cute wrath

-He didn’t even know you could speak another language
-Honestly always thought that you were muttering or making words up
-That’s why he always gave you a weird look
-One day though, you were mid-conversation with him and blanked on the word
-”Do you want to go get…. Um. Get…crème glacée?”
-”….Get what?”
-”Crème glacée. You know… the uh, frozen milk stuff you like to eat!”
-”You..mean ice cream? You’re saying ice cream?”
-”YES! YES HEY!!! That thing! Thank you!”
-”What the hell was that? Made up words? What the fuck?”
-Saeran it….. Was….. French, sweetheart. Not made up
-??? He was really confused but took your word for it
-Tries to learn French secretly so he can help you next time instead of looking at you like you were crazy

- you’re actually lowkey worried about him???
- He’s so pretty!!!
- What if he gets jinxed and he becomes ugly because his looks are shown off so much??? Literally my grandma has said this to me and my cousin after she and i dressed up one time
- you always try to encourage him to wear sweats and other lowkey clothing so no one will be drawn to him! (of course only when you two are trying to do something in public together, you wouldnt try to get him to do that for anything job related)
- but he just doesn’t get it??? He never listens to you but you never really explain why bc you feel so embarrassed believing in this!!!
- but one day you two get into a terrible argument about this
- “I just don’t get it! Are you jealous of the other girls giving me attention?”
- You start tearing up because that’s so far from it, you completely trust him
- “Nazaar, okay?! I just don’t anything happening to you!!!”
- Zen is just like wtf did u just say, was that even human or are you just choking wtf
- “Oh god sorry, I didn’t mean to use Punjabi but I don’t know another word for it. It’s kinda like jinxing but it’s more intense? But basically by showing off your looks, other people might want something bad to happen to you and you might turn ugly!”
- but he understands it’s part of your ritual and he lets you do these little rituals to ward away the “nazaar” because it’s cute that you worry that much <3

- you’re helping out at the shop when you run out of cardamom to put in the chai! sUCH A TRAGEDY
- but you can’t remember what it’s called??? You can’t tell Jaehee???
- “MC, what’s wrong?
- “We’re out of that one spice!!!”
- you decide fuck it and you’re like “We’re out of leche!!!”
- Jaehee goes wide eyed because you can speak another language wtf
- She actually knew what you were saying because Jaehee knows Hindi and that overlaps with your language a lot
-yes Jaehee knows Hindi don’t question it okay
-You two start trash talking the customers in Hindi/Punjabi

- This boy got a cute owl figurine at a store!!!
-smh what a hipster *eye roll*
- He puts it in your room bc it’s so cute!!!
- but when you see it, you freak out???
- “wait what’s wrong with it MC???”
- “Nazaar lagna!”
- He just looks at you like ??? what did you say to him???
- What did you just say about his son
- “Oh sorry um, in my culture, owls are considered bad luck?”
- okay but what u did u just say MC udumbhoe
- “I just said you jinxed me, I mean it’s worse than a jinx but that’s the best way I can say it”
- He spends the rest of the night asking you to say other words in Punjabi cause it’s so pretty
-asks you to call him Daddy in your language (just kidding that’s Jumin)

the extent of jhopes english vocabulary
  • jhope: sorrysorrysorryaHSORRYAHSORRYSORRYSO-
  • jhope: oh my hearteu
  • jhope: i hate snakeu
  • jhope: ugh dirry waterr on my faceu
  • jhope: important businesseu
  • jhope: i love you *cough* jimin
  • jimin: what
  • jhope: what

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anonymous asked:

I want to learn Finnish. I have seen the recourse post, I'm reading stuff a little - I'm at a very basic level at is point still. I don't know how to make it easy. I see notes written + I like them but don't know the best way if laying out my own. I already speak Swedish so I have it a little asker than many but would really appreciate some advice. It's weird because I've struggled with MFLs my whole life but am very good at Latin and Ancient Greek. Thank you

There’s no easy way actually. You can try games and apps but there will always be some difficult parts. About notes, don’t focus on making them pretty but efficient. After all, you use those notes for learning. Yeah, the aesthetics are nice and i like when i look at pretty notes, but fancy notes aren’t the proof that you’re amazing in your target language.

Let’s give you some suggestions to make your learning journey more pleasant.

You have to take notes, if you want to make them pretty, go ahead but better make them simple and pay attention to what you write, don’t just copy-paste from a book. Try to study 25 min and take a break of 5 and after2 hours, you deserve a chocolate cake! And a break of 20-30 minutes.

