i know you will hate it as much as i do

anonymous asked:

how do you feel about SU Crit blogs??

I’m kind of jaded about the SU c/rit/ical thing. So like disclaimer, if you’re a fan of the show providing legitimate criticism, that’s one thing. I respect that, like, a lot! But I’ve seen “su cr/iti/cal” blogs complain about such trivial things, down to (literally) inconsistency in Pumpkin’s tongue texture. I feel like at the beginning there was actual valid criticism, but now it’s just turned into a hotbed of negativity.

I think the problem is that some people feel like ragging on something for its flaws somehow demonstrates that you’re more objective or enlightened than those who choose to celebrate the good things about it. But how can you provide a valuable critique of something you’ve already decided you hate? In my opinion, if you find it impossible to acknowledge anything good happening in the show, you’re pretty much just as subjective as someone who is incapable of acknowledging its flaws.

The thing that I mostly don’t like is that when a fan of the show says “I don’t like su c/ri/tical’”, their immediate response is to say “foolish sheeple^tm, you special snowflakes are unable to take criticism about anything you like. these damn millennials !!!” Which is so ironic, because like, that’s just a weak response that gets tossed out by people who claim to be “critics” but are unable to handle when anyone says “hey, that’s a dumb argument and here’s why.”

I do really appreciate that they keep the criticism in their own tag rather than just the general SU one, though, so like, props. They can keep doing their thing, they aren’t hurting anyone. A lot of the time w/ ships and stuff, the actual ship tag is just filled with hate, so it’s nice that these guys don’t post their stuff in the main tag.

also–in case you’re worried this is suddenly gonna transform into a Discourse Blog^tm or something, worry not lol, we are returning to your regular programming right after this post. I just have gotten a lot of messages about this and feel like I should voice my thoughts about it \o/

anonymous asked:

So you finally sold out?

I will never understand why people like to use the term “sold out” when it comes to doing what you love. This isn’t me “selling out” it’s me accepting the fact that I want to do more than just curate other people’s content. 

I posted original stuff before and I have seen them take off. But the problem is consistency and being marketable. The consistency problem can be solved, but the marketability requires people to actually WANT to share.

It all goes back to the name being “problematic”. No one wants to interview a viral content manager when there are blogs calling me “The Stormfront for Colored people” or “a blog lead by a Black Woman that hates White people” (there’s so much wrong with that statement that I’m just going to not even bother with correcting it.). Now, if you’re someone who’s been with this blog from the beginning, you know the blog’s former name is a thought-provoking statement, not a racist one. But nowadays, everyone is like “can you say this another way?” I had actual interviews where I gotta keep fixing what I have to say so it doesn’t become a firestorm (and yet somehow, it always managed to be one.)

It comes down to… what do I want to be known as? W3NK started with the intentions of being an experiment, but now there’s so much confusion, that it gets KINDA annoying that I have to fight these fires all the flipping time. And I have to fight more and more fires instead of focusing on what I want to do.

It is NOT an easy decision for me to make. But if this means I get to produced more meaningful content, then I rather do that.

If that means you see me as a sell-out, then I’m sorry to disappoint. But if I can get more people to get behind me, it would be more helpful than them hosing me down. Cause I’m honestly tired of fighting for air.

You know it seems like such a simple thing, but the simple things get the job done. What I mean by that is this simple display of love, and affection, equality, and understanding is gonna beat all the f*cking hateful shit that’s been traveled all around the world. Trust me. Especially you younger people. For real, through my f*cking hilarious cracked voice, just trust me. You guys are going to change the f*cking world. You probably don’t even know it yet. Maybe you feel it deep down inside. But I feel inspired by you. You guys send me letters, you send me art, you send me things that you’re doing, things that inspire you and that inspires me. So thank you very much for doing that, it’s fucking incredible!

Portland 3/22/2017 - Video by abigailmaarie

Teachers and Parents
  • "Why did you give my child a failing grade?"
  • "I don't remember desks being this small when I was here."
  • "Do you know what your child did in class today?"
  • "I don't give out detention lightly."
  • "What did they do now?"
  • "I'm sorry, I've been working steadily and haven't been paying as much attention as I should have."
  • "Being a single parent is hard..."
  • "Can you go to the school? I just got a call from the teacher."
  • "Can I pick up their homework?"
  • "I hate to bother you with this but..."
  • "I think your child is falling behind."
  • "I just want to tell you how impressed I am."
  • "Can we meet somewhere to talk about this?"
  • "Your child is struggling a little in math."
  • "Keeping an eye on them can be a challenge."
  • "They're doing exceptionally well.
  • "How many students do you have?"
  • "We have to be careful with what's brought into the classroom."
  • "I'm sorry they're being a problem."
  • "What is the home situation like?"
  • "Free time is important to development."
  • "Teenage years are hard."
  • "I got called here from work for THIS?"
  • "Bullying is something we take very seriously."
  • "I have some great news for you."
  • "The play is in three weeks."
  • "There was a bit of a scare today..."
  • "This won't happen again. I'm sorry you had to deal with it."
  • "Finals are coming soon and everyone is studying."
  • "As you can see, we take a different approach to learning."
  • "I help them out as best I can."
  • "We're looking for chaperones."

As much as this storyline isn’t that great and it was all plot to create a shitty cheating drama for them, it’s really not fair people are deciding to forget all the good emmerdale/iain had done:

  1. The Ashley storyline is with no doubt one of my favourite storylines. Its really emotional and as far as i know, it’s really playing reallity as it’s form. I can’t wait for the end and we all know it’s going to be played brillaintly by John and I’m going to be an emotional wreck after this.
  2. The Holly drug addiction and her death. It was a major twist, nobody knew that would happen and it was so dramatic and well writting. Also big credits do Nat and Adam for playing their grieve so well done. 
  3. Belle’s storyline: finding out she has schizophrenia, it was very touchy and emotional and eden is playing belle really well done.
  4. Aaron’s abuse storyline was one of the massive storylines they had and it was so well played by Danny. 
  5. David’s testicle cancer, it was also a massive storyline (not well shown) but still really important. 
  6. Last but not least, super soap week. One of the best stunts I saw on a soap. Very emotional and stressing and so well written. Let’s not forget from that week, we got the first character out as bisexual men and that brought a lot of recognition and representation.

So, please folks, don’t overshadow all the good they done over this plotty storyline - that still don’t know exacly what’s going to happen.

Speaking about anti-whiteness.

It’s weird when I realize that so many black people (and other “poc”) seem to automatically hate me for being white. They dont know me. They’ve never met me. But they think I’m trash, that I ruin everything, that I’m a plague, that I have no real purpose, and they hate my very existence (amoung other things). Racism is disgisting and damaging no matter which way it goes.
I’ve seen so many white people lately talk about how much they hate themselves simply for being a white person. Its sad that racism is so wildly accepted when it comes to hating white people (or anyone depending on who you’re talking to).

Sure, the reply to this will either be 1. “stop whining white demon u dont even have it as bad as us!!! do you expierence x,y, and z????”, 2. “well now u know how it feels!!”, or of course the always wonderful 3. “white people cant expierence racism dumbass its ‘prejudice’!!!”.

Which I would reply:

1. Having someone hate you isnt a competition. It’s wrong no matter what. We should feel empathy towards one another, not try to say who has to worse. That’s like someone being abused by their spouse and you go “but did he PUNCH you though? I mean come on. He just slapped you. He didn’t even give you a black eye, shut up. Others have it way worse. He didn’t even break your nose.”

2. Once again, the empathy. Why would you want someone else to feel the sadness and hate that you may or may not have experienced? Why would that bring you happiness? I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Racism makes no sense to me personally. We are all humans, we just have different skin color. We are all individuals and we are different from the next person. We need to do our best not to group anyone together so we avoid hurting others. Don’t treat others the way you dont like being treated.

3. This argument never makes any sense. All that is required for someone to experience racism is have a race. It has always been that way since the beginning of time. Someone wrote up a different defintion than what it is in the dictionary but that doesn’t make it true just because it fits your narrative. People write books all the time about “facts” that are wrong. The KKK has books out but they obviously aren’t correct, though some people truly believe it is true and we collectively view those people as idiots. If someone wrote a defitnion up that black people cant expierence racism, you’d all be completely shocked by anyone who would believe that garbage. “Its prejudice not racism”. Okay but racial prejudice is just a synonym for racism and even if you dont believe that, HOW is it okay to be racial prejudice? It’s still wrong and damaging. Imagine this for a second “You didn’t get raped. You cant expierence rape if you dont have a vagina because to be raped its oppression + bla bla bla. You can only expierence ‘sexual assult.’ Its the ‘sociological definion’ sooo”. Do you see how insane that is?