You can use apps, sites, YouTube for learning vocabulary. After you learn your new words, see if you can find a song with them. (Ex. If you learned the colours, check YouTube and see what you can find there) if YouTube has nothing, then check Linguarana (a chrome extension).
Another tip for vocabulary is Flewent(chrome extension) which replaces a certain % of your words in your target language and at the end you get sentences like “i like the ciel”.
Try to learn the words in sentences, not one by one, it might help you more.

Write daily a short paragraph, even if it’s basic and it is about your shoes, it’s great, it’s practice.
Try to write something using the words you have learned.

Listen to music~
Watch stuff in your target language, since you are a beginner you are allowed to watch Finnish movies with English subs.
Don’t worry if you don’t understand what you hear, you get used to the sounds.

Begin with stories for kids. Make your own vocab lists for each story/chapter and remember to review those lists! They aren’t ornaments.
Try to set a daily “quest” like 1 chapter or 1 story.

Beginners tend to be shy so talk to a plush toy or your pet. Talking to yourself is a solution too.
Sing~ when you sing you improve your pronunciation, which is a good thing, you don’t want to say something in the wrong way and insult someone.
Repeat when you hear something new. I know that all have that tiny super duper little voice in their head who has an amazing pronunciation but when you try to reproduce what you hear, the cruel reality is going to hit you. So repeat any new stuff.

Try to do something daily related to your studies. It’s okay to have days off but be careful not to stop completely. Hope these help, good luck with your studies~ ^^

For Everyone Just Starting College for the First Time:

  • Eat. I know you’re broke. I know your mental health might not be amazing because of stress and everything else going on, but your body needs fuel to function at it’s best, and you want to function at your best. Get on a meal plan if you can, because then you don’t have to cook when you’re tired/stressed/in a hurry/it’s snowing and you don’t want to drive or take the bus to the store because all that you have in your fridge is half a jar of jelly. Eat, and try to eat healthy at least once a day. Even if all you can stomach is a granola bar or a banana. Eat. 
  • Stay hydrated. A bottle of water on your desk while you study can be a great thing. You’ll have clearer skin, more energy, and you won’t have to deal with the nasty side effects of dehydration. 
  • Go. To. Class. I can’t stress this enough. Obviously if you’re sick or have a family emergency, like, don’t, but don’t skip when you’re tired or just don’t feel like going, because a lot of profs will only allow a certain number of missed classes before it starts coming out of your grade.
  • Speaking of your grades: read your syllabus for each class, and make a note of how much each section of class counts. If your homework is 50% of your grade, you really want to make sure to do your homework! If that quiz you bombed (it happens) is only 5% then you don’t need to freak out so much. 
  • Don’t panic. Lots (not all, but lots) of your professors want you to succeed. They are actually here to help and not to shoehorn the class along like your teachers in high school were. If you’re throwing up the night before a paper is due, shoot the professor an email and ask for an extension. They might just say yes, especially if you’re a good student. 
  • Being a good student is not just about grades! It is about asking questions, doing your work, coming to class, stopping by during office hours, and paying attention. There will be classes where you can dick around on your phone, but on the whole that is rather rude and I wouldn’t recommend it unless it’s a very large lecture on a very simple subject (and the teacher doesn’t have a ‘no phone’ rule). In general you are paying a lot of money to go to these classes so pay attention!
  • Go see your adviser. They are not like high school councilors. They actually know shit. 
  • Don’t party all the bloody time. You are in school to learn. You can have fun, college is also about learning who you are, but no one wants to deal with you throwing up at 3am on a Tuesday, no one wants to hear you having sex, and no one wants to listen to you whine about your hangover the next day. Again: College is Expensive. Go to class. Do not just engage in social activities. 
  • Do your homework? Why is this so hard? If the reading is a lot try to space it out. If you’re in a tight spot, skim, but if you aren’t prepared for class you will be lost in a lot of teacher’s lecture styles. Also, those easy problems that were assigned might be worth 10% of your grade, and that can be the difference between a pass and a fail. 
  • You’re an adult now. Your professors are not going to hold your hand - they expect you to take some responsibility for your life and for your learning. Generally, they are very kind, supportive people, and they want to help, but they aren’t going to do your work for you, and they aren’t going to help if you won’t help yourself.
  • Don’t be an asshole about group projects. Show up to meetings. Text if you’ll be late (it will happen). Do your share of the work the best you can. You’re group mates will let the prof know if you don’t contribute, and that can take a nasty bite out of your grade. 
  • Have fun - you get to decide who you are and what type of person you want to be. Make good, safe choices, and try something new once in a while. 