It’s wrong to be racially prejudice *cough* racist *cough* towards anyone no matter who they are or what race they are.

It’s crazy that I even have to say all of this this.

I know there will be a lot of “look at this white bitch trying to be the victim Oooo white ppl wanna be oppressed so bad” but that will just show that you really didn’t want to take a step back and listen. That is all.

What is this feeling? You make me feel so many things I don’t understand. Tears fill my eyes, but I don’t know what is causing them. I feel sad, happy, and affectionate all at once. How is this possible? What the hell is this feeling? I feel hurt and tired, but I wouldn’t stop caring about you if my life depended on it. I want you, but I’m terrified of what would happen once I had you. I want to run to you, throw my arms around you, and never let go, but I want to do everything I can to hide my feelings for you so no one else sees. I care about you so much that I would give up my life for you, but I almost hate you because of all the time I’ve spent and the hurt I’ve gone through. I want you more than anyone I’ve ever known. I feel such compassion for you that I would take all of your burdens on even without you asking. I would do anything to protect you. The feelings I have for you are stronger than anything I’ve ever felt. Is this love? I think it could be, but I know love is something that most people my age can’t understand. Is this love? Have I just found it at a young age or is this just a big misunderstanding? I’m not even sure I know what love is. What the hell is this?
Fanfiction

I just saw a mean comment on a fanfiction that I read.  Please, please, please do not be hateful to fanfiction writers.  I am not even asking for myself because I am a pretty tough cookie but we are losing writers because of the comments they get.  Do you even know how hard it is to put yourself out there writing and praying that people will like your stories?  Do you have any idea how much time, pain, thought and energy it takes to not only write but edit and edit and add more and ask people what they think before you even put it out there?  Do you know the anxiety writers feel when they first put out a fic?  How they go check to see how many hits, kudos, comments and then stress that someone won’t like it?  They do all this for free.  They take their time and write something for you.  If you enjoy it, great.  Leave a comment or do a kudos.  If you think something can be improved, leave a constructive criticism, not a hateful comment.  If you don’t like it, move on.  You don’t have to tell them how bad they are, how disappointed you are that they chose to go that way, etc.  And please read the tags.  If you don’t like a certain story, and the tag says it is that type of story,  you really can’t complain or give the writer a hard time.  They did warn you.  Okay, off my soapbox but I hate to see someone stop writing because they receive hateful comments.  It is just not necessary.  

anonymous asked:

This the angst anon back again to request those headcanons about each champions final moments at the hands of their respective ganon-blight.

Why do you guys hate yourselves this much??? WHy do you hate my heart this much??? (jk I got you fam)

I’m going to do a special format for these, so tell me what you guys think!

Final Moments (Champions)

Urbosa - Failure. She had failed them. Her people, Princess Zelda, Link. Riju. Precious Riju- the guards will watch over her, but even then, if only she could know how proud her mother was of her. Her honor may have been stripped from her, but if she could not be victorious in life, than she’d simply have to reclaim it in death. As the life drained out of her fallen body, broken the ground, she gave a final smile. This would not be the end of it all. The fight would continue.

And she would be there to witness it.

Mipha - Sorrow. There was no escape for her here, pinned against the wall as the final blow came at her. Father, brother, teacher- ‘I’m so sorry, I have failed you…’ No amount of healing could stop the fate that had fallen upon her. Link- please, Link- come and stop this darkness from hurting her family, please. And when she was dead, and he stopped this darkness, she’d heal him from the great beyond to ensure that there was a chance to heal the pain her death had caused. 

Revali - Legacy.  Would he be remembered as a fallen hero, or as an arrogant man who got the ending some he thought he deserved? Staggering, his wings are too destroyed to be able to avoid the next -last- attack, but he was a warrior. If he could not fight back, then he would stand against death in defiance. He would not be known as the coward who begged, who cried. No. He would be the warrior who upheld the Rito way to the bitter end. That brat- Link, he would set things right. He knew it. This fight would not end here.

Daruk- Family. He’s laughing from the ground, stuck watching as that final blow comes straight for his face, nailing that final nail in the grave. He may not survive this, but his family? They would. And they would continue to live on this mountain. And fight back. Will he survive this, no. But they will. And they will continue the ways of the mountain long after he is gone. And they would remember he went done with laughter, knowing that when he fell, he would still live on in them, and the darkness? It would fall. 

crmini  asked:

What would you personally like to see as fan art of svtfoe? Sure, you create your own art but besides the (possible) hint of liking the mewberty au, what else do you like?

If I had to choose between AUs -Yes I wrote this, Between AUs - then it’s probably Mon!Star AU Or MR.E’s Nova vs AU… Yeah, I know people wait when I’ll write Ship war AU but I’m sorry, that’s not really my thing… And NO I WON’T write why…

If I have the chance to chose between art styles, then COMICS!!!  Comics are totally my weak points… I like simple pictures too, but they don’t get me as much as a comic does…  Oh right, what kind of comics… Well, mostly the ones having happy, or funny ending… I don’t mind if they are a bit edgy until this one of this two conditions is true…

What I hate, is when someone makes an edgelord comic Star or Marco dying/ everyone suffering so much that a genocide is nothing compared to that OR  promises to make for example 4-5 pages, and makes actually 2 and never finishes it… (Yes I know I didn’t finish my ‘Secrets’ comic either, but I’ll continue it once the hiatus ends.)

Tell, this is all, as always, thank you for the question.

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threw this together really quickly so its kinda sloppy looking, but here’s a newer commission post! for right now I’m only comfortable doing busts/half body. boosts are much appreciated, help a poor diabetic artist out…

-no incest, underage, nsfw, etc

-i am ok with furries, and am also ok with gore!

-i’ll let you know right away if i can’t do something

-i accept payment through paypal, upfront

-don’t be afraid to be very detailed with what you want, and visual references are super great if possible! i want to make your commission look good ok

-i am fairly busy with school and work right now, but i should be able to get commissions done within 2 weeks at the most! and if i need more time for whatever reason, i will let you know right away

-email me at earthcookies@hotmail.com if you are interested!!

i prefer to use email to communicate since i can keep everything organized more easily, asks and such tend to get buried. annnd that’s about all i can think of! thank you for looking! if you have any questions feel free to ask !!

titanialilith  asked:

Yeah and those boundaries aren't so hard to have you know? Just don't fucking tag the girls on Camren things? Don't comment Camren in all their photos? Why is this so hard to some people? Lauren hates Camren because she can't have a friendship without crazy shippers screaming Camila on her pictures, privacy man, do those people know what that means? Just be happy for your idol's happiness and go read a good and fluffy fic, it's not so hard

So this is last one I’m gonna answer because the page has lost 5 followers already for some of y'all not liking what I have to say. As someone going into fame you think you know what it’s gonna be like but you really have no clue. You’ve basically signed over your privacy and forfeit the right to ever have any, with that also comes the obsessions and the illusions you will probably never shake. People live in a fantasy world and it’s sooooooo much sweeter than reality why give that up? With all the love in the world camren I love you as individuals and people and I hope you find happiness in all future endeavors and can forgive us for what we have put you through. Not all of us but as a grouped together fandom. I love you guys.
-J

anonymous asked:

Do you ever get frustrated with what appears to be a larrie consensus that they don't want any part of solo Harry because it doesn't meet their criteria of what he should be doing? I try not to care but sometimes I get irked that Louis got a whole project and hardcore larrie backed push for his song, but then even though they claim to be here for Louis and Harry, Harry is going to get nothing. There are A LOT of larries and I do get worried that their negative attitude could hurt him :/ -1

If as many of the big blogs boycott as they pretty much are saying they will, and have their little followers do the same because they think that’s what they need to do, I do think it would affect his sales and numbers and then all they would do with that is mock him further and rub it in his (and our) face that he underperformed. I know it’s too early to tell and I’m probably being dramatic. But I just hate knowing that they literally WANT Harry to do poorly. He doesn’t deserve that. -2

he doesn’t deserve that at all, but i don’t think it’s going to matter? like i really don’t think some larries not backing him will be a problem for him the way it might be for louis because he’s a lot more famous outside of 1d and dunkirk is going to draw even more fans/demographics in. so i just…. don’t think he’s going to need a larrie sponsored project gfhjklshhiugfs especially not by the yikes ass people who were behind project jho. idk maybe it’s bc i’m biased but i hope they do fucking leave. i think the whole fandom would be better for it. like, i get frustrated by the hypocrisy for sure but mostly i’m just grateful they leave harry alone as much as they do. i’m sorry it upsets you, but i think everything’s going to be fine. 🤗