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anonymous asked:

So recently all of my close friends left me leaving me only with a few good acquaintances. They wont tell me the exact reason why they stopped wanting to be my friend and it all happened so suddenly. I have to see them everyday at school and it hurts a lot because they pretend I don't exist. I'm not asking for advice on my situation or anything but only some positive words of reassurance if you can because i just really need it to make it through school tomorrow. Thank you so much

Generally speaking, the best thing to do in a situation like this is to move on - and it sounds like you know that - but it is difficult when you have to see them every day. Just remember to keep your head high because even if these next few days are difficult, you will get through them and you will have better days, and better friends, in the future.

My suggestion would be to do something just a little bit special tomorrow that makes you feel good about yourself. Buy your favorite coffee on the way to school, wear a new hairstyle, or try a new outfit. It might help you to get through the day if you have a little confidence (or caffeine) boost in the morning. You can do this, and you will get through this.

And in the long term, remember that this too shall pass. I hope that (if you want to) you can figure out what happened and make peace with your friends. Or, if that’s not in the cards, know that friends come and go and that’s okay. It can be sad to let people go, but it makes room for new people, new memories, and new experiences.

Hope this helps x

On Friday, I got a direct message from a user called @happinessisingiving, complaining about the open letter I published minutes prior. 

I did my best to dialog with them and eventually had to block them. When I went to their blog there were no posts or likes, so I’m pretty sure it’s someone’s side blog.Thus I don’t know for sure who sent them and I’m not going to make any accusations. They just said their name was Janet so that’s how I will address them henceforth.

I really wanted to let it go, but with all that’s been happening, I can’t bring myself to care anymore. Therefore, I’m publishing their messages in case people are still confused why I am bitter about the things that have been going on in this fandom lately.

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i am french.

i lived there half of my life. i speak it fluently. half of my family lives there. my best friend lives there. i have so so many friends there. i have a french passport. i literally voted in the last election.

i am french.

so if you want to add to what i have to say, to my experiences because you currently live there go ahead! i can be wrong sometimes because i no longer live there!

but please please do not attempt to one up me on every single thing i say. don’t treat me like a tourist who was just in france for a month.


i know what i’m taking about.

anonymous asked:

Hey sea fam, I have a problem that I probably shouldn't be getting so worked up about but it's giving me a lot of anxiety. One of my "friends" has been really mean to me but I've just started really noticing it recently. She says I look like a tomato all the time and makes fun of my misophonia and calls me stupid when I don't know how to make cookies and lots of other things... I don't want to b friends anymore but we have classes together and everything! Does anyone have advice???

The best way to avoid a storm is to be polite but distant. Don’t start conversations with her, and if she tries talking to you give her short, dry answers. Look at your phone or away while you speak. Cease contacting her on your own, and remove her from social media, one account at a time. When you’re around her, treat her like you would a stranger. Otherwise, make plans with other friends like nothing is out of the ordinary. 

Avoid getting into confrontations, she sounds like the type to spread the fight as much as she can. Become your best customer service rep and act like she’s an angry customer. 

-Lou the Lobster

anonymous asked:

Seventeen reaction for when you don't speak Korean (I love your stuff, you are a bloody amazing writer)

i see this of one on the tags sometimes and it makes me smile so much

mostly because i am monolingual as hell and i feel it hit me so hard most days

also thank you so so much i’m so glad that you like my stuff

Jeonghan - he would be a bit frazzled by the language barrier. He would do his best to use expression and gesture to get around it, but would most likely call on Joshua to translate, just because he’s so used to using his words and to having people speak his language. But when the translation is going through, he would flirt, a lot. Because he is naturally flirty and he loves his cheesy pick up lines. (’I lost my phone number. Can I have yours?’ ‘Jeonghan, I am not telling her that!’)

Woozi/Jihoon - would be the most quiet throughout the whole situation. He wouldn’t want to embarrass himself by attempt to speak English, or any other language you were comfortable speaking, so he would just sit back and let the other boys fawn over you and get in your face. If you came to him (being that he’s your bias, or you really admire his work as a producer) he would blush like crazy and clam up, getting a very awkward expression on his face because he doesn’t understand what you’re saying or trying to say and because you’re so beautiful and you’re talking to him. (The boys would probably attempt to make fun of him for this later, when you’re not around, to which they would receive death glares and immediately stop.)

DK/Seokmin - the happy virus wouldn’t let words stand in his way with you. He would shoot you hearts and do simply aegyo to make you smile, glad that he could do it even if the two of you couldn’t speak. He would have you giggling and smiling like crazy, so much so that the rest of the boys thought he had told you a joke, not understanding that you and DK hadn’t exchanged a single word. 

Seungkwan - Divaboo thinks he is the master of English, so he will try and basically MC the conversation between you and the boys. And new words he hears you say that he thinks are interesting, he will repeat, no matter if he knows the meaning or not, and he will just be his normal outgoing (screaming) self toward you.

Joshua/Jisoo - speaks English, and with this being the universal language, would likely be able to communicate with you the best out of all the boys (along with Vernon). He would likely greet you in Korean, being used to using the language, but when he caught on that you didn’t speak it, he was happy to get to speak the language of his native country for a while. He was even happy to play translator between you and the other boys, likely not saying all of the things they wanted him to say (’Joshy, tell her she’s got a cute ass!’ ‘What? No, no, I am not saying that!’)

Minghao/The8 - he would feel the not understanding Korean struggle so hard. And even if you didn’t understand Chinese either, through basic human non-verbal communication he would really get your struggle, insecurity, or even embarrassment, and rush to protect you. He would tell the other members to go away if they were saying you were ‘adorable’ for attempting some Korean phrases - even if they meant this in a non-mocking way.

Hoshi/Soonyoung - because he is the master of expressing how he feels through his body, he will do that. No language barrier will stop him from communicating with you. If he can do dances for different types of noodles, he can show you basic friendliness and whatnot, just through gesture and his amazing smile.

Jun - even though he had to learn Korean like Minghao did, he will not make as big of a deal out of your struggle. It will probably take him longer to catch onto the fact that you don’t speak Korean because he assumes that everyone is as talented as he is and speaks multiple languages. But when he does notice that you’re lacking, he just winks at you a lot and tells you the dirtier phrases in Korean and Chinese that he knows you won’t understand just because he can get away with it. (And because he want to do all those dirty things to you, and it’s so cute to see your fact when you don’t understand.)

Dino/Chan - he is semi-good at English, and will attempt to speak it to you. If he falters or if there is a miscommunication, he will feel incredibly embarrassed of his own insecurity and because the boys will never let him live it down. But he will be an adorable blushing cutie, trying his best to find the words to tell you he thinks you’re cute/great, and to thank you for supporting Seventeen.

Mingyu - he would try talking to you in Korean. When you got a confused look on your face, he thought he might have said something to offend you. But when he caught on that you simply didn’t speak Korean at all - he would feel relieved, and like Jun, he would also use winking as a deadly part of his non-verbal arsenal. He would probably try and get a little flirty too, and most of all, he would use the fact that you couldn’t understand to his advantage, and see which of the boys thought you were cute as well, so he could see how much of a chance he had with you.

Wonwoo - doesn’t talk that much anyway, so would fall into the background into the whole ordeal. He would be interested to know what you’re saying because he can’t understand you, but wouldn’t bother to speak up and ask Vernon or Joshua. He would likely just sit back and observe you, taking hints about your personality from your body language and facial queues. You might feel him watching you so intently and lock eyes with him, to which he would blush intensely and only become more interested in you.

Vernon/Hansol - being another one of the native English speakers and likely able to communicate with you well, he will take advantage of this. But he will probably use the communication to tell you bad jokes and make cheesy references rather than be productive and translate. In fact, he would probably be waay too lazy to translate and would not tell you any of the things the boys were asking him too. (Maybe it’s because he thinks you’re cute, but so do a couple of the non-English speakers and he wants the upper hand dammit.)

S.Coups/Seungcheol - like Jeonghan, will get a little flustered by the language barrier. But being a leader will take control of the situation and handle it a little bit better. He will attempt his best English with you and still be perfectly polite. Bow, smile - probably never stop with his beautiful, full cheeked smile to fill the silence. He feels incredibly awkward that he can’t talk to you, usually being the voice of the band and being used to talking maybe the most. He will try his hardest to get Vernon to be serious and translate for him, along with being polite and smiling (nervously) the whole time.

Originally posted by hannie-jars

i started writing this last night but got a major migraine and had to go to sleep. anyway here it is now. i actually love doing reaction posts, because they’re so simple. 


anonymous asked:

Hi, I wanted to thank you for this amazing podcast. The first thing I noticed it's how Peri talks to herself or objets. I related so much with that. I don't have many people to talk to and I can't never talk about the thinks I liked so I started to talk to myself. I know it's weird but I like to do it. I can speak properly when I'm alone, never stuttering or with awkard silences. So, thank you again for creating this. I'm happy to know Peri does and feels the same. And sorry,myenglishkindofsucks

I’m so happy that you connect with Peri. Talking to people isn’t always ideal and we all figure out how best to communicate at our own pace. I myself have definitely spoken to many an empty room or inanimate object. 💜 We really appreciate that you reached out, it means the world to us when we hear about people’s experience with the show.
Thank you for listening and coming along for the journey.


P.S. Your English is wonderful!!

  • Person: I'm an ambivert
  • Person: I'm split between thinking and feeling equally, you see, most of the time I'm like Spock and I speak
  • m e a s u r e d l y but other times IJustGoFuckingWILD!!! I"M A TORNADO haha
  • Person: You see, I'm an intuitive but I have "sensor" tendencies, like noticing when ~~~~ it's daytime~~~~~~~~~~~~~~, or noticing when it's raining because my shirt is soaking wet
  • Person: my type is the best! Wait, what do you mean this type does this. DON'T FUCKING LABEL ME it's all just a theory anyway
  • Person: wait, haha, you can't be a sensor, you're like, you read and shit, and like, you actually can talk about something other than the weather or sports...whoa...I guess you're not like the rest
  • Person: What do you mean you enjoy ideation and reflection u r ESTP
  • Person: haha, you can't have read more than me....I'm an INFP...all we do is read because we hate people so much xD wait what do you mean you've....you've read....fu C K
  • Person: Well of course XXXX is good at Y they are a ________
  • Person: *writes a list of traits that stereotypically apply to another type (say, ISTP traits and putting them on an INTJ) and in stereotyping MANAGE TO STEREOTYPE WRONG
  • Person: *gives a list of 10k generic traits that could literally address any personality type and don't even really trend toward the type of the person posting*
  • Person: Ha ha! ENTJs want to take over the world (: (:
  • Person: What about compat-
  • Me: *uses all five of impressive sensor senses to beat the living shit out of their statements*

prettygirlwiththeadventurousmind  asked:

Hey Carrie, wondering if you could give some advice! think I have lost my best friend ever. She won't talk to me, and when I see her in person, she just acts like nothing is wrong. Aside from her I only have about 3 friends... How do you deal with loneliness? And how do you make friends? I'm at college and speak to everyone there but I'm not really close to any of them and don't really go anywhere to make friends... Thank you! Xxx


Have you tried pulling your friend aside and asking what’s wrong? Sometimes just flat out asking what there is to fix helps. Then again, sometimes whilst in full time education and spending every day with the same people, things just get a little bit weird all of a sudden for no reason and after a little bit of time, it all just straightens out again! I know it’s hard but try not to worry to much and just get on with your own business for a while. You do you. 

I usually find that loneliness is never really loneliness if you’re not bored. If you’re keeping yourself busy and finding things you love doing on your own, loneliness doesn’t really have a place! That isn’t to say you should never try making friends or being around people, but sometimes it’s nice to know that when you know you have got a day on your own coming up, you’ll be okay! Making friends is always a tricky one but sometimes it is just as simple as pushing yourself to make that little bit more effort with those people you only ever really speak to. Reach out online or start up more of a conversation the next time you speak. Or joining clubs/extra curricular groups that you’re interested in and meeting people with the same interests. It’s always a bit daunting and although it may be simple it may not be easy but it’s always the most direct way in my experience! <3 


shout outs
  • to Aries for: not actually losing your shit all the time you ain't that violent
  • to Taurus for: sticking your ground. stubborn isn't that bad all the time and it suits you nicely
  • to Gemini for: sticking up for your friends you don't back stab 24/7 you cool
  • to Cancer for: letting out your emotions crying ain't bad it's strong
  • to Leo for: loving yourself. tf is wrong with that? you're beautiful
  • to Virgo for: having brains I s2g people are so envious of you for your intelligence
  • To Libra for: speaking your mind like damn you're honest and that's like the best I love that
  • To Scorpio for: not being a drag. when you open up to someone I swear you make their world it's wonderful
  • To Sagittarius for: dreaming. people should strive to think as grand as you do
  • To Capricorn for: keeping your shit together I couldn't do what you do
  • To Aquarius for: being yourself and not giving a shit I admire that
  • To Pisces for: calming down and caring yes you stress but not all stress is bad