also, i’ve seen a bunch of larries who are excited for harry and don’t buy into the concern trolling/hateful entitlement coming from some of the bigger blogs and THEY seem frustrated and are kind of speaking out more, so maybe they’ll take care of the worst of it themselves?? or tbh i think for a lot people it’ll be a dunkirk situation again: thinking it’s Fake, thinking it might be real but is def Shady and Confusing because it’s happening Wrong, acceptance, and then Pride and Excitement with a little bit of pretending they were on board the whole time. we’re in the last two stages now lmao. 

anonymous asked:

I don't get it how there are anti sjw blogs way more popular than yours you get much more hate. That means your opinions are well structured and factual so no wonder they anger sjws so much. Keep it up.

Lol yeah I don’t post many short, simplified posts which are the most popular to reblog, mine are usually super long posts so I don’t expect them to get thousands of notes but I hope people still read them and take something from them, I do have a large amount of support though so I know my posts are enjoyed which makes me happy. I really appreciate your kind message, thanks so much :) xx

anonymous asked:

I feel like we finally got to see other emotions come from Reagan this episode. Do you agree? Megan Fox was great in the scene in Nick's room. When she says"It doesn't matter!!!!" in a really exasperated way. Unfortunate that we couldn't see a broader range of emotions from her despite her being on the show for two whole seasons. They only portrayed this robotic super chill super cool person the whole time.

You know…I don’t have a problem with Reagan, I just don’t like her with Nick because…Ness…

But I never liked MF that much. I mean, I don’t hate her or anything… I just never actually cared.
Last season when she came I liked her…she was this really perceptive, strong female character that I always enjoy watching. Even when she became Nick’s love interest and potencial gf I was still ok with her.

Then came S6…and everything that was all so good with the show (yes, I liked S4 and 5, despite Nick and Jess not being together) was this weird ooc thing. Reagan included. She is definetly not the same character as she was last season.

But yeah, surprisingly she was better last episode. Which can only make me think the problem was with the director of the episodes. Or maybe the writers did put something like “act like you don’t care and nothing matters” in the scripts… lol

anonymous asked:

You know what I love and hate about your writing? It's so intense. So if something is meant to be funny, it's actually hilarious. And if something is meant to be sad, well there's a reason I'm sobbing into my pillow trying to type this while not making too much noise.

While I don’t do this with the humour, I absolutely purposely try to make the intense sad or tearfully happy moments worse.

I’ve even sent a chapter to a beta and said “Did you cry?” And when she said, “Yes. I’ve been sobbing for twenty minutes,” I replied, “Good. Help me figure out how to make it worse.” LOL! 

If I want something in my fic to be tear-jerking, I’ll write it until I cry myself, and I rarely ever cry, so when that happens, I know it’s ready.

anonymous asked:

Omfg I just saw a particular exclusionist who always pulls out the old "we're just trying to keep the cishets out!!" and "we don't hate ace people we just think cishets aren't LGBT!" excuses say, word for word, "i hate all aces so much". They... they do realize that means they hate all the otherwise LGBT aces they're supposedly trying to protect, don't they? Don't they know they can't claim to not hate aces while actively SAYING THEY HATE ACES? Are aphobes even trying anymore lmao seriously...

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, if you don’t support all aspecs, you support no aspecs.

–Mod Mercy

anonymous asked:

Do you know why so many former ereri shippers have jumped ship? I was out of the fandom for a while but I came back to see a lot of people being like, "I used to ship it but now I know better," and I was wondering why.

I have to say I haven’t noticed this, but as a shy and retiring sort of gent I never really had much to do with the wider ereri fandom anyway. My friends still ship it, as far as I know, but with the fandom lying fallow while we wait for season two a few of them, like me, have grown more interested in newer, livelier fandoms in the meantime.

So I haven’t see any of what you speak of, but at a guess I’d say given a pairing with a two year age gap now gets hate, the widening maw of what’s now considered ~*problematique*~ has swallowed great swaths of fandom, and if someone shouts something at you often enough for long enough a) you start to believe it or b) you go along with it for the quiet life and disavow a pairing you’ve drifted away from.

But who knows, really. Season two will bring new fans and some older ones will come back, I’m sure